This is Ashtar Sheran of the Galactic Federation with an important message for all lightworkers.
This may or may not be news to you but Sharon has asked that I speak on this issue as she feels that you should know this. Before I begin, I will say that you are doing something about it already, as you work alongside your galactic teams, as you do your lightwork on earth, whether conscious of it or not.
Sharon has become aware that the nature of the multiverse, the quantum reality we live in, is under threat.
The negative Archontic alliance who we have been fighting on and around your planet for many years, is the threat to this universe and I will explain how this threat is being carried out now.
It's through you that they are attempting to change the DNA of all galactic humans. By cutting you off from your galactic brothers and sisters and changing your soul memories, changing your DNA and infusing you with false memories, they seek to change your DNA and in doing so, the DNA of all others on the Light Matrix. The galactic scientists have had a DNA fight on their hands for many years, attempting to keep the DNA of the home planets pure, because when the DNA of earth is compromised, it compromises all similar DNA across the universe. We are all connected, and the compromise of any of the elements of this connection is a serious threat to us all.
That is why we are intervening in the business of earth. It is a threat to our existence and our reality as well.
The other aspect is the CERN technology, the hadron collider, which alters the atomic structure of the energy of the universe and this, too, is a severe threat as well. There are many such colliders upon your earth, hidden away from you in the underground bases and elsewhere. We of the Galactic Federations intend to find them all and render them harmless.
The intervention on planet Shan is not just for the sake of those living upon her, it is being carried out for the sake of all who exist within the divine structure of life itself. We are making progress and our victory is assured.
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Me: Hi Akon.
A: Hello! We meet again!
A: You wish to acquire information about some sensitive subjects, I see. (he's teasing)
Me: Yes, you've been joking with me that my original intent was to get some all around, general information, and now I'm zeroing in on a personal subject: how ETs have sex and what kind of control do they have in the procreation of children? Then I'd like to discuss things like DNA and race memory and how that comes into play for lightworkers too. Because I've been told that part of my bloodline is Vegan (from my father, the other is Lyran and my mother is full Pleiadian bloodline) and Ivo said it was necessary for the DNA. Howso?
A: Well, you see in the case of your brother, who is Sirian, he is autistic. When the DNA does not match you can have physical or mental/emotional problems.
Me: I was told that I needed my father's DNA to be born on earth, so he had to be my father.
Me: So it's kind of like how we see blood types here, there are different characteristics in the different blood types – some are more tolerant of different kinds of foods and more prone to certain types of illnesses.
A: Yes (ruefully). You should not be prone to illness at all, however this will be worked on.
Me: So it's like there are different kinds of humans.
A: And do not be suprised that you are Rhesus type O negative either.
Me: The negative comes from my mother, who is Pleiadian bloodline.
A: And there is negative on your father's side as well although he was not.
Me: Yeah, but I thought that if the parents were both positive, then the child would be positive and if they're one of either then there's a choice.
A: You do not understand genetics to the extent that we do. DNA is quantum and your world is only beginning to understand this now.
Me: Yes. So it's like there are many different types of humans on this planet?
A: Of course! You are all of differing heritage, and despite your best efforts (LOL), you have not come up yet with a truly earthly human being. The remnants of your forefathers still exists in your DNA. You are part of us and we are part of you.
Me: Oh! I just intuited that. Knowing how the ET races are all collective consciousness, bound together telepathically, you can feel our pain! Those on earth with Alpha Centaurian genes are part of your soul group?
A: In a sense. You are all part of the earth collective consciousness, but this consciousness is part of the whole collective consciousness of galactic humanity and then all come together under the God consciousness, so yes, you are part of us and we are part of you. There is only physical division. And we feel your pain. It is not always out of a need for activity that we help other races, LOL. We are all one and we all serve the One. Your pain is my pain. Your joy is my joy.
Me: Akon, if our DNA is being altered here on earth, including trauma, false memories, negative characteristics, does this affect the common DNA on your planets?
A: Brilliant, my dear. Yes it does. We must work all the harder to keep our DNA from being affected by your negative experience and Archontic destruction.
Me: Aha! So we really ARE connected?
A: Absolutely! This is one reason the lightworkers came to earth to heal the DNA, for our sakes as well.
Me: So how does race memory fit into this? Definition: A memory, present at birth, and that exists in the absence of sensory experience, that arises from the common experience of one's ancestors.
A: To begin with, your diabolical controllers have attempted to override your race memories and substitute ones they desire you to believe. This is why they play with your DNA. To alter your past and your future. To alter the way you think of yourself. And as we are linked, this affects us as well. They are attempting to change the entire fabric of life in the galaxy by changing you.
Me: Yeah, not surprised. They were trying with CERN technology as well.
A: Yes. Race memory is very difficult to override. We of the galaxy have the same memories and this is why your malevolent controllers have attempted to cut your off from us – this was the purpose of the veil they installed around your planet, to limit the effectiveness of the spiritual connection to us and to facilitate supplantation of false race memories, for one. This is not the only diabolical thing they have attempted to do to you.
Me: So we think we're descended from neandrathals, etc., instead of believing our ancestors come from the stars. No wonder they hate the natives because they remember.
A: Yes. The purpose of race memory is for identity, for one thing. You are born with it in your DNA, your ancestral memories, which many lightworkers are healing, as you are. All who are born into a line of DNA are contributors to this line of DNA, to help evolve it and to bring it back home, so to speak.
Me: Yeah, mine needs some hefty cleaning up.
A: And you have done this. Going forward the race memories will be more positive, those born into the DNA lines will be more positive and will have more active DNA. All pluses, I must say. Those on your planet who have extraterrestrial DNA, and that is all of you, will begin to remember as it activates and you will feel more compelled to connect with other beings. That is what your space program is about.
Me: Yeah, like that's on the fast track, isn't it?
A: Yes, your expression, “A pile of nuts and bolts....” And then there are explosions and people die going into space. They are martyred but this casts gloom on your efforts to pursue this goal.
Me: Yeah, what was it? An O-ring? I think my dishwasher has O-rings? Of course I think it's sabotage but that clunker was 25 years old, I think I read.
A: So, would you drive a 25 year old car?
Me: Maybe at an antique show.
A: So you see how important the space program is for the people on the surface. However we all know that there is a secret space program and there are many ships from your planet, connected to the dark extraterrestrials. This program is much more advanced, of course.
Me: So are you saying that those with common race memories love to get together as family?
A: Do you enjoy going to Holland?
Me: I do!
A: So you answered your own question. Humans are social beings and common DNA always gathers together. Even on your world, there is an assumption that one must be loving towards family and relatives.
Me: Yeah. We won't go there.
A: Yes, but your people are not very evolved. It is easy to love one of common DNA when they are more advanced.
Me: Akon, you just said, and I want to discuss: “Those on your planet who have extraterrestrial DNA and that is all of you, will begin to remember as it activates and you will feel more compelled to connect with other beings.” Okay, what about someone like my sister, who's not a lightworker so her soul calls earth its home. She had a life or lives in Atlantis but she's basically an earthling.
A: So she has the DNA of your parents, the Lyran, Vegan and Pleiaidian DNA. But she has more recent race memories of earth, although she also has the L/V/P race memories as well.
Me: She's more earthly. How come she's not waking up to ETs?
A: She calls earth her home planet, for starters. You do not. You also woke up because as Ivo told you, you are being injected with Vegan DNA, that of Tiannia, who is of your own bloodline on Elteron.
Me: So you're saying that my sister will wake up eventually, if not in this life maybe a subsequent one?
A: As all Terrans will. You are a different case. However your talking about Ivo to her might help wake her up. I also see she is jealous of him.
Me: Hmmm. That's not the way most women react when they see him. LOL
A: She is jealous as she fears he is taking you away from her. He is taking you away. She may learn that you will go back to Elteron upon your death and this may be difficult for her.
Me: I'll try to keep back what I can. Just so she can deal with her fears. Maybe I'll stop talking about him so much to her and try to reestablish some commonality again with her. Maybe talk about art.
A: Yes. This is kind but you have changed. As they say there is no going back. So, to summarize, she has similar DNA to you but she does not have such strong ET race memory as you do. And her consciousness is of Terra, where yours is not.
Me: So the next subject: sex! In “From Beyond the Light Barrier” you said that you could tell by Elizabeth's vibration that she was fertile. You said you had to have sex twice in order to create a male because conceiving a male is more difficult. Male-bearing sperm lasts only a few hours, so you had to be accurate to a few hours within ovulation.
How can you tell by a vibration that a woman is fertile? Like, what happens? How do you sense it?
A: We are extremely sensitive beings. Your people are not so they cannot tell, generally. Some can.
Me: How is it different? Like there's a little egg calling out?
A: (laughing) The lower chakras create a different emission, my dear. There can be colour changes, sound changes, and ....
Me: I know about mood changes.
A: (laughing) No, we don't have such trouble with that. Frequencies can be sensed to the millionth degree by one who is highly sensitive.
A: So fertility is sensed as well.
Me: But you were elsewhere when she was fertile and you landed....
A: Physical proximity is not required, except for conception, of course.
Me: You haven't mastered that yet? LOL
A: LOL No, thank goodness, we have not! We still prefer it the way it was intended. And that gets to your next question about balancing of electrical forces. This is what intercourse is and why it is done other than for the sake of conception: to balance electrical forces between the masculine and the feminine.
You see an image of lightning striking the ground. This is rebalancing of negative and positive ions, and electricity is the force that does this.
Me: I'm also seeing a light bulb and a plug.
A: (smiling) Yes, you have such a perfunctory and limited application for your electrical force. Electricity is one of the energies of the physical body. Your heart, brain and nervous system run via electricity, at the most basic level. Other higher energies affect the physical body as well, but the basis for its operation is electricity. This is consistent with a third dimensional body.
Me: So why would a third/fourth dimensional person need another of I'm going to say opposite sex, to balance energies. This may apply to all sexual partners but I'm only going to look at heterosexual relationships right now because this is confusing enough.
A: A masculine electrical charge and a feminine electrical charge. Balancing the masculine and the feminine via electrical energies.
Me: So if I have intercourse with someone of a higher dimension....
A: Always thinking ahead, I see.
Me: I have to think of these things,x Akon!
A: You already have had intercourse with Ivo and with this body as well. This is also part of your awakening.
Me: I know. So his energy is affecting me.
A: It is. He wants you back, of course! And it is his job to awaken you and to bring you back to where you belong: with him.
Me: I'll have to thank him for his service.
A: LOL He is most happy to do this service, I'm certain.
Me: Well, thank you Akon for indulging us. If I have any more questions, I'll ask.
A: I'm certain you will and I will be most happy to oblige!
Me: Thank you.
A: I bid you adieu, Tiannia.
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WARNING!! THIS MESSAGE IS NOT FOR THE FAINT OF HEART. Don't read it if you can't take this nasty truth. It's a hard read. It speaks of torture.
I've summarized Tamara's message in point form as she told me:
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Me: Hi, Ivo, at the risk of creating more separation in the lightworker community than already is apparent, I'd like to have you clarify something. I know there are blu-rays, indigos, crystals and rainbow lightworkers. I know there are grid holders, gatekeepers, empaths and light warriors. There are so many jobs that we do and so many different ways to understand our work here and who we are, it's almost staggering sometimes. The fact that so many of us have more than one role also complicates trying to understand who we are and what we're here to do.
But it's becoming apparent to me that there is one more way to define us, and I don't want to create division or start having people take sides against each other with this information. On the contrary, it's intended to create tolerance for those who are different from yourself. This video is not being created for the sake of feeling more righteous than other lightworkers, or feeling superior to other lightworkers, because that's spiritual ego.
I've noticed that people tend to criticize other lightworkers for not doing things the way they do them, or seeing things the way they see it, and those people I boot out of my group immediately! I figure they need to get educated and change their perspective to understand that everybody is doing what they're supposed to do because we're all being led by our higher selves and guides, and nobody has the right to criticize another's lightwork because they think they know better. If their ego is in charge, they're not going to comment in my group because it'll cause dissention and disruption.
Ivo: Yes, you are correct. However you could point this out to the errant lightworker, could you not?
Me: I could, but I don't spend my time correcting people who think I'm wrong. That's just gunning for an argument, and I don't argue with people. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but if your opinion is there to drain my energy, because that's what criticism is – a draining of others' energy – no thanks. I'm not having you. People don't want to be told they're an energy vampire, so I just accommodate them. I also accommodate myself by not having them around me. Call me intolerant, I don't care.
Ivo: So be it, my love.
Me: So my point is, I believe there are two basic types of lightworkers: ones that are going to 5D to stay, and others that may be going to 5D temporarily for healing, but who will return to 4D earth to help the people on it to ascend. (The 144,000) I believe I'm the latter. And I believe both are necessary.
Ivo: You are correct, my love. There are two basic groups of lightworkers, who are training and learning different tasks to accommodate their ultimate role: either ascension to 5D or remaining in 4D earth to help others along. And yes, their understanding of each others' process is limited and exacerbated by the spiritual ego, which tells them the others are wrong: there is only one correct way to do things and it is my way.
Me: Yes, I've heard a lot of that and anyone who comes from that perspective I don't deal with. They're already closed minded.
Ivo: Yes. Spiritual ego. The fact is, my love, that those who are going to 5D earth to “open the doors” for others to come, the first who are there to settle this new world and dimension for Gaia and your people, have a more etheric perspective. You call them “love and lighters” because they speak of raising the vibration through love and spreading their light. Well, all do this. However the 4D's are primarily the light warriors, who are learning to fight off the dark, in the name of the Light. 4D's are more likely to be taking part in the intervention and working along with the Galactic Federation in that respect. 5D's are more likely to be working along with the Galactic Federation to create new timelines, create the 5D grid and channel the more etheric type beings with messages of love and light, which appeal to those who have been developing higher consciousness.
You have noticed that Adama channels to both you and your friend, Megan Hilliona, also a Vegan, but the messages tend to be different. Why? Because Megan is going to go to 5D, and you are staying in lower fourth dimensional timelines to help the most needy on earth. This is why you have lived among them. You understand their problems and you have lived as they have.
Me: Yes, compliments of the dark side.
Ivo: You did not choose to come here to “open the new 5D earth” up to humanity. Others have chosen to do this. You are a warrior and have chosen to help heal the current 4D earth through intervention, using love and light, yes, but in a different way.
Ivo: And as it happens, 4D lightworkers have drawn much of the fire, protecting their 5D lightworker coworkers so that they can experience higher consciousness within themselves without too much outside interference. You took the bullet for the team, as they say.
Me: Yeah, I'd do that.
Ivo: So, many of the 5D lightworkers have not much understanding of why you are speaking of the dark interference upon earth; they have had less to do with it and perhaps do not understand. You cannot understand somebody else's experience unless you have lived it, and they are not living it. Some have chosen to experience the dark and to ascend to 5D as well, so they are very strong.
Most live in higher vibration and do not understand the experience of their 4D colleagues. So they criticize you, saying, “This is the way to do it! Follow me!” but you do not follow them as you are not “going to where they are going” so to speak. You are not going to 5D. Your choice is to remain on the lower dimensional timelines, hence you have many dark entities to battle with. Your weapon, though, is love.
My dear, you have also noted the difficulty you have in holding a higher vibration. Although you are of 12D consciousness, you think it should be easy to “break through” the negativity with all your power. Well, it would be except for the fact that you choose not to – you choose to stay in lower dimensions and take on more negativity to transmute it. That is your job. That you have contracted to do. Those going to 5D generally have not contracted to do this.
Me: Thank you, Ivo. I want this said so that other 4D's can understand. And that 5D's can stop telling us how to do things the right way.
Ivo: Yes, this is most annoying and forgiveness of their ignorance is called for. You get it from all sides, my dear, even your own kind, who you feel should understand you. But they do not. You said in the beginning of this video that there are many ways to define the jobs you all have to do. Bear in mind, as well, that the combination of different tasks to perform and the time of birth, creates a different lightworker.
All lightworkers have taken on the ego of 3D earth. That is a requirement for life there – to have an ego. However, how you deal with them now is different for the 4D and 5D lightworkers. 5D's have an easier time of reaching higher vibration. 4D's have a harder time, always being pulled back down into it and that is why you are staying – because you are being pulled back down into lower vibration all the time.
Many 4D's are empaths and as I told you before, it will be difficult for you to attain a higher vibration and maintain it for this reason. It is not something you can heal from, as is the case of the 5D lightworkers. It is something you have chosen NOT to heal from in order to keep you in 4D consciousness. The 4D and 5D lightworkers must understand that this is part of their contracts. It does not make any of you wrong or less than the others. That is what has been chosen.
However, the 4D's must focus on transmuting these lower energies. More will accumulate again but relief is to be found in transmutation. You cry, as an example of transmutation. There is much information on line to be found so we will not go into detail of how to do it here.
Would it make any sense to send a transmuter of negative energy to the fifth dimension? No. It would not. We all are, but it is a matter of focus, where you focus your efforts. The majority of those going to 5D are more able to hold light than those going to 4D. 4D lightworkers are more often working as transmuters, hence they tend to reflect the negativity of the fourth dimension more. 5D lightworkers are grid holders and gateway openers. They have stronger manifestation abilities than their 4D counterparts in order to help create this new world.
In the 40's, 50's and 60's, the first wave of Indigo's came to earth. They are transmuters of negative energy. Their task was not necessarily to embrace 5D consciousness for themselves, but to help “clean up” 3D negativity. In the same vein, the 4D's remain in 4D.
It is by choice that you do this. By design.
For the 4D lightworker, many feel their soul, as you do my dear, your intentions are high. However your lower consciousness switches frequency often depending on what energies you have attracted. You call yourself grumpy however you are learning to transmute daily by crying and this helps with moodiness. Your grumpiness is what you have agreed to experience as this is the negativity of your 4D earth flowing through you. Some 5D's do not understand because they can maintain a high vibration without effort. It is a choice, and all must be honoured. It is that simple. That is the chosen service.
Me: Ivo, many think the way to heal yourself is raise your vibration, that intervention isn't necessary.
Ivo: This is incorrect in some aspects. Yes, the way to heal yourself is to raise your vibration. But intervention is necessary because the collective dark frequency and mind manipulation techniques used by the dark are too dominating to be overthrown, especially when the masses of earth believe in the tenets of this evil system. They are the creators of this erroneous evil system as they are being manipulated into believing it. This is what the 4D lightworkers are fighting : they intervene in the darkness' efforts to manipulate by fighting with love and light; whereas the 5D lightworkers are holding space in higher frequencies, avoiding this entire reality altogether. They are vibrating above it so to speak. The aware 4D lightworker is an anomaly. An injection of relief for the fourth dimension, with intention to turn it back to its rightful purpose of love. In the same way you would administer physical intervention for a cold, the 4D lightworker is working on your planet.
So the 4D lightworker who believes in the dark, the negative alien agenda and so forth, is not creating this agenda for themselves. Relieving themselves of these thoughts will not change the reality for others. So they believe it and fight against it, creating intervention. This is what they have contracted to go to earth to do. They are working along with the Ashtar Command to physically and spiritually intervene in the dark program.
Me: So everybody raising their vibration to 5D won't help?
Ivo: It would my love, it would be the answer. But who will wake up those who create your evil system by believing and living it? Who will help them? The 4D lightworkers are tasked to do this. To help wake up others and reduce dark influence on your planet.
Ivo: You are not as much creators of your system as the ones who are dismantling it.
Me: But Ivo, we're all going to 5D eventually, aren't we?
Ivo: Your people on earth will be, through natural processes of ascension. Their ability to ascend will be restored again once the intervention is completed. As for the 4D lightworker of higher age such as yourself, no, you will not be doing this. It is not necessary as you have already lived in higher dimensions and will return there upon your death. However, as long as there are dark beings attempting to control your earth, there will be 4D lightworkers there to fight them.
Ivo: The end goal is not that you have found peace and love and spiritual oneness, 4D lightworker. Your contract does not encompass that because you already have this from your prior lives on higher dimensions. You know this already. You bring these ways to your life on earth now but you are also fighters, not always lovers, and you fight the injustices perpetrated by the dark. Which as I have said before, far outweigh any benefit to the human ascension experience. In fact, it is intended to kill you and this is too much negativity to create good from. The lightworkers are more able to deal with and overcome this negativity because of their inherent strength.
Me: Okay, thank you Ivo. Now we've got this on record, to clarify for lightworkers who are fighting among themselves. Nobody is wrong and you all have divine purpose.
Ivo: You are most welcome my love, and yes, all lightworkers have divine purpose. The task for many is to validate themselves in the face of opposition. Yes.
Video on youtube: Sharon and Ivo Stewart
Rick Jewels (see, he didn't get tagged LOL) was talking about going inside the consciousnesses of people who weren't awake yet and looking at what they were thinking. These people were working and earning money and quite happy doing so. So he's put in the intention in their minds that they are to wake up. LOL
When I was a kid, I was like that maybe. Went to school, put up with my abusive parents, but it didn't last long.
One of my first books was, "Flight to the Mushroom Planet," at about 8 or 9 years old, then there was my attraction to Captain Kirk in 1968 when I was 7, and then reading my mother's copy of Erich Von Daniken's "Chariots of the Gods" at 11. 11 years old I was reading this highly specialized, technical book with all kinds of words I didn't understand. But I finished it. I couldn't put it down. Why is that? When I was 16 and Star Wars came out, I saw it 10 times!!
THAT was when I started to awaken. When I was a kid. I was experiencing psychic abilities by 16 and from there I spent time inundated with work and social life. I knew I'd never get married and have kids and I was right. Around 30, I started dabbling in psychic phenomena and knew this was my direction.
Always in the back of my head were those questions, "You're joking, right?" "Is this all there is?" "I'm supposed to be happy doing this? You're kidding me." All the time. I never could find any way to "settle down" because I couldn't find anything I could relate to. This feeling of, "Wait! There's more you don't know about yet," stopped me from settling. Because it would have been settling - for a lifestyle I didn't want. My mother wanted me to get married and have children and I wasn't having that because she showed me how awful an abusive marriage could be, technically spooking me off of the idea.
Now I relate to what I'm doing. I'm almost 60.
How and when did you wake up?
We were talking about the reason why the galactics are currently intervening in earth's fortunes right now.
Nobody seems to understand their motivation. The question we would be wondering is, "What's in it for them?"
Well, maybe some gold, maybe they get the satisfaction of rescuing the planet, maybe God "asked them to do it...." Akon told me they have a "selfish" motivation but it also benefits all other love-based beings on the soul matrix here in this galaxy: they want to be rid of the dark parasitic marauders who have plagued their worlds for millions of years! But we benefit from that too.
But the point that's being missed here is THE GALACTICS DON'T HAVE THE SAME MOTIVATIONS AS WE DO. They are different, thereby harder for us to understand. For starters, they're service to other oriented. Most of us on earth are service to self, although many lightworkers are different.
However, I believe even those of us who are service to other oriented, still can't understand them, from our limited perspective.
It's the same as the documentaries who try to understand animals. Knowing a bit about the consciousness of certain types of animals, I know they are often profiled incorrectly.
I believe we're doing the same thing here.
What I do know is the galactics have reverence for all life, no matter what, even the dark, and to have to kill something is an option that probably traumatizes them as well. It goes against their basic nature. That's why I don't think they want to have to put up with them anymore. By having these negative parasitic beings in our galaxy, the Light are constantly forced to behave in ways that are contrary to their values of love and humanity, reverence for life and respect for the growth of all.
The other thing is they value creation and the wanton exploitation and destruction of God's creatures (us) is beyond comprehension to them. Really, it's a violation of the universal laws of this galaxy, and existence itself. It must throw off harmony somehow or have even more serious repercussions to the structure of life in this galaxy in general.
ETs are to the galaxy what animals are to earth: the caretakers.
Good point came up in conversation this morning: Light Warriors who are doing battle in the Astral, it doesn't stop when you wake up.
The entities you're fighting take over the minds of people close to you or those you may encounter and the fight continues in this dimension. My mother always said that my father changed somewhere along the line and I now believe that he was partially possessed in order to suppress me in my youth. We both agreed to this arrangement. It helped teach me and it made me a better fighter for the Light. This was a sacrifice he made for the Light as well - his sanity!
If you find yourself attacked often, like myself, yes, you're of higher energy but those who are astral warriors are being attacked when they are at their weakest - in the physical.
So that's why you have to wake up and become aware of everything going on in the multiverse, energetically, physically and who you are and what you're doing here.
I just commented that my whole life seemed like a psychic attack, so much so I can't even tell if someone is attacking me psychically.
What I'm going to do is tell my higher self this is interesting, I want to learn more, teach me the skills, send me the right people and circumstances to develop this awareness, and then brace for everything to come.
You are in disagreement with someone.
They attack you, deny they did anything wrong, and then give you a "dressing down", pointing out all your faults and exaggerating any flaws you might have. But they're perfect little angels.
This is arrogance, egotism, and in the matrix intervening to keep you in line. Smithing.
Their ego struggles to survive. Struggles to tell them that they are perfect and you are the flawed one. Come on, how realistic is that?
When someone disagrees with them, them have to use condescension, perhaps attempts at humiliation, in order to continue to see themselves as above you. They use their supposed superior perceptive abilities to back up their claim.
The need to be right is what this is about. Needing to be right 100% of the time results in arrogant ego. It's a fear-based self-feeding system.
Anyone with that large an ego to feed would be an energy vampire by default. When ego runs your life, you are.
One of the most humble things you can do is admit you're wrong. Or that you make mistakes. Or that you don't know everything. Most people guard against it because they get attacked as being inferior.
People complicate their lives by getting involved in drama. This is 3D behaviour.
I have simplified my life by relieving myself of everybody with the tendency to talk behind my back, argue, create ill will, fight, take advantage, patronize, condescend, control, criticize, manipulate and MORE. All of them are gone. I'm finishing up with people I have unfinished business with for my own peace of mind.
All of the list, above, are energy vampiring strategies. All of them. People steal energy from others all the time because they have poor soul connection. So those who have good soul connection are sought out for this type of relationship drama.
I am now living more the way that the ETs live: in peace and quiet. It's a gift I've given to myself, out of necessity, after many years of being an empath and just organically picking this stuff up to the point where I couldn't function anymore, and also from being around those people who f*** your life up.
I've given myself Outer Peace and quiet.
After spending 8 years in Codependents Anonymous, I once thought that all of society was codependent. I now realize this codependency is what the Matrix promotes.
I've stepped out of the Matrix. I don't behave codependently and don't like when others do, although I realize they do it. When you cross my boundaries, I'll tell you so.
Most of "normal" human behaviour is unacceptable to me. Unless it's love-based I want nothing to do with it.
That includes this group as well. I take a big risk to my peace of mind running this group and I don't tolerate people who behave as I've mentioned above.
When you ever get as fed up of the system and this world as I am, you may be able to relate. I just gave myself the peace that everyone wishes they could have. I just went and did it. I can work on myself all I want, but because I'm an empath I keep picking up on everybody else's stuff and I believe this is at a global level. Ivo says I'll never be as peaceful as I want to be because I was born a transmuter.