When you see everyone as perfect, your life is a lot easier.


Trying to find fault with others takes a lot of energy. Finding fault with others is draining. It does nothing to buoy your experience of life. It's depressing.


Some people focus entirely on what's wrong with other people. As a matter of fact, a lot of people do it. But put them in front of a dog or a cat and suddenly they're a fan! Why not be this way with people?


It's not as hard as you may think. It's a question of practise and disciplining yourself to do it.


Me: Ivo, what about people who have some definite flaws, and the ones who you relate to who have an agenda for you that might not align with your agenda of them?
Ivo: Why are you associating with them, then? Also remember that you attract these types of people – the ones who teach you lessons – when you are still learning. You attract other types of people, ones you align with, when you are done learning.
Me: What if that's your boss or a coworker?
Ivo: If it is a coworker you can most likely ignore them, or if it is someone you work closely with, then I would reconsider your position. If it is your boss, then I would reconsider your job. Do not place yourself around people who are toxic in nature. What good do you feel a toxic boss will do for you? Do you think you will thrive in your job with such a person above you?
Me: But then they're not perfect.
Ivo: No, they are not. Nonetheless they will have things about themselves that can be admired; ways that their perfection shows. Perhaps an example of this is the narcissists, who are noted for being good dressers and for looking as if they are perfect. If that is all you can find to find perfection in, then focus on that.
Me: Isn't this a form of denial?
Ivo: No, it is a form of positivity. When you remain positive about others, you feel better, your frequency stays higher. If you insist on focusing on what is wrong with other people, then you will suffer as well.
Me: So you're saying learning stops?
Ivo: When you complete your life's work, yes. It stops. You maintain the frequency you came in with.
Me: I'm finding that I'm more like I was when I was a kid. I can cry now at the drop of a hat.
Ivo: For example. You are back in touch with your emotions like you were as a child, before your parents taught you how to shut them down. Shutting down your emotions shuts down the alchemy. You are emotional alchemists, I said, but when you shut down your emotions, alchemy ceases.
Me: True.
Ivo: When you are in the fourth dimension, you are responsible for understanding your current frequency as well as understanding and knowing how to deal with those of third dimensional frequency. Because on earth, they are all intermixed. So you must know how to set boundaries and to assert yourself with third dimensionals, and to understand who you wish to have anything to do with, if you choose to at all. You are also responsible for understanding how to deal with people such as yourself, who are of like frequency.
When you move up to fifth dimensional frequency, you will become unconditionally loving as a matter of daily interaction. You will be responsible for dealing with those of like frequency in their way, dealing with fourth dimensionals in their way, and for asserting yourself with third dimensionals as required or choosing not to engage with them at all.
Me: Is this normal?
Ivo: No. Most worlds are split out into the varying frequency levels and ascension is only possible through death. Your world is a different story. People are moving through the various dimensions while still alive and still interacting with the other dimensions. Your lives right now require flexibility because the timelines are still intermixed. Normally they are not.
Me: Okay.
Ivo: Nonetheless, even those you choose not to interact with have their up side. You can still see their perfection coming out despite areas that still require raising of frequency. In your sister's case, she walks almost daily to bird watch and she is very good at it. She plants food gardens and her embroidery work is exquisite. Her piano playing not so much but she still tries and is able to enjoy it despite her frequent errors. She loves her cat very much. She loves animals, nature and grows organic food in her garden. Her tulip and iris gardens are exquisite. So you see her perfection showing. Admire her for that. Do not choose to focus on the fact that she is disrespectful of you and believes herself to be superior to you. Do not focus on the fact she tried to beat you up when you were twenty. She is a product of your violent family as well.
Me: Yes. I wasn't perfect either.
Ivo: Yet you have such perfect qualities as I've described in other videos.
Understand with your sister that the bottom is unacceptable to you – her toxic attitude towards you, but you can still appreciate the things she does so wonderfully, such as her gardens. Yes, we have had to intervene with her to nullify the toxic negative energy she sends out to you. You are not aware of the depth of her hatred of you, my love, that is why I tell you this of your sister now.
Me: Too bad, but she's part of my family. My family has some real challenges.
Ivo: Yes. They do. I am saying it raises your frequency to see the wonder of other people, and it keeps you in a higher state of frequency. People have their areas where they are still learning, but unless you must engage them in these areas, do not focus on them. Choose to see God in all who walk your planet. He is there. In all of them who are on the Soul Matrix.
Today it is a dark, rainy November day. What can you see in this that gives you comfort?
Me: I think about Lake Superior and the boats that still travel in November. The Edmund Fitzgerald sank in Lake Superior (Git chee goo mee – the native name for Superior) and I'm hoping that's a warning to all sailors not to let their boss's greedy nature force them into sailing when weather is bad. So many times these ships have gone down when they shouldn't have been sailing. Why? Because of profit. People have to start valuing their lives over profit.
Otherwise, it's a quiet day and I can enjoy the peace and quiet.
Ivo: Very good. So you see the lessons and you see the perfection in the day.
Me: I love to hear the rain drops on the porch roof.
Ivo: A fire place would be nice for you now.
Me: Yes. Putting on a fire.
So we want to reiterate to people not to see people as perfect when you're being threatened by them or they're trying to harm you, emotionally or physically or any other way. Some people are the lesson you're to learn, and others are just there in your life, around you, who you can find the God in. It helps you to feel better about being alive here now in this complicated environment. Finding the God in your teachers is a good idea, however, you still have to work your boundaries and assert yourself.
Ivo: True, my love. It is hard work being an earthling, especially now when so much is influencing your lives. But to focus on the God perfection in all or as many as possible, helps you so much.
Me: Thank you Ivo.

What If You Saw Yourself As Perfect?


Me: I remember seeing a meme that stated, “God doesn't make junk.” Imagine when you go out into nature it all looks so perfect. Perfectly beautiful, water flowing perfectly (except when we tinker with its flow), birds looking perfect, flying in perfect V formation, doing what they're supposed to be doing every day.... animals doing what they're supposed to be doing every day. And once when I watched a video on what happened to the ecology of one of America's national parks when the wolf population was culled, and then reintroduced with some Canadian wolf stock, how this ecology re-balanced itself and sprang back to life again. Taking out just one part of the chain imbalanced the entire ecology of that park. Reintroducing it fixed the problem and re-created perfection.
We are part of the chain too. And we've been taken out.
Ivo was telling us in another video about “Controlling, Not Caring,” that we are perfect. The only reason we don't think so is because our frequency is too low. So we see ourselves as flawed.
Think about it. What if you weren't flawed? What if you didn't see yourself as flawed? What if you stopped calling yourself some of the many insults that you call yourself every day? An asshole, fat, skinny, ugly, stupid, useless, effed up, weird, strange, a misfit, good for nothing... whatever it is you call yourself. What if you realized that you're perfect and you can stop insulting yourself? And that insulting yourself is only hiding that perfection from you?
Ivo said you've learned to see yourself as flawed because you live in the Matrix and that's what the matrix teaches you. Suffice it to say, there is someone who wants you to believe in your own imperfection. Why? Because there's an agenda and that agenda is that you're more easily controlled that way. That's the reason. If you understood your perfection, if you saw yourself in God's eyes and not in your own, you'd understand that you are omnificent, magnificent, all powerful, all loving, and a being of this universe, not just of this world, not only of 525 Redbrick Lane, Someplace, USA. You'd know you own everything, not just your little patch of land on Redbrick Lane. You wouldn't need to feel secure by buying a house, because your home is everywhere.
You'd understand that your consciousness is part of all that is. You'd understand yourself to be a steward of this galaxy because you were born here.
But on a more practical, daily level, Ivo, how would that look?
Ivo: You would realize that you could never get sick, or be in pain. You would realize that you do not have to wear make-up. You would realize that what you put in, on or around your body either do great good or very much harm to you. Yes, your environment does not support the true human that you are, and this is also by design, so when living in it you are taken off balance and you suffer.
The incarnated human requires a supportive environment. You do not have this now, not by any stretch of the imagination. The fact that we require a balanced supportive environment is not a fault – it is a given anywhere else in the galaxy but not on earth. You see many things as faults (he was reading my mind) when in fact they are not faults. They are the norm anywhere else. The fact that you see your needing a perfect environment to thrive as a fault of yours is your own faulty thinking. It is very difficult to see perfection when your mind is actively assigning fault and blame, yes, blame, to yourself and all other humans. You say that humans have needs. No, not really. We created a perfect universe that reflects our own perfection. Would that not be normal then? As you are now creating a world that reflects your own collective mindset of imperfection, we all have created a universe that reflects our own perfection.
That is why the liberation of planet earth is now ongoing, because the dark ones are threatening not only your world and your lives, but they are threatening the lives of all others within the galaxy as well as their desire is to change that norm in the galaxy and to throw it off balance.
If you did not have the mindset of seeing fault and wanting to assign blame, you would know you could never be sick. You believe you can become sick, so in fact you do. You would also not believe that you could be harmed. Yes. Your television puts up so many movies of horrible death coming to some, and television shows of hurt, pain and fear being broadcast to you. This is also propaganda that is impossible if you do not believe it to be true. You are being fed a pack of lies, and this is one of them that the dark ones wish you to believe – that they can harm you. That there is evil. Yes, there is evil, those who have fallen off the soul matrix are evil, however they can only harm you if you allow them to. Why? Why can they not harm you? Do you believe that those who have fallen off the soul matrix and who have no personal power to exist without parasiting energy from other sources are powerful? If you believe they have power, if you believe that evil will reign on earth any longer, than you do not understand true power. True power is those who are on the soul matrix, and that is you, but because you believe you are powerless, you believe that your leaders are powerful. They have tricked you because your leaders, in their true forms, are parasitic beings. They are parasites. They require your energy to live. That is how disempowered they are. You are the true power on earth. That is why we relay these messages – to wake you up to that fact.
You are all on a path of correcting these misconceptions you have been taught. All of you. Some faster, some more slowly, but they are all misperceptions. To perceive is to see, to believe. You all suffer from erroneous beliefs. You believe you are flawed.
It is known that the secret societies have access to the bulk of alchemical and esoteric information and they will not reveal this information to the public. So St Germain and El Morya, among others of the Great White Brotherhood, which makes no reference to skin colour – El Morya is an East Indian soul – it makes reference to the divine white light when it refers to white, have made available to the public through contacts and channelers, the information which would be beneficial to you at this point in your consciousness level. Some have gravitated to it, others have not and remain unaware. This is due to your inner guidance. Which is another reason you are great, magnificent beings – because you are not just one person but have the guidance and assistance of many in God's kingdom as you go through your daily affairs. To leave a being who believes themselves to be flawed without assistance as they go through a life in the depths of a perpetual hell, would be unwise of us to say the least, because each of you plays such a pivotal part in the upholding of this perfect reality we have created together.
Sharon has learned today another thing we had spoken to her before and since photon energies are increasing she looks at the meme ruefully, however the meme is correct. It says, “Your path is more difficult because your calling is higher,” and this is true. Sharon has had a very difficult road to travel alone, where people who were intended to be there for love and guidance were her worst enemies. She has suffered betrayal, abandonment, harassment, murder attempts, rape of her soul and yet she can still forgive her elders now. As we pointed out in the last video, she was left on her own by those she felt should help her, not realizing that she was on a spiritual path of much growth and her family stood by and did not help her because they could not. This was understood at a higher level, not the physical level. The only one who could have been of any help to you at that point in time was your earth father and you refused to have anything to do with him. You had walked away. He was the only one who could have helped you through “Dark Night of the Soul,” but you refused him.
Me: See? You look back through your life with the help of guidance and it makes sense.
Ivo: I might also point out, my love, that the only time you suffer is when your frequency is down. You are not spiteful or regretting of your path when your frequency is up, so the problem is not your life's path – the problem is your frequency.
Me: Yes.
Ivo: And I might add, that is everyone's problem. Once the frequency is raised, you are capable of seeing all in a different Light, and that is a fact and the truth. Does that not, in itself, speak of the wonderment of who you truly are? To do a meditation, and to re-balance the chakras will completely change your outlook on life? You have that power. Is this not incredible yet you all do it all the time? That is the wonderment of being a human. You are an emotional alchemist.
Ivo: Your language : having needs, supporting you, all suggest you are flawed. Do you see where these words are coming from? From a place of lack. You have needs, so this indicates that there is a chance your true needs are not being met. Oh yes, they are. If your physical needs are not being met, this is your task. When you step into your power, your needs are more easily met. When you see yourself as powerless and incapable of meeting your own needs, or dependent on others to do so, then you are coming from a place of lack.
If you did not have the mindset of seeing fault and wanting to assign blame, you would know you could never be sick. You believe you can become sick, so in fact you do. What do you do when you become ill? You go to the doctor's. You must realize that all of these facets of your society are put into place in order to trigger off your need to blame and to see fault. When you continue to engage in your society in the way you have always been taught, you continue to interact with it the way you have learned. The point is to remove yourself from society. You go to the doctor's for example. Sharon's last was a bladder infection. She went in and gave a sample which was analyzed in the office and he said indeed she had an intense infection and issued her antibiotics. She took them and was relieved of the infection almost instantaneously. She had tried garlic and cranberry juice but to no avail so she resorted to going to the doctor finally.
Me: Which I do as a last resort. Usually I ask you to fix it first.
Ivo: That time you went to the doctor and gave him top marks for the good work he did. Other times you have not been so forgiving.
Me: They couldn't figure out I had fibro. I had to do that. My one doctor, when I said I thought I had it, said, “Oh! You don't want that!” Well, I don't want to pay taxes either, but y'know some things just happen.
Ivo: They do not happen, my love. They are created. And you created the fibro.
Me: Yes, now I have to heal it.
Ivo: Exactly, and because you get no help from western doctors you do it yourself.
Me: True.
Ivo: The first thing is to believe you are perfect and can heal yourself.
Me: Which I've done before with smaller things.


I think this is going to be a long video and we're going to have to split it up. Ivo has a lot of points to make.
Ivo: Understand that all is supplied to you, created by you, in the Matrix to keep your Matrix mind trapped and under their control. All of it. Including doctors who have inadequate resources to heal you, and a desire to earn a lot of money and to lead a good lifestyle outside of their long hours of work. Do you see the conflict here? They do not even study vitamin therapy. When you come in with a condition brought about by vitamin deficiency, they have drugs to prescribe you. There are not many doctors who will say, “You are low in vitamins.” For depression, they do not cite the society you live in as the cause, they do not prescribe a good B vitamin regime and the withdrawal of sugar and carbohydrates from your diet. They give you antidepressants. So you will continue to be depressed and require these drugs until they stop working.
Me: Yes, they do stop working. I got myself off of them too. I watched the first doctor who took me off of them and how he did it, and then just mimicked that the next time I wanted to go off them. LOL
Ivo: Self doctoring.
Me: Do you see me depressed now? It's even winter and I'm not so depressed. I watch for incoming energies because that knocks me for a loop, and I stay off of sugar to the best of my ability. Guess what? No depression. I take amino acids as well.
Oh yeah, that's another thing. Why do you think you can't get Tryptophan in the U.S.? Because it would rival antidepressants as a cure for depression and they make too much money off of it. The story goes there was one bad batch of tryptophan that came in from Japan and people got sick off it. They isolated the batch and removed it from the shelves. Problem solved. But then they banned all of it from being sold in the States. I smell a rat. Something fishy about that. You can still buy it in Canada.
Ivo: I say to you all, you are all in the finding fault and assigning blame game. Look at it as a game. Sharon had her leeks stolen from her garden. She does not like thieves. She asserted herself with her neighbours but harboured unforgiveness for a long time. Why? Because she was stuck in the blame game. Guilt being the next step of the game. Seeing fault, assigning blame, and finding guilty parties. Your legal system works that way as well. Why do you think that is?
When you are forgiving of all, you are in the correct state of mind. Why? Because you do not play the blame game.
The Deep State and dark plantetary controllers brought the blame game to your planet. They believe this is the truth themselves, and so you can see that this is a very low vibrational state of mind. To assign fault and guilt to others is of low frequency. And they have taught you to be this way now. Earth was a planet of duality in the third dimension, and because it was a free will planet, it was desirable for these beings to overtake it. With free will, that meant they could train you to be as unloving as they are. With being a dualistic planet, that meant that negativity could survive if not thrive here. They used your minds to create the hell that many live in now.
Some have escaped from this hell, and I am schooling you in this now. See others with forgiveness. Forgive yourself for ever believing in the blame game. See all as just being, do not assign negativity games to it.
The blame game is one such game. There are others.
Assigning negativity must stop because there is no negativity in the fifth dimension, only love. So assign love to yourself and others.
Me: How else do we do that? And what does this have to do with seeing yourself as perfect?
Ivo: If you saw yourself as perfect, if you stopped blaming yourself, finding fault with yourself and simply focused on raising your vibration you would understand you were perfect.
Me: Yeah but, Ivo, to raise your frequency you have to stop all dualistic behaviours.
Ivo: Therein lies the rub, my dear.
Me: So you have to keep looking at what you're doing wrong.
Ivo: No, my love, you have to understand when your frequency is too low to be able to express your perfect God self. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing.
Me: Getting out of bed in a bad mood and being pissed off with the world isn't wrong?
Ivo: It is not, my love. It is indicative your frequency is too low.
Me: What am I doing at night time that lowers my frequency?
Ivo: You are transmuting much of earth's negative energy. You are working on selected spots around the world and working to raise the Light on that part of the world. If that is doing something wrong, then you must forgive us as well because we ask you to do it.
Me: Oh.
Ivo: So you see, my love, you need more Light. Light is information. You need to know more so you can get over your learned ignorance and understand your divine role in all of this. It is not about being bad, being wrong, being flawed. You took on the misunderstandings of your adopted planet in order to change them. If that is being wrong, then we are in the wrong as well.
Me: Oh. I stand corrected.
Ivo: You are now informed. You are not corrected. Do you see how your blame/shame/punish game is playing a toll on your mind?
Me: Yes.
Ivo: You have heard that the people on earth are “doing the best that they can.” They are not. They are perfect, all of them. They are all playing a part in the enlightenment of others upon earth. If you all forgave each other your perceived wrongs, you would all rise to the fifth dimension. But you play the blame game. Blame/shame/punish or Seeing Fault/Assigning Blame/Finding Guilty Parties. All types of the blame game.
You see the blame game going on now between the U.S. Democrats and the Republicans. Trump attempts to defend himself to the public while the Democrats go on the slaughter. Do you see where you learn it from? Where you learn to be a victim? Where you learn to be a perpetrator? Both these parties are waiting for you to rescue them. You hold the power. Americans are forced to play the blame game. But your world will move past this as eventually ALL will begin to stop assigning faults to themselves and others. In so doing, your world will more begin to reflect the perfection that was intended.
Me: So how else do we see ourselves as imperfect? How can we correct that?
Ivo: Forgiveness corrects everything. When you see yourself as “too fat,” forgive yourself. You got that way because you learned that you were not perfect, which is a lie.
Any human who does not see what a marvel of creation they are every day feels they are imperfect. Once you accept your perfection, your chakras will balance. You will rise in frequency and you will go to the fifth dimension.
Beware of demanding to see yourself as perfect now because you will be shown how you continually see fault within yourself and within the system. And it could be a crash course. So be careful. Ask to be shown at a pace you can manage.
Me: Yes, that happens because higher dimensions work more quickly than we do because they vibrate faster. When they download information to us it sometimes is at a rate much faster than we can assimilate. So we have to keep getting the lesson over and over again so we can move more slowly through it. That's why we make progress in learning our life's lessons, having to loop through them over and over until we learn enough to move away from the loop. I guess when our frequency speeds up, we can go through our lessons faster and learn more in a lifetime, then retain that wisdom.
Ivo: Plus you retain the wisdom learned from previous lifetimes. On earth, behind the veil, you went in cold.
Me: Yes.
Ivo: We would not send any but the strongest of souls to do this, and then expect them to break through the un-reality they are jailed in. But you have done it.
Me: Yes. And I get told I'm a fearful person, that my energy resonates with fear. LOL
Ivo: I doubt that, my love. This is Narcissus, looking into his reflection.
Me: Truth.
Ivo: An exercise for all of you today is to see yourself as perfect. To see others as perfect. To stop assigning fault and blame to them. With the exception of the Deep State, they are the creators of this ruse and they will die by the same sword they lived by and deceived you into carrying for them.
When you think how irritating your neighbours are, ask yourself, “What if they were perfect?” Ask yourself, “What is it about me that I wrongly perceive to be faulty?” I am perfect, so to see fault in myself is indicative that I have been deceived. What is it that I wrongly perceive about myself?
Me: I think arrogant people are annoying.
Ivo: Aha. So you see the limitation, the fault that you have placed upon yourself that keeps your vibration down?
Me: So I can love arrogant people?
Ivo: You can love anyone. You are love, so how can you not love others? You are disconnected from yourself through false beliefs – through the Matrix beliefs. The matrix says people are flawed. No, they are perfect. I remember a time when you were very attracted to arrogant men.
Me: I was.
Ivo: This is indicative that at that time, you could love anybody. You had to learn to love your father.
Me: I don't know if I'd call that love.
Ivo: You love him now.
Me: I do. I think I was in a dance with this one narcissist I'm thinking of. He's so great and I'm so flawed. He has the power and I don't. I think our relationship bears witness to that.
Ivo: Yes. But you adored him. You also adored your younger brother.
Me: Yes.
Ivo: The point is, you do all the therapy and work on yourself to realize that you were always perfect. You just had so many false ideas in the way, that you could not see that.
Me: Kind of an oxy-moron.
Ivo: A paradox, to say the least.
Ask yourself, “What is stopping me from seeing my perfection today?” Raise your frequency above its influence and you will see that it does not have a hold on you any longer.
Me: So if I think I'm, let's see, bitchy and I change my frequency I'm not going to be bitchy anymore.
Ivo: Correct. Then you cannot call yourself bitchy and you must realize that to call yourself these things are not the truth. You are perfect. You must lose your limitations to enter the fifth dimension.
Understand as well, you all take on your parents' karma through the system that you live in. Whatever faults your parents believe themselves to have, get passed on to you. So to look at your parents' example is often easier to see the fault within yourself.
To assign yourself these labels is folly, because for one reason, they stick and the more you call yourself these things, the more you project these flaws into the future. To say, “I am bitchy,” sets you up for a bad day tomorrow. Say you are perfect.
You define yourself with these labels and they create a poor self image and lower your frequency. Then you play right into the hands of the deep state and the Matrix.
Life is not what you were told it was, not by any stretch of the imagination. Would God set you up to live in such an imperfect world? The world you created is one of your own belief, and those who prompted you to create it God wishes to have expunged from your soil and your minds. That is how God cares about his own.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, be perfect today. See yourself as perfect and when conflicting thoughts come up, pay them no heed. Do not get big headed otherwise you will have to acknowledge arrogance in your false system of beliefs. Being perfect and being arrogant are polar opposites.

​I was going to let this one thing go but as it turns out there could be a huge lesson on honoring others' free will here from Ivo, so, yet again, I'll tell you what happened today.


I keep forgetting... I put up a post today that was talking about people who try to get you to join their religion. They send flyers, they try to talk you into it, and then there are the family members who have all but ignored you for years who suddenly take an interest in you again, and they have a track record of trying to convert you to their religion because they're a minister.
I was talking to Ivo, who prompted me to write this last comment:
"This is the Matrix and these are its minions. Any act done to pull someone back into the system of control is NOT A LOVING ACT."
I was thinking this was a bit harsh. But he insisted it wasn't. I was thinking, well, maybe they think they're actually doing you a favor or they're concerned about you. To which he replied, "Did they ask you if you were interested? If not, they're being controlling, not caring, because they are violating your free will." All you have to do is say "no" and they should move on, however people on this planet, bug, badger, or stalk people who they want to control.
This is serious stuff because this is just one of the ways in which being controlling is misconstrued for being caring. And that is rampant in our world because we don't follow universal law nor do we honor others' free will. These people are coming from a place of thinking they know what's best for you and you don't. For those who follow me who are in the 12 steps, this is akin to their believing they are your higher power. No, they're not! Let someone be your higher power and you're setting yourself up to feel powerless because your will will always re-assert itself. You will end up in self conflict when it does. You could even have flashbacks to your original abuse. Who needs it? I say.


Yes, since the summer, the religious people have been becoming concerned about me. Imagine that, a woman living on her own with nobody to speak to all day. She's tired, overweight, walks with a cane, and sleeps many hours a day. So she must have a horrible life, right? Wrong! I've never felt more alive than I have now, doing the work I do, and I have something to look forward to when I get up in the morning rather than going to a job. I look forward to having peace and quiet! That is the gift of my every day life! I LOVE IT! I love doing this, I love learning about metaphysics, esoterics and everything else Ivo, Ashtar and El Morya tell us, and it's only going to get better next year and beyond. Of course these people don't know what I do, and if I told them, they'd really be concerned because mind control would tell them I'm a raving nutcase. Aliens don't exist, and they're certainly not running the planet! If I try to argue evidence is even in the bible, they'd still tell me otherwise. It's all mind control. All of it is.
It's not worth it to even discuss it.


So I let them think what they want about me, but because they think however they want about me, then they have the need to fix me so they won't think the same ideas about me anymore.
Ivo: Correct, my love. They try to fix you because their thoughts about your life are off the mark. So they try to change your life so that they can feel better. It is completely selfish. This is projection. They see in you the faults they should be correcting within themselves.
Me: Wow. Yeah, my mother was like that. She'd try to fix me because then she wouldn't have to worry so much. She didn't have to worry at all. It's just that she was so engulfed in fear that she was afraid for me. Every time an IRA bomb went off in London, I had to call her because she was sure that each bomb had my name on it. This is either a manipulation or my mother was a bit paranoid.
Ivo: Perhaps both, my dear. Paranoid people are manipulative.
Me: Yeah, it has to do with their glasses. Either they're rose colored or they're dark glasses and people who think I need to be saved from myself, I guess, have dark colored glasses on. I don't think my mother was entirely manipulative, perhaps she did it just because she wanted to know I was okay. I did call her.
Ivo: So you allowed yourself to be manipulated by a woman who was unreasonably fearful that you would die. Very well. That is your choice.
Me: Yes. I tried to tell her that I wasn't going to die over there, but then one time my train did come in just after a bomb went off at Waterloo station, I think. I was five minutes later than the bomb. So that time I was pretty close.
Ivo: Still, you are here now. And my point is, if you continue to allow yourself to be manipulated, you are not doing them any favors as well.
Me: True. (I was just reminded that my Vegan mother, Vary, let me come here, but she did because she knew I could handle it.)
Ivo: It is not your job to change people's feelings about yourself. This is codependent. To behave a particular way so others will not be upset with you is their control over you and your compliance. This is not your job to do this. It is their job to change their feelings. Spending your life in someone else's head is not your jurisdiction. You are all self governing and you need to step into that power. Acquiring mastery over your fears is step one.


You must also ask yourself why they are so concerned about you when you are not concerned. There is caring for others but to involve yourself in other people's lives is a bad idea. Why is it a bad idea? Why go around fixing everyone you believe to be broken? Why not have a look at your own life and keep working on yourself instead? This is not selfish; this is what you incarnated to do. If, in fact, somebody asks you for help, then you decide whether you want to help them or not. But first of all, you are all here to improve your own lot in life. When you raise your own frequency, you automatically help others at a collective level.
So many people are so concerned about helping others yet they involve themselves in gossip, backstabbing, arguing, bad moods, complaining and the like, but they feel they have something to offer another. Perhaps, but then should you not first work at eliminating this negativity within yourself before you decide you are your brother's helper?
Your people do not understand the reality of life. You are given a life in order to work on yourself. So many skip doing this in favour of meddling in the lives of others, because their ego's tell them that they are superior. Anyone who lives within the Matrix and its limited mindset is prone to being this way.
Were these people to think for a second, they would find that their negative idea about your life comes from their own negative ideas of life because if they did not believe these ideas to be true, they could not assign them to you. Their impression of you is created from their own negative mindset. If they had a positive mindset, they would perceive you completely differently.
Me: I know.
Ivo: You exercise your right to self governance with an iron hand, my love, and you need to because those with incorrect mindsets see you as flawed. You are all perfect, you were made perfect because you are part of God. How can you be flawed? The fact that you perceive yourselves as flawed is because of your low frequency, and it is raising your frequency that should be the focus of your life. Now, there are those who wish to help others. In a world where food bank donations are solicited, the poor are living on the streets, there are drug and alcohol problems which are rampant, why worry about an older woman who refuses your help? Go somewhere where it is needed. Care for the animals.
Me: If I need my super's help, I call him. And he goes to fix the taps or helps me to install the air conditioner but that's all I need him for. Maybe he had one of those super mothers who refused his help and this is just a loop that he's playing out with me. Who knows?
Ivo: Exactly. And that should clue him in to the fact that you are capable of asking for his help. Yet he still is overbearing and tries to solicit his religion upon you because he determines your way of life to be flawed. The only way he can do this is by seeing it as flawed so his mindset must be corrected.
Me: Yes. I get very tired of dealing with people like this. I know what I'm doing. If I need help, I ask for it. What I find a lot of these people are trying to do is to reintegrate me into society in some way. Well, that's the last thing I want! I'm a societal drop out and in doing that I've found my peace!
Ivo: You live in duality, and because of the intense negativity that has prevailed on earth for so long, your people are in danger of being taken off the soul matrix. So many who dance with the Illuminati already have lost their soul connection and have become parasitical in nature, dependent on others to survive. That is not the way of God. They have become evil which when spelled backwards is “live”. That is not by coincidence.
Does this surprise you when so many of you are spending days vampiring energy from more energetic others with better soul connection? There are so many with parasitic attachments who siphon their energy so in turn, these humans become vampiric in nature and siphon energy off of higher energetic humans.
That you are doing this at all should be a warning sign for all of you, but of course, so many do not realize this. Do not allow yourself to cavort with vampires because they will reduce your life energy and possibly provide you with demonic attachments. They still exist upon the planet, try as we may to remove them, they are agile and have good food sources in you. They have threatened to change the entire structure of human life on earth however now this is reduced and will change again after December 21. This will rid your planet of many of these attachments. They will die as they will not be able to stand the new energy level.
Those who attempt to help others who are not requesting help are interfering, attempting to dominate, not cognizant of the true nature of life upon earth, unaware that their attachments are attempting to create greater connection with other earthlings, particularly those of higher light. They see you as decrepit because of their own belief in decrepitude, they see you as lost because of their own belief that a person can be lost. They do not understand the truth of reality, they do not understand who is making them pursue the higher energetic others, they do not understand the meaning of benevolence because they are too arrogant to understand. And they do not understand that all are learning and growing and have internal guidance.
Me: So you're saying there's all kinds of wrong with what's going on here.
Ivo: Yes. If you ask for help, it is because you believe you require help. When you understand you create your entire life and you can manifest whatever you want, do you then continue to believe you require help?
Me: No.
Ivo: So you know this and are working to manifest the life you want. Anyone attempting to “help” you without understanding you or understanding their own belief in the weakness of humanity which is absurd, is only seeking to dominate and to take you off of your spiritual path.
Me: I get it.
Ivo: They believe in the frailty of life, they believe in the negativity of humanity, they do not understand their desire to help is a question of demonic connection, they believe themselves to be so perfect that they cannot see their own life's path and where they, too, need to grow. Do you see what I mean?
Me: I figured you had a bomb to drop. Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: There is nothing wrong with humanity on earth. It has been given false ideas about life and made to believe in its own weakness. You are not weak. You are part of God. You must all collectively stop believing in your own disempowerment, and start to believe that you are super beings, because you are. With super manifestation abilities. The reason you are incapable of stopping a habit, or an addiction, is because your frequency has not been raised high enough. What keeps your frequency low is a negative belief system.
Me: Yes, that's true. If I overeat, it depends on my frequency and it has to be low for me to do it. Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: Do not connect with anyone who believes you to be flawed. You are on a path of raising your frequency to higher consciousness. They are not. The fact that they believe in a flawed human bears that out. Humanity on your world has a completely flawed image of itself. Completely flawed, and this has been part of the control agenda as well.
Me: I love you. I'm sure everyone else here loves you too.
Ivo: I love you as well. I even love the haters.
Me: LOL


We covered a lot of points here in this discussion. Let's sum them up:

1. Anyone who tries to fix you, rescue you without your asking for help is doing so because of the way they perceive you. Instead, they should change their image of you rather than trying to change you. Or change their belief system that makes them see you this flawed way. Often they are saying they care for you to allay their fears. They need to work on them, not on you.
   
2. People believe they are weak, frail and powerless. This is the Matrix talking. Humans are on the Godhead, able to manifest as part of God's power. You're not weak; you just believe you are. So change your beliefs.
   
3. Anyone who tries to pull you back into the Matrix because of their negative idea about you is not loving; they are controlling.
   
4. This is often done because of their own demonic attachments trying to keep their food source alive.
   
5. Humanity has been threatened with dropping off the soul matrix due to being too evil. Hopefully this is over with now and we haven't lost too many.
   
6. Don't let people help you unless you ask for it. Give them the right to say no as well. They may not be up to it or your higher self may be putting you in for a lesson in self empowerment. Case in point: When I thought I needed help, nobody was there for me. Why? Because I had to do it myself. So forgive people who are never there for you.
   
7. Nobody is your higher power – you are!
   
8. You do not have to behave a certain way to help others feel less fearful. Their problem is their fear and that should be dealt with.
   
9. Negative thinkers and positive thinkers view the world and you completely differently.
   
10. Your perception of yourselves as imperfect comes from matrix manipulation.
    
11. What everyone is suffering from is too much Matrix. A Matrix mind sees problems and tries to fix them so it stops suffering. Fixing a problem from the ego is not a fix, only soul can heal.
    
12. There's a big difference between being of higher consciousness and being arrogant. If you don't know what it is, assume you're being arrogant. Our other videos can help. Without knowing one, it's hard to know the other.
    

I am being criticized (again) on what looks to be conflicting information.


One thing I know is that when I channel:


1. I release information to the public as it is appropriate to do so, so ETs may appear to be withholding information. THEY ARE! Information is Light, and we only can collectively hold so much Light. We can only carry so much Truth at a time to manifest or to prevent from manifesting what we're being told. When you do your shadow work and purify your light body, you can hold more light and avail yourself to more truth. If you don't, you'll have a problem with people like me.


Information is released to lightworkers so that we can work at resolving the problems. When Ashtarsays that the white house will physically be fought over in November but never mentioned it in September or October if and when he said that a legal battle will ensue over the presidency, it's because he either didn't want us to know so that we would not manifest that event, and now that it is in the offing, a potential, he mentions it because he wants us to stop it. We're the ones who can stop every doom and gloom forecast he foresees. It's our world. And we are working with the Light. Many of us are part of the Galactic Federation.


2. What I channel depends on what timeline I'm on. I believe it's a violation of my free will and universal law to give me a channeling that doesn't align with my current frequency. If I channel in a bad mood, I will probably get a gloomy forecast. If I channel when my frequency is high, I will get a more positive channeling.


3. When Ashtaror Ivo predict, which I don't like them doing, but when they do it, they are predicting potentials. It's not written in stone. The closer we are to actually manifesting what they're talking about, the more likely they are to appear correct.


4. Ashtarsaid that earth has two natural moons and he said that earth has no natural moons. One is 5D earth and the other is 3D earth. We may start to see new moons appearing in 4D earth as the veil drops.


To people who are black and white thinkers, who think everything you say is written in stone and cannot be changed, they will have a hard time with channelers and psychic mediums. If they knew how many timelines are playing out at any given time, they couldn't comprehend the odds of something happening. Insisting that everything happen the way it was predicted at a certain point in time is ridiculous. That's why I date my work. The information is current at that point in time, it's been released to us at that point in time, and the likelihood that it can change is also a factor in channelers appearing to be quacks.


I'm not even sure if all channelers even know this is going on, but consider the odds of any event happening or not, and how many timelines are being carried out at any given time. In some timelines, you're already dead, for example. So am I.


If you think this is all for entertainment, you're wrong. This is a plan of the Light that is coordinated between different dimensions and you're part of that. You have to consider the magnanimity of this whole operation!


Lightworkers are here to raise the frequency, that means to manifest collectively better results for this planet and all people on her. For a long time, there were predictions of a horrendous calamity on earth, with fires and many people dying, but in 2012 we made it safely past that apocalyptic event.


For the person who is inflexible in their thinking, don't follow a channeler. You're best to wait until it happens because your ability to deal with the true quantum nature of reality is very limited.


Personal responsibility is what is asked of all lightworkers. If you can't take responsibility for your part in this, sorry, go stick your head in the sand again. You're not ready to help this planet. That's why Ivo and I discuss doing your shadow work. Until you do, you'll be more limited in the ways you can consciously assist the Light.


And to the critic, if you're only looking for things that you can criticize, if you're looking for the small percentage of messages you feel are wrong, you've got the wrong focus. You're looking for what's wrong with my channelings, you're not looking for what's right with my channelings. And that's probably your outlook in life as well – finding fault with whatever you can instead of enjoying and being grateful for what's good in life. I really don't want anything to do with you and you won't be that much help to the Light either because you have a negative focus.


When you see our messages with predictions, the idea is that you need to put your energy into messages that you want to come to fruition and pull your energy away from messages that you don't want to come to fruition. That's why Ivo is insistent that you stop watching TV. You're putting your energy into the wrong messages, that's guaranteed. You're watching deep state propaganda and you're the source of energy they're using to support that artificial timeline. I know many of you don't think you're that powerful, but you are. Why do you think you're here?


Ivo: This is correct, my love. You are the Ground Crew of the Galactic Federation, and you work with us. We do tell you what to anchor on the planet, and what not to anchor. You are here to anchor the Light, you are correct, and Light is information. So we tell you what we desire you to manifest. This is by agreement. You are all very aware of this from your astral voyages up to the ships at night time. You are aware of what you must do. You are aware, subconsciously, of who you should follow in order to facilitate your life plan. Sharon is one such information giver. There are many.
As for those who criticize, yes, your glasses are on backwards. It is disappointing, I'm certain, to see apparent conflicting information given by the same source but as Sharon just explained, it is not conflicting. However, she is not happy with your need to point out faults in her work. Would you be? If your boss continually pointed out your mistakes, how would you feel? Yet your social media is set up to facilitate this. When you do so, you are in the Matrix and attempting to pull her down with you.
This will not happen. She will cut you loose rather than align with your negative view of our work. I shake my head and am astounded at your propensity for negativity. She in fact is speaking to beings who exist on higher planes, in higher dimensions of consciousness, which she works at daily to bring you messages, knowing that last week's messages are most likely already forgotten, she continues to do this work anyway. Yet all you can do is to criticize her? When you think of the marvel of what she is accomplishing, and has suffered dark attacks throughout her entire life to be able to do for you now, all you can do is criticize rather than ask a question. When you ask with curiosity why these events are being foretold in a way you do not understand, rather than attacking her for her messages, is that perhaps not a more effective way to go about the matter?
Me: Some people have to attack, Ivo, that's their nature. They have to attack rather than to think, God forbid, there's something wrong with their interpretation of the message. Those people I don't deal with. I don't bother justifying myself to them, I just block them.
If you have a question, there are ways to get me to see them. But I only speak to people who aren't out to attack me and trash me out. I just don't bother with their dimension anymore. People have to learn to stop being this way, but not on my dime, you're not. I don't like being criticized. It's an attack and it serves no purpose.
One time someone angrily emailed me, criticizing me for Ivo's message in, "What You Need to Know Now." He complained that Ivo is usually so loving yet the message was so dire in this book. The reason it was so dire was because that was what we were potentially manifesting at that point in time, and frankly a lot of what he said has already come true.


Another person commented that I should stop talking about myself in my videos. Okay, that's fine, I will. Let's use you as an example then. Oh, you don't want to do that? Well, then walk a mile in my shoes and you'll get to know how it feels to be as vulnerable to attackers as I make myself, putting all my faults out in front of the world to learn from, and doing that even after having been attacked by my own parents for the first twenty years of my life. That's recovery. That's power. You'll notice that every other teacher/messenger of the Light NEVER makes a point of displaying their flaws to the public. They only write from the standpoint of the informed lightbringer, never from a position of such vulnerability. That's why our work is unique, and I think easier to learn from because you can relate to it.
Ivo: I believe it is as well. Without real life examples, with emotional reactions as examples, then you have strictly intellect. Our messages combine intellect, emotion, intuition and higher guidance as we speak of metaphysics, esoterica, science of energy, quantum physics and more. All as we explain the dynamics of what is going on with your neighbours.
Me: What was that funny computer noise I heard this morning? I woke up and hear a beeping mechanical noise outside my window. There was no reason for someone's computer to be outside of my window. I have never heard that noise before.
Ivo: At times you are capable of hearing into other dimensions.
Me: Do you have a robot following me or something?
Ivo: We do have electronic devices that track you. The ball you see above you always, what you call the disco ball, is electronic if you wish to call it that, our version of electronica, that is.
Me: Tell it to be quiet because when it beeps I start looking around for strange things.
Ivo: So we have declared our boundaries and obviously the work will go on, as usual. There are bound to be people who are dissatisfied with what we do, for whatever reason, and that is their personal business. We do not accept attackers. We will not entertain them.
Timelines are splitting out now, and there will be less of this to work with. Once December 21st is by then there will be more love and less of the attacking. Your social media platforms will change as well.
Me: I've got that handled. Nobody that follows me attacks me because I hold that expectation. Our minds are brilliant things when we learn to use them properly.
Ivo: Which is what these messages we relay are about. Using the greatest tool you are given on earth – your mind.
Me: Thanks Ivo.

More intuitions.....


Got news for ya! We live by our beliefs and by cultural norms. These tenets of our minds and our societies are the path of least resistance and the path of least growth.


Least resistance to what? To being controlled and dominated as a people.


Least growth? Least spiritual growth.


If you want to do the very least for yourself and others, believe in the Matrix and live by what it teaches you.


That person who brings out the worst in you, is there to show you exactly that – the worst in yourself. The side of you you're not proud of and the side of you you wish you could improve on. Maybe this video will help then.


Here's an exercise: Pick a person, the one person in your life THAT YOU ABSOLUTELY CANNOT STAND. I don't care who it is, just make sure they turn your stomach every time you think of them.


Then, take a deep breath and ask yourself, "How can I love them?" What do I have to look at within myself and what do I have to change to make myself love them? You don't have to love them overtly, just avoid them if that suits you better, but secretly love them.


I can think of one person who's really challenging for me. My neighbour in the back apartment of this building, who is dying now, who is completely and totally predatory and who never lifts a finger for himself. Expects you to do it though.


Write down a list of all the things you CAN'T STAND about this person and make sure you don't forget anything. Then ask how to reverse all your feelings.


This is a funny expression, actually: “I can't stand.” We say we can't stand this and we can't stand that. But here we are, so many years old, we've grown to adult age and we're still standing it. Maybe we're standing in it, but we're standing it. So we can stand things. We express that sentiment but we learn how to tolerate all the crap that goes on on this planet and we keep living.


Ivo and I will go through my example:


Having compassion for someone who you know would take advantage of, abuse, and demean you just like your parents did, just like the guy you lived with for three years did. Having compassion for what basically in your lifetime has been your enemy, by normal definition, but your greatest teacher by spiritual definition.


Your ex, your mother, your father, both your parents... who abused you?


Understand that coming to feel compassion for the people who have been your greatest challenge is your greatest triumph.


Me: Ivo, how about discussing this guy?
Ivo: Not the neighbour you speak to, but the other one who is the alcoholic who lives behind you.
Me: Yes. The one I speak to I had a tete a tete with and he seems to be over his game of trying to seduce me. I've been very point blank with him and told him I'm in love with you and that I'm not interested in sex. For one thing, if I were, I might look like I was and I do nothing to make myself any more than comfortable in any given day. I'm not on the make and it's his game he's playing with himself.
Ivo: So, my love, what about Roger, the man who lives behind you? Why can you not stand him?
Me: He comes at you with a wall of lies. He talks about all the good times he's had in his life, but he's a drug addict and alcoholic and you know that everything he's saying he's just conjured up in his imagination. The guy has not dealt with life at all except by escaping it, which is mind control by the way. He lives in a fantasy world. What he does is he talks real friendly to everyone, being especially careful to make sure they never get a word in edgewise. If you tell him how you did something well, he'll tell you he did the same thing ten times better. He one up's everybody. He is overwhelming. He's like a black cloud that just covers everyone around him in soot. He always does everything better than you, he has lived better than you, he is smarter than you, he talks down to you. When he gets really drunk he's very abusive to people. He insults his children and makes fun of them constantly. They just put up with him, now moreso that he's dying but normally only when they have to. They look after him but avoid him when he's really drunk because he's mean. Because he doesn't do a lot of things well, he wants everyone else to do them for him.
My stance is I want nothing to do with him because the minute you do one thing, that's it. He commits you. It's like my cat. You get off the couch and feed him, then every time he hears you get off the couch, that means you're supposed to feed him, in his mind. You feed him when you come home, well, then every time you come home, he's there expecting a meal. Same thing. Do it once and they commit you to being their slave. I believe this insistence has to do with not getting their needs met, and in the case of humans, they're looking for another parent who they can trap into putting them first in life.
There is such a thing as doing someone a favour – occasionally. These people don't recognize that. They're continual mooches. If you have plans for your life, like I do, you can't afford these people. They'll take you off your life plan as fast as you allow them to.
Ivo: And you speak in the plural because you have prior experience with these addicted people. We have to look at your relationship with many men, who would have fit into that category as well, but also with Glenn.
Me: I realize that I don't have a problem with Roger or Glenn. I have a problem with myself. It's what I did, what I was thinking, that got me three years with Glenn, who beat me once and was about to do it a second time when I ran for it. Nothing like going to work with a shiner to start to wake you up.
I've heard about trauma bonding and don't entirely understand it. But I do understand that empaths and people who have come here to help humanity, like lightworkers, are particularly vulnerable to these mooches. The reason is is because they see your niceness and willingness to help as something to be taken advantage of. I'm sure I'm not the only one who's had relationships with predatory types like these so this is why I'm making this video. Controlling, demanding, manipulative liars.
My problem is with myself.
Ivo: You are aware now.
Me: I want to let go of the anger, and heal that anger. In the 12 steps it says that, “presumably these people had not set out to be this way in life,” so you should forgive them. Then a trick they taught me is to wish these people all the love, happiness, prosperity, wisdom and anything you would want for yourself. Just make sure you're not the one supplying it, that's all. Wish them healing. Wish them higher consciousness.
The question is, “Did I learn my lesson?” and “How can I rely upon myself when I failed myself so badly before?” I'm sure many of you ask the same questions.
Ivo: Are you in a relationship with Roger?
Me: I told him if he needs to go to hospital I'm here to drive him to emerge. Just bang on the wall and I'm wake up and see what he needs. That's the extent of my relationship with Roger.
Ivo: Then you are fine. You have learned how to protect yourself from predators. Now you wish to love them.
It is true what the steps say about them. Presumably they had not set out to be that way in life, and neither has anyone else. You are all mind controlled to varying degrees.
When you learn to love all as they are, not the way you would wish them to be, then you have learned to accept life on its terms and to understand the wisdom of the universe.
Me: I want to stop thinking, “Go away,” every time I see him. How do I learn to love him?
Ivo: Overcome your fear of these people.
Me: I thought I had and then another one insinuated himself in my life. Maybe a bit of fear is a good thing.
Ivo: But then, my love, I gave you the example of a truck coming down the road as you are crossing. You move out of the way. Is this fear or is this self love in the form of self preservation?
Me: Yes. It was the video, “Everyone Loves Themselves,” I think that was the name of it. Yes, it was...
Ivo: Often times your world misconstrues love for fear. Any act of self preservation or the preservation of another is an act of love. You have an adrenalin surge and believe it is fear. It is not. It is self preservation. You have been misled. You are not aware yet that there is more to do with adrenalin than anxiety and excitement. Adrenalin can be released upon seeing one's love, as you might when I land my ship. This is excitement as you call it but we call it love. You have learned to label your emotions in a particularly limited way. You must start to look at what you believe you are feeling and then understand if this is a fear or is it something else. When your people are mind controlled into fearing, they will label everything as fear. Do you understand?
Do you see now how so many negative emotions are being labelled as positive? Aggression is being labelled as love when it is detrimental in nature. We are aggressing against the dark ones, however it is because we love ourselves and that we love you that we do it. So some acts of aggression have to do with protection and preservation. You need to have a second look at how you label things.
Me: Yes, we do. So I love myself.
Ivo: And that is why you avoid him.
Me: So how do I love him from a distance?
Ivo: Forgiveness. Forgive yourself for seeing him as you have been taught to, for seeing him in fear. See him with love. Have compassion for the hardness he has brought upon himself in his lifetime out of his own misperceptions. Have compassion for the soul who is stuck in the body of a drunk, who is sharing his time on earth with demonics. You said you thought he was a portal, and attracted negative entities to your neighbourhood. This would be rather accurate. Without anchors to anchor the dark upon this earth, there would be little darkness. He is a polarity reverser. Instead of Light in your neighbourhood, there is darkness because of him, another man and the woman across the road. You are the Light. Of course they will take issue with you and attempt to control you. It all must be seen from the bigger picture. Your ego's cannot explain what is going on without understanding what you cannot see. You sense his negativity though, you call him a black cloud.
Do you think that any human baby on this planet wanted to become a black cloud of darkness? Something happened to him that he could not overcome. He did not hold enough Light. So for this forgive yourself for misunderstanding, and forgive him for the way he is, however DO NOT engage this man. Forgive him, have compassion for him, but steer him a wide berth.
Yes, your 12 step programs say, “But for the grace of God, there go I.” Yes, you made it. You battled darkness and won. He did not.
I see tears in your eyes, my love.
Me: I really feel for him now.
Ivo: Not all are as strong as the Lightworker, who came to battle the dark. Many succumb, and he did. There are many not strong enough to battle mind control even at this point in time, and this man is such. He is now dying so begin by wishing his soul to rest in peace upon his leaving the planet. That you can do.
For those who do this exercise, do not stop until your heart opens. An open heart is the way of earth's future. Be that way now. Understand that all are battling the dark and are winning or losing their battle to varying degrees. Earth has been in a controlled situation of repetitive reincarnation loops for eons. These earthlings never gather the strength to fight the dark oppressors off and are continually infested with parasitic entity attachments throughout each successive lifetime. That is why lightworkers were brought in. You can do this.
Understand that those who are suffering on your planet now have succumbed to the darkness. You have not, otherwise you would not be listening to our videos. Have compassion for those who are not capable of walking your path with you. They may disappoint you but they would not if they were capable. Many are not living lives of their own choosing. That means your family, who believe you are crazy. That means the people on facebook who troll your posts. That means everyone. They are at a lower level of consciousness than you are, and are not of their right minds. Be grateful for every moment you spend in higher consciousness, but DO NOT allow these people to take advantage of you. They can be tricksters.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, your amethyst points are lovely. You put it to your forehead and saw more of the grid.
Me: I'd look pretty weird with an amethyst glued to my forehead. I'd love to keep it there though.
Ivo: You can use wire to create a piece of jewellery out of these points. You got more than you were expecting. You expected to get one point and you have six or seven.
Me: Yes!
Ivo: Do you see how good you are at manifestation?

​We Hold The Power


Sometimes I feel that seeing this Covid stuff over and over and over again ad nauseum, the same types of posts and memes that drive home information we already know, do more harm than good. I think that knowing is good but repetitively pounding it home until you can't stand to see these posts anymore, has the opposite effect: it keeps Covid alive in your mind and keeps you on that timeline. Look how the news reports news. They report negative events. Why are they doing it? Because you learn about and support these negative events by giving it your attention for the 60 seconds they talk about it. Willingly or not, you're supporting these negative events by giving it your energy.


I think that once you know, ignore everything else because as soon as you know, you're to say, “I do not allow this, I do not consent to this,” and then you create a scenario that disallows what it is you've seen that you don't agree to. Look at the emoji's on Facebook. Everything is a reaction. But there's no reaction that says, “I don't allow this, I do not give my consent,” is there? They say, “I love this,” or “I'm angry,” but there's nothing that says you don't give these events your permission to exist.


For myself, I have decided to just pass on new information; not stuff that already confirms what we've long accepted as fact. I know these things have to be circulated to newbies who are just waking up, but for those further down the rabbit hole we don't need to see them and seeing this stuff might have a reverse effect.


For example: You see that false positive tests are still being carried out eight months after the start of this. They're still doing it. So you put up a “wow” emoji or an angry emoji and move on. But you've just invested that much energy into their doing it. If you'd stop investing the energy and starve them of energy, then what happens? What happens when you're starved of energy? You die. So does false positive testing.


I believe when we become highly conscious of what we pay attention to, we can re-create this world. If what you want to pay attention to doesn't exist, create it. I've manifested enough things in my past to understand that I create my reality. What you give your attention to is important. Don't pay attention to the stuff you don't want. Know that it's there but don't keep feeding it your energy.


This is why the Illuminati (deep state) has always told us what they're doing and what they're planning. Because we are their batteries. We empower their plans. That's why they have to tell us.


Stop listening and make your own plans for earth.


Ivo, what say you today?


Ivo: If you understood how important this is, your world would be in a completely different situation right now. But it is where it is out of your ignorance. So we put out these messages in order to empower people to change their reality.
You are a source of energy. You are connected to all that is. You are on the soul matrix. You derive your energy from the God source. That is what keeps you alive. The dark ones do not. They rely on you to empower their plans. The fact that their plans include killing off many of you does not matter, because they have enough souls trapped to keep their world empowered. They have souls of humans trapped in their containers and they take the energy from these conscious beings to run this world. They are planning to make earth their own and to eliminate all but the most evil of bloodlines. They will continue to have earthlings work for them like you are now, but you will not be paid. You will consider yourselves lucky to be alive. Everything, whether you live or die, will be up to them. You will be a slave if they get their way.
They may get their way when you keep fuelling their plans. Do not pay any attention to the news. Understand what is going on and when you see something that you do not support, such as mask wearing, then focus on the concept of a mask-free world. And continue to support that concept.
If you are upset there is no published cure for cancer, then focus on introducing a cure for cancer to the world and having it become main stream.
If you do not like the Chinese army in your country, focus on this army being defeated and then sent back home. Understand now that this army is moving abroad that you must take it from the point that it is now, so you must take it from the point that it is instead of wishing it had never happened. That is folly because it IS happening. So to stop it you must change it by focusing on its defeat.
If your mother is terminally ill, than in order to revive her, you must focus on health from the point she is at. Wishing she never got sick will not work because she is sick.
The reason they make the progress they do with their evil plans for you is because you do not say you will not support it. Unwillingly or not, you support it. You accept it. And you go along with it instead of saying you will not. It is good to see the resistance to the deep state increasing in every country with protests because the mindset of the general public is changing. Continue to focus on a world without lockdowns rather than opposing lockdowns.
Me: I think, Ivo, that people were told their imaginations were silly when they were children. If I told people that I go around imagining a life I want, they'd tell me to get real. But they don't understand the power of the mind and neither did the caregivers who told you imagination is silly.
Ivo: Correct. My love. Your minds are powerful and as earthlings, you are the owners of this planet. You live in a culture where you give your power away and the power of your souls is stolen from you without your realizing it.
Now you must take that back. If peace is to reign upon planet earth, it will be brought forth through the minds of the people.
If you are to live in prosperity, it is to be brought forth through the minds of the people.
That is why the Galactic Federation releases information about GESARA, and about the St Germain prosperity funds. We do so so you can invest your minds in these ideas instead of what your controllers want you to invest your mind energies into. That is why.
We have put very strong lightworkers on the planet to re-create it. When you believe in the Matrix, you are in fact supporting their evil. When you believe in a new world founded on humanitarianism, you bring that to fruition.
What you focus on is very important. What you believe and what you think are very important.
You are the part of your soul that your soul created to live upon planet earth. When you strengthen your connection to soul, your soul can bring its energy to bear upon re-creating your earth. When you do not allow soul contact because you believe in the Matrix, live in the matrix, and believe that fulfillment is only possible through a job, you are working against your soul and what it has planned for your lifetime.
Our messages are all about this. Leave the Matrix, align with soul and allow yourself to change. Use your mind as a sharp focusing tool and focus on what you want, not on what you do not want. Understand that the Matrix has disempowered you personally while stealing the energy of your soul. You are a tool being used by the matrix to carry out its evil plans such as Agenda 21/ Agenda 30. You must use your mind to create a reality that does not include the Matrix. When you do this for yourself, you help all of humanity to awaken.
Be very careful what you allow to affect your mind. When you allow people around you who believe in the Matrix and refuse to deal with you at a higher level, do not deal with these people. Let them go. Only deal with people who will listen to you.
Yes, this is unfortunate for those who are married to people who are not evolved, however you must find your community and relate to them in order to keep evolving your own mind.
Understand what is going on, but focus on what you want to see for this world. Create a benevolent world first with your mind and then watch it manifest in your physical reality. That is the way the universe works.
Me: Thank you Ivo. We were talking about Trump last night weren't we? Because every time I woke up, I was thinking about Trump.
Ivo: We had a large lightworker lecture last night on the New Jerusalem and all lightworkers were present who could attend. The focus was on what to do about the 2020 election results and the significance of this debate. At night time, you are being shown how to use your minds and I remind you during the day.
Me: I had the feeling that my subconscious was being filled with information that at some point I'll understand as correct when I come across it in my physical life.
Ivo: We load your subconscious minds with information and it is this you are tasked with manifesting in the physical. We tell you what to believe and of course, you concur and agree to do this. However your physical minds will still fight this information because you are confused at this level.
Me: So it's like getting a new lesson at school and we have to absorb it and live it.
Ivo: Some of you may find that your thoughts will be changing greatly within the next month or so.
Me: Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: My love, you school with us very often. We are your teachers and you are our teachers. We love you all so dearly, you have no idea how loved you all are.
Me: They love you too, Ivo. I find that I'm changing so much that people don't understand me anymore. I set boundaries with them based on who I am as Tiannia, not who I was as Sharon.
Ivo: Yes. You have advanced ideas of what constitutes correct behaviour. How you have learned to behave upon earth in the power over others system, disregarding the free will of others and universal law, will have to change.

I love this video! Really love it! I learned from it and I'm 60 years old. Had I done what this guy says to, I would have avoided any trouble with my neighbour. The fact is, I consider myself “off the market” and I didn't figure him for a player. He is. I'm not dating anyway, whether I'm with Ivo or not. I have a great new life and it doesn't involve dating earthlings.


What Kev is describing is the Power Over Others system. He is talking about men who seek power in relationships by gaining power over women they date. This is one hundred percent complete egotism. Relationships are NOT about power and seeking control – they're about love, caring and support and often times healing together. Yeah, that's where humanity is right now. Look at my relationship with Ivo; he's completely involved in my healing and he never complains about it.


He says that men test boundaries, and yes, women do it too. If I were to test a man's response to see how much he liked me, I might ghost him for a while and see if he called me, which is nasty and dishonest because it's threatening abandonment in a way, or I might start talking about what we're going to be doing 6 months down the road to see if he's still with me or if the lights have gone out, or if he's running for the door. That way you can tell whether or not he's a hit and run or looking for something long term. What I would've done is go and ask someone else to dance or roller skate to make him jealous or talk about dating other guys when we went out. Then there's always the problem with him manipulating you back for doing these things. None of it is honest.


What I need to remind myself of now is that boundaries have to be set with EVERYONE. Just because so many people are into control in their friendships, acquaintances and relationships. It's annoying to always have to be on your guard, I admit, but when you have a past with narcissists, then you tend to attract controlling, dysfunctional people. Never mind I'm living in a bad neighbourhood.


What I realized I was dating in my 20's were children with active sex drives. I realized very early on they wanted sex and the rest of it didn't seem to matter, in fact she was just standing in their way. I should've passed them over and waited for someone better. However, when you get neglected by your parents, you tend to turn to your love life to get the attention you want. I just got more of the same – neglect and abuse. That can make you desperate.


This video describes how men seeking power over the women they date behave. Sorry guys, I haven't found one for women who seek power over men. When toxic types seek power over you, these are the ways to respond, if in fact you want to continue to date them at all.


For the toxic men who do seek to imbalance your relationships, be advised that some women freeze when you employ these techniques. That means that you've re-traumatized them and their fight or flight or freeze response has kicked in. They're thinking, "Oh, no! Not this again!" and their lack of assertive response has to do with the fact they CAN'T respond rather than they are allowing you to go ahead and draw the wrong conclusion. Don't be surprised if they ghost you next time you try to call them because if their first reaction is to freeze, their next reaction will be to run (flight). I know this because it happened to me recently.


If all he's after is sex and he's into power tripping to get it, you need to have a rethink on this guy. Like Kev says, you could be setting yourself up for nothing, or abuse of all sorts. Don't expect emotional support from someone who has an allergy to emotions and sees your having a meltdown as something to be uncomfortable with. What Kev is saying, and he may not realize it, is that women's emotional meltdowns are often used as ways to manipulate men. This makes them uncomfortable and puts them off their game. Now the cards are in your hands. Some women just break up crying because they're upset at what's happening, it just depends.


Then there's love bombing, which he doesn't talk about here. It's a form of manipulation. Some people flatter the hell out of you to try to ingratiate themselves. Nothing you do is short of angelic, if you admit to having a fault they'll rescue you saying it was the other person's fault and you did no wrong. It's done because they're afraid you'll abandon them.


Understand with dysfunctional people they are not relating to you – they are relating to their past and their fears are controlling them. But trust me, when you've abandoned the love bomber, you'll see the other side of their flattery. There is no honesty in this at all. None.


Yeah, who needs it, I say. However, we all have to beware that all people we're dealing with may be power tripping rather than just honestly relating to others. You see the difference, don't you? Honestly relating to others, allowing yourself to be vulnerable, admitting your mistakes, showing where you're still learning, rather than the pack of lies and hidden agenda's we're using in Power Over Others relationships.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCNHeWTpj4I&list=PL_WeKcBU4z4WeA2htv2qUSE3aFjOynk_V&index=116&ab_channel=KevHickTalksGuyswithGirls

Most people do not see their beliefs. Instead, their beliefs tell them what to see. This is the simple difference between clarity and confusion. - Matt Kahn


Thanks, Matt! So here's an example of this. I was at the stationery store, looking for a calendar for next year, and this man came along and he wanted one too. He was to my right and was standing there, leaning in, stretching his arm to try to grab one of them to have a look. So I glanced over at him and said, “Move closer. I don't bite.” What he's thinking is that I could be some big virus with the ability to make him sick and kill him, and what I'm seeing is he's totally a neurotic hypochondriac. We have two completely different ways of looking at being in public now. He's afraid of everyone and I couldn't care less. That's because of our belief systems. We're having two completely different experiences and responding in two different ways to the same scenario. Hell, I've lowered my mask just to smile at people.


Ivo: And that his how you tell a person's belief system, my love, by their reaction.
Me: I want to be able to tell my beliefs before I react to them, is that possible?
Ivo: Difficult with your submerged subconscious, however looking back through your life to see about your reactions to various stimuli would give you some historic information.
Me: I want to know how I feel before I react.
Ivo: Then do as we tell you and learn to create your life. When you decide what type of life you want to live, then you know how you will react. When you say, “I live a peaceful life with no stress,” then you will react as if that is the truth. Try it.
Me: Suppose part of me wants to react, and I end up suppressing that reaction through denial? I get that kind of thing from all kinds of people. It feels like someone slamming a door in your face. My whole family has been doing that lately, using every kind of denial tactic going, just from stating out loud that they fear nothing to calling me a nut. These are all forms of denial. They're people who are shutting the door in my face rather than exploring the truth. I don't want to start doing that with myself, not again.
Ivo: So then you must feel the feeling that comes up and understand if it is fear based, you do not have to react to it. Let it go and take note of it for further examination later. Repeat the mantra: “My life is peaceful and stress free.”
Me: Imagine we live in a world now where the one thing that can bridge a gap between two strangers anywhere on the planet – a smile – isn't allowed.
Ivo: You are living under a sick regime.
Me: I think a smile cures more disease than any inoculation ever could. Now I have to assert my right to smile? Holy cow!
Ivo, I remember when I was in Toronto, which is a liberal city and they have some customs I wasn't in the habit of practicing. It was Christmas Day and as usual, I was alone (yeah, grab your violins! Don't worry, I buy myself whatever I want for Christmas, then I spend the day in peace and quiet) and as I walked up the street I walked by people and they smiled and said, “Merry Christmas,” or the more PC version, “Happy Holidays.” I replied in kind, first kind of amazed that big city people were acting different. That same person would have walked over my body if I'd fallen and threatened to keep her from getting to Union Station on time for her train. Yeah, stress kills. On Christmas it's a day for everyone to unwind, I guess, except for the one who has to cook dinner.
Ivo: Which, of course, says a lot about one's beliefs. Why should she behave any differently on Christmas day than on other days of the year? Or why should she behave any differently on other days of the the year than she would on Christmas day? Why, when people put on suits and carry brief cases, do they behave any differently than they normally would? It is environmental and it is habitual. These are roles.
Me: Yeah, the same thing I keep saying is why it's okay to wear a string bikini on the beach, even appropriate to do so, but try it at your mother's second marriage and she'll have a bird on you. Wear it downtown and, well, all the suits will love you, but others will be shocked. I can't see the difference. If a bikini is okay on the beach, why not anywhere else? When women sunbathe topless on their balcony people are shocked but they do it at the beach all the time in Europe, here they'll lie on their stomach to cover their breasts. What's the difference? It's all belief systems.
Ivo: You must examine your past and your current behaviour to see what your belief systems are. Often times you can trace them back to one or both parents. Your personal coaches have a tendency to ask questions about certain matters that would help you to trace back these beliefs.
Me: Yeah, like the money coach I had earlier. What I realized is that my money beliefs came from the 1930's, and that was the time of the Great Depression, where people went without and where the Illuminati raised the rate of inflation so high that people became worthless overnight. There's an interesting topic on beliefs, eh? Being worthless. So I guess I'm worth undisclosed amount dollars Canadian before taxes. I doubt that.
Ivo: And this is where many of you derive your sense of power from, from the jobs that you attract and from your spending power. You get credit cards that extend this, but leave you feeling powerless because you cannot pay them off.
Me: Yeah, like mine. It's like throwing money down an empty hole.
Ivo: So now you see your belief. You believe that paying off a credit card is impossible. It is possible. But because you believe it to be impossible, you are not accomplishing anything. It is possible and you could make more inroads into this if you tried harder. It may mean giving up a few of the things you are purchasing now or increasing your income, but it would be possible. When you start to see the balance drop, then you would understand it is possible, and you would change your beliefs. Your credit attitude also comes from your parents.
My love, you underestimate yourself so much. When you were a child, you saw your mother cut up your father's credit cards.
Me: LOL, I did. I can't remember what she said.
Ivo: That is not necessary. You are psychic and an empath, and you picked up more in feelings from these events than the actual words. Your parents were both liars. Why do you think you are more traumatized than your siblings were? Because you are an empath and experienced the trauma on more levels than they were able to.
Me: Oh.
Ivo: You picked up on your mother's anger at your father for spending on his credit card and she angrily cut it up. You understood them then to be bad things. Your first credit card, obtained when you were in your 20's was embarrassing for you when your credit ran out. And now this card has its credit out as well.
Me: I'm like my father.
Ivo: You learned your parents' lesson. Yes, in this society now you need credit cards but you must use them only in cases where you cannot use cash.
Me: Which are more and more.
Ivo: When you give yourself a new empowered message, such as, “I can and I will pay off my credit card,” the universe will conspire to give you the means to do so.
Me: Okay.
Ivo: You must move away from old thinking and embrace metaphysics as you move into the Age of Aquarius. As you gain in power, you must capitalize on that by embracing more power. You have a belief system around credit cards that does not work for you. Now you must change it.
Every area where your belief systems are limiting you, you will understand as painful. This is not a huge issue for you, however, it is an annoyance and more expensive than you should have to endure. What shows you your belief systems is when your mood drops and you become negative or feel disempowered to achieve anything. That is the next thing that must be worked on.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: My love, there are fewer and fewer issues as we work through them. You are holding more light and feeling better and your health is responding in kind. It is all reversing.
Those out there listening can learn to understand their belief systems as well, by the results they are manifesting in their lives. Many of you came to transmute the family karma and it is your job to win at the lessons your parents failed to. Look at belief systems carefully because they do influence your daily lives. Sharon cannot pay off her credit card because of her beliefs around holding credit. These are societal beliefs as well.
If you wish to change your societies, look at how you contribute to the whole of it, and change how you relate to what society has to offer you. That is the entire point. You are a part of a whole; change yourself and the whole will have to change as well.
When you are clear with yourself, not confused or experiencing any negativity, you are standing in your power.
In order to understand your beliefs, you must examine your behaviour. If you cannot pay off a credit card, it is because you believe it is not possible, or that you might suffer in doing so. Raising the extra money to do so is not an option that you are considering, but this would be the way forward. This way you do not go without any of the perks you are living with now. Either spend a bit less here and there, or raise more money.
Me: Awesome, Ivo! Thank you!
Ivo: My love. If anyone owes you, it is I.
Me: I'll take it in trade.  

Self Talk


Sometimes when my blood sugar is low or I'm tired or just out of sorts, my vibe sinks and the conversation in my head tends to go down the dumper. Here's a tip that might help some of you, I'm hoping. What I do when I hear that voice start to line someone up in the crosshairs is I say, “Stop! Where is this line of thought going? Going nowhere, that's where. What can I possibly gain by starting to bash this person for something they did to me? (The example I was looking at was the times my sister embarrassed me by dragging my skeletons out of the closet at parties, in front of my friends and workmates. Suffice it to say, I have learned that all people are not people you confide in, and finding someone who will keep your secrets is in fact finding a good friend. I think how, doing the work I do now, understanding this about people has probably saved me a lot of grief and can in future as well.)


I stop the train of thought and confirm the positive. All the people who have done things I didn't appreciate, including her, have taught me better boundaries. Had it not been for things they had done to me, I would not be embodying my higher self now, and would not be doing what I'm doing now. And like El Morya said the other day in our video, this experience has increased the three fold flame of God within my heart. I can love my sister, but I do it with wisdom now.


Pursuing this negative train of thought only will lead me to misery, unhappiness, anger and suffering. It's not worth pursuing. I continue to see the positive in this because it has led to better things.


You can try something like that when resentments crop up. If they keep coming up, you have to take a hard look at them and perhaps there's something that this person is mirroring back to you that you need to consider. Have I ever put my sister down? I have. Not in front of a crowd, but I have. So that's another thing to consider: having your own flaws acted out in front of you bothers a lot of people. Life is a mirror.


Doing the work, shadow work, on yourself is important. Why? Because your shadow pulls you down into the Matrix. I have done a lot of my work and am living consciously using universal law. People who don't do their shadow work are living by Matrix law, which is an entirely different thing. Matrix law or rules are meant to keep you unhappy and at a low frequency.


We keep talking about doing the work here and that's why we do it. If you want to leave the Matrix, you have to move up to soul level and embody your higher self here. In the movie, Neo's higher self sits in the chair while he sends his personality to fight all the Smiths in the Matrix. You're doing the same thing. Only by following universal law will you be able to see Matrix law for what it is – a bunch of rules made to keep you miserable. And if you don't believe me, lockdowns were fabricated and mandated by the Matrix poo-bahs.


Just the Matrix Smithing me again....


What happens when you reach a certain point is you develop this feeling of being a rock in the middle of a cool, calm pond - unshakable, unflappable sense of peace regardless of what's going on in your outer life. It could be storming around the rock but it just sits there peacefully, unmoving as it always is. Externalizing the internal soul.


When will it ever learn? Every time it sends me Smiths, I use them to speak my truth and to raise my frequency.


As Adama said in our video yesterday, every thought is important. And as I've noticed lately, every thought is manifesting immediately. If you're miserable today, you'll have to fight like Neo tomorrow because today's thoughts will manifest.


Our energy has sped up and manifestation is happening a lot faster. That can either be good or bad, it depends on what you're thinking. You have to take control of your mind and focus only on the positive.


That means that everything that you have a negative attitude towards, like for me, birthdays and family occasions, you have to eliminate this negativity. My birthday just passed and I turned 60. I had 60 miserable years clearing out negative karma on this planet. I know at a soul level, it was an act of love but at a personal level it felt like hell. I had a lot of hard lessons to learn. That's why I don't celebrate birthdays. I take each day as it comes and look at my life story and most days I can find something to appreciate about it, particularly now that I'm working at soul level. And that I have manifested the ability to do this and to help people, which is the only thing I ever wanted to do. I only wanted to love. So I get to do that now and for that I'm grateful.


The rest of it... well, it was hell. Frankly, I'm amazed I'm still alive.


I think the future will be brighter for all of us, but as Adama and Ivo are impressing upon me, we have to take responsibility for all of our thoughts. Every one of them. These videos are worth seeing if you haven't viewed them. They're this week's videos and they reflect the lessons I'm going through now.


I find that my multi-dimensional skillset is increasing. I saw a huge orb the other night, about three or four feet in diameter. I asked Ivo to show up but not as a ball! LOL Who knows who it was. For people who are opening their third eye, you tend to see things when your eye is opening from blinking, or you're turning your head and looking up. They're there. It's quick and disappears quickly when you look straight at it. And these “anomalies” or realities might be a more appropriate description, disappear when you look straight at them.


I also saw a 2 inch long bright white strip on my arm that ended in a point in one end. These are my most recent viewings, well, along with the black blob at the end of the sidewalk the other night. I see a lot at night time, moreso in the day so for those who are practising seeing our complete reality, that's a good time to look.

​You will become fearless when you realize that you create your entire reality and when you take control of it


Me: Hi Adama, can you explain this to us please?
Adama: Hello Sharon. I can. It's the truth. The reason you fear your reality, or aspects of your life is because you don't control them. The reason you don't control them is because you haven't stepped into your power. You're still feeling like a victim.
Outer earthlings fear their future. They fear what will happen to them, not understanding they create it. You spoke of several fears that you have that the dark ones use to harass you with, one of which is narcissistic, violent men. You're in a loop. You're repeating this loop over and over and continuing to attract men you fear will either beat you or kick your door in. The reason for this is because you still allow them into your life with your mind.
Me: Light snaps on.
Adama: So you understand, then. Create a vision of your life the way you want it. You envision weight loss and better health, you envision an increase in prosperity, now envision a decrease in toxic people around you.
You are so certain of so many things, you absolutely “know” that they'll happen. Now you have to absolutely know of things that won't happen so envision a life without them. There is no karma for anyone any longer; what's happening to you on the outer planet is your fears are keeping the dark ones alive. When you lose your fears you'll lose the dark ones.
You speak of the Matrix and how it sends Smiths to torment you. Now be a Neo and battle the Smiths.
Me: LOL
Adama: Neo battled his Smiths and eliminated every one of them that was sent to torment him when he went back into the Matrix. He grew stronger and more self aware the more you got into the plot of the story. Orpheus tried to tell him who he was but he had to, like you all do, learn to realize for himself. Be a Neo and create your own timelines. Forget about the Matrix. It can't harm you unless you let it. Let's just say that every time Neo hooked in to the Matrix, it's because he had another negative thought he was creating into a reality. Then he had to go and fight the Smiths, who represented the negative reality he created.
Me: What do you mean there's no karma for anyone any longer?
Adama: Your collective negativity has been transmuted to neutrality. Yes, earth's people are ready to ascend.
Me: I see a lot of people still behaving in non-ascension ready ways.
Adama: I said earth's people are ready to ascend. I didn't say they will ascend. People will ascend when they learn to stop being negative. When they stop creating unrealities. Your collective unconscious has been transmuted to a neutral state. Earthlings aren't carrying the baggage they have for eons.
Me: That's pretty good. So this is really about training our minds now.
Adama: Yes, Sharon. You noticed the other day that manifestation happens a lot more quickly than it ever did before.
Me: Yes.
Adama: You thought of a neighbour who's been doing something that annoys you and he showed up the next night. You had a talk with him and told him how you felt and he seems different now, so Neo battled this Smith. You're not so afraid of him. But the point is, that you thought of him and he came by the next day. Had you not thought of him in fear, he wouldn't have showed up. That's my point. You have so much control over what you attract and you don't realize it. That's what people are learning now. Not so much clearing of old karma. They're learning how to use their divine gifts. And the first rule is you create your reality, so think of nice things that you want to have in your life.
I hear you. You want Ivo. Yes, he is a nice thing, isn't he? LOL
Me: Yes.
Adama: Keep your focus positive. Always. Don't think of how the matrix harasses you or it will. Don't think of family members you no longer want to deal with or they'll show up. Don't dread things happening that you don't want to deal with, otherwise they'll happen and you will have to deal with them. Keep your focus absolutely, totally and completely on what you want, not on what you don't want. And I can't stress that point enough. Do not entertain thoughts of what you don't want because you'll have to deal with them.
Did you understand that?
Do not think about things you fear or don't want to happen, because you'll create them. Think only of what you want. Even if you have to think about Ivo all day long, then that's what you do.
Me: Okay.
Adama: Whenever you slip up, you'll know because things you don't like will start to happen. You'll know you thought something that you don't want because it will be there, to torment you. You're seeing now that you have longer periods of pleasantness where you can go about your work and taking care of yourself, and that's because your mind is more positive. Do not focus on what you don't want. Just don't. If you haven't been able to do it before, do it now: become a positive thinker. Only want the best always for yourself and others. Take complete responsibility for every thought you think.
Take responsibility for your every thought because they all count. Every one of them.
Your mind is your best friend or your worst enemy, it depends on how you use it. Focus is everything so focus only on the good and what you want for yourself and others.
Me: Thank you Adama.
Adama: You're welcome Sharon. I wish you the best.