My cousin, who's a pro-masker, posted this. I had a fit when I read it. There was more, but I was struck by this person's attitude and their denial of the fact that anything could be worse than World War 2. This post came out of Holland, which suffered terribly during both world wars, but clearly there is so much denial and minimization (which is egotism!) in this writing.
First of all, just because World War 2 was bad and so many people died, do they deny it could happen again? And what's more, look at their technology then. Look at the planes they were flying and the guns they used. We've gone nuclear since then, and at the end of World War 2, there were two bombs and now I'm hearing three, that were unleashed on Japan to get them to capitulate. Never mind now we have access to scalar and laser based weapons. C'mon! Give me a break!
There is fear all over this. Complete and total denial of their fear. Part of it reads:
In 2020, many of us will live comfortably, have access to multiple sources of entertainment at home, and can peacefully survive another pandemic with government support.
But people complain because they have to stay home for several weeks. Yet they have electricity, telephone, food, hot water and a roof over their heads.
Humanity has survived much more dire circumstances and has never lost its zest for life.
And we've been complaining for days because we have to wear masks to enter supermarkets, to shop, to take public transport ...
It may be time to be less selfish, stop complaining and whining.
I responded with more than this but I had some very clear objections to this minimization of the problem at hand:
Yes, people complain they have to stay at home for weeks. They do.
They also complain when the cops enter their home and beat them for not wearing masks - in their home along with family members.
They also complain when they organize a wedding of ten thousand people and the cops come and break it up.
They also complain when they can't go to church, and because their children are sucking in their own carbon dioxide.
They also complain when these children end up sick in the hospital from re-using their masks.
They also complain when schools make children “earn their air” through a point system that allows them recess break if they score high enough.
They also complain when anti-virus test subjects DIE after receiving the vaccine.
They also complain when bars close at 10 p.m. because apparently the virus gets worse after that time.
And they also complain about information governments issue to help us through this crisis – like the glory hole usage sheet that's been circulating. I kid you not. A Canadian politician told people to use glory holes to have intercourse with people who are not family members. So here's your partner of many years, a boyfriend or girlfriend who you don't live with, and you have to have a piece of cardboard with a hole cut out to fit his penis through? I kid you not, people, they actually said that!
And the worst complaint – they complain that they have to wear masks when politicians and other so-called VIP's publicly flaunt the fact that they don't.
Yeah, let's just stop objecting to what's going on and be happy that they're jailing us for being human.
The other thing... what about people who DON'T have a roof over their heads? The homeless. What about people who DON'T have enough to eat, with a virus or without. The people who were starving BEFORE the virus was unleashed upon us. Where does this post take them into consideration? This is typical of the blind sightedness of many people who are so selfish, living in comfort, who don't think for a moment beyond the end of their noses to see that there are people in this world who are already badly off. This is what I was saying before: that there are people whose needs are met who don't consider the fact they're only speaking for themselves and not looking at the homeless and disadvantaged. They're so bloody selfish it's not funny anymore!
How is the covid plandemic affecting people who don't even have these comforts? Is it making their lives any easier? I'll bet it isn't.
This stance is typical of a person who's in denial of the fact their life is being taken away from them. Their normal is gone. “Well, let's just adjust to it,” they say, “It'll only be for a few weeks.” This has been going on for seven months, so where are they getting temporary out of this? The skewed thinking of this person really baffles, and frankly, infuriates me. What this person is talking about is survival and they even mention the word “survive” in that excerpt. Staying at home, watching TV, hot water and roof over their heads, and grocery shopping. What part of that sounds like having a life to you? You can't even invite people over to your house unless you both wear a mask. Give me a break! Zest for life? You're talking about survival! That's not a life!
And speaking of staying home.... I live with several homes very close to my own. I don't have 5G wifi, I got a cheaper package that doesn't use 5G. I turn my modem off at night time. I don't own a TV. I only use my laptop and have a cell phone that I never use. I can't say the same for my neighbours. They all have 5G internet, cell phones in their pockets and TV's. So the EMF's around here have to be off the scale. And we're sitting at home for weeks in this toxic radiative soup. Yeah, that's real healthy. Has it ever occurred to anyone that staying in the same place all day, subjecting themselves to these circumstances instead of perhaps getting a break from it by going elsewhere, could produce health problems or exacerbate problems that are already there? I've heard that male fertility levels drop when constantly exposed to EMFs, for example.
And then the grocery stores. You have to drive around and see where there aren't any line-ups. And yes, winter's coming, except for places like Texas who already got it I see, and we have to stand outside in line-ups at the bank and outside the store. Elderly people, children, have to stand there and freeze while we wait to get our groceries.
Me: Ivo, what do you say to all of this?
Ivo: There are some people who are aware, my love, and you are one of them. It is difficult for you to be so aware at times, when others are not. (chuckling) You are not only aware of the Covid problem, but also the denial mechanisms the ego uses to deal with this.
Me: That's a good point, Ivo. If people didn't have these denial mechanisms, they'd have nothing to safeguard them from seeing the truth. (I'm talking about minimization, blaming, and denial which were abundant in this post. The writer is also on the victim triangle, making anti maskers the perpetrator and themselves the victim. The rescuer would be the governments, or so they think!)
Ivo: This is correct. It is the global denial that keeps people believing they are, yes, better than others because they are so virtuous. You see the virtuosity in this victim's stance. You see that they feel that complaining shouldn't be done and that...
Me: What I see is they think that people who do complain and protest are just whiners, who whine for no good reason. Of course we're not!
Ivo: Yes, that is an insult. You do not have to personalize it, however. This person is afraid to see the truth. They will hold onto their victim stance as long as it does not make a worse victim of them. The moment they feel further victimized, they will begin to question what is going on. You see, that is the perspective of those who accept these restrictions: they are used to such things. And they do not want to make a fuss because they believe things will get worse.
Me: Yes, there's fear behind what they're thinking.
Ivo: Completely motivated by fear. And those are the ones who will comply with what is done to them – they will not rock the boat.
Me: I remember I learned the lesson of submission a long time ago. When you say nothing, it's as if you're allowing it. You always have to speak up and represent yourself. You have to tell people of your boundaries otherwise they'll just continue with their power over others self centered agendas. Unless you let your voice be heard, they'll continue to do as they please thinking you're not objecting.
Ivo: Correct. And that is what the deep state is counting on, my dear. People like this. They did not, however, see the global reaction coming. They can deal with it, but they did not see a reaction of the magnitude that has been.
Me: And will continue to be.
Ivo: Throwing rocks at police as was done in Spain. Burning down and razing of buildings. This has all been done by the people of earth in reaction to this control program. There are easier ways to change it, but people will do as they will.
As for you, it is best if you stop reacting the third dimensionals. If need be, eliminate everyone from your profile that is a masker. It is best to learn how to deal with provocation and in this post of this morning, you were insulted at the implication of the writer who believes that anti maskers are fighting for nothing and that they know better. If it is necessary let your cousins go. Keep on Rosa, Fred, Nick and anyone who posts nothing about wearing a mask and that “you're all in this together.” Of course you are not in this together. Each has his own individual timeline and there are some who are of higher frequency than others.
As for you, you must stop allowing the third dimensionals to provoke your anger. I understand that as a child you experienced people as overwhelming and were expected to be compliant. This is why you will not comply now and are a fighter, but in the same token you must stop experiencing people as being more powerful than yourself and reacting to it. This also is a loop from your past. Understand what it is you were feeling when you were a child.
Me: When they were gaslighting me?
Ivo: For example. You would admonish yourself for speaking out. This in fact created the bypass around your throat chakra which took many years to resolve. It is natural for a person to assert themselves, but sometimes it is not worth it.
Me: Got it.
Ivo: There are many things you still do to compensate for your lack of power as a child. Forgiveness for this and understanding of this condition must be worked on. When you write the paper you are storing up my tips in, we will discuss this.
Me: Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: I suggest you let your cousin go. This morning you had trouble with fibro knees. I will tell you that if you allow stress into your life, it will not go away.
Me: True. Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: My love, I want you back. More than anything in your world, I want you back. But you must come to me – you must raise your frequency to the fifth dimensional one I am at so we can leave earth together. I will take you home.
Allow them their opinion whether you like it or not. Stop controlling their opinion of you.
Me: I was going to put up a sub title called, “Why do you care anyway?” LOL
Ivo: My dear, I wish that you would do your meditation. I know that when you feel better, you do not do your regular spiritual maintenance.
Me: When you have chronic fatigue, Ivo, you tend not to be very regular in the “taking care of yourself” department. That's part of the reason you got that way in the first place – because you let yourself become overwhelmed with stress.
Ivo: Which is why I ask you to do your meditation.
Me: I will. I get what you're saying. I have to become more diligent about caring for myself, especially given that I'm aware of the multi-dimensional self and how it requires, well, cleaning for lack of a better word, of negative energy.
Ivo: Now that you are being defensive, my dear, we will get on with that topic.
Me: Ha! Got me!
Ivo: Would it have been so difficult for you to simply agree, rather than becoming defensive and making excuses for yourself? I understand that you are fatigued and that doing many things is difficult, but now that you are not eating so much sugar and feel by far better, perhaps it would be time to create a program of regular energetic maintenance for yourself.
Me: Yes. Agreed.
Ivo: Why do you always have to argue?
Me: I'm on earth.
Ivo: That will not do, my love.
Me: LOL Probably because I feel you're pointing out a flaw and my ego doesn't want you to think I'm anything but perfect.
Ivo: Your ego is far from perfect, my love, but fighting me when I ask you to do something good for yourself is very imperfect. You realize that is why I ask you to do it.
Me: Yes. You're tired of seeing me suffer as well.
Ivo: For example. And because I love you. So you see your ego is a fighter.
Me: I realize that. I have an aggressive side.
Ivo: It is interesting that you have only two sides in your psychology: passive and aggressive. Perhaps you can create some new sides such as accepting and allowing. You do not have to fight everything. I realize you are a light warrior and that has filtered down to your personality in this way, however you can allow. The warrior knows when to fight and when to allow.
Me: Sounds very Zen, Ivo.
Ivo: You have good senses, my dear, you are capable of sensing lies very readily. But I feel you resist me when I ask you to take care of yourself. And I believe this to be habitual because you feel life is very harsh on earth and that you must defend yourself. You do not.
It is best to practise allowing. Try it. Allow something. Yesterday when Merlin ran around the coffee table and ripped your SAD lamp out of the socket and broke the plug, you allowed him to run because you were in meditation. So you did not try to stop him. Even though he broke a $50 item you now need to replace.
Me: That's why I don't let him in the car unless he's caged, by the way.
Ivo: But you thought about it afterwards and realized you have a wild animal living with you in your home so you must have some patience.
Me: I see mom and dad talking to him as well sometimes. He's staring at them. I know they're speaking to him. I think they've done the lion's share of training him to live with me over the last 2 and a half years.
Ivo: I suggest to you, my love, and to all of you, that living with so many on your planet who would attack you at the slightest provocation would make you to be the same. This is what you call a knee jerk reaction and you must look at that. You are reacting mindlessly to many who provoke you. And the dark ones love this. It creates loosh.
All lightworkers have come to earth to change her fortunes, to help those upon her ascend. The way one does this is not by behaving as the earthlings do, but by behaving in wiser ways. When you allow them to forge your ego into feeling as if it is a wounded animal backed into a corner, then you have lost mastery over yourself.
The best thing to do if someone responds to a post is to ignore them. Why? How much sway does this person hold in your life? Does it matter that they do not agree with you? Is this your spouse? Is this your child where their disagreement could possibly influence your life?
It is best to leave those alone who seek only to argue with you. Just pass them over.
Me: I block them if they have that tendency. They're separationists, and many are just looking for a fight and yeah! speaking of narcissism – they see relationships or relating to others as a way of gaining dominance and self importance. How many people do you hear complaining about others as being stupid because they argued with them? Many people have twisted ego's although they're not outright narcissists but I see these patterns everywhere.
Ivo: This is true. When you are defensive against another person, you are allowing them to drag you into the power over others structure. Because now you are assuming the other position, vying to gain your power back, or to gain power over them. It is best to retain your power and walk away. Let me repeat that: retain your power by walking away. That is the true path of the empowered, walking away from a pointless argument.
Letting go. Retaining self control. Not reacting, responding. Your response is to ignore them.
Me: We'll just say as well for those living in conditions where they're threatened with violence, it's still best to leave. Ignoring someone who's violent towards you or your loved ones could cost you. Remember, violence always escalates.
Ivo: Yes. But for the one who seeks to argue on social media or a neighbour, or someone of no consequence to you, let them go. Keeping the peace is the most powerful thing you can do.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: My love. I will remind you of your excuses. I am not attempting to control you; I want you to come back to be with me again.
Me: I know. It's just that I'm enjoying it so much here.
Ivo: Here we are with the jokes now....
Patterns of Anger
Me: Ivo, we were talking about loops a while ago, karmic loops, or repetitive loops, I think therapists call them “repetition compulsions” where you consistently go into the same patterns, experiencing repetition in some area of your life because you haven't changed your response to it. Or as I like to call it, “Oh God! Not this again!”
I'd like to discuss this and also talk about the role of forgiveness when it comes to these patterns.
I want to state to everyone out there, my personality is 4D. My soul is 14D and it knows better, but it's getting the message to the personality, who is of lower vibration and has been heavily traumatized. I'm no saint. I have connected more with soul over my lifetime which has led me to be a better person, but I'm still working through some patterns I've retained from when I was younger. We know we have to leave 3D behind. So it will come calling, hoping this time you work through it.
I experienced 3D again in the form of my male neighbour next door, a narcissistic man who believes he's cock of the walk, and that every woman should get with him because he can apparently deliver a sexual experience no other man can. Uh huh. Heard that before.
My question for myself was, after it became clear that he was abusive, why did I continue to talk to him? And this is where looking at your own behaviour can free you. I know so many of you don't want to listen to these videos. I see the statistics. But I don't care. You all believe that on December 21st, all of earth will be lifted up to the 5D vibration so you have decided that you don't have to do your shadow work because of the Grand Solar Flash and that you believe at this time you'll be liberated of all your sins and you'll even have forgotten all of them as you live happily ever after in nirvana. Has it ever occurred to you that this could be mind control at work? Don't you think for a second that dark ones implant these types of narratives into our community to get you to stop working on ascension? Why is it that so many people have predicted the Grand Solar Flash over and over again and yet it hasn't happened?
Ashtarr has said that only some will go to 5D earth this December 21st. Not the whole planet. There will still be a 4D earth, which is what we've been telling you all along. There will still be 3D earth as well, for that matter.
There are no shortcuts. You got this from the bible? The Rapture, or something. Don't you think the bible has been edited? Who do you think changed it? Why would Jesus have to channel, “A Course in Miracles,” if the bible was his message unabridged? With so many people going to church, Jesus should be happy with that, shouldn't he? Yeah, everyone's getting the message. But he isn't and so he channeled ACIM, and he continues to channel to us today to wake us up! Something's wrong here. Why does Jesus have to keep trying if the message in the bible is correct and so many people read it? Ever think of that. I know I'll get a lot of thumbs downs for saying this, but I say it as I see it.
I think some lightworkers are naive and believe a lot of the bullshit they see going around social media. I'll speak to you on December 22nd. And I'll tell you, “I told you so.” Some will listen, others won't. I'm still loving the one about JFK Jr. showing up at the 2019 Mt Rushmore Independence Day celebration. He didn't, did he? Someone even attacked me over that one; she got angry at me for crushing her dreams. Whatever... I hope she learned.
Are you tired of being disappointed yet? Does being lied to eventually start to bother you or are you just going to tolerate it? I know who's doing it in the community. I see their posts. Oh yeah, how about the Ten Days of Darkness. Didn't happen, did it? Why do you allow yourself to be lied to? I know a lot of people follow this one guy who put up this huge post about it. People, these are darkworkers. Why listen to them? You're not pissed off enough yet, that's why. You still believe the lies. Why do you think that we conspiracy theorists are taking such a beating by the press? Yes, that's mind control, but when you think they've infiltrated our community and planted false information to make us look like we've lost touch with reality, and then we go and believe it.... don't provide fodder for their accusations. Please stop listening to lies!
Let me tell you again: If it hasn't happened yet, give it a second of your attention. If it happens the way the person said, then follow them, they might be onto some hot information. If they continually post these kinds of things – predictions that never come true – do yourself a favour and steer them a wide berth. Some people, including narcissists, love to lie to make themselves look like they're so much better than you are. Lying is a way of life for them. And these liars are in our community as well. Beware of their fake messages and the load of bullshit they spew for the sake of sucking you in. Believe me, they're laughing at you behind your back.
You need to do your shadow work. It's that simple. Just watch. After December 22nd, another false narrative will come out. Well, the rapture was delayed. It'll be the next solstice, March 21st. C'mon! Why wait for someone else to tell you when you're going to get relief from the pain of this place? Do it yourself. It's not that hard when you figure it out. And that's what Ivo's videos are about. Helping you to create your own ascension experience.
Like I said, my question for myself was why did I continue to talk to him after I knew he was abusive? Yes, there are trauma bonds. But good boundaries will cancel these out. What I realized was I was subject to something that many people don't consider when their behaviour perplexes them, and that is “secondary gains.” There was some kind of supposed benefit for me in continuing to talk to him. I had to go back and look at old patterns. Having attracted many entitled, narcissistic men, I realized that I would date them for a few months and then dump them. I attracted alcoholics and drug addicts, and I did clue in to the fact that their behaviour was acceptable to me because I was one as well. However, there was still more and I had to see it. It took a while.
Why did it take so long to see this other piece of the puzzle? Because I had a persona of being really nice, a nice girl. That's what my ego liked to think of itself. That I was always nice and I was always the victim too. I wrote about that in my book, “Stop Being a Victim.” The two go hand in hand. I'm not always nice. I still have warts and I need to look at them because I suffer when my shadow comes out. I was suppressing parts of my personality I'd rather not see. It is to my benefit NOT to see myself as all sweetness and light because then I can't hide parts of my shadow away from me. You have to be careful of that. You suppress what you don't want to see about yourself.
And if you expect me to be nice or unconditionally loving, then I suggest you look at why you expect that of others and not of yourself or even why you expect that of others. Reference criticism.
What I realized is I was in a repetitive cycle of “sticking it to daddy”. I was avenging what he did to me as a child by dating men who were like him and then booting them out of my life. I was after my mother to get a divorce from him, so it stands to reason that this childhood desire morphed into this pattern of dating narcissistic men and kicking them out of my life. So there was my secondary gain: I got to do what I was powerless to do as a child, determine who I would spend my life with. I avenged him. You've got to dig deep, folks, really deep. This is obviously not very fair to the narcissists I dated but then they weren't very nice to me, either but two wrongs don't make a right. And I'm only concerned about my own wrongs.
You've got to look at secondary gain. I remember one guy who applied for a job at the chemical factory I worked at with a “No Nukes” t-shirt on. Geez, I wish they'd have given him the job. His short career would've been interesting. Maybe his dad was a “pro-progress” industrial type.
Do you overeat because your mother admonished you for putting on weight? So you go get a job in a chocolate store (yeah, did that too, but the chocolate was great). Is this your way of avenging her nagging and put downs. By becoming as fat as you can? You're only hurting yourself. Not her. My narcissistic mother pointed out weight gain and tried to control the family's weight all the time because it made her look good. She ate next to nothing herself.
Or like the one story I'd heard about this lovely lady who was Italian and yes, that is pertinent to the story so I'll mention her nationality. She met this guy and married him. Turns out his father hated Italians and his son was so sick of his authoritarianism and prejudice, I believe he married an Italian just to spite his father. Sad for her, though. She was a sweet lady.
Do you shop at places or hang out at places to meet the kinds of people or buy the kinds of things your parents always told you were bad? Can you see how you're trying to stick it to them? To revenge their control over you?
You're angry and you're letting your anger run your life. You're not free. You're caught up in patterns of revenge. These need to be released. I'll let Ivo describe how to do that.
Ivo: This is why, my love, forgiving your perpetrators is necessary. Forgiveness is not so much for them; it is for you. So that you can release your anger and release patterns of revenge in your life. This is you believing perhaps that you are getting them back, but the only person you are getting back at is yourself. Your parents do not realize that you dated these men because they were replacements for your father, and I frankly doubt your father would care. They, as narcissists, have always seen your behaviour as being your fault. They took no responsibility in raising you and they certainly took no responsibility in your adulthood. You were their scapegoat. They blamed everything on you.
What you need to do to forgive is to wish them happiness, joy, love, abundance, health, wealth.... whatever you can think of. Then watch the resistant thoughts come up. And they will. Those are the things you must make note of because they are further angers that need to be dealt with.
Me: Such as, can you give us an example?
Ivo: Perhaps you wish your father prosperity. You wish him to have all the wealth money could possibly buy. Unlimited. Then you hear thoughts of, “If he hadn't spent it all, we would have been far better off as a family.” That must be looked at. Do you really believe your family actually needed more money or perhaps other things instead, such as love and some wisdom. Then you ask yourself how you can give these things to yourself now, as an adult. Because obviously that is not your parents' role anymore.
Me: LOL Yes.
Ivo: If you come up with a response of, “He was so cheap. He never bought me anything. Just one Archies 45 when I was ten.” What are you not looking at? Are you not looking at the fact that he earned all the family's money and were it not for his being employed that you would have gone without much more than you had?
Me: Yes. I was amazed that he knew I liked the Archies when I was ten. That really blew me away.
Ivo: He noticed.
Me: Well, sometimes narcissists notice for the wrong reasons, like so they can torment you with what they know about you, and he certainly did that too, but that surprised me.
Ivo: So for those looking to forgive, you must go through all the reasons you can find that you would not want the utmost of happiness, love and prosperity for the person you are angry with. Because it is for your own sake that you forgive, that you can be released of anger and that you can be released of repetitive cycling of people and lessons in your life.
Me: Yes. What was it the Who sang about, their boss, in Won't Get Fooled Again? Meet the new boss, same as the old boss..... I got that with boyfriends. Meet the new love, same as the old love. Why? Because you're not progressing. So your life looks like a broken record.
Ivo: For those who wish to be free of pain, this is the way forward. Forgiveness. You must be willing to admit that you are at fault in some ways. Stop finger pointing because that does not help. Yes, you were in a less than perfect scenario with others, but you played a part as well. You came to earth to correct these problems, to help to ascend the mindset of those upon the planet, and this is how you chose to help.
Me: Thank you, Ivo.
Ivo: Wish the best for all always. And the same will come to you.
FYI, folks: I was writing the content for this video and the doc file and folder it was in went missing. Fortunately I was able to find it back and am now working off a usb stick. Clearly someone's been rummaging through my files and censoring the content I want to bring to you.
Dictionary Definition of Placate: To make someone less angry or hostile.
From a news article: “Bourla, whose company is in late-stage testing for a potential inoculation, said he understands the public’s concerns about vaccines, which are being developed in record time. He said Pfizer will only request authorization from the Food and Drug Administration after data shows that its vaccine is safe and effective.”
Uh huh. They say they understand...... this has the effect of either infuriating or manipulating the listener. Fact is, the FDA has been passing off chemicalized food as edible for years and then telling us it's good for us. With money as their objective, our health comes in somewhere down the line, but far down. It's not their concern, especially when the NWO agenda is to get us all sick and incapable of living independently of the system. They want us all on it so they can call the shots. Oh, they understand all right, and their mentioning it implies that they've listened to our concerns and have sided with us, when they haven't at all. They know when they put forth their plan they're going to get resistance from some of the public and that's why they already know what they're going to do when this happens, because they understand us. I liken this to a steam roller, driving slowly forward, just squashing all those in its path.
When I say to you, “They understand your concerns,” what does that mean to you? That they're going to comply with them? No. They didn't say that. This slight of hand speech is where they get you all the time. In this particular case, Mr Boula is using such a statement, and the second part might very well be the truth: they will only request authorization when they think it's safe and effective, and then they might count on the FDA to pass it through whether it is or not. Or the second statement could be the truth or it could be an outright lie. Considering our concerns with the vaccine and Big Pharma's track record, would you trust this man?
Ever talk to people at call centers? They're even bad at using these expressions that are intended to placate the public. I really have to watch my temper when I'm dealing with these people who are clearly reading these statements intended to manipulate and placate me from a screen. You can tell they're reading. They don't actually mean it. They just want you to believe it but what they don't understand is they don't come across as being sincere.
As it turns out, does the public look placated anymore? I don't think so.
The other thing they do: exaggerate. I've found out that my province in Canada now has a Covid “epicenter”. We have no sick people here in the east where I live, so where's this epicenter? Must be Toronto.
If someone's done something the public would condemn, they associate others with them in order to cast a negative pall on them as well. These days, people are being associated with the letter after P, and that's code so I don't get censored, because they have a campaign out to bash the letter after P and their supporters. They're trying to hang Trump by saying he's associated with the letter after P. News reporters are asking how he feels about this letter person. Obviously he won't commit to anything.
They put down the other party leader in order to justify their stance. Both sides do it, which is disappointing but well, that's how people operate in our world. Why do you have to put others down if your stance is correct? If it's true, then won't it stand on its own merits? Of course, many people don't think of this. They jump on board because we've all been raised to be victims and we all love to side up with others to put down the bad guy. This is gang mentality. You've been trained in it by the Matrix and it's taken advantage of in the media.
I often get people putting down my work and the reason they do it is to inflate their opinion of themselves. Presumably they're in a similar line of work, or they're just critical. Putting others down is not the way to inflate your self opinion. You get a better self opinion by living up to high standards and being as excellent as you can be.
Stating that the truth is ridiculous and maligning anyone who believes it. The truth is the truth, no matter how absurd it might seem to anyone. It's just the truth. Truth and opinion are two different things.
Nationalism implies you're the same, whether you live in Maryland, or Fresno, because you're all Americans. When someone does something good, your self esteem goes up a few points because you're American too. Please. Everybody is responsible for their own thoughts and actions, you don't piggyback off of the good or bad acts of others in your economic region, which is what a country is folks. Let's face it. It's an economic region. Why would they have individual currencies if they weren't?
This is the opposite of “divide and conquer”. The goal is to unify your opinion into a group that then gets manipulated. There's only one group: everyone. That's the only group. Don't let anyone tell you anything less than that is a group.
I hear so much even here in Canada where we're apparently the nicest people in the world, with the best standard of living, who eat beaver tails. I've never even seen a beaver tail. That's just something they sell in tourist spots to make you think you're eating something really Canadian, so you can have the Canadian experience, whatever that is. Again, you're falling for this ploy. They've created false national foods in order to sell to the public.
They Beat Around The Bush
George Carlin has a great video out where he went into detail describing how politicians placate the public. I'll link it in the description.
Beating around the bush is basically a technique where there are a lot of words but nobody is saying anything. This ends with, “We'll keep you informed,” or “We'll get back to you on this,” and nothing ever happens. It's smoke and mirrors; a magic act that implies something super human has been accomplished where nothing has.
They Inflate Their Importance or their Position
Usually this inflation has something to do with attacking their opposition because in attacking others, they figure they make themselves look better. Don't fall for this one, folks. Just don't. Let someone explain to you what's so great about their position and if that doesn't stand on its own merit, then there's a problem. If they have to attack someone else to impress you, they're not impressing anybody.
In the same way, you can associate yourself with someone who is accomplished in your field. For example, I could brag that my father, an artist, studied under Norman Rockwell, which is true. I don't, though. His work stands on its own merits.
They Flatter The Public
Yup, and you're seeing lots of it now as we approach the election. Abject flattery. Suddenly you're so intelligent, so wonderful, such wonderful patriotic Americans..... when I see things like this going on, a red flag goes up. As for Trump, who continually does this, I look at his track record and let that speak for him because his campaign speeches are full of this schmooze and that doesn't impress me.
Oh yes, here's the big one: My Fellow Americans. Suddenly, you are elevated to the same level as the President. Did you catch that one? You're now as important as you believe him to be.
The Media Takes Things Out of Context
Often what's done is part of a sentence, or an admission by a politician will be associated with another incident. I've seen it time and time again, that excerpts are taken out of context and placed within another context, thereby making the person look extremely guilty of something they probably never did. Be careful watching snippets of video. Make sure that it provides the larger original context as well.
Or, in the family or friendships, have you ever questioned someone who declared, “You said you would do this and that....!” because you realize they're committing you to doing more than you originally offered to? Like that.
Use Indirect Speech
You can tell when the politician turns from, “I will do this for the people,” to “The people want this to be done,” unless there is a stated commitment to do it, be careful. Direct speech starts with “I” and any statement made that is not a committed action statement is suspect of being bullshit. Even then, it may still not get done.
Come Up with Excuses
Presidential platforms before election. How many presidents or prime ministers have broken election promises and gone against their word? They schmooze you with promises of change before election day, then renege on them afterwards because of “reasons beyond their control.”
Blame Others or Insinuate Such
Blaming someone else, or passing the buck.... just watch when trials start. You'll see a lot of people trying to frame their inferiors or superiors.
The big one? Nazi Germany: “I was just doing my job.” That implies they're not the bad guy; their boss was. They were made to do it. When I hear things like this, I know people have to work at taking personal responsibility and stop living their lives on the victim triangle.
They put an investigation committee together which takes so long to come up with an explanation that you forget about the injustice. And the news never reports back on what happened with respect to the Sally McNally case, or the crash of Airflight 893. You never find out because they don't follow up or they're busy hiding the fact that the Class Action Lawsuit cost them billions.
They Say Whatever They Need To
They say whatever they need to in order to keep smiling in front of the camera and putting you in a position where you put up with them because you have no other choice. That's called being a victim. The political system makes a victim out of everyone. Every last single person. Subjecting yourself to this rhetoric without being able to see through to the facts will make a victim of you. You have to know what they're really doing. Thank God now we have the truthers and Anons, who see the truth and present the facts with no schmooze speak to confuse people.
They Water Down
By watering down, I mean they use language that lightens the severity of the subject. They make light of it, not giving merit to issues that really deserve it.
Last but Not Least, Outright Blatant Lying
Weapons of Mass Destruction. Need I say more?
I did not have sexual relations with that woman.
The GST is a temporary tax. (Brian Mulroney, Canada 1991)
Many of these tactics can be watched for also in personal relationships. If someone's using them, they're trying to snow you. For example, if I told you that I went to school with Mike Myers, you might think I was a riot. If I told you I studied for years under Sylvia Browne, you'd instantly want to think I'm a great psychic. Because that's what I'd be trying to get you to think. I'd be wanting you to make this association, and it's done all the time in politics.
In this election time, you have to be wise to these tactics and search for the facts. Let the facts speak for themselves; don't let the fancy talk manipulate your opinion.
Indifference: Does reacting mean you care or does it just mean you're reacting?
Me: I should channel Alan Watts LOL. Ivo, can we discuss reacting please?
Ivo: We can indeed. My dear, and to all of those who watch these videos, I want you first to understand a lesson that Sharon has learned today. Sharon is healing from CPTSD and is now in the last parts of her healing. She regularly discovers old trauma wounds in her auric field and, with the help of others around her, she heals these wounds.
It is particularly important that she, as well as you, look at her own part in these interactions because the role she/you play is perhaps more important than the role that the other person plays. Certainly to you, it should be. Sharon has learned today that she tends to lower her boundaries whenever relating to others who are dysfunctional. Why? So that she can relate to them in old ways. This causes the dysfunctional part of her life now, because were she to adhere to her good boundaries and not violate her own boundaries, yes, she violates her own boundaries – not others – she would fare much better than she has been. It is that she lowers her boundaries and does not respond in her highest good that she draws these negative lessons closer to herself again.
Me: I'm going to go do the crossword now. LOL
Ivo: It would be best for you to listen, my love. I realize you believe there is nobody there you can talk to and if you want to talk to your neighbours, you lower your standards. This is a bad idea. Your standards are there for the simple reason that they are to protect you from further abuse.
Sharon has also learned that when she lowers her boundaries, when she does not live up to the new values of self care that she knows are best for her, that her shadow comes out to play.
When your shadow releases itself into the interaction, you are dancing with your own darkness. And Sharon realizes the reason she allowed her shadow to come out and play. The shadow creates dysfunction in your life. The shadow should be allowed to express itself when you are alone and in the process of grieving or healing yourself, not any other time. When your shadow predominates your interaction with another, you are asking for trouble.
When you met Glenn, my love, you allowed your shadow to interfere with your best impressions. That bought you three years of living with a crack addicted alcoholic who beat you. Never allow your boundaries to drop. Never stray from acting in your own best interests. Never allow any aspect of your ego to predominate. Also, you must keep in mind that generally you tend to attract addicted, violent, childish men, often with mental illnesses, and this is because your work with your father is not complete yet and because you are the divine feminine still growing in your power. So you must be extremely cautious when meeting new men. For those of you listening, I suggest you go through your history to see what type of partner you tend to attract. And this is the type of person you must guard against unless they are wonderful people who create good partnerships. If they are not, you must do the work on yourself, and guard against the dark's efforts to send them to you to destroy you.
Me: Got it.
Ivo: Unless you understand, you will call forth other situations that will cause you harm. Yes, you attract these people due to your own wounds, however your boundaries are a line of defense, if when used properly, that stave off the consequences of these attractions. Unless you exercise poor judgment and drop them. Do you understand?
Me: See, I told you you had more lessons up your sleeve.
Ivo: I see this is a new lesson for you. You did not realize you had dropped your boundaries, but you had, and now you are expected to interact with this person in a dysfunctional way that you had previously gone beyond. Do not allow yourself to drop your boundaries. And if you do, suspect your shadow is looking for a chance to create chaos. This is the first lesson today. My love, it would be best for you to create a list of which boundaries you dropped and how you can shore them up again.
Always use errors to learn from. That is an important lesson as well. Mistakes are only mistakes when they are not used to gain self empowerment. When you lower your boundaries, who is in control, and what is this showing you about yourself? Why do you defect your Light and cross back to the dark side? What is still inside you that needs to be transmuted?
Today's chosen topic was indifference. You asked if reacting meant you're just reacting or do you care? These are two different topics. Indifference would imply one does not care.
Reaction implies that one can care but does not care about the self as much because they allow themselves to get caught up in an extreme emotional state. Perhaps this state is anger, or perhaps anxiety, or fear. Negative reactions indicate you are not caring for yourself as much as you should be. We ask always that you wait to respond to a situation, and then respond in a fashion that indicates a higher state of emotion.
When you react to everything put before you, you are reacting to what has already been created rather than creating that which you wish to respond to.
Envision a life where you would have no chaotic moments and that a natural response to everything would seat you in the best of frequencies. Imagine that. How close are you to creating that life for yourself? Yes, I hear Sharon's (Tiannia's) mind complain that this world does not meet your needs.
Me: For example, I love to give to people but when I do, they start thinking they can have access to all parts of me, even the ones I haven't specified. If I give people fire wood for their barbeque somehow this equates to, “She wants to have sex with me.” If I share my canned broccoli soup with someone, somehow they believe that, “She wants to have sex with me.” This is firewood and broccoli soup, not sex. If I wanted to have sex with them I'd say so, and I didn't.
Ivo: My love, earthlings are in a very depraved state of existence right now. You have to beware that you are dealing with people who are not in their proper state of mind. Some people are obsessed with sex because the ego runs their sex lives and the more conquests they have, the better they feel about themselves. Many people's minds are grossly twisted in order to create these illogical states within them.
Me: It's as if, when you're generous, that's it. They have full access to all of you. They can take whatever they want.
Ivo: And the need to dominate and control also is part of this illogical way of thinking as well.
Me: Well, he's been skulking around here again, Saturday night, Sunday night again so he's going to get told and he's going to get an ultimatum. That's what I've decided. I'm tired of putting up with his obsession with me.
Ivo: So be it. He may well be around tonight as well.
Me: We're going to have a talk at the door. He won't get in here anymore. I don't feel safe with him here and it's my house.
Ivo: Imagine that you live in a world where the only place you feel safe is your own home, rather than the entire world, which is your home. Many of you feel that way.
Me: Yes. I do. I'm sure I'm not alone.
Ivo: When you have boundaries and think before you respond, then you behave in the most healthy fashion possible for where earthlings are now. When you think about what they are saying to you and respond in a healthy way, then you are not confusing them. They will be clear on how you feel about them.
Me: I know we were discussing being boundaryless, but I don't think it's possible to be that way in duality. Perhaps in singularity, I can give all I want to everybody which is what I want to do, but here in duality you just get all sorts of strange reactions. Now I know why people donate anonymously. I've seen stories of people wanting to thank their donors and the donors are like “Na-uh”. They remain anonymous, otherwise they get hit on constantly for more and more and more. It's the only way you can stay in control of what you want to do and not have to deal with being hounded for more and being taken off your objective. Because let's face it, with someone pestering you all the time, trying to break down your boundaries with manipulation and “love bombing” (Oh, you're so nice, I really love your hair and your coat is so pretty.... yeah, I've heard it all) it's annoying. Insincere and flattering. I can sense these out from the get-go.
We live in a world where everyone is a minion of a system that is trying to disable you. I totally stand behind that statement. They're trying to get one over on you, they're trying to one-up you, they're trying to be more powerful, dominate and have control over you. If you provide some kind of thing that they want a supply of, then they will turn on the control attempts even moreso. Some people have walked away and gone beyond this system, but the system is nipping at their heels, trying to pull them back in. That's been my experience, anyway.
Ivo: Which is another point you brought up, my love. His insincerity. His flattery. You understand he is only saying these things not because he means them, but because he is trying to reach an objective. And lying to you, he feels, is the way to get there. You understand that earlier in your life this might have worked.
Me: Oh yeah. One guy's asking me what my favourite type of jewellery was and when is my birthday? That worked too. And I was mad afterwards when my birthday came and went and he didn't even acknowledge it.
Ivo: You sense the insincerity, you say. You hear his lies. You hear how he flatters himself which, from experience, you also know to be a lie. There is no man on earth who feels he is a rotten lover. They all say they are and they must do this to try to sell you on their service. What you are being exposed to is constant lying and negative energy and that is another thing that you tire of. You are being pummeled by lies, so this is the mental aspect, you are being pummeled by negative emotions – your own when you do not believe him and his when he is trying to hide how badly he feels about himself. If he, in fact, felt good about himself he would respect you yet he does not. So you are insulted, you are lied to, and then subjected to his negative emotions about himself which you also pick up on, and then metaphysically he is draining your energy. This is an energy vampire.
We sit and watch as we know these things will affect you to the point you will change your mind about your friendship with him. It does the same with everyone upon earth (she will not allow me to say “your planet” anymore so I will say “earth”) and the same process is in place when it comes to Awakening. As more and more people are subjected to the truth brought out by the Lightworkers and the Alliance, the more they are awakening. Why? Because of the higher light quotient on your planet now, and because of the fact that they are also of a higher frequency than they were even a year ago.
Me: I wish it'd affect my family. It doesn't seem to be.
Ivo: Your family is very low frequency, my love.
Ivo: People in general are not falling for the lies, they sense the insincerity put before them, they are affected by the changes that have been made to control them. Trying to control people whose light quotient is rising is putting the cart before the horse. They should have tried it perhaps fifty years ago when the earth's light quotient was so low; it may have been more effective.
Me: They tried it in world war 2 and that only worked for so long.
Ivo: Your people were put to battle. The battle now is over your consciousness. As was recently channeled, this is an information war.
Me: So far.
Ivo: My point is, the more they attempt to control people whose light quotient is rising, the less successful they will be. Why? Because people sense hear the lies, sense the insincerity, are tired of the love bombing, and are becoming authentic so they do not want to be told what to do.
Me: Omnec Onec was saying the same thing went on on Venus years ago and they all walked away from the system.
Ivo: It did. And they have a wonderful system now that fulfills the needs of all.
Me: Can I go live there?
Ivo: Escaping your work does not work.
Me: LOL Okay, thank you Ivo. I'm hoping this helps someone. I've gotten good messages from people who have found help in these videos so I keep them up. I try to balance them with Storm messages and updates from Soren on the Pleaidian input, but it's whatever comes up that day.
Ivo: So be it, my love.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: My love, you are most welcome. Keep your boundaries up.
Me: Ivo, he's back.
Ivo: And you have taken the correct route today, my love. You have imagined yourself living in your current apartment for the duration of your time there, which is approximately 5 months, not being bothered by your neighbour's incessant need to try to get laid.
Me: Never mind he told me about his trip to emergency and how they had to call security because he was becoming violent. Great. Another violent man in my life. I suspected as much, and he unwittingly discloses these things to me. He doesn't realize the way women react to news that a man could have an unbridled fit of rage at any time, threatening those around him. I'm going to buy pepper spray. He doesn't seem to see himself as someone others would have to defend themselves against. He's pretty unconscious, that's for sure. Typical, he sees himself as their victim, which frankly, makes him even more of a threat. These people you have to remove from your life gingerly so they don't get angry.
Ivo: Continue to envision a life without him in it for the next 5 months. See yourself living in peace, alone, with no threat from him or anyone else.
Me: I had Athena cut cords yesterday, and I started seeing alien faces around me afterwards. I suspect these may have something to do with his returning. So I asked Archangel Michael to deal with them.
Ivo: So you see your limiting belief, and that is that you have to put up with him for the remainder of the time you have left here.
Me: Yes. And to override this, I envision myself not having to deal with him or anyone else.
Ivo: So now you have a limiting belief about money because you believe that you cannot earn much money, so that you have to put up with circumstances like this, which is not true.
Me: I'm changing my relationship to what I feel I deserve. Which is another thing, Ivo. I see so many people talking about money in terms of how much they feel they deserve. Is that really the case?
Ivo: Not really, my love. Your abundance equates to how much love you feel you can amass on this planet. Your relationships, by and large, have been very unloving and painful, exacerbated by the fact that you have lived in poverty for most of your life. But love is not always about how much you get from others, but how much you give to yourself. If that is what you feel what you deserve is about, then that is what it is.
Ivo: But, back to the main topic and that is you are never as limited as you believe yourself to be. You believe yourselves to be limited because you have been raised in the third dimensional matrix, with none or little idea of what you are truly capable of attracting or creating with your minds.
As for Sharon, and for the rest of you really, you must be aware that all your lessons are coming to you via the darkness. They are happy to send you energy vampires or others who usurp your need to feel secure, such as this case is, and to keep you off of your spiritual balance. This is the battle you must face every day. The way to deal with it is to know that you are more powerful than they are.
Me: In this situation, I consider the ideal outcome as being left alone.
Ivo: There may be better options, but if you are satisfied with this, then so be it.
Me: There's nobody around here I want to talk to. I'd love to be able to talk to some real people but I'm not interested in talking to my history and not my future. These people are in my past. They are my old lessons and I've learned them.
Ivo: You still need to accept that these types of men exist instead of fighting that fact. You are often exasperated, exclaiming: “Another one! Here's another one of these people!” Do not react to them. Accept that they exist as part of the Matrix.
Me: I've always found life on this planet to be stupefying, now more than ever, I might add. It's always been a “Holy crap!” experience for me. Unbelievable at the best of times. And in all of it, I have found that people are remarkably similar.
Ivo: They are. This is conditioning. Individuality is a much sought after condition, however rarely practised.
Me: I get rid of one abusive male only to have his spot taken by another. Now I've got two to deal with.
Ivo: And I said that the dark keeps the pressure up. So keep the pressure on the dark by envisioning a life without their interference.
Me: Will do. It'd be nice for once to attract someone who doesn't hold the potential to be a threat, either male or female. When you're striving to become autonomous, everyone shows up to try to put you back in line, back in the Matrix. They're always power over others types.
Ivo: And that is the issue, my love. You are living in a controlled theater, with actors who work for the director. These actors are attempting to get you to play your role, and you will not. However there are people who are also autonomous and able to respect your need to be as well.
Me: I've never met any around here. It'd be a refreshing change, to be honest.
Ivo: So now you must stop reacting to these actors as if you are their victim. Do not automatically put yourself in that role.
Me: Actually I didn't. I was hoping to have a normal exchange with him and the other neighbours, but no such luck. Now I see he poses a threat, if not because of his persistence, but now his anxiety attacks, which make him violent. Frankly, I think I have to be a lot more cautious with people than I am. I can't harbour any hope of them actually not posing a threat to me, it seems. I think I need to intervene in my own behalf from the start, and stop giving them the benefit of the doubt. I have no doubt anymore. I hate to condemn people, but the Matrix being what it is, and with me being targeted, I can't afford to take time to get to know strangers anymore. It's pretty sick, I'd say.
Ivo: And so you are done with limitation, then. You say.
Ivo: You are willing to become unlimited.
Me: To the extent that I can imagine myself as unlimited, yes. I'll bet you've got more lessons up your sleeve. Ivo, I already envision our life together next year, and how I'll use that money to help people. I see your ships landing, and my parents living with us. I see the TV station, I see meeting Ashtar and Ananda on the New Jerusalem. Maybe those are limits but they're good limits.
What I want is for the Matrix to leave me alone and to stop sending its minions to me.
Ivo: So continue to imagine yourself as living in peace, alone.
Me: We'll see how it goes. Tonight is Saturday and that's when he's going to drink. He'll wait for his wife to go to bed and try to come around here. I can't be up late. So I've even lost that freedom – the freedom to stay up on Saturday nights – but then going to bed earlier helps my chronic fatigue. I'm just going to have to tell him straight out that it's not going to happen. I don't care what he does. I don't want him. If he keeps up, I'll have to get a restraining order and say he's stalking me.
Ivo: Imagine yourself living peacefully, alone.
Me: Yesterday, I re-started white lighting the houses around here too. Archangel Michael told me to do that. Keeps all the zeta's out of the neighbourhood. Seriously, folks, I see them walking down the street!
Ivo: Life is about overcoming fear. You limit yourself through your fears. Do not fear.
Me: True. So what you're telling us, Ivo, is you see where you've limited yourself by what you attract.
Ivo: Correct. You have attracted violence again.
Me: Not hard to do in this world.
Ivo: And that is your belief. That it surrounds you everywhere and anyone is capable of it. You believe that because of your childhood home. Now you must begin to believe there are people who abhor violence and are beyond it. They even exist in your neighbourhood. There are people of higher consciousness. It is simply that you do not attract them because of your belief that they are not abundant. This is also a limiting belief.
Me: Got it.
Ivo: Work on your beliefs and watch your life change. The first thing is you must believe that you are worthy of having peace and quiet.
Me: It's 8 p.m. and I've been mulling this over all day. Needless to say, I didn't sleep well last night, and am now really tired from the stress. That's chronic fatigue. I finally figured out what this whole thing is about: It's about my right to say no and have it honoured. This guy can't do that. He keeps trying to impose his own wants and needs over mine and he's doing it because he's objectified me. He doesn't see me as an autonomous person in my own right; he sees me as an object. I think it's the end of the road for us. I can't make a friendship out of someone who is controlling, violent, objectifies me and who ignores my boundaries.
This issue, that of being ignored, goes back to my childhood. I wasn't allowed to say “no” to my parents so I learned to manipulate them. And I hated them. Now I don't have to put up with anyone who doesn't listen when I say no. Obviously, this is still being healed.
Ivo: I might remind those watching this video that Tiannia is going through a process of understanding what is bothering her, then relating it back to undealt with stored pain from her past. By releasing this pain, she frees herself from this life pattern, that of attracting people who are controlling and do not listen when she asserts herself.
Sharon/Tiannia is attempting to understand what is happening and what her reaction is. She is in a process of overcoming some fear, and attempting to understand her reaction, and then to learn to accept these people but to bypass them in future all the same.
Your daily bread, as Jesus called it, holds the seeds of your growth in it. By discussing situations like these as we do, you come to understand yourself and to change your reaction to them, ultimately releasing their attraction for you and removing your limitations.
Be at peace. Ivo
I chose the word “dance” for lack of a better word.
I just got downloaded the complete story. It makes sense. In the last few video's I went through issues with people I've had lately, and this churning up tends to culminate in an A-ha moment, which I think I just had.
The long and the short of it is I don't have an issue with these people. I have to look at the bigger picture. The bigger picture is that I am a lightworker, as are you, and I came here to rid this planet of its darkness. So did you. Suffice it to say, the dark ones have an issue with that. I was gifted with my own personal reptilian until I kicked him to the curb at 40, that's how much they've kept an eye on me. What in effect they're trying to do is to keep you down, to wear you out, and to stop you from ascending, and to the extent that you have the power to defy that, they keep up with their attacks. And I mean non-stop.
The dark and the Light work in tandem as the Light allows you to experience pain in your life in order for you to grow from it. The dark just gives you painful situations in order to try to suppress you, to keep you down, to keep you from ascending, so that you don't grow. It's always your choice what to do with these situations: sink or swim. Use them to grow or use them to further your enslavement to the Matrix.
It's nothing personal, really. The people who abused you, tried to control you, were working under the control of the Matrix system, however, again, the Light allowed them to continue so that you would continue to grow. To the extent that you fight this growth, you slow down the process of awakening.
Those who refuse to wake up in fact are the catalyst for the rest of us to grow from. So perhaps instead of focusing on those who refuse to wake up, wake yourself up more. That's a suggestion. Go deeper down the rabbit hole yourself, or work on your own spirituality instead of focusing on saving others.
For us older ones, the Indigo's and blue rays that came in during the 50's and 60's, you are like heartburn to the dark! The Indigo's are the transmewters of negative energy, which the dark ones are trying to create in order to sustain themselves – energy at a frequency that is palatable to them. Energy at their frequency. You are so powerful you could starve an off-world disembodied spirit of energy. That's how powerful you are. And you've been doing it all your life. So suffice it to say, they're pretty sick of you. They don't like you.
And they will continue with their own agenda of trying to keep you down. To stop you from ascending, because when you ascend, you open the gates for other humans to follow behind you. Which means the death of the dark ones. Their death.
The blue ray is so powerful, the blue ray is the will of God incarnated on earth.
The pink ray is the love ray. Those of the pink ray spread their love around the world, which of course would send the dark into conniptions just trying to control you. That's not what they want!
And so they do. They do their best to control you so you can't ascend. They send you all sorts of people who can cause all sorts of problems for you.
Nothing was ever anybody's fault because negativity is an illusion. Only love is real. I've been here at this realization before, but you get involved in life again, then you lose it. This is looking at it from the observer position, that of the soul. Getting involved in life again from a “first person” perspective sometimes you lose the soul's precious perspective until I guess you get practised at holding onto it firmly.
Nobody's to blame. My issue is with the dark ones. I came here to fight them and to bring the Light to earth. So did you. All people should be forgiven. Don't know if that's going to happen with karma and such, rebalancing of energies, not retribution, but all people should be forgiven because your problem was never with them – it was with the dark. Had people not been influenced by mind control, tags, implants and demonic entities, they would obviously behave a lot differently, more lovingly. So they're not of their right mind until they release all these influences. And it's do-able.
Ivo: Correct, my love. When you have the soul's perspective you realize the truth. The truth is, you are fighting the darkness. The people who have victimized you, or that you perceive as having victimized you, are themselves victims.
Me: Well, that's the victim triangle, isn't it? Where everyone can change hats.
Ivo: Yes. And you went through the process as it was intended. Eventually you pull far enough away from the personal skirmishes to see the big picture. What makes you want to pull away is any number of reactions: from feeling fed up, to feeling the insanity of the repetitiveness and absurdity of not getting along with people on a daily basis, to feeling that there should be something better for you instead of constantly having to deal with problems like these.... all of these reactions move you away from the problem enough for your soul to get her two cents worth in.... that these are all creations of the darkness and it is them you have the problem with. You did not incarnate as a lightworker in order to have a relationship with Sally Jones down the street. Because in her last lifetime she was your murderer; it has nothing to do with karmic rebalancing.
The lightworker has come here to fry bigger fish, so to speak. They have come here to deal with the darkness that has trapped the earthlings for many many years. They are here to deal with the entire problem, not to deal with individual relationships in the karmic sense. You deal with individuals in order to understand the problem and to learn how to cope with the dark problem, however, your problem is not with the individual – it is with the entirety of darkness. So do not get so caught up in relationships that you lose the big picture, that is what I am saying. Look to see who is influencing the person you are dealing with, or if in fact they are a demonic entity incarnated, such as your black eyed ex-neighbour.
Ivo: The dark will seek you out and continue to try to destroy you and your Light, however the more you use its attacks to heal with, the less it can attack you.
The only thing that is real is love. The darkness is false. It requires your energy in order to allow it a place to live. It cannot create; it can only try to destroy. It is not whole. It is the antithesis of life.
Me: What I'm hoping is now that I'm dealing with my chronic fatigue and feeling better, although I'm probably still detoxing, emotionally and physically, that with my return to health my body will better be able to house my higher self and I'll have fewer of these deviations from reality.
Ivo: Remember that the darkness is not real. It has created a false reality with the support of the people. So it is required that they behave in ways not conducive to being a human in order to support this false reality.
Me: Okay. Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, your return to health will support the return of your soul. She cannot readily merge with a body that is toxic, filled with poisons from the food you have been given to eat. Health will return and with it your higher vibration.
Me: That's good news! Oh yes, speaking of not good news, folks, I just learned that the Chinese military has landed in Canada. People are taking legal action; that's the most I've seen in terms of resistance to any of these incursions or Covid matters. People are rioting and the deep state has turned them against the people by including Antifa in the riots. As for Covid, personal lawsuits are being filed with the World Health Organization.
What are we going to do in order to bring the deep state down? What? By the way, there was a Canadian resistance leader who bragged on video about not getting fined after he left the country and then didn't isolate upon returning. He's been charged now because they have him on video. I don't trust the person who took the video. He's probably a plant, a spy. Besides that, don't you think they watch our videos? Don't brag that you're not isolating, folks or that you're not in compliance, because you'll just make it worse for yourself. These days, everyone has a video camera going, don't get caught saying anything that will get you in trouble, unless you want to be. Play it smart. This was irresponsible of this leader to do this. Big ego bragging about what he thought he got away with, rather than thinking of his responsibility to the people he's leading. If you're heading up a resistance movement, don't worry, you're in their crosshairs! They know who you are!
Don't you think these anti-government rallies are being infiltrated? You believe everyone there is of the same agenda? There are police there as a visible sign of the government, but what about the invisible ones? C'mon folks. Wake up. They're scared silly of us joining together and rallying even, so of course they're going to infiltrate. That's what the deep state does. Then they'll take out the leaders so they can weaken the cause.
Dealing With Fears – Keeping the Pressure On the Lightworker
Me: Yay! Pain took a day off today. I had a day where I only almost started crying once. That made me remember that the reason I started stuffing down my emotions when I was a teenager was because I felt that if I didn't, I'd be fated to walking around bawling my eyes out constantly, and of course I didn't want that. I wanted to look “strong”. Well, being able to feel anything, especially the vibration of the entirety of this world's people in one body (emphasis) is being strong. For you other empaths and the Indigo's, my hat goes off to you, and I realize what you're going through, especially now. You came here to clean up the loosh. That means you clear out the food of the dark ones before they get a chance to feast on it, but unless you consciously transmewt energies, you are fated to expressing them. Don't think all that negativity is you; it's not. It's you clearing up this earth's negativity. You're taking the food off the devil's plate and re-energizing it.
We're in a gate right now, 10/10 so maybe the higher energies will abate within the next couple days.
Ivo, I've got a question for you. I've got another one that I've got to deal with and will doing service help me with this?
Ivo: Not with the ex-tenant who is still using your mailbox for his government checks. My advice to you, my love, is not to follow the direction of the police and do not aggravate this man. If he comes to use your mailbox, let him. The police will not be there to help you if he becomes violent because you have an objection to his using the mailbox for his own purposes. The best thing to do is not to aggravate this man as he is violent, as you know, and to simply leave quietly next year.
Me: This place just keeps on coming up with problems. My life has been problematic, to be sure, but this place is the Piece de Resistance. I'm no stranger to violent men, but I don't plan on being beat up by an ex-tenant, one my landlord chose to live here, not me. I'm tired of being a victim of my landlord's poor choices in tenants and so it's time to go. I won't be here next spring.
Ivo: No, my dear. It is time to go.
Me: If any Americans want to see what the ghetto looks like in a socialist country like Canada, just google map Cornwall Ontario. That's our ghetto. It's no fun living here, to be sure.
Now, what about doing more service, Ivo? How can I be of more service? Given my limitations, how can I root myself further in my higher self's boots, rather than being pulled back constantly into fearing for my life again, or having to deal with low vibrational ego's?
Ivo: And the answer to that is, to lose all fear. Do not fear this man child. Do not fear his attack on you. Then you will not energize it. You must look carefully at what you still fear and overcome these fears.
Me: How do you figure out what you fear when you've probably been denying it in some way or hiding it from yourself for so long you have no idea?
Ivo: You ask your higher self to show you where your fears are. She will do so. You ask for help in dealing with them. What is more, understand that interactions you have with others where you react strongly is your fear showing. If you have no fear, interactions will go well. If you have fear, you will have problems or challenges. That is the simplest answer.
Me: Okay, so there's an alcoholic who lives in the apartment behind me. I reacted to him one day when he, yet again, asked me to do canning or bake cookies for him. I know that I don't want to get involved with someone who's like him because these people don't take care of themselves. They find responsible people and begin to mooch off of them. Glenn taught me that one. What they really want is your money. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. First they're so grateful, and then they become abusive and violent as soon as they figure they've got you where they want you. Lived that for 3 years. No thank you.
Ivo: And that is your fear: of abusive, violent men who take advantage of you.
Me: Who wouldn't fear them?
Ivo: When you fear them, you attract them. And as for your neighbour next door, although he is in a relationship, and you are in a relationship with me, he was still attempting to have sex with you. You believe that he is only trying to prop his own flagging ego up, and he is. He is an energy vampire as well as the alcoholic. And so you find you attract men who want to take advantage of you. You have all your life. But you fear this, so you add your energy into it. Set boundaries coming from a place of self love, not fear. That is the goal.
Another situation that you are in that you have not mentioned indicates that you are afraid of crazy people. People who are imbalanced. This you got from your parents.
Me: Yes. Stands to reason.
Ivo: On top of a general fear of negativity. This you would have garnered as a result of having a split soul. And then having to heal yourself of it. You did this throughout your life and now are heavily defended from experiencing it again.
Me: Not all of them.
Ivo: What I am saying is, instead of fearing specific situations or types of people, you fear the non-ascended male and you fear people who are emotionally imbalanced. You must make your peace with the Non-Ascended male, the third dimensional man who has dominated the world and your life at times. All of the divine feminine must do so. And the divine masculines must forgive their unascended selves of their indiscretions while transmewting them to a better version of self. It can be a lot of work.
My love, there are two things men have wanted from you and that is sex and money. Otherwise, they have had no use for you. This is because these men were there to show you how powerful you really are, and the same can be said for now.
What are these men showing you? You must begin to look at the positives in order to know yourself better. Any woman who can put up with a man like Glenn for 3 years is a strong woman. You are adaptable, flexible and patient, perhaps beyond reason. My dear, do you ever give yourself credit for these things?
Me: No! Never. A smarter one would get the hell out of here! Maybe they're showing me how stupid I am!
Ivo: And there you have it. Your tendency to attack yourself when you attract a lesson. You have always done that.
Me: I still wanted to talk about doing more service.....
Ivo: We can discuss this in another video. You have relabelled this one to “Dealing with Fears.” Because you must root out all fears and deal with them. When you remain afraid of the unascended male, the third dimensional male, you relinquish your power to them. The fact that you attract them shows you are connected in some way to them. What you must do is start typing. Use a journal and type all your feelings out about these situations. It is important that you get clear where your fears lie and to release all the energy you have built up around them.
Me: Maybe it shows that they're as common as crab grass is to the side of the road!
Ivo: They are, my love, but if you did not have something to learn, you would not attract them. You would be left alone. That is my point. You would have peace.
Me: Okay, I see.
Ivo: You fear being dominated by these men, so you put up walls. When they approach you, you wall them out. Or you play with them for a while and then drop them.
You must be honest....
Me: I wasn't flirting. I seriously did think we connected for a while and then his ego came back with its little “let's have sex” game. Maybe he thought he was reeling me in by listening to me. I can smell insincerity a mile away.
Ivo: He was. And you must put these senses to better use. You must realize that when it comes to these men, there is no point. Leave them alone. The dark will keep sending you energy vampires. You are an Indigo and they desperately wish to lower your frequency. With a lower frequency, you cannot transmewt what you can when your frequency is higher and so they have done all they can to make you unhealthy, and to aggravate you with everyone around you playing up to nonsense. You are not of this world. That is apparent. But you must let your fears go.
Perhaps the other thing you must realize about these things is that you create problems. Your fears create problems. This ex-tenant is not being a problem. Do not allow your fear to create any. Let him go in peace. You are afraid of the same thing happening as happened when you were 19 and your ex-brother-in-law showed up, trying to break in to your sister's house. You have buried that fear.
Me: I ran for the butcher's knife. I would have used it.
Ivo: And this is still in your psyche. Do you see why you began overeating so much at that point in your life? You were getting a good idea of what you would be attracting after living with your parents for 19 years. Your sister was already beginning to do the same.
Me: True. Violent men.
Ivo: My dear, you have been thrown from the fire into the frying pan so many times you have not had opportunity to work through many of your fears. When you left Glenn, you moved to a woman's home who was malicious and manipulative towards you, and who created chaos in the building. You did not have much time to grieve Glenn, especially when this woman insisted there be no crying in the house! You did not have a counsellor to speak to, and you really needed someone like that but there was nobody to speak to. Your chronic fatigue began then in earnest. It did not help there were Men in Black visits and DEWs attacks at that time. You have simply never been able to rid yourself of old fears. So they continue to haunt you, and you continue to re-create them.
Sharon is not the only one like this. There are many of you who run from situation to situation, sometimes getting worse, sometimes better. But there is little chance of complete healing for you. Do not think the dark ones do not know this. They keep the pressure on you.
Me: You're not kidding. Okay, I'll start a document and talk about these old things still lurking in my energy field.
Ivo: The dark cannot attack you when you have nothing they can deal with. They only can attach to you through fear. When you are fearless, you will not experience any attacks or have to deal with any of these people any longer.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: I realize it is not pleasant writing about the time you held a butcher's knife as a threat to your brother-in-law but you must rid yourself of your fear of violence. When you do not harbour the fear, violence leaves your life. You stop attracting violence.
(If this video is too long, I'll cut it in two and post it all same day)
Never takes long. I've just been up out of bed for a few minutes, sit down to read Facebook, and here someone is offering me advice. I feel irritated because it's more like control than it is advice. When advice is offered under the Power Over Others system, it's not advice, it's control. And I can see this person is not about to stop trying to control me, because he's insistent he's right. He thinks he knows what's better for me than I do. This is not a person I feel like making myself vulnerable with, because if they're so into their own righteousness, I can see where making myself vulnerable would make me wrong in his eyes. This would set me up for being judged and rejected. I can also see this may gear up to an argument, and I don't argue with others. I also insist on being left alone to do my own thing; there is a block button that works to make sure I am left alone to my own judgment, not yours, so I used it.
I don't spend my time explaining myself to controllers. I suggest you don't either.
Stop telling people what to do!!! How many times do I have to repeat this?! People don't want to be told what to do. Unless they specifically ask you, don't offer them advice. Maybe you do know better. When the time is right, they'll ask you. How much advice has been given randomly only to find it not followed? You can't put the cart before the horse. The horse has to get to a certain point before they will understand or can follow your direction. That's when you give them advice – when they ask!!
If you guys think I'm so spiritually advanced, it's because these little details mean a lot to me. I learned them and I practice them.
I'd originally put the post up for the sake of humour, nothing more. And I'm still convinced that relating to others electronically is bullshit. Face to face is the only way to relate to another person.
What part of, “I'm off carbs. I am kicking my sugar habit and honey would be part of that,” says, “Go ahead and offer her more of your wisdom? Keep insisting, she'll give in.” How sensitive are you to responses you get from other people? Clearly not very.
What part of “no” don't people hear in what I say? Why don't they hear the word “no”? Do I have to be rude and say, “I don't want your help,” right from the get go? Maybe I will then. I have all the celestial help I need. Why would I take it from anyone on earth?
I said that I don't do carbs. I'm trying to kick my sugar habit (and it's really working by the way. I feel a lot better already!) and he comes back with the name of a book I put him onto and how the author insists we eat honey. Sure, eating honey. Let me see. I'm a bingeing sugar addict. I've eaten the entire jar in one sitting. And that's not all a real sugar addict can do. A real sugar addict will drive around after work, jonesing for something to shut out her pain. She will drive to grocery stores and pick up Christmas cookies, a whole box, stop at the ice cream section and buy a big box of ice cream, drive around to the donut shop and get a dozen donuts, then she'll go up to the hamburger place and get a burger and fries and then make sure she gets dessert there too. If she doesn't think that's enough, she may make more stops, maybe at the chocolate shop. Then she will go home and start binge eating. She'll stuff herself to the point she can't even think anymore. Turns out, I found out years later that when when you do that, in fact you're shunting most of the blood away from your brain to go to your stomach to digest all you've eaten, so it does bring on a state of relative passivity.
Oh yes, the next thing is at some point, probably hours later, she will get up in disgust and throw all the food away. She'll trash herself out verbally, being absolutely disgusted at what she's done to herself, plus the total waste of money to consider. She'll go to bed. And the next day after work she'll do it again, completely forgetting yesterday and how disgusted she was with herself.
I've never been like that again. After that point in my life, I moved to London, where I was treated considerably better, and although I still used sugar to mood alter, I never used it to that extent again. I taught myself how to be assertive instead and to speak up, and that helped to curb the addiction, but I still have it.
This was me, years ago when I was working at my first job where I was constantly abused. I'd do anything except face my feelings, because I was taught by my parents not to. My parents were also addicted, but not to this extreme. Addictions work in two ways: you either binge, going on rampages of booze, drugs or sugar, or you're a dependent, who never really overdoes it but always seems to have a cigarette or a drink in your hand especially when you feel anxious or feel really anything at all, just to take the edge off. I have been both, addicted in many different areas. If you think someone is overweight, you have no idea what they're eating that you never see.
For many people, advice is thinly disguised control. When you don't stop when I politely tell you that I don't eat honey, why is it so hard for you to understand that I might know myself a bit better than you do, or that I would choose to override something an author said in a book, probably because they've never been sugar addicted like I've been. In the 12 steps, it is established early on who our higher power is, and we answer to that higher power only, nobody else. If it's God, then it's God. Some people choose otherwise. When you have your higher power established, it's easy to see who is vying to usurp it, and then you have to deal with them appropriately.
I realize that in the Matrix people have been taught to be boundary violators. But when I say, “No,” I mean it. Few people listen when others say no. I've watched children saying no to their parents and the parents just going and doing whatever they want with them, whether they like it or not. I've been on the receiving end of that as well.
It's not funny. When someone says no, listen. Why do you always have to put your needs first? This is the problem on this planet. Your need to be nice, your need to give advice, your need to tell others what you know, whatever your need is. Sometimes it's not appreciated and you have to listen to see if people want to hear what you have to say. That takes humility. Precious few of us have it. As for this video, if you want to hear it, then listen. If you don't, then stop listening. That's how you exercise your free will.
Ivo: You have worked hard throughout your life, my love, to tighten up boundaries that were catastrophic at the outset. So many people have aided you in this quest by threatening more abuse. You put them in their place. London was not entirely the sanctuary you speak of – there were abusive people on the Tube as well as that perverted character in Hyde Park.
Me: True. If there's a pervert around, he'll find me.
Ivo: You screamed at him to, “Get the fuck out of here,” when he inched himself within an inch of your backside. After following you around. He did not expect that.
Me: I didn't expect him.
Ivo: But you dealt with him.
Me: London was a lot better than Niagara Falls was. Considerably better.
Ivo: You have worked at shoring up your boundaries to allow your higher self to express herself on this planet. This means you must experience so many situations to become very aware of what healthy behaviour is and what isn't. Quite often, controlling is carried out in the name of advice giving.
Me: I remember they used to go on about that in Codependents Anonymous.
Ivo: Those who tell others what to do are those who believe themselves to be the higher power of the one they tell what to do.
Me: Seems to me I may have put the book he was talking about up in a post, but I didn't tell anyone to buy it. I put up the post and say how I liked it, which is the 12 step way. I don't tell people what to buy unless they seem open to a suggestion. I'm not open to anyone's suggestions. Period. I listen to my higher self, my soul, Ivo, Athena, Ashtar, whoever.... I don't plan to continue to behave as they do on this planet. And part of the reason I do this is so I can pass on what I've learned to you.
There are many people who channel higher entities with etheric messages, but the fact of the matter is, many people don't even have basic healthy boundaries in place. That's what I've found. On top of the bounty of addictive behaviours I see people behaving in, they also have boundaries that reflect the Matrix, not healthy spiritual living.
Ivo: This is true, my love.
Me: I want to ask everyone listening to this, “How much longer do you plan to stay in the Matrix?” How much? Because controlling behaviours like this will guarantee you're one of the small pockets left of a crumbling timeline. And it will guarantee that you will have a painful ascension path to 5D. You need to get serious about what we're telling you. These are the rudiments of Matrix behaviour. You need to root out every possible way you see yourself trying to control other people. And really, when it comes to control, are you going to take responsibility for their lives if what you badgered them into doing doesn't work out for them?
Suppose I did go back to eating large amounts of carbs, like I did when I was in my late 20's? Suppose I did? Is this person who started insisting honey is the way to go (perhaps he's even a foodie himself and he doesn't realize it?) is this person going to take responsibility for my life? For the horrible blunder I would have made?
Perhaps this person is a foodie, now that I think of it. Addicts have an amazing capacity for rationalization and the one thing they can rationalize very readily is increasing their supply. In the same way that one jar of honey isn't enough, two or three, even four on sale and stored in the house “because it was a bargain” is what an addict will do to ensure their supply. With addictions, you have to have a good bullshit detector and you have to learn to call yourself on your own lies.
The fact is, you are always responsible for your own life. Always. If you let someone control you into doing something, they are still not responsible for you – you are. You are the one who will bear the consequences of your actions, not them. That is universal law.
I deal with a lot of people doing this work. I know you guys follow me, either for these lessons or to hear about the Storm, or extraterrestrial activities around earth. I channel on many subjects. You have to see it from my perspective. I care about everyone. There isn't anyone on this earth, not one person, that I wouldn't jump into freezing waters to save. I'd put my own life at risk for anybody. Call me a dumb ass, I don't care, I'd still do it. What do you think I'm doing now, for that matter? It's not like they haven't already tried to kill me. They don't want me doing this work. My hope is that everyone on this planet can learn to live peacefully and happily soon. But dealing with you when you constantly violate my boundaries is exasperating! I have to go through a forgiveness process sometimes daily. I realize that living here has never met my needs. I have a need to just have a conversation with another person and not have to do battle with their controlling nature or out of control ego, and I've seldom ever met anyone outside of the 12 steps where I could have this level of relaxation in a conversation. Seldom. I know I don't fit in here. I never have. I've always experienced people as overwhelming. Now I just don't. Like we were saying, I avoid the loops. I'll talk to someone only as long as the conversation is pleasant and productive, otherwise I'm out.
The Twelve Steps has taught me to pray for the people who offend. Pray for their health, wealth and happiness. So I will. And not to focus on how annoyed you are. I get annoyed because what they've done is just another reminder I'm living on the wrong planet and my needs will never be met here. Few can meet them. Those who do, I love you. I have needs and things I wanted from life but they never materialized. I consider this life somewhat of an exception, even extraordinary. I've gone through life trying to follow “the formula” for happiness and only found pain and disillusionment. So, I'm making the best out of it and trying to create a new world from what I've learned is wrong with the old one.
If you want to know your soul, become autonomous, experience Christ Consciousness, ascend, etc. stop trying to control other people!! It's that simple. Try it for a week. No advice. Scrutinize yourself to see when you're feeling insecure by what someone has said.
Learn to understand what triggers your ego into action.
Ask yourself, “What am I trying to gain from this conversation?” Is it a pleasant exchange, or is it the satisfaction of feeling you one-upped someone, which is a short satisfaction indeed. Are you in the conversation to be competitive or cooperative? Are you in it to create peace or to create war? Which is it? Are you there to tell them what to do or to simply offer a suggestion that they can take or leave? What attracted you to that post? What are you thinking you can get out of it? What are you thinking when you leave a comment?
You have to scrutinize your intentions, always! Also, understand your moods and that they tempt you to fall short of your best intentions.
Ask yourself: “What will my comments or behaviour lead to?” If I keep insisting, how do I expect her to respond? Am I looking for validation from her when I should learn to validate myself, and when I should learn to recognize when I'm in the wrong? Do I recognize there is no shame in being wrong and do I treat others accordingly? Do I understand that being wrong is just a part of the learning process and that there is no shame in not knowing?
Is it someone acting vulnerable that attracts you? Maybe they don't know something? Does this raise your periscope into thinking that it's time to attack?
Is it when someone does something you feel is wrong? Does that get your attention? Does that make you want to attack them? Do you have to smash that laugh emoji and ridicule the poster?
Or are you on social media to inform yourself and to pass on posts to others? Honestly? That's your only motivation? That's good then. You can pass over others who vote for the other party, you can pass over comments that don't agree with your take on things without starting or joining in on a fight.
Or do you go into groups in order to control them? Worse, do you react to trolls? Why?
Or is it just when someone expresses an opinion? Does that make you want to get into an argument with them?
Is it when you think you can add your opinion or information to a conversation? Do you express yourself as your being right and that's the only way it possibly can be? Do you have to make others wrong? Yes, the whole world has to be wrong because I'm the only one who's right?
Or are you a real coward and wait to see who's dominating an argument and then side up with them regardless of your opinion?
Do you feel this is something you know about and you can advise them of? Did they ask you for advice or are you just butting in where it's not your business? One of my niece's friends butted into a conversation I was having with her the other day. I told this woman I'm her aunt and she needs to mind her own business. That's one thing I hate about social media: any busybody can join your conversation whether they're invited or not. How many strangers do you let sit with you at the coffee shop? People you don't even know? One? Two? Ten? Hundreds? No? You've never done that? Then what's up with social media allowing it. For someone like me who experiences overwhelm around others, social media is a bloody nightmare.
Do you assume that everyone's boundaries are the same as yours are and they'll never tell you no? That everything you do is okay? Oh boy! You're in for a rude surprise!
Do you assume for yourself, telling yourself, “Oh, they won't mind.” That's why you should ask first.
Do you misconstrue the conversation and twist it so that you can come out smelling like a rose?
Have you ever thought about how annoying your ego can be to other people? Is that what you want? To be right or to be liked? Are these the only choices you give yourself in life? Do you feel that to be liked you have to be wrong? Or do you think you're so flawed that you always have to be right? It's an appearance you have to keep up.
Watch your ego. See when you get this irresistible urge to jump in. Do you give people credit or do you just think everyone else is stupid and you're the only smart one?
Do you pass on nobody's posts but your own?
Or do you hang out on others' posts so you can flog your own posts? Do you think they won't notice? Do you agree with others so you can promote your own work?
Ivo: Intention is everything, my love.
Me: And some of us get it. We can sniff out your intentions because we can sense them. Some people are so obvious. They're so fake. I get people who hang out on my posts and put links up to their work. They think that I'm so followed that doing this will get them ahead. It won't. I'm also heavily shadow banned, so only about 25 people get my posts at a time. If it gets likes, they'll send out a few more. I only have about 150 friends on my friends list and I don't take friend requests. I save friends for people who supply me with intel and I pass that on.
Same as youtube. I have almost 6,000 followers and get a thousand views per video. This guy who cleans leaves out of sewer drains on the eastern seaboard of the States sometimes gets over a million views of his videos.
Ivo: That is shadow banning.
Me: Now they're going into my computer to pull out my files before I create the video.
Ivo: You must keep going, my love, you have not reached your zenith yet.
Me: I know. Anyway, folks. Be humble and ask people first if they want your advice. You might be surprised to see what they're thinking. Not everyone thinks like you do.
We have to keep working on ways to get along better with others. It's that simple.
Ivo: Earthlings will get there, someday. They will understand. They will transcend their ego's.
Scrutinizing your intentions takes the competition out of your conversations with others and creates an air of cooperation. Anybody would feel more valued knowing that you are intent on meeting them halfway instead of bowling them over with your words.
Ivo: Self mastery on earth is difficult, my love, but at the moment especially, very important.
On this world, there are people who take responsibility for their own lives and people who don't. Ivo and I are going to discuss this today. We may have touched on it on another video but I think it deserves its own video entirely.
How do you take responsibility for your own life?
You take responsibility for your own feelings, actions, thoughts and the consequences of these. Those who step up in power understand that personal responsibility involves the creation process and start to take more responsibility for their lives by creating events through visualization and expectation.
Responsibility is freedom. So many people think that being irresponsible is freedom, but it's not. I know many irresponsible people who drink and do drugs and the only thing they're doing is killing themselves. With their “party forever” attitude, they run themselves into the ground, using mind altering chemicals to escape the hidden emotional prison they live inside. Responsibility and facing your pain is the route to freedom. The only way to deal with pain is to go through it.
I've included a fourth step inventory from Overeaters Anonymous. Just as an example to show you the lengths some people will go to in order to get clear on where they believe their faults lie and what they need to start taking responsibility for. This inventory is based on the Seven Deadly Sins. When you read it, you'll see it roots out all behaviors that could indicate excessive pride, greed, lust, envy, gluttony, wrath and sloth. The answers aren't for everyone to see, either just the writer and perhaps a trusted non-shaming, non-guilting friend. The last thing you need to do is write a confession of your innermost darkness and then have someone shame you for thinking these things. That won't help you release them at all, in fact most people would never trust someone with it again. I have used this inventory without permission, so I hope OA is okay with that. This would be useful for the person who asked me how to bust through the Zeta Seal. This type of self scrutiny is what works, and what makes you happier. The results can be immediate. As I've done inventories, I've felt the actual energy release from my energy field as if it were quickly torn away. It's worth doing it over and over because as your awareness increases, new “flaws” show up you didn't realize before. The trick to this is keeping the focus on yourself, and not on others' behaviours. You're working on acceptance of others as they are.
Like we keep saying, you're perfect as you incarnated on earth. What happened is you took on false beliefs that told you you were flawed, which led to your being limited, and now you have to release these.
Ivo, what is the one mistake the people make all the time, that would stop so much arguing and hatred? One thing that people think that's completely illogical?
Ivo: We have been discussing this, yes of course. And that is, that people believe others' behaviour dictates your reaction. It does not. Sharon is dealing with a fly right now. With flies that land on her water glass, flies that bite her, and try to land on her food and there was the one who even flew into her opened eye.... Sharon typically reacts in annoyance. This is not necessary. You can react to this situation any way you wish.
What your people have believed is that, “Other people react this way, so that is normal. That is what you are supposed to do,” and I say to this, “It is not.” There is no such thing as normal. Change is the way of life, improvement. Normal is a stagnant state. And I might add, the people who now want their normal to return, are regressive in nature. When normal returns to your world, then the possibility of control and manipulation by your governments will again exist. It is time to dispense with this.
The one definitive belief that people have that must be taken into consideration if one wishes to become autonomous is the idea that others' behaviour has created a reaction within me. This is a false belief. If someone runs past you stark naked, you can respond in any number of ways. You can become incensed, you can laugh and be amused, you can be shocked, you can ignore it. You can respond any way that you wish. The other person's behaviour did absolutely nothing to you that you did not choose. Nobody is responsible for your feelings but you. Understand this. Nobody is responsible for your feelings but you. Absolutely no one.
The way you respond indicates your state of limitation. It indicates where your beliefs must be changed to increase your power.
I shall repeat that again as well. The way you respond indicates your state of limitation. It indicates where your beliefs must be changed to increase your power.
If you respond with shock, then what is it within you that feels the need to do so? What belief do you hold that says when you see nudity, that you must be shocked?
Me: And why do you think nudity is so out of place on a city street but nudity, or states very close to it anyway, are okay at the beach? What's the difference? There is no difference. Why do you get embarrassed at nudity when it's practised in a place that hasn't been designated as acceptable? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Why are you allowing others to dictate what you do?
I deal with people all the time who have issues with the fact that I don't wear a bra. And I'm rather buxom, to say the least. I've been asked to wear a bra (for that person's sake, so they didn't have to feel embarrassed) and I just said “No.” I've left a job because I wouldn't wear a bra and my side-boob, whatever that is, was showing. People are extremely uncomfortable with jiggly, saggy breasts. I'm not, and I dance to my own tune so they can just suck it up. Some people must think I'm a slut because I won't, but you know what, that's their problem. I find them uncomfortable and I frequently get frozen shoulder, so I've dispensed with them.
Ivo: When someone says to you, “You are so ugly,” how do you respond? Why, first of all, let me ask you, have you allowed someone else to supersede your own self opinion?
If someone were to say to Sharon, “You are so ugly,” she would not care.
Ivo: If they said to her, “You are so fat,” she would simply agree with them because she realizes she is overweight.
Ivo: She would not apologize nor would she make excuses for herself, and she especially would not attack the person back with insults.
Me: This often gives people the idea that they can say anything to me they want, and then I have to put my foot down and assert myself with them. People are not generally respectful, I find.
Ivo: Yes, They have a misguided way of viewing assertive, self-accepting behaviour. They believe you are a target because you will not defend yourself or attack them in turn. It is difficult for those in the Power Over Others structure to understand someone outside of it.
Yes, they also believe if you are caring and giving, that they can bleed you dry.
Me: I run into that all the time. I have to set limits with people and forgive them because they think differently than I do. Then I forgive myself for ever coming to this planet in the first place.
Ivo: I do not believe you have done that yet.
Me: There's the fly again. He seems to think he can have a ride on my hand as I'm typing.
Ivo: You are not annoyed.
Me: I'm thinking of lunch. LOL
Ivo: Yes, distraction. This can also be a problem when you are not in the present moment. So let us create some more examples.
Somebody says something to you that you do not appreciate. You react. How do you react? In anger? That means you believe that attacking is the appropriate response and your anger could be a sign of getting ready to attack. Anger is often used as an intimidation strategy.
Then there are those who hang their heads in shame or begin apologizing out of guilt.
Me: Those people need to get angry. Anger also can mean that you're ready to change something, if nothing more than your choice of acquaintances.
Ivo: So, you believe that someone's behavior creates an automatic reaction within you. It does not. Reaction is a choice, rather response is a choice. Reaction stems from the belief that others control your behavior. Those who believe others control their behavior also try to control the behavior of these others. This is the power over others system at work.
Take back your power and think about what you will say to the person who you feel offended by. There are so many responses and here are some of Sharon's:
“You are a jerk,” “You are an asshole,” “I don't care,” “Yeah, whatever.....,” laughing at herself is another one of her responses. When someone seeks to make fun of her, she laughs in response to what they have said. She forgets what she learned in her assertiveness training. The best response is either to fog the offender, not to respond which is keeping your energy for yourself, or to ask a question, “What is it about me that you find so ugly?”
Calling someone an epithet is an attack of their character. This is attack mentality. Sharon is on a quest to root out all of her attack mentality and dispense with it.
Me: There haven't been so many driving incidents lately either.
Ivo: No. These have largely abated.
Me: What I have an issue with is when someone says something that I absolutely know to be wrong, yet they think I'm wrong, and what's worse they think I'm crazy.
Ivo: As I said, there is no respect in thinking another person crazy. Why do you tolerate people who believe you to be crazy? And then attack you for this at times?
Me: Why should I accept less than the most respectful behaviour? Cluttering up my life with those who aren't respectful is a good way to postpone the arrival of people who are.
Ivo: We are always here for you, my love. Nobody should accept less than the most respectful behaviour.
Now, also we must point out the so often declared excuse, “She made me do that.” This is scapegoating the other. Yes, it is. Nobody makes you do anything. Unless you have a gun pointed at your head, your family is being threatened, or you are forced to by your laws, you are not under duress and can think and act freely. You are not under the control of another person who “made” you do or say something. You can respond in whatever way you wish. And the best way to respond, for your own sake, is in the highest frequency.
I ask Sharon to install the frequency chart in this video so that people can see which behaviours are of the ego and which are of the soul. It is best to let your soul respond in the highest of frequencies, not to allow your ego to respond with what you have learned on earth because all that you have learned is contrary to universal law and much of it tends to be violations of others' free will.
If your boss tells you, “You need to work all weekend,” you have many ways to respond. You can get angry and feel hard done by, or you can say, “Certainly. But I will be taking Monday and Tuesday off in lieu of that.” If they come back and say, “We will need you on Monday to present this project,” then you continue to respond with “Then I will take next Thursday and Friday off and have a long weekend.” If your boss says this is not company policy, then you say, “Yes, but I require downtime, so I will take it.”
Me: I've worked in places that if you didn't do exactly what they wanted, like working till 12 midnight every day, and then smiling and looking happy, you'd lose your job. I remember the one guy who said he wouldn't do something and his head was first on the chopping block when cuts came down.
Ivo: Then consider your choice of workplaces and of occupation. They cannot all be as bad as this.
Me: True. Nobody can make you do anything. You always have a choice to respond, not to automatically react. Your reactions show the level of consciousness you're at on this issue and you need to raise it to soul level. When you react, you're working out of learned behavior. You've learned that that reaction is what is expected of you, so stop it and react as you want to. That's your learned behavior – your programming. There is always a step between someone saying or doing something and your response, and that is your thinking process. That has to be taken off auto and put on manual again and be forewarned that it might make you uncomfortable because what you're really thinking and wanting to do will probably not align with the accepted narrative or Matrix behavior. Do it anyway. Think about everything you say to others, always.
Ivo: This is it, my love.
Me: Thank you, Ivo. I'm glad you enjoyed, “Galaxy Quest,” the other night. (I heard him laughing while I was watching it.)
Ivo: It is a humorous film.
Just a note. I think the chemtrailing has all but stopped here. Maybe there's no more money in dark budgets anymore and they can't do it. Hope this is the case.
Also it sounds like Trump is going to tell the public about the indictments today so I'm watching for news on that.
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