Be Unmanipulatible 2


To the lady who messaged me saying that she finally found me back on Youtube, I know, I'm shadow banned. I might just become unavailable to viewers at any given time. Our video channelings are all on our website, sharonandivo.weebly.com in text format on the blog usually. I'm also putting up some of our older videos on the site as well in video format. With censorship becoming as acute as it is now, you might want to consider visiting people's websites more for your information than you previously did. As for ours, there's a few books' worth of information on there so it's worth a look. As for the links on my website, all of the ones I put up there work. The only page that's not linked is the Commanders page and I'll finish that in my good time. Thanks for your message.


Ivo wants to discuss more on this, so we'll do a second video on this together. He says it's important to know all of this information.


One thing that I want to stress is that you have to study where you are in relationship to others. When we go to work, we automatically know the boss holds all the power. This is a power over others relationship, and that old system will either quickly or slowly melt away as people become more personally empowered and demand to be heard and respected. I believe that Making American Great Again is going to have its trials and tribulations as people begin to wake up to how dominated and controlled they are. They'll become like I was when I was younger, learning to become very aware of it in relationships and learning to deal with it.
Ivo: This is how to tell when someone is truly of service, my love, or whether they are out to dominate the transaction and reduce you to a purchasing opportunity. Are they trying to sell you something or are they truly trying to aid you in your quest? Would they send you to their competitor if it aided you in your objective?
Me: I have. I've sent people to other channelers because they channel people who I don't normally, like Jesus. Her name is Tina Louise Spalding, by the way, and she's fully awake too. When you don't let your income decide your behaviour, you're free to do as you want. As soon as you make an earning opportunity out of your Light work, you are more limited in the help you can offer.
Yeah, I wish I was more energy sensitive when it came to buying that vacuum cleaner. I had to learn how to understand manipulative people and at the time, it was hit or miss. I remember another time, my friend gave out my unlisted phone number to a sales lady that wanted to sell me housewares. She came over and tried every tactic in the book to sell me either pots and pans, silverware or a set of expensive plates. She mentioned that she knew my father and loved his paintings. She felt that she could manipulate me by flattering my father's work. I know my father's paintings are master level (they truly are, I'm stating a fact, not bragging), but as for my father being the stand-up guy she claimed him to be, I silently shut my mouth but realized she either didn't know him like I did or she was lying.
I ended up spending a couple of hours in my cold kitchen toying with her as she tried to sell me this stuff and then get the phone numbers of my friends to add to her list. That I refused. She never sold me anything. It was a good exercise. She also said that “she was sure that in six months I'd be married,” and obviously she's not much of a psychic because I never got married.
When people use flattering tactics like this on you, beware, they're trying to get around your boundaries, folks. This lady positioned herself at the top of us, and was looking down at me, as if I needed her flattery to bolster my self esteem. People will try to play on your low sense of self worth, so like I said in the other video, DON'T HAVE ONE. Value and respect yourself, know you are worthy and they can't touch you. People who flatter you have agenda's. I get this all the time. They either think themselves unworthy of you or you unworthy of them.
I've had many other people approach me from a position of inferiority. They Hollywood me, putting me high above them and then treat me like a god. I'm not. I'm an earthling of alien consciousness who had a rude awakening being born on this planet. I learned a lot. I'm not the only one.
Those who see themselves as my equal and refuse to control or manipulate me are my friends. I have one sweet lady friend in New York state who knows her worth and stands in her power. We relate as equals.
People manipulate because they fear you'll say no so they do everything they can to prevent your using that word. Use it anyway. Read between the lines (again, thanks mom!) to understand what they want and either force them to ask in a way you can answer yes or no to or just say no and walk away. “Are you saying that you want me to drive you to the store for a cheesecake?” If they say, “Well, I wasn't saying that exactly, but it's just that I'm really feeling like I want a piece.” “Oh, so you want me to drive you to the store to get cheesecake?” “Well, I'm really wanting some.” “Okay, so do you want me to drive you to the store to get a cheesecake? Yes or no?” “Umm..... well..... uh... yeah.” “Okay, fine, let's go then.” People who manipulate are NOT direct. Life's too short, folks. They are hiding something like overwhelming shame at having to ask, the fear of being judged, or the fear you'll say no.
I've had people talk to me and because I very easily read between the lines, I say no to the actual request they have instead of what they're saying to me.
Another rule to remember is that everyone has an agenda. It's normal. It's natural. They don't approach you without some kind of expectation. Usually the expectation is one of getting something, which is too bad. Maybe people should start having an agenda of being able to give something before they try to get something but I realize so many people are withholding generosity out of fear of being taken advantage of. When you fear exploitation, you don't have good boundaries. You need to work on your boundaries to the point that you can give to others and deal well with exploiters. Do you think it's a coincidence that these people have taken on the reptilian way of thinking, that others are there to exploit? No, obviously one reason it's been implemented on this planet is so people will stop being of service to others. You can't let that stop you. Becoming of service to others is an early part of the ascension process and of realizing who you really are.


Ivo: I wish to also point out that on earth people play roles. When you meet a business man or woman, they offer you their business card and as you read it, they are giving you a dialogue on what they do for a living. You will automatically make assumptions about them based on what they tell you. This is a first impression, but it is wise to let things play out in time so that you can adjust your impression of them. You also have the habit of having friends or family recommend service providers to you, and you go on others' opinions. Do you think this is wise? It saves time, for example, however is your friend or relative going to take responsibility for any poor work done?
Me: I remember my parents got their house sided with aluminum siding, yeah, and then later on my mother was complaining about her tiredness and she felt it had something to do with aluminum.... She thought it was poisoning her and making her sick but she never equated it with the siding on the house. I see later houses changed to vinyl siding, which is still a poisonous composite but it's probably not a heavy metal anyway.
Ivo: My dear, you are waking up.
Me: LOL Read Ashtar's book. What he says about our industry is mind boggling.
Obviously, they got this man through a recommendation from someone, perhaps even one of the neighbours, and when he was siding the house, he used to talk to me when I was going to school. I was in grade 7 or 8 and about 13 or 14 years old and I could sense he had sexual feelings towards me! Ugh! Sick-o! Of course, with my parents if anything had happened, it would have been my fault, because they so often disregarded their responsibility to their children. You don't think that in hiring a guy to do the siding for your house, that he'll be eyeballing your daughters, but that just goes to show. We hire people to work for us with no prior knowledge of who they are, and we have to because we're not empathic or psychic – yet – but once we are, these people will be out of a job. We won't have to depend on a business card and a thirty second monologue to decide whether to let someone into our lives or not, and to expose our children to potential perverts either for that matter.
Ivo: Correct. Being telepathic has its advantages. Sensing energy has its advantages.
Me: I know. There are people I come across and I get a big, “Woah! Stay away!” from them. And I do.
Ivo: So you see the potential this mass awakening has for the planet?
Me: Yes!
Ivo: More people reading the intentions of others and sensing their integrity level, you will not even have to rely upon verbal communication in order to understand the integrity of the person you are dealing with because integrity can be verbally faked.
Me: Well, what we're saying here, Ivo, is that what's considered normal communication is also very telling and can be a great indicator of who you're dealing with. It's not that hard once you start to watch for how people position you in relationships and how they try to manipulate your self esteem in order to get their way with you.
Which reminds me of all the attempts men have made in bars to get me to go home with them. Speaking of manipulating your self esteem. In my opinion, this whole bar scene is just about sexual energy vampirism, which is probably the most sought after energy the human can emit besides life energy.
Ivo: Correct. To take the energy of the creative principle and to misdirect it to suit one's personal needs, to steal it in other words.
Me: People, men and women, you must realize that you are an energetic being of light connected to the God source, and this energy is not to be used unwisely. We all are on a learning curve but do your best.
Ivo: You must know your value, and you must know your worth as in God's eyes. But you must also know your limits. This is another thing you must base your boundaries upon. It goes without saying that life on earth is a test of your limits, it is a test of your beliefs which can further limit you. Life is about expanding your limits to align with the godly being that you are, and recognizing what restrictions having a physical body can put on them. When you understand that those in power now are poisoning you in order to make you ill and to limit your bodies, you will take better care of them.
Me: Speaking of which, I think I'll end this here. Hopefully we've imparted more useful information to people to help empower them in this power over others system. When the people are empowered, the system will change to reflect that.
Ivo: Indeed it will. Very well, my love. We will discuss this again soon.

The Power Over Others System

Since we're on the subject of the dark ones, creating Loosh and energy vampires, we'll do a review of what the power over others system is. For starters, the power over others system is the opposite of the power over self, or self mastery system, in which the authentic, self empowered person retains control over all decisions pertaining to self in their life and allows others to do the same without undue interference. Any interference in others' lives is often carried out because of fear, by the way and the biggest fear is loss of control.

I was saying in the last video, Loosh 4, that it's important that the lightworker stay the course and maintain control of their path in life for the sake of completing their life's work, using of course the internalized system of checks and balances that comes from having contact with one's guides and higher self. Until you do have conscious contact, you are at risk of allowing your path in life to be dominated by others' agendas, rules and plans for you, subject to falling victim to ego games and/or indulging in the same yourself. This is because people are raised to have an externalized locus of control instead of an internalized one which means that you learn to allow others to control you rather than learning to master yourself.

The Power Over Others system is a false system where one person appears to have power by either stealing it or denying others their power. Compliance in this system indicates an automatic disregard for universal law. This is the Draconian system currently in place on earth. When GESARA law comes in, earthlings will find themselves in a system that automatically demands more transparency of intent and will move away from this low dimensional system.

Here are some examples of the power over others system:

Two candidates are vying for the role of president. One candidate manipulates the vote by adding physical and non-physical votes to their tally. The one candidate unduly dominates the vote by rigging it in his favour. This is power over others and an example of triangulation, where the supposed winner is the perpetrator, the loser the victim and the rescuers are those who voted for the supposed loser. Yes, you're put in the position of rescuer now. Sorry to tell you. The double-party electoral system is an example of triangulation, always. By the way, when Mr T shows back up on the scene, and Mr B is taken away in handcuffs, you'll be the rescued victim then and Mr T will be the rescuer.

Another example is one where a person is subjected to the will of a third party via a messenger, who declares that the person tow the line otherwise be rejected by the third party. This transaction is actually between the person and the third party, with the third party exerting dominance out of a supposed superior position. The way to deal with this is to deflate the third party's dominant position by stating that you're willing to risk the loss gained via the transaction. This is not a counter-manipulation if you actually intend it and aren't bluffing. It's best to walk away. This is a situation I'm in right now. In this example, the third party is the perpetrator, the potential victim is me, and the rescuer is the messenger. I refuse to triangulate. There are no winning positions on this triangle.

Again, like I said in a video last week, I'm so sick and tired of dealing with unconscious people, people who purport to practise spiritual ways of life yet resort to unconscious manipulation of others' free will.

In this situation, the third party is the one who should decide to deal with me or not, but to stop telling me to change in order to gain their approval. Nobody has any right to tell others to change. So, I have bowed out instead. It's perfectly okay for the parties to agree to a compromise. For example ASKING me to change rather than THREATENING to withdraw if I don't would be preferable. But it's too late now. You showed your hand and I don't like your cards.

But the power monger doesn't ask, they bully.

What I'm protecting is the work I do because it's under constant attack from the Matrix. Anyone can be a Matrix minion, and I've been dealing with it for years.

Having been forced so many times by my controlling father to comply or else suffer consequences, I sniffed this one out quickly. You do not give in to any form of tirany, except in the case where your physical life is threatened. Then you take the first opportunity to leave. If someone is flaunting their supposed advantage over you, without first asking you to comply without suffering consequences, then you need to deflate their balloon and deny them their advantage. These are bullies.

If you don't do x, you will not get the benefit of my participation anymore. Sounds like, “Do this, or else!” It's not respectful of another's free will. In this particular case, the bully threw in a comment to the extent that I would suffer a complete failure of my service if I continued on the path that I am. As if he knows. People will say all kinds of things in order to get you to comply with them, even predict your demise, but they're trying to instill fear in you. Don't listen to it. It's another manipulation, one that's used by the media frequently. People who like to forecast your doom aren't your friends, folks.

“You'll never get anywhere without my help!”
“I made you and I can break you too!”
“You need me, otherwise you're nothing!”
“If you don't stop it and do as I say, you'll suffer!”
People say this kind of stuff all the time. Often it is implied in what they're saying, not stated directly. This is all power over others. Highly manipulative and very controlling.

I forgive them. It's their demons that hate me.

You have a respectful, mutually beneficial agreement when no threats are used in the agreement and no manipulations of suffering a dire fate are predicted. This puts nobody on the triangle. There are no victims, rescuers or perpetrators.

Of course, the bully will always deny they're a bully. They only intimidate whenever they can. And that means whenever you don't call them out and go along with their agenda. When you call them out, they back down.

Also, watch how they always position themselves above you. You need them, not the other way around. Little emphasis is put on your valuable contribution, only what they can do for you. This is another indication of a power monger, not someone who is relating to you as an equal who values your contribution. This is how the power over others system works. You're told you're the underdog and you need to tow the line or lose the deal.

Thank you, Ivo.
Ivo: You are most welcome, my love.

Me: Then there was the one of the book publisher who offered me a six percent salary for the translation, publishing and distribution of my Ashtar book. Six percent, paid out once a year. He said to check with my guides, they would tell me to take the deal. Ashtar called him a crook. I said no. The deal wasn't even negotiable. It was take it or leave it, so I left it.

Don't fall for this stuff, folks. You might have less money but you'll have your self respect and that's the only thing you'll take with you when you go. It's better to respect yourself than let yourself be schlepped along in others' control over you. It wouldn't take so much to gain my participation in these types of transactions: the first would be to ask without giving ultimatums and dire predictions, secondly not disguising the true agenda – revealing it so we can negotiate a transaction, the third would be to allow for negotiation and the fourth would be to position me as an equal and to recognize my contribution. Not a lot to ask, really, just common sense.

These transactions are disrespectful of the person they're trying to get to cooperate with them. People still use too many of these strong arm tactics to make themselves powerful or rich in some way, but they refuse to take into consideration that there are people who just won't settle for being intimidated or just plain ripped off. The reason you're where you are is because of people like me, and you need to learn to respect them otherwise you won't get their cooperation.

I've seen many a minimum wage burger flipper drag their knuckles on the job, too. Too hard to get them to fulfill their job duties when they don't feel the pay really motivates and values them. People are fighting back against oppressive business transactions. It's about time. Watch though, with these minimum wage jobs. There is always the threat, because they are unskilled labour, that they can be replaced unless they do the job. This is where the job market is going: unskilled labour means dime a dozen workers. Be careful about what path you choose in life.

The problem with asking people means you have to let yourself be powerless even momentarily and a lot of people can't do that. The problem with negotiating a business deal means you have to stop being greedy and overvaluing yourself. The problem with paying proper wages to someone for their work means you have to start valuing people over money. This is the power over others structure. Many find it hard to leave it. I didn't because it worked against me from the start anyway. I was never part of it.

The power monger always has to hold all the cards. They give as little over to you as they possibly can. This is also indicative of the power over others system. They may try to manipulate in order to increase their hold over you. Don't fall for it.

This is what you can learn just from one or two small transactions, folks. You can learn a lot about how this world works and how not to fall victim to it. Hold out for your highest good and good will come to you.

Ivo, I see you smiling.
Ivo: I am, my love. You are the change you want to see on your planet. When doors begin to close for people who use these tactics in their negotiations with others, they may begin to get the message.
Me: I'm not worried about them. But yes, this world needs to change.
Ivo: Stand up for yourself. Stand up for your rights. Get off the triangle, as we keep telling you. There are no valued positions on the victim triangle.
You have said it all, my love. I have nothing to add.
Me: But you were there in the background telling me things. That's why I got the A-ha moments of understanding.
Ivo: That is my job, my love. I do it most graciously.
Me: That you do. Thank you for being you, Ivo.
Ivo: Likewise. To make your fight against the Matrix easier is what I live for. I know it is difficult there.

On this channel, I say it as I see it. I speak my truth, even if the video is a long complaint. Maybe some people can't take the frequency, and I can understand that. I'm going to say one thing: if you think this channel is entertaining, if you feel that you can come on here for a good time, you've picked the wrong channel. I talk about the ugly side of life, the side of life nobody wants to face because I've faced it and I'm still facing it. I compare a person's life to the Matrix because there is absolute correlation, absolute. I don't speak about things in medical terms, in psychological terms. I speak about it as the layman would speak about it – from the heart, emotionally. I give people hope because they can relate to what I'm saying. Sorry if my video's aren't all sweetness and Light, but they are real.


The other thing I do is try to motivate people into using their multi dimensional psi skills to help out the GFL and the Delta Forces in doing their work. You can astral travel or astral project to a DUMBs raid site and help them out there. Your guides will go with you. Believe me, they're all over helping you to become more involved. Lightworkers are the link between the galaxy and humanity on earth. We're the bridge. As lightworkers we have special skills; as earthlings we can affect this planet more than anyone else can.


This video is about what is going on on this planet right now between the DS and us and how we can intervene. I don't like the feeling of being a sitting duck. I prefer to fight back. I'm a light warrior and an aspect of Athena, goddess of war and wisdom, and that would be consistent with my inner nature.


I watched a video by Gina Colvin Hill the other day about a glitch in the facade put up at Table Mountain in South Africa. It looks like a flat mountain but then it appeared to be a pixelated scene with pixels out of place. Part of this flat mountain stretched up into the sky. Why was that? They do this with bases as well, like Area 51. They have a hologram that they create to fool us on the outside and to cover up everything they're doing on the inside. What you're looking at is a holographic image and of course you can't get near it. Because to get in would be to see that everything is different. ETs will use the same holographic technology to fool us when they go out in public as well. They've already been found out.


Perhaps the Table Mountain hologram is higher up but it was definitely malfunctioning the other day. I then found a video of some young guys who went into secret tunnels in the mountain, and of course these tunnels lead to a base within the mountain, which I know from doing raids is one of their favourite hiding spots. You'd be surprised what they have in these mountains. We've seen entire air bases of UFO fleets hiding in some of them.


We need to take the DS and the darksters down. They need to go. We can help the GFL, even just by yourself.


What have they been doing and why is the question.


HAARP
What I'm seeing now is reports that Britain is to expect a snow storm, cutting off of electrical, plumbing, and heat. Britain seldom gets hit with large storms. For that matter, neither does Texas. Why all of a sudden are they experiencing these unusual anomalies? Simple, our weather is fabricated. I believe this is HAARP technology. What we've seen so far in Texas is someone is being blamed for the failure of the infrastructure to hold out against the weather. Be it FEMA, the Army Corp. of Engineers, the governor although he just quit, or whoever, someone is going to take the blame for failing the people in this emergency and I'm expecting the usual smear campaign. They're targeting someone because if you notice, every time there's a crisis someone is held accountable for it. Always. The blame game, that's what they do every time. Witch hunting.


I also believe the white hats are in the DUMBs under Texas and Fort Worth is a big one that lightworkers have already hit on before. Mind control technology is transmitted out of Fort Worth. We shut it down before, at least temporarily, and it seemed that there were more awoken people as a result. If they shut down mind control technology bit by bit instead of all at once, it might help people to wake up and not lose their minds in the process.


Is that what they're targeting? The mind control? Is it Fort Worth or more children being removed. What about the wall? There's a wall in Texas and many child traffickers have used these underground routes to get children up to the States from South America. Is this what that's for? It would seem most likely since that's what they've been focused on. But I'm sure there's military underground there.


Now why is Britain being targeted? BJ is an ally of Mr T's. Is it to attack him and to prove him incompetent as well? Seems likely.


VOLCANO STRIKES
The darksters are hitting a volcano in Japan with, I was told, Tachyon rays. This is to get the volcanos to erupt and cause mayhem, of course. Because we couldn't have a day on this planet without someone suffering. Again, Gina is the lady to follow because she was the one seeing the rays being fired into the volcano at ten second intervals. She's able to see all kinds of anomalies. I'll link her channel in below.


Japan, of course, is one of the white hat allies. Right now the ChiComm military is still attacking Taiwan and being rebuffed by American forces. Yeah, that wouldn't be on JB's command, would it? So you see what's happening, eh? It's attack/counterattack. If you rebuff our attack, we'll attack one of your allies. We are at war, folks.


FOREST FIRES
We haven't seen any of the forest fires that don't burn trees lately. Maybe in the southern hemisphere they're still trying to burn the Rain Forest or Australia is being hit, who knows. We only see what the DS allows us to see on the news, which really is part of censorship as well.


NUKES
Any threat of nukes is most likely a bluff because the GFL is doing everything to stop nukes from being used. This is a universal issue, not one that pertains strictly to earth, so they're allowed to intervene liberally.


Other than the virus, attacks on the people seem to be coming out of the sky. So what's in the skies then? How are they hitting us with beams? Is it ships or satellites? Are these rays coming from other planets? There are cities that the dark ones have built up above all of our cities. I have seen into them, so these things firing rays could even be part of that infrastructure. Of course, most of us are blinded from seeing these cities because of mind slides but they're there. Emery Smith mentioned these cities quickly in a video I was watching the other day.


Me: Ivo, what can we do about this?
Ivo: These beams are hitting your planet indeed from the cities floating in your clouds that the dark ones have built, and from their ships. They have a world just a degree or two outside of your world but different enough in frequency that you cannot detect it. Although your cats and dogs can.
Me: Are you working to take these cities down?
Ivo: We are. Indeed. And all of those who live within them.
Me: So what can we do?
Ivo: You can send white light upwards towards your city's skies. This is the reason they hide from you – because you can destroy them with a thought. Most people would never think of rays coming from a hidden city infrastructure above them, but in fact they have built that too.
Me: Yeah, they've been here a while.
Ivo: As for the water, you are being attacked via the water, however we have this in hand.
Me: What are they doing?
Ivo: They are poisoning the waters, they are launching bursts of rays to the land and these bursts of rays start earthquakes. They desire Turkey to fall into the Mediterranean. They wish it to be gone because it is a land that is reminiscent of your old earth and anything that is there from antiquity they wish to disappear. So they attack Turkey via the sea.
Gina is doing a good service to many as she shows people that reality is a perception and you have the wrong perception. She shows the truth to many people, that there is a cosmic reality which is playing out on your planet.
It is worth having a look. And then helping to try to reverse the damage they are attempting to do.
Me: Like I said the other day, also contacting the GFL commander in that area whether you know their name or not and asking them to intervene. It's about our free will. Even if we don't know about what the DS and the dark ones are doing, the GFL will wait until they're asked to help in some many ways. They can restore this planet to a point where our free will is again our choice. Our free will was stolen from us by the dark ones. But they allow us to believe we still have it by hiding what they're doing from us and claiming these are natural events. They're not. It's them attacking the people and we have to start helping each other. Use your energy to do so. Give it a shot.
Ivo: Yes, please do. Do not expect phenomenal results the first time you try but keep practising.
Me: I changed the weather one day. Turned from rainy to sunny as I sent energy to it.
Ivo: And you have removed chemtrails as well. People, you live in a manufactured, heavily manipulated reality where weapons you have not even heard of are being used against you. You have the greatest weapon possible at your disposal – your own energy. And that is why they fear you. Please do use it. Do it for the good of all. Thank you.
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Secret tunnels in table mountain S.A.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TiJBFB-d7E&ab_channel=DavidLeRoux
Gina Marie Colvin Hill
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-JEgJ3NV-lpnAjbm81tNsg

Tired of Having to Not Be Myself


Again, as I often do, I woke up with the answer this morning. The reason I felt like crying last night before I went to bed, and whining at Ivo to hurry up and land so we can be together finally.


I'll describe this to the best of my ability without complaining too much, but I'm saying this because I'm sure so many of you can relate to me. It's not all fun and games realizing you come from another planet or dimension. This is why I'm unhappy here and I don't know if it can be fixed.


It has to do with being a starseed or a lightworker. I call starseeds those people from other planets/dimensions who are born here. Lightworkers, to Ivo and I, are people who are actively using their light daily in order to heal this world. All lightworkers are starseeds by virtue of the fact we were born here, in other words. Other people have other definitions; there's no standard one yet.


There are negative sides to being a starseed; it's not all fun and games. The big one, I find, is that you're not understood or people try to control you in order to get you to fit in so they can relate to you. That could be anything from getting you to eat meat to trying to get you to stop being so emotional. That's what I got from my family because I was “too sensitive” and just different from them, and it hasn't stopped. Relating to people is difficult when you're a future version of them.


I've written down some points that are driving my feeling unhappy now. I believe some of this may have come up because I'm doing a detox and my old friend, food, isn't around as much to comfort me through these feelings of alien-ness, because that's what it is really. Let's face facts. You're alien to this world and this system, and to these people, and food, somehow keeps me grounded. Even food, I believe, is of too low vibration to be of much good to me now. Most food is third dimensional and we're not anymore. Here's the list:

• Having to explain yourself; knowing you're being judged
  
• Having to dumb yourself down in order to relate to others
  
• Having to shut your mouth when you just want to be yourself
  
• Having moments of not caring and feeling unhinged, dancing out by your car out in a snowstorm because you don't give a shit sometimes
  
• Feeling unanchored on this planet and not sure that you want to be
  
• Not feeling a part of anything. And with the virus agenda going on it just makes your feeling alienated even worse
  
• Having to constantly assert your boundaries in order to stop control and/or manipulation attempts
  
• Fed up of having your free will disrespected by the unconscious; fed up of conversations that are violations of your boundaries and free will
  
• Feeling abnormal and frankly, thanking god you are
  
• Fed up of reverting to a former version of yourself in order to relate to others who aren't where you are
  
• Sick of doing your best to relate to others while nobody can relate to you because you understand you're the one who can stretch – they can't
  
• Having to relate to addicts who are frankly, everywhere, and don't even realize it
  
• Continually coming across the same types of people everywhere: escape artists – the addicts; control freaks, sneaky manipulators, and just plain bullshitters. People succumb to or deal with this system in maladaptive ways.
  
• Having problems like empathy that keep hampering your attempts to relate to others
  
• That feeling of being big but having to live small because there is nothing more here
  
• The boredom of having to get up every day and live another day of a life you know is a fraction of what you've lived before
  
• Wanting the reset to roll out but realizing it's not because of the slowpokes who still need to wake up
  
• Tired of christians thinking there's something wrong with you and their trying to get you to go to their churches
  
• Tired of people trying to change you because they don't understand you or think you're weird
  
• Tired of it just being easier to be alone
  
• Knowing if you say anything about any of this, you'll be directed to a shrink
  
• Understanding you're an advanced consciousness living in an oppressed, regressive world
  
• Wanting to go back and live among your old friends and then realizing you've grown past them too
  
• Understanding there is nothing more to this place and you're stuck here until you change it
  
• Understanding that you have everything to gain by taking the next step in your life, but the timing of the next step is beyond your control
  
• Understanding that if you were in the steps and confided this in your sponsor, she'd think you were a whack job too
  
• Looking for entertainment on line and seeing video's of either fear based programming, video's produced by fear-based minds, or people's pets, when all you want to do is relate to life at a satisfying level. What passes for entertainment here, frankly, just adds insult to injury
  
• Dealing with people who are jealous of you; have these younger starseeds ever considered that their waking up along with so many others is an advantage, not a disadvantage, and that being out in front of the pack can be lonely?
  
• Understanding that you're on the defensive all the time and the only time you can let your guard down is at home when you're alone, and by the way, my ET friends never put me on the defensive because they're always loving and caring
  
• Realizing you talk to invisible people and apparently there's something wrong with that here too
  
• Finding conversations with trees more interesting than a conversation with a human
  

If I were in the steps still, this would be my resentment list. I have to deal with these things and figure out a way to get some relief around this. Ivo keeps saying that he's to land soon and I believe him, but in the next minute wouldn't be soon enough, frankly. This has been a lifetime in the making. I'm hoping the younger starseeds won't have to undergo the loneliness and feeling of alienation us older ones have had to endure.


I will just write these all down and look for any solutions I can find. It's frustrating not being able to tell others who you are because as my sister calls it, “I'm radical” and she doesn't even know my whole truth.


I'm sure many of you can relate to this list. If I find any solutions, Ivo and I will bring them up in a video. Anything to get relief from not fitting in and not wanting to fit in.


Ivo: My dear, you are going through the growing pains of realizing you are ascending. That is what you are experiencing. You are leaving the old behind, all the people, all the society you have lived in, even your family who do not treat you well either. You are leaving it all behind and apparently having some difficulty with it.
Me: I always had difficulty with this place, Ivo, but I always thought it was because I was abused.
Ivo: And as I have said, had you not been abused, you would never have realized your true self. It was an important part of your journey to have experienced this. Otherwise you would never have known your true identity.
Me: I have a lot of identities, to be honest.
Ivo: You are part of a soul group, my love. A large, very advanced soul group that has incarnated on earth and other planets, particularly in Vega and Lyra.
Me: I'm seeing parts of that, yes.
Ivo: Your journey is almost complete. When you are back with me, whether it be on earth or in Vega, your journey is done. You will have the mirroring you desire; the love you have for yourself will be reflected back to you through us.
Me: That's all I've ever wanted. To be able to live in a loving community of people who respect my free will.
Ivo: You will have that.
Me: Again, the operative word is “when?”
Ivo: This year, my love. This year. You can begin to pack again. That is how close we are now.
Me: I sure hope so. I'm tired of waiting.
Ivo: My love, it all goes according to plan.
Me: I know. Not my ego's plan, God's plan.
Ivo: Correct. It will be grand.
Me: I have some grieving to do, obviously. It's been hard and lonely walking this path. Everyone I've known is a memory. I've had to give up so much.
Ivo: And yet now you gain the universe, so much more.
Me: True. I'm going to stop this video here. I don't see how anyone can console me except myself.
Ivo: Very well. You must work through this, as must the others. I know this video will touch many hearts.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: My love, I am here for you. As I always have been.

In my opinion, folks, my best guess would be the next thing they'll pull off is something to do with the weather. I go on Youtube and all I see now are MSM posts about weather catastrophes. There's snow in the southern States. You'd have to be Canadian all your life to know how unimpressed we are with a snow storm. We just got a foot of it the other night. So what. News about snow storms don't spark fear into the heart of a Canadian – we're so used to them it's boring. This fear porn is sneaking its way onto youtube so I'm diligent about disregarding the channels, not even the videos, so I won't see any MSM video's again. It's all fear porn and propaganda.


I'm seeing Texas is having a huge storm and their electricity is off. I'm sure this is some kind of attack, but hey, you know I'm a conspiracy theorist. Actually I don't really believe that anything happens for nothing around this place. There's always a reason.


Making Sacrifices


This is one example of how holding this belief in the ego keeps your vibration down. Because of the negative way we reframe concepts that are positive. This has to do with the way that the selfish ego interprets acts of unselfishness. To the extent that you believe that people make sacrifices, you're ego based and believing the tenets of this reptilian/draconian lower frequency system. And believe me, we all have. No fault on your part so don't get down on yourself for it. Just begin to change the way you see it.


Making sacrifices is not a true concept. All has to do with enhancing the soul. There are no sacrifices. Nobody has to go without so that someone else gets. There is no lack when you use universal law. When you look at our system, there is lack but that lack is CREATED.


There is plenty to go around; there is no lack. God wouldn't put us here and say, “Okay, but I forgot to give you enough to keep you alive.” The DS would, and its starvation of certain countries and peoples has to do with its agenda of oppression.


What about when someone makes “the ultimate sacrifice” and dies so another can live? How often do you hear that happening? What about soldiers at war?


Ivo: My love, they say that Jesus died for your sins. Jesus was capable of creation to the extent that he created another body for himself and returned to earth. He did this to show you the capabilities of a human connected to the god source. He was an example. He did not die for your sins because no one is a sinner, with the exception of those who are oppressing and killing the humans on earth. They are the evil sinners. But yet again, they are teaching you that you are evil and unworthy while they are the good ones. The DS and the dark ones have had an agenda of projection. They project all that is unworthy about themselves onto others, while they deem themselves to be above all of you.
Me: Yes, my mother taught me that. She thought she was the ultimate human, but was so in denial of any of her flaws and projected them all onto her kids. And yes, we've learned to be like the draconians. It was infuriating for me to watch a person so in denial of her faults that she saw herself as perfect and above all the unworthy people she had spawned. Really. This egotism I see in the DS as well, as well as their belief of entitlement because of their perfection. My family was a microcosm of the macrocosm of this planet and its collective beliefs which have been imposed upon us.
Ivo: These inequities God would never stand for.
Me: I know.
Ivo: There are no privileged and underprivileged ones. There are no worthy and no unworthy ones. There are no saints and there are no sinners. It is all a question of the development of the soul and how far advanced the soul is. That is all.
The draconian system was imposed upon you in order to leave you blind to the truth of the human reality – and that was so they could control you.
Those who feel they are superior to others have the ego of a draconian because they are of this belief as well. That is why draconians practise a caste system, and why they have created one for you as well. Their prejudice against the earthling has had ramifications all the way to the god source, so now they are being dealt with. Because they believe you to be so worthless, they believe they can do anything to you.
Those cultures upon your planet that still worship animals are remnants of the old human belief system. These cultures value their animals and give thanks to them for sustaining their bodies. The societies that are overwhelmed by draconian values do not value the animals they eat, hence they do anything they like to the animals in order to sell them as meat, and so you have a devalued animal that you are ingesting, an animal raised in a devalued system based on selling from one unworthy person to other unworthy people. It stands to reason that in these societies, it is best not to eat flesh.
Me: I remember when I was in Holland. Apparently they eat horse meat there. I asked my aunt, then had to insist that she cook it to well done so there wasn't any visible blood, but then I couldn't chew it because it was so tough. It makes me laugh now because the Dutch word for “no” is “nay”, so when it comes to eating horse meat in Holland, I just say nay (neigh).
Ivo: Yes. You have had many misgivings about eating meat all your life, my love. That is because you should not eat it. Vegans do not eat meat, and the fact that the word for our constellation is the same as a non-meat eater I believe is no coincidence. However, your family believed that the good life was to be had in a steak. You often would go without or refuse a piece, but the tendency to eat meat was practised even moreso in Holland than by your parents. This is because of the more recent events of the Great Depression and World War 2, where many people starved to death. Food became more revered than anything and well to do-ness was shown in what one ate. Of course, this was taken advantage of from the 1960's on as food became more processed, chemicalized and genetically modified. The focus was on having as much to eat as you wanted. It is all caused by the DS and taken advantage of as well. They are using food to poison you now.
You must become aware of the tokens your people utilize to indicate they are living the good life. This is all found in materialism. They have steaks, drink alcohol, they own boats and big homes, they drive expensive cars. This is all a show. The good life is lived in the mind first. There are still many cultures upon earth that live primitively but lovingly. You could take an example from them. But I digress.
Sacrifice is a belief in lack. When there is no lack, sacrifices cannot be made. When it comes to sacrificing one's life, life is eternal. There are many mediums working overtime to prove to you all that life continues after death.
Me: So what they sacrificed was a physical body.
Ivo: And if they had the power, they could re-create another physical body to come back and finish that life if they wanted. It has to do with how much power one holds, and what the soul's plans for the body are. If the soul is finished with that incarnation, no body will reincarnate.
You see, my love, your words are so limiting.... I said “no body” will reincarnate. Nobody. Anybody. Somebody. You are not a body. But your language tells you so. Perhaps saying “no soul”, any soul, some soul, all souls, would be more appropriate speech, but you all have yet to see it from the higher perspective and that is something that must be taught to you. And your language is very limiting. It limits your minds.
Me: Yes, good catch, Ivo.
Ivo: I do these occasionally.
Me: LOL
Ivo: As for sacrifice, when one has an abundant frame of mind, there can be no sacrifice. Life is abundant, life is loving. There are no sacrifices. All live for the greater good of others and they understand this. There is no selfishness in the higher dimensions. It is not necessary. Selfishness is born of lack.
There is so much we have discussed already about the lack mentality and how the concept of scarcity affects your lives. This is one more problem it creates.
When your societies are based upon fear-based ideas, then the citizens will only suffer.
When you are relieved of your financial woes as a planet, when poverty is eliminated and abundance is supplied to all, when all that was stolen from you is repaid to you, you will begin to see how your world had provided for your needs and that there never was any need to worry about your physical maintenance. So many problems will instantaneously disappear for so many when the money is redistributed with love for all included. People will change overnight.
This manufactured system is soon to be dispensed with. You will all see the truth of God's creation for you. And that is abundance, fearless abundance.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, we will be together soon. I promise you this.

The Nature of Negativity


First of all, folks, I want to flag up this video by SP where he discusses the QFS financial system, what it is and when it's due to completely roll out, which appears to be very soon. Video is linked in the comments.


No worries Simon, about disclosure. It may be leaking out now, but wait till Implant Communications gets its Quantum TV station on line.


I also want to say that I got a good message from James Gilliland of ECETI ranch, which I posted to my website. The link is below. A worthwhile read.


TODAY'S MESSAGE:


I keep seeing people disliking these videos. I believe the first dislike is youtube's computer checkers checking to make sure I haven't used any of the buzzwords that get people's accounts suspended, and I'm careful not to.


But any dislikes afterwards are most likely viewers who dislike the video. The first thing I want to say, is I made an assumption, and that is that they think like I do: that these negative viewers are looking for something they like and want to watch, but I keep forgetting the nature of negativity is the stuff they like is stuff that they dislike. The negatives are not able to disregard one point if it doesn't agree with their opinion. Rather than focusing on the rest of the message, which was to their liking, they thumb the video down because of one point they don't agree with. That's when you know that you're negative – you overlook all the positives and focus on the one thing you don't like about it. Negativity is your master, at least at that point in time. And you're in a trap that only being positive will get you out of.


What's wrong with liking a ten minute video in spite of one or two things you don't agree with? Do you think I agree with everything I watch on youtube, all the other pundits? No, I don't. But I keep following the ones who I feel have the right intention and who are trying their best to get the truth out there. I don't always agree with everything they say, but if I agree with most of what they say, then I'll stick with them. That's not to say to stick with someone you don't agree with much at all, of course. You're on different frequencies and you have to watch out for liars and disinformation.

This behaviour is the inverse of anything that makes sense to everyone else.


I believe there are negative people on social media who go around looking for stuff they don't like. Because somehow that satisfies them and their negative perspective on life. The rest of us go around looking for stuff we like, but not these people. They're only happy when they're miserable because that confirms their negative view of life and whatever benefit they derive from having that viewpoint. Like “there's no point in trying because I'm not going to be successful anyway”. These people are their own miserable self fulfilling prophecy.


There are benefits to being negative in this world. You don't have to try, you don't have to make an effort, you can be a failure by anyone else's standards and be happy with yourself. Your happiness is misery to everyone else. And because you think the rest of the world is the same as you are, you love to share your negativity with others but then experience rejection, which of course just confirms what you've suspected all along: life sucks.


You can break out of this way of thinking. It is possible. But you have to want to.


All I can say is pretty soon, timelines will be splitting. It's inevitable with these higher energies coming in, if you're anchoring negativity, not able or willing to change, you're going to keep creating your own negative space to live in, your own third dimensional timeline. Those who are more flexible will be ascending into the fourth dimension, and those who are of unity mindset already are already in the fifth dimension. How do you know which dimension you're in? By the way you think and behave, that's how. Everyone is looking for planets, stars, different suns and that's all cool but the true test of what dimension you're in is the frequency you hold.


If you're miserable all the time, and look for video's you can hate, you're in negative three dee and I feel sorry for you.


That old rule of, “If you haven't got anything good to say, don't say anything,” only works for people of positive polarity. Negative people would never get a word in and all energy wants to express itself.


Fact is, everyone has a right to be here, at least for these last few days. Then the timelines split out and you won't have any more positive people to pick on, sorry to tell you. You'll be stuck with others like yourself. Maybe you'll decide to change. I only hope that you will.


Ivo: Negative people have a negative belief system, my love. And for those with low life expectations, it works for them.
Me: Yes. Go on. I'm listening.
Ivo: Some are not capable of holding a higher frequency than a negative one, my love. And as you know, those people will be reincarnating on another low frequency planet that will support them.
Me: Oh yes, my neighbour died last night. RIP Roger. Died of liver cancer.
Ivo: He drank himself to death. The poor man never could face life, so he made one up. This is an example of someone who came to hold a low frequency.
Me: Now I have to move. Well, about time I guess, it's not like I ever enjoyed living here.
Ivo: If you do not get the go ahead for the house, why not move up to that area and find an apartment for the time being?
Me: That's an idea. I could do that. But I didn't really want another apartment.
Ivo: You will not have to, my love, but I am saying that to get you pointed in the correct direction.
Me: I have to find a place that will take cats.
Ivo: And you have found many things before, by creating them.
Me: True.
Ivo: You forge your path through life by creating what you need. Your needs are met as your frequency aligns with the creation. So think high frequency.
Me: I'm on a detox diet, Ivo. LOL
Ivo: Yes, and as you say “short term pain, long term gain.” You are taking responsibility for your physical body and attempting to meet its need properly.
Me: I have good days and bad days still. I'm hoping 5D doesn't have fast food.
Ivo: No, it will not. Not where we will be anyhow.
Me: Half way to the North Pole. There might be polar bears in the back yard. LOL
Ivo: Now, back to the message. All people must work on changing their belief systems. Now you see there are politically many belief systems available to you. You can either believe that JB is president, you can believe that DJT is president, or you can believe in yourself and that you do not need a president to direct your life's activities.
Me: I'm number three.
Ivo: But you see the timelines are splitting out and they are qualified in terms of truth versus lies. You get to choose which you wish to invest your energy in. In other words you are voting now, but with your energy. And you are investing in the future you wish your children to have.
Me: Yes, that's one thing that's so true. You are your child's past. And the child has to take what decisions you've made and work with them. Change them, keep them the same or dispense with them and do a re-start.
Ivo: As for the negative polarity, most of them will not be watching these videos. That is a fact. These people do not believe there are others who can speak to us “aliens” any more than they believe that JB is not president.
People come to this planet and other planets of the third dimensional frequency to hold low light. Many are not very evolved. Some choose to hold low light again in order to re-learn a lesson that would affect them in the future if not done correctly. Many are stuck under mind control and cannot escape as they do not have the energy to do so.
Everything is energy and frequency. There is no other law. Everything in consciousness vibrates and that is because it is alive. Everything has a measurable frequency. This frequency can be changed in the human and other species of life because that is the nature of life: learning and evolving.
For those who stubbornly hold on to a set of beliefs that keeps their frequency low, they are not willing to evolve. And this will ultimately mean the demise of their line of DNA. Yes. This is an extinction event. On planet earth, only certain types of DNA will evolve or ascend. Other types of DNA will not. Homo Sapiens is slated for extinction. Homo Universalis will prevail.
Me: Pretty cool, isn't it?
Ivo: Yes. I understand you are speaking of excitement rather than temperature.
Me: LOL I guess you've had to get used to the slang I use.
Ivo: I have had to, and that makes no sense whatsoever either. Your words do not resonate to the frequency of your intention. However, we accommodate your verbal proclivities.
The nature of negativity on planet earth is simply descending into morbid toxicity. If you do not see this now in your fashions, with their skulls and crossbones, you are being subjected to a poisonous mindset by mind control and buying into it, no less.
Me: Yes, Lisa Renee calls it the “death culture”.
Ivo: You must be aware that the collective mindset has been degrading over many millenia. Since Victorianism where things were somewhat more ethical than is the case today. And the negative timeline will not rise. Negativity in and of itself, without the positive polarity entwined with it, is doomed. I do not wish to give such a foreboding message, but it will be the task of those on the positive timelines in future to attempt to save those on the negative timelines.
Me: Yeah, like my earth family.
Ivo: For example. They will be asking for help and we will help them.
Me: Would it be instantaneous or would they have to do the work?
Ivo: Always the work must be done, my love. The ability to hold a particular frequency is important. Not just to rise to that frequency and then lose it again, but to be able to hold it. And that means eradicating the negative within oneself.
The negative timeline that will emerge from the split of the third dimensional polarized timeline will be hard to watch. It means that many will be rescued from the toxicity that was to befall you but some will not. They will be on this morbid timeline.
Me: I don't see my family as being that bad.
Ivo: It is not always a question of being bad, my love, it is a question of being ignorant and believing lies. The lie is the worst thing for a human being, and your dark handlers understand this. They have fed you a constant diet of lies. The truth is everything, and so many now will seek the truth, but others will not until they cannot abide by the lies anymore.
Me: Won't the incoming energies raise the frequency of the negative timelines?
Ivo: It will, but the free will of those of lower frequency will hold it in place. Energy cannot displace free will. You were given free will, even the free will to give your free will away. Those in lower timelines do that. When they realize they are being controlled and realize they do not like it, then there will be hope for them.
Frequency will always split into timelines. Disparate frequencies cannot co-exist. They will always split out. More and more realities will emerge from this point in time, thankfully more positive ones than negative.
Me: I think it's already started because last December 21st and the few months before then were a totally different energy.
Ivo: Exactly, my love. The timelines are splitting apart and will continue to do so according to the frequency of members of the collective. Similar frequencies will collect in new timelines. It is important what you believe and who you allow to influence you now, very important.
Me: Thanks, Ivo. Now let's see how many dislikes we get on this video. LOL
Ivo: Fifth density will not stop people from disagreeing with each other, however it will be conducted in such a way as to disallow attacking and denigration of the ones that you disagree with. All is for learning and there are many routes to the same goal and that goal is Oneness with God.

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Gilliland message

When You Respect Yourself


For those of you who grew up in a negative polarity family, like I did, even for those of you who grew up in positive polarity but were indoctrinated into the Matrix, this message is for you.


Recently, my sister contacted me after several months of silence, which I initiated, after our discussion of the fact that she thinks I'm nuts. All conspiracy theorists and believers in ETs are nuts, you know. Uh huh. I discussed the fact that she thinks I'm nuts and her response was, “Yes, but you're an interesting nut,” which is like throwing your drink in someone's face, really. Yes, it's an insult, but putting ego aside, it also says she doesn't have any respect for me. For me, if there's no respect, there's no love either. At best, conditional. I stopped corresponding with her, at Ivo's request, but did leave avenues open.


I find the third dimensional thing to do is to contact someone else when you have a problem. I very seldom hear from people when they don't have a problem. People with problems are always glad to share them. These are people of crisis orientation. People who are not crisis oriented contact others just for pleasant exchanges.


She emailed me recently to tell me that her partner had died and now she was in a battle to retain her house because he'd bequeathed his half of it to his kids, not to her. Folks, don't let yourself be scammed out of things like the house you've been living in for 25 years by agreeing with your partner that your children will be your primary beneficiary, not the partner. When people are partners, the partner's well being is your primary financial concern, whether you have children from a first marriage or not.


In my opinion, whichever partner passed last should have bequeathed the house to both their own children and the other partner's children, out of respect for that partner's wishes. Of course there are potential problems that could arise with that plan, though, such as defaulting on mortgage payments, remortgaging the house or just plain selling it and vanishing into thin air with all the cash and turning up in a Caribbean country with no extradition agreement with Canada. I think that if you can't trust your partner to carry out your last rites, then why bother being with that person, but that's just me.


Obviously he didn't think he could trust my sister to continue to pay the mortgage. I'm sure she would have honoured his wishes in her will but then it may have been too late.


This is the second partnership that ended that way that I know of, so it doesn't seem like there's an alternative except for paying off the entire mortgage while you're together.


How this impacts me? She'd contacted me and I'd responded to her and I supported her as best I could. My sister signed up to learn hard lessons obviously. Ivo has told me he's had to protect me from the negative energy coming my way from my sister at times, shielding me from it, just so it didn't cripple me emotionally, so I understand his concern when he says he wants me to cut ties with her.


What I learned about my mother, and I believe my sister has the same pattern, is that because she's playing an ego game of “I'm the better person and you're just the schmoe,” (one-upmanship) you can't let them become too comfortable having you back in their life once you decide to step away. Why? Because as their relief fades, they revert back to their negative behaviour towards you either overtly or covertly. People who are incapable of respecting themselves can't respect you either.


I used to go through a pattern with my mother of walking out on her after telling her off for being so nasty, and then when I showed up again, she seemed more caring but eventually she'd get back to her old nasty behaviour, which I would then tell her off for again. This happened over and over. I realized that there was a “honeymoon period” where she would behave uncharacteristically loving, but since it was not in her character to be that way she couldn't keep it up for long. My sister is like this but only covertly nasty towards me; I could feel the relief she felt at hearing from me after a period of silence. You're not going to be able to stop people like this from being this way; they have to overcome it themselves if they're ever going to. I'm really afraid of seeing my earth family on the negative deep state timelines when the split happens, and I believe it's due to soon. I can't do anything about that; only watch helplessly. P.S. That's why they're trying to get as many people to wake up now, while there's still a chance. It's going to be a lot harder for them when they carry on living on the negative timelines.


People who do respect themselves can either be the big heart and continually put up with it or decide there are greener pastures elsewhere. I sent her love but I don't need a steady diet of chaos. Been there, done that.


What I realize on my journey back to Vega is that I'm to give up everything I've ever believed to be a part of my life here on earth, because everything I've ever lived here is 3D and I'm not. The most valuable thing to me is my connection to soul, and to Ivo, and I will put nothing in its way. So I learn whatever lessons there are to be learned and walk on.


I don't make the mistake of expecting her to change now that we've discussed what I don't like about how she treats me. I realize she's caught in a pattern she picked up in my family of one-upmanship and she's subject to mind control about conspiracy theorists, something I imagine many of us truthers are getting tired of now.


And I realize that I'm on my own path and it can be very lonely at times. Very lonely. When you realize the shortcomings of so many people on this planet and that they can never meet your needs, nor can many of them even mirror back the person you want to see in yourself, you need to make decisions based on either your own benefit or theirs, depending on what's most appropriate. Send everything love, including yourself, but stay the course.


Ivo: My love, it is about leaving the third dimensional timelines behind. You are beyond this now. You did the best you could with your sister, you were very caring and loving....
Me: Never mind straightforward.
Ivo: Yes, you are very direct and you speak your truth. This is the fifth dimensional way of being unconditionally loving. You are assertive and you speak your mind, but do the best you can to help others. But remember, your sister is in a learning situation, not one where you need to rescue her or save her from her emotions.
Me: I don't think I did that. And she's taking whatever action she can now.
Ivo: The fifth dimensional way of being unconditionally loving is allowing others to grow. Do not hamper their growth. Do not stand in their way, and sometimes allowing them the consequences of their mistakes is the greatest love you can show them.
Understand that your world is ego-based, and I know you do, but the ego of all must dissolve. In this dissolution of the ego, the soul's values and the soul's path are revealed to all. The soul is on a steep learning path in the third dimension, and to leave it, one first must recognize they have a soul, and to begin to respond to life as if the soul is in charge, not the ego. That is the first step.
Your sister has not done this. She was in an ego-based relationship which lacked trust and harmony, and that is the norm for her. Her wanderings into the world of the Light have to do with earning more money, because that is how she uses it.
Me: My first ones were about losing weight, but it still kept me on my path.
Ivo: What do you think would happen in the case of your sister when she uses the law of attraction to become very rich? She would stop there, my love.
Me: And I never permanently lost that weight, either.
Ivo: And you still continued on on your spiritual path. Now you are on that path because you realize it is the way, not because it is a hobby or flight of fancy.
Me: No, it called to me. I always knew there was another way to live. I always knew there was something more to life than what we were experiencing here.
Ivo: And that is because you are a higher dimensional. You understand this and it was in the back of your mind all along. Now you understand the spiritual path automatically grants you self respect, power, self love and wisdom. Your self mastery is much greater than the pot shot days of intellectual guessing you had subjected yourself to for so many years. There is no need to guess anymore.
You understood when you got out of bed and listened to your higher self tell you, you are being poisoned by the foods you eat, that is why you feel so sickly. So, on a spiritual path, you undergo a detox diet to remove the poisons from your body. You also undertook a course for mastery of empathy, and you left Facebook because of the energy you were picking up from it. It was incapacitating for you.
Me: Yes, it was. I feel better except for the detox.
Ivo: You understand your path is eliminating everything in your life that connects you to 3D: so you look at how you are suffering. You suffer through a toxified body, so you are doing the detox and enjoying it even.
Me: I like the celery and the lime juices. It doesn't bother me to be hungry.
Ivo: You are looking at all places within your life that you have had problems that are connected to the third dimension, and are looking at finding solutions in order to raise your frequency more.
All habits picked up from your parents, or in response to your dysfunctional childhood, are being addressed. You are allowing your eating habits to evolve, and understand we will be bringing higher frequency foods to earth from the higher dimensions because, yes, to some extent your foods are third perhaps fourth dimensional foods, even those grown upon the planet, and now your bodies will require higher dimensional foods, which we will provide.
How does this relate to self respect? You begin to see the long term gain in changing your behaviours. You still eat an organic salad almost daily, your water is filtered and you change them more frequently, you have zeolite, diatomaceous earth, and you are finding recipes that focus on higher vibrational foods: fruit and vegetables. You understand that white sugar is of very low frequency because it is not a natural product. This is what has happened: in changing sugar, flour and in chemicalizing your foods, your foods have dropped in frequency. And they do not support a body that is crystallizing. So many of you are having trouble with foods. Do not eat that which does not appeal to you and do not eat that which upsets your body. Those are two rules that apply as you crystalize your bodies.
All positive action one takes to help one's self is out of self respect and self love. The path of knowing your truth is one of self respect. If one takes no positive action, but allows themselves to flow with a lower dimensional disharmony, that is one's choice. It is best to solve the problem before the problem becomes a problem. However, many of the lightworkers on earth have long standing problems they only now have the energy to deal with now that their frequency is rising, and this is fine.
Understand everything you learned in the third dimension should stay there. Think new. Think higher frequency. Listen to your soul. Listen to your body.
Me: My body loves white sugar, Ivo.
Ivo: Yes, but you understand that it began this in the third dimension and that it is incorrect to take it forward in your ascension. And when you do eat sugar, you seek a small serving size. There are foods you enjoy from the third dimension, but now you must learn to enjoy foods for other reasons other than they give you an energy burst. A fourteenth dimensional in a third dimensional body will always feel like it does not have enough energy, my love. The body is too low in frequency to house all of which is you. You will still have this problem in the fifth dimension as well, but there are ways to deal with it.
Me: How?
Ivo: In your case, to get your adrenals up to proper working frequency. They are too burnt out.
Me: Okay, so stay the course. Get rid of toxins and deal with empathy.
Ivo: And bring energy into the body with breathing and through meditation.
Me: Right.
Ivo: Also movement helps one to feel more energized.
Me: I'm working on that.
Ivo: Energy moves through a body that moves; it becomes stagnant when the body is not moved more often. You see this with your frozen shoulder – the more you move the arm past where it is resisting, the more it continues to be flexible. Yes, there is inflammation. Curcumin is a good solution for this, not Nsaids (Ibuprofen). Seek a natural solution.
Me: Yeah, like Ibuprofen and Tylenol are 3D, Curcumin (Turmeric) is 4D, and sending white light healing to the affected shoulder is 5D energy healing.
Ivo: And you have much available to you but choose the higher dimensional solution as often as possible.
Me: Okay, thanks Ivo. I have to stop.
Ivo: You are fatigued again. Perhaps some deep breathing will help.
Me: Thanks Ivo.

Human Changelings


Me: I just intuited this. I was working on corrections for my book, “Around the Galaxy,” and as I worked on Gladelia's story, I intuited she was a human changeling. Gladelia is an Alpha Centaurian soul, she calls Alpha Centauri her home, but she was born in a Venusian body. Then, if that wasn't enough, she was taken to earth. Now I sense she was switched with an earth child. Gladelia, is this correct?
Gladelia: It is. I was a changeling.
Me: How did they switch you out with another earth child, and especially why would they do that?
Gladelia: You're aware that your timelines are always changing, yes?
Me: Yes. The dark ones are always changing them, changing the course of history in order to change the future, hide what they've done from us, and other diabolical deeds. This is one way our free will has been very impacted by them, to say the least. There are more.
Gladelia: Exactly. What happened was we were anticipating another change of timeline and at the moment this was done, I was simply substituted for the girl who was born into the family, and their memories changed to reflect that.
Me: Was your name the same?
Gladelia: Yes, she was Elizabeth as well.
Me: Well, we know what happened to you from reading your book, “Beyond the Light Barrier,” which is the book I was reading when Ivo came through. Anyway, you were put here on earth because of your Alpha Centaurian/Venusian energies and higher capabilities than the average human. And you see that because of your excellent diction and having been able to fly aircraft by yourself. A woman in the 50's no less, flying aircraft. You were very accomplished in your life's work and hobbies, and I'm not flattering you; this is apparent by how you describe your life in the book.
Gladelia: Thank you. My pursuit of extraterrestrial knowledge wasn't covered much in the book, but I was a fan of George Adamski and a definite believer.
Me: And in the 50's a follower of spirituality no less.
Gladelia: Yes.
Me: I would think fairly rare for that time.
Gladelia: It didn't make front page news, let's say that much.
Me: No. It was really a regressive society. Not Victorianism, but we really needed the large influx of starseeds that were the hippies.
Gladelia: Ah yes! A surge of fresh air! LOL
Me: So we know your history. But what happened to the original Elizabeth? Do you know her story?
Gladelia: I can tell you some things in fact. She was taken to Venus and raised by Venusian parents who were very aware of her lineage. Mine on earth were not. They believed me to be an earthling. The Zulu's were aware because they were so much more in touch with the universe. Ladam was aware but he never told me I was a changeling, although I was told later by Akon.
Now as for the original Elizabeth, she went to Venus. She was in fact chosen to do light work with the Venusians, but back on planet earth. Yes. She has passed but her soul remains close to earth, to help with the liberation of the planet in its ascension.
While she was on earth she worked with the South African governments, strangely feeling at home there, and perhaps she suspected that this was the part of earth she was born in. We're not sure. At the time, of course, there was the Apartheid to deal with, and she worked to bring together the differing factions and to make peace between the people. The Venusians have had their hands in many pies on planet earth, seeking to mend riffs in order to create unity. And of course, the division caused by the ds with respect to oppression of various races is one area that the lightworkers are working to heal. So she was busy in this respect.
You are also aware of Omnec Onec, who came to earth and is working with the disclosure movement. That is why they come. Now Omnec is Venusian, not a changeling, but they do similar work.
Me: Ah yes. Right. Did she retain the name Elizabeth?
Gladelia: She did not, no. She used an alias, a different name because I'd made the name quite prominent in certain governmental circles and she did not wish to attract attention to herself. She worked incognito, working with her Venusian teams yet appearing to be an earthling human.
Me: What advantage is there in creating an earthling changeling and then sending them back here to do the work?
Gladelia: There are some more obvious advantages and that is their DNA does not reveal the truth of their mission. As they are always taking blood samples and cataloging your DNA, it is best to send an earthling as they can fly under the radar much more readily.
There is also the energies that the earthling will work with that are, yes, more on the level with the planet. Perhaps this is not about raising the frequency of the planet as much as it is changing the frequency of the planet, and an empowered earthling taught by Venusians can change frequencies more readily. In raising frequencies, you're creating a different timeline, but in changing frequencies, the work is much more subtle. It's hard to explain.
Me: Yes, and I'm not understanding anything telepathically either.
Gladelia: Perhaps when working on her level, it is a person to person change she would be seeking rather than a worldwide change of energies.
Me: So micro, not macro.
Gladelia: Yes.
Me: I'm wondering if she found living here to be as much as a shock as I have.
Gladelia: You are a high dimensional, and she was only a sixth dimensional so the chasm is not as big. Adjustment is easier that way, particularly since the sixth dimensional can still be embodied. Some are not, of course.
She tended to work person to person. Someone who is a changeling is a person who is very specific in their role, not someone who might create worldwide influence.
Me: But she worked in the governments of South Africa, I'm presuming, and that was a big deal and probably still is, not that we ever get news from South Africa here in North America.
Gladelia: She worked with Mandela, trying to get him freed as well.
Me: Ah! Another of my favourites! Bless that man, wish he was still alive!
So the changeling has perhaps a more specific role on earth. Rather than the lightworker who has a global influence.
Gladelia: Yes, exactly.
Me: Do you know of any changelings on earth now? From Venus or other planets?
Gladelia: There are many. There are many in world governments now who are creating more specific influence.
Me: But they're anonymous.
Gladelia: I can't tell you the names of them, no. Someday it may be revealed but now it can't be. Don't see what they've done as making a sacrifice, Sharon. That's a concept that has to be erased from your lexicon. Nobody makes sacrifices. All has to do with enhancing the soul. Don't feel sad for her or the others.
Me: Do they ever see their adopted parents again?
Gladelia: Yes, they can. They will come to them. Perhaps they get the opportunity to go back home occasionally such as your Ivo does.
Me: Yes, his annual vacation of about three or four months. LOL
Gladelia: He's a hard worker.
Me: I know. I give him lots to keep him busy as well.
Gladelia: We'll speak later, Sharon.
Me: Thank you.
As an aside note, there's an episode of Star Trek the Original Series called Gary Seven, and I believe this character was the same, an earthling who was raised in an extraterrestrial society, who then worked exo-politically to help with the liberation of earth. I can see the advantage of sending someone who is native to this planet back to help change the energies.  
​I'm beginning to understand this more clearly now. The original Elizabeth was a higher dimensional earthling (yes, there are masters who live in 5D earth like St Germain) and perhaps higher. Gladelia says that the original Elizabeth was a sixth dimensional, probably disembodied earthling, who had perhaps ascended long ago in antiquity when ascension off this planet was still possible, then she was born into a 3D body, taken and trained on 5D Venus, because of course we don't have that type of training that she needed available to us yet, and then brought back to “work her magic” let's say. Wow.


So don't blame the fairies for the changelings, ETs are doing it as well. LOL  

Ignore it, Avoid it


Here's me: Ignoring it, avoiding it, thanking God someone didn't launch any at me, thanking God her email was more positive this time, avoiding talking to someone so I'm not expected to complain along with them, not wanting to deal with a problem so I don't have to be confronted by negativity.... you name it. I do it. I avoid negativity. Many of you do too.


I still have my bouts of it, but otherwise I avoid it like the plague.


I've been watching videos on the Ra books: Law of One, and they speak of negativity in a rather matter of fact way. And that is that people get to choose their orientation, whether it's positive or negative, but negativity cannot ascend any higher than early 6D, which makes sense because I've been told that 6D is the dimension that dispenses with the need for a physical body. So at that point, the soul has to convert and become of positive polarity otherwise stay at 6D for an eternity, not being able to heed the inner call to ascend like many of us feel.


Yes, on this planet the negatives have done what the Law of One states that they do: control, manipulate and fear, and because of this interference in our free will, i.e. we don't have the ability to choose anymore which orientation we want, so now intervention is necessary. To some extent, folks, only to the extent that our free will is available to us again (it always was but the cards were so stacked against it) but now we'll be expected to use it. Choice will be restored to the earthling.


We get to pick the polarity we want to ascend by again. And, we get to ascend, because of course now the negatives upon this planet are trying to keep earthlings at their level and not allow them to ascend. That's the interference. People are stuck here in third density, which the Law of One states clearly is the shortest density because it's so unpleasant and requires suffering in order to make one's choice. Like we keep saying, everything is love. You have to be able to see it in action.


I see today's current events as a means of doing that. Which polarity and which dimension you want to align with you get to pick – you pick your orientation, positive or negative, and we all can venture a guess as to which president represents which. It makes sense to me. The GFL is removing all the negative factions that have been dominating this planet and will be resetting our ability to choose. The only thing we won't be able to choose is violence as they'll be installing a grid at some point that will prohibit our use of aggression with others, so this in itself will facilitate the ascension process. Imagine, we'll have to talk it out rather than violate another person. No more violating others' free will, at least to this extent. I think some of this has to do with the fact that we have a habit of bombing each other and using nuclear technology to that end as well. This is to protect the rest of the universe from us.


The fact is, this is a dual polarity planet in a dual polarity dimension. Negative people have every right to be negative because that's the polarity they've chosen to ascend by. You don't have to want them around you, however. I think what we'll see here is so many people who have been mind controlled into being negative turn positive and start ascending through the positive polarity. The negatives will just continue to be themselves. So for those of you who think that the fifth dimension is all sweetness and light, guess again. The grumpy Guses can ascend as high as the lower sixth dimension, presumably on earth as well. You just have to learn to love them and stop letting them negatively affect you. I know... not always easy especially when you're empathic. But they're there to teach you if you'll learn from them.


People violate others' free will all the time, without even realizing it, as my list of 365 Useless Behaviours that Show You're Disempowered will make obvious to you, however there are those of us who are evolved enough to realize that this is happening and who stop others from doing it.


What the Law of One explains is that you gain in your polarity all the time. If it's a positive polarity you're seeking to ascend through, those who are negative who would impinge upon your free will through controlling tactics, can reduce your polarity, if you allow them to. That's what happened to me as a child: Being of 8th density consciousness (not 8th dimension, I'm not even from this universe) I was of extremely positive density however my parents were not and they taught me to be like them until I could change that negativity, which I'm still doing now in order to realize myself as I truly am, not my false self.


Most of you would say that negative people serve no purpose and this world should be rid of them, but that's not true: they do serve a purpose – they are the driving force for our ascension because without it, we would be happy at 3D level. They give us the opportunity to be more positive, they give us the opportunity to understand who they are and what they're doing and to empower ourselves against it. They are necessary in duality. However, as Ivo has stated, the amount of negativity on earth now, and the overtake of the planet and removal of the free will of earthlings is negativity going overboard and this has to be reset to allow for the free will of all, positive and negative.


I hear people over and over commenting these days about being attacked and telling these attackers to grow up. Heard that one last night. I think perhaps more understanding has to be developed about the role these people play in our lives. However I can say too, that when you don't need them anymore, when you've learned the lesson, having these little piranhas around sniping at you gets old.


And I said in another video to leave 3D alone. The timelines are splitting out. In fact you can see where they're developing, I can anyway. Those who believe in the lying president are on the lower timelines. Sometimes they're there because they hate the true POTUS. Those who are on the 4D timelines are lovers of the POTUS who has been working to MAGA. Then there are ones who may think this is interesting and all, but your true president is yourself. You're your own leader and you have been through millions of years. God empowered you to lead yourself.


The unfortunate part of this shit show is that deception is necessary for both parties. I heard a general lying the other day and I knew right away he couldn't tell the truth, it's not that he didn't want to. So we have to figure out which are the necessary lies and which are the malevolent lies. What a planet! You have to lie to get your people up to a higher vibration. Oy vey!


Ivo, if controlling and manipulating are the hallmarks of the negative polarity, then why are you intervening for our sakes here? I'm not saying to stop, I'm just asking what went wrong that the GFL has to intervene for us.
Ivo: In fact, my love, controlling and manipulating are hallmarks of the negative polarity. That is how they express themselves – through the power over others, service to self behaviours. However, many of the positive polarity have been living on earth, reincarnating over and over again into an environment that is dominated by negativity so that there was no chance for them to choose which they wished to be: positive or negative orientation. They were automatically forced to be negative.
Me: But that's the way the negatives are: they control. They've done exactly what they are created to do.
Ivo: Yes, and now it has gone too far. They have impinged upon the free will of others, of all actually, even their own, and have set up a planet that acts out their own dominating mindset.
Me: Yes, that's why I worry about the attempts made to free the people, because these attempts are still about domination through war.
Ivo: They did not start it, my love.
Me: True. And because that's the system right now they have to play the game the way it is. Or do they?
Ivo: No. There is higher light coming using more metaphysical techniques to change this planet. Those plasma webs that Gina Colvin Hill is seeing, for example is not the web plasma giving birth to dark matter, it is web plasma absorbing dark matter.
Me: It did look like it was coming out from underneath the web plasma and being released.
Ivo: It was being absorbed by the web plasma, transmuted as it were. You believe it was giving birth to this dark matter but in fact it was transmuting it.
Me: Okay, and thank you for not calling it “my planet”. I don't feel so responsible when you do.
Ivo: You are welcome, my love.
Me: My point is, if it's the nature of the negative polarity to be dominating, controlling and manipulative, then what's wrong with this planet? You're expecting a negative polarity entity to act like a prima donna? It's in their nature to create what we have here.
Ivo: Yes, it is. However, it is in the nature of the positive polarity not to be submissive, controlled and manipulated, yet you see this happening all the time. They are not acting according to their true nature, although the dark ones are. There is imbalance. The balance must be reset. The positive polarity must be re-strengthened on your planet and people then will be given the opportunity to choose how they wish to ascend, because they will be able to ascend.
Me: There are so many things going through my mind when you're talking, and I can't convey them to the audience because I can't remember them.
Ivo: I say only what needs to be expressed. There is much that I think of and you hear this, however, what I say is what needs to be said.
Me: True. So we're enacting a process of strengthening the positive polarity.
Ivo: Yes, within yourselves and within Gaia. And lessening the negative polarity.
Me: Now this book says that the negative polarity has to have a grade of 95% bad in order to ascend to the next consciousness level. But for the positive polarity the passing grade is 51%, which you have told me. I can be grouchy 49% of the time and still ascend to the next level of consciousness. But I think I've gone past that.
Ivo: Your body is holding you back.
Me: Yup. That's why they polluted us, of course. With a body that works 24/7 ascension would be assured.
So if the dark ones have to have a 95% passing grade and the light ones have to have a 51% passing grade, does that mean the dark and light is evenly distributed on this planet, or does it default to mostly light?
Ivo: Yes it is balanced. There is 50% negative and 50% positive on a third dimensional planet. That is why third dimensional planets are so highly visited by light beings, and there are those upon them who learn the service to others orientation living on these planets. Which will lead to their ascension. However, on earth, so many people have been disempowered for so long, they cannot help others who are struggling. It would be a completely different scenario if in fact the light and the dark, the positive and the negative were balanced but of course it is not right now.
We must remove those who are impeding the natural process.
Me: Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: My love, you are most welcome. I wish you a fine day.
Me: Will you stop it! He's speaking in code!
Ivo: Would you have me say what I am really thinking then?
Me: I know what you're thinking, but I doubt the listeners would. LOL

The Defended Ego


I just heard this on a show. And it's just an example I've heard, there are many times I've heard something similar in the past. This is from my list of 365 useless behaviours.


“You say things like, "He's a great guy, isn't he? He speaks very highly of you." I just heard that in a conversation with a high ranking American official. What's the guy supposed to respond with? "No, you're wrong. He's a dirt bag and I can't stand his guts!" This is all lying, folks. All of it. You're stacking the deck so that this man's response cannot be honest. You're putting him on the spot.


We all lie, all the time to create a good opinion of ourselves, it's so woven into the fabric of how we interact with each other and has more to do with saving face and looking good than it does with being honest. This sends a message that both parties don't really want to know the truth. You're putting someone against the wall by demanding a one-sided opinion and that they agree with you.”


It just goes to show how defended the ego truly is. What's it defended against? Speaking the Truth, that's what! Knowing the truth about ourselves and how we truly feel about others. If you don't know how you truly feel, or how you truly feel about others, how are you going to set appropriate boundaries?


Frankly, it's hilarious for me to watch people putting out videos claiming to want to put the Truth forward for others to hear, but then they carry on with conversations that show how defended their ego's are. Yeah, nobody's perfect, but we have to start being honest with ourselves. When we're honest with ourselves, we can be honest with others and let's face it, this world needs more honesty. If it hadn't been for the dishonesty that so many are complicit of, the DS would never have gotten to the position they have us in now!


Perhaps this person would have preferred to respond with, “I don't make a point of talking about others who aren't present,” but then knew that he was on camera and that he has to make a good impression of himself, so he played the game and responded with what the public would want him to say. He didn't put the host on the spot like he had just been.


Why would you trust someone who plays games? How ironic.


With honesty, deception doesn't happen and if we want to change this world and stop this kind of thing from happening again, we're going to have to learn to be scrupulously honest with ourselves and others. We're going to have to stop being nice, for starters. Which is what this conversation is. It's a nice conversation with two people being nice to a third party. By the way, it's best not to mention others in conversation. Why talk about someone when they're not in the room? For many people, triangulation often goes south quickly and black magic happens when gossip starts.


We spend our time NOT saying what we want to, and learning how to play games in conversation. Then we go home and complain to our spouses about what a lousy day we had at work. No wonder. Imagine how much better you'd feel if you could be honest all the time. It's our lying and deceptions that lower our frequency.


Me: Ivo, what could be the ramifications for people who indulge in behaviours like this?
Ivo: They do well at cocktail parties, my love.
Me: LOL. Schmoozing. Absolute fakery.
Ivo: In fact, your world is very defended against speaking the truth, my love. Very much so. You do not realize the tangled web you are living in, at least many do not, some are beginning to understand now. The truth is the only way forward. And it may not be to everyone's liking because it would be considered anti-social behavior. But truth is the only way.
Me: I've told people straight out that I don't like them.
Ivo: And perhaps this is a bit direct but nonetheless, I know you, you are a seeker of truth and Light because you realize that that is your path to me and your path back to what you consider to be sane. It is. The insanity you are all living now is because of the web of lies that you all live.
Me: I remember poor Kylerand, the young Pleiadian who Commander Zorra sent to work with me in Dulce base. For a few minutes every day Kylerand would be shocked and amazed at the way that I interacted with him. He thought it was crazy the way I would ask how he was when he'd only seen me the day before, and in light of the fact that the Pleiadian state of love they exist in really doesn't waver from day to day. I think he felt compassion for me.
Ivo: It was an eye opener for him, to be sure. He has never had direct exposure to any earthling and he finds you all highly illogical.
Me: Yes. You say one thing yet do another. We try to do things and the reason you try without accomplishing anything is our lack of power. I can think of all the diets I've been on and how it took willpower to accomplish any weight loss. I could do it. I was good at it. I don't even know why this example came up LOL but I'll go with it. Now that I look back at it, this dieting was a way for me to learn to use my own power. One time I even lost 30 pounds through creative visualization. I was reading Shakti Gawain's book and spent time meditating to lose weight and it worked.
Ivo: Indeed. My love. This is part of your empowerment, and part of the process of empowerment for so many others: weight loss. However you must understand that the reason you have a weight problem in the first place is that the foods you eat conspire to create that weight gain within your bodies. You are in fact fighting the system which is overtaking your body.
Me: We got off topic again. Oh well. The topic is that we lie to create a good opinion of ourselves. So that must mean we care more about what others think about us than we do ourselves, because if we cared about ourselves, we wouldn't lie.
Ivo: Exactly. Lying reduces your frequency. The truth raises it.
Look through examples of how you interact daily with others, particularly in false environments such as the workplace.
Me: I can't think of how many times I said hello to the CFO when I was really thinking the company was a bunch of money sucking chiselers that should pay me more.
Ivo: Your world is noted for its cheap labour.
Me: I'll bet. But you smile at CFO, the CEO etc etc so you can keep your job because you have to pay bills. Talk about insincerity. And that's the defended ego at work.
You smile and say hello to your neighbours when in fact you really want to tell them to keep their music down at night time so you can sleep. But you don't want to create a fuss, so you say nothing. You want to appear to be Mrs Nice Lady rather than being honest and perhaps working out a compromise with your neighbors.
I've stopped doing that. I can honestly say there is only a few neighbors around here I haven't had words with. I've asserted myself with most of them and they hate my guts. So be it. I don't care about being disliked. I care about Ivo and Ivo is on the truth timeline for me. So I speak my truth. I don't let anyone take advantage of me because in the end I know I will lose face with the most important person – myself. So I speak up.
If people start having a fake conversation about the weather, for example, complaining about the snow or something, I try to find something positive in it. “That just makes summer all the more enjoyable. Have a nice day.” Then I leave.
If some stranger starts a conversation with me and it's a complaint like I used to get the bus stops all the time and man I love my car! Boy do I ever! If a stranger complains to me, I'll probably look at them and turn away and not say anything. Misery enjoys company but I just don't make time for others' crap. They can fester in it themselves. I'm being honest by sending a message that I don't make time for conversations like that and I don't enjoy them. I'm not saving face because the next time that person sees me, they'll talk me down to their friends. That's their choice. They could learn a lesson and start to understand that there's a better way to live.
I met this one person who wanted to be friends. So I went over to their house and they spent about two or three hours obsessing about their ex. They got a “Dear John” letter. Sorry. No time for that. There's more to me than a pair of ears. I'm being honest. If they're hurt maybe they need to look at that. I'm not going to keep visiting them just to look nice and save face. Life is too short for that.
Had I been that man in that interview I was referring to, I might have said something with a smile on my face like, “What do you expect me to say?” I would have called him on his game, but then, that's the problem with the defended ego, we won't get back on his show anymore if we embarrass the host with that level of honesty. Yet, in fact, the viewers are looking for honesty from the guest. Turns out they didn't get that either, because I could tell he was lying. But in this case he was lying out of a need to do so, not out of whimsy. He wasn't able to divulge the truth.
Ivo: Earth has a long way to go, my love. Absolute honesty is the only way forward.
Me: Yes. And being around people who don't even realize how badly they're lying makes me crazy.
Ivo: Send them love, my dear.
Me: I know. I just want to put the message out to people that if you want to catch yourself lying, watch when you're interacting with particularly strangers, when you're socializing and when you're being nice. Be careful of being nice. You're trying to act in an acceptable way and this is the defended ego. You're trying to create an impression of being a great person when in fact you're just like the rest of us, you've got your baggage. We all do. If we'd all acknowledge that rather than trying to hide it, we could drop with this social stigma of appearing to be non-conformist.
You don't have to come across to someone right off the bat by declaring your diagnosis, although I've known people who have done so, but you can be more honest up front. Not revealing your truth if you even know it, is a question of fear. And this is a time for all to have courage. You have to understand the defended ego is trying to keep you from developing intimacy with others. So we lie to look good, but to keep ourselves separate from others. I have dispensed with a lot of that. If I hadn't, these video's wouldn't be out all over the internet. Many people know me who are absolute strangers. They also know I have many boundaries and expectations of how I expect to be treated. It works. You can still find friends that way.
Ivo: My love, you have done well. You are a beacon of truth for this planet.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: I love you.