Adama of Telos
You're of Unity Consciousness Already
Me: I wanted to do a reminder for you guys because you seem to need to take a step back. You're not remembering your galactic heritage, obviously because let's face it, the distortion, negativity and frankly just mind control that has obscured that fact from our consciousnesses is pretty pervasive.
Adama: It is.
Me: So I want to remind people that you've created a false self for yourself based on your need to survive here on earth. You're nothing like who you were before you came to this planet.
Adama: That's very true. All people who came to earth, all starseeds are of unity consciousness. That means they're unconditionally loving. However on the surface you learn a lot of things that remove you from that orientation and you learn specifically duality consciousness. So this fractures you from your soul, reduces your soul connection and in so doing the ego creates a false self it feels needs to be created in order to survive. This is the third dimensional consciousness, bereft of higher soul contact.
You remember so many times when you were young you watched others' behaviour and emulated it. Watch a child and see how they imitate what their parents have modelled for them. It's so obvious.
But your answers aren't outside of yourself. They're inside yourself. Always. Unless you have little soul contact. You become other oriented, focused on others for examples to follow when you should be taking direction from inside yourself. This is a complete reversal of polarity!
Me: I get messages from people in a lot of pain because they don't like it here on earth. They don't even want to live in their bodies they're in so much pain. Well, why is this? It's the false self that's creating this pain for you. Your soul is an unconditionally loving being so it's not the soul who's creating these problems for you. Not at all.
Adama: So the solution is to dissolve the false self. All the beliefs you have that cause you pain need to be transmuted and changed.
Me: This has been my path, folks. This is what I have to offer you. Ayevo and my video's are all about ridding yourself of the false self you've created in order to survive here on earth and embracing the love of the soul. Have I done this perfectly? No. But I've done enough of it that I can embody my soul in my physical reality. I'm of seventh dimensional consciousness now walking in 3D.
Adama: You've done well, Sharon.
Me: It was difficult and there were setbacks along the way. Now I get attacked for it by stinky archons who were here this morning in the daylight. Guess they missed me last night so they showed up later. I asked Athena to deal with them. The only way I can deal with them is by spraying them with Lysol but it still doesn't clear up the smell. And yes, folks, buy your Lysol or herbal air freshener as a way of determining whether the stench in your home is your stinky garbage or a stinky archon. That's another tool you can add to your spiritual toolkit.
Adama: LOL I never thought of that, Sharon.
Me: Me either till just now but that's what I used to do when they came around. I'd Lysol the place. And the stink would still be there so it wasn't poor housekeeping. Even while writing books I tend to stay on top of that. It's cooking that doesn't get done. LOL Yes, I'm writing my second one. First book about the Mercurians is in for proofreading. I hope to publish it this month. It's full of surprises. And this new one I'm writing is a jaw dropper already. So many, “I didn't think of that” moments and it's not even done yet.
Adama: This is the path for all of you. To understand your true self, not the self you created in response to the lies you were fed. There's so much that needs to be reversed, starting with your schooling and continuing on to the world forum. So much. You don't even understand your true needs or your real God given rights, the people of outer earth are so in the dark. We have compassion for you but you, like all other humans in the galaxy, have to understand for yourselves. We can teach you what we've learned and we're already doing that, but you have to do the changing yourself. You have to change your own mind because nobody can do it for you. Nobody can force you.
If you're in pain, it's because you're living in your 3D false self. You're living by beliefs that cause you pain. Of course you want to go home. You know it's better there, but the way home is through the false self. You have to change yourself to go home.
Me: Yes. It's a pity people don't understand what Ayevo and my messages are all about. Some people think it's Sharon airing her dirty laundry on line or just using them as a forum to complain to. Not at all. You need to watch the transition in my mood every time Ayevo coaches me through any given people problem I come up with. I always feel so much better having spoken to him. You can learn to do the same thing for yourselves.
Suffering is optional. It's not a necessity. If you're hurting then you can change. And pain is a great motivator, believe me.
There are many things you can do to help change your outlook in life. Even reading pages on the internet and doing the work on yourself they might bring up. There you go. It doesn't have to be difficult. Take it easy on yourself to start. Then you'll find you enjoy it as you delve deeper into the truth of who you are. You'll enjoy meeting yourself. I do. I love finding out things about myself I didn't know. As I see Tiannia, I see she has different taste in clothing than I do. But she's me, so how could she? Or look at it this way: Why don't I dress like she does? Because I'm of a different mentality here than she is on Elteron so I dress differently to reflect that. So of course I start looking to see what the difference is and how I can bridge the gap to be more like she is.
Tiannia can command a space ship. Obviously there's a large gap between her knowledge of space and mine as an earthling. I've tried to get some of that knowledge but frankly it requires Science and Math and I have an allergy to science and math. I like art and music better. So there's a block. I understand that and am not going to make any effort to change.
Tiannia has two children. I have none and even though I can't have children, I didn't want to either because I understood that I would have abused them forty years ago and I can't stand to see anything abused. So I didn't have children. Turns out I couldn't anyway but that's another story. Tiannia is not an abusive mother, she's a galactic mother and treats her children well. So what's the difference between her and me now? Could I treat her children as my own because technically they are, and would I abuse them. Absolutely not! My children are older than I am and yes, things can get convoluted sometimes but they are my children.
Yeah, it gets weird. Your life will too when you get to the same level of awareness that I have.
Adama: Yes, all must try to get their galactic consciousness back. This is the consciousness that sent them to earth in the first place and to make full use of it, they have to embody it, understanding of course there are many pitfalls and mountains to overcome in the process.
The consciousness that sent you to earth to help out is a consciousness of oneness, of universal love for others. Look at how you are now. Do you love everyone else unconditionally? Do you even know how to do so? Sharon and Ayevo have discussed this as well. Being the compassionate observer of life, even of the lives that seek to malign, taunt and negate you, those who seek to destroy your ego because that's what it is... they seek to destroy the ego so in fact they're doing you a favour but you don't tend to see it that way.
Me: LOL No, we don't. Nobody likes to be called a fraud especially when they're not. I just let the work I do speak for itself. I'm highly copied and eventually I'll move on for others to take my place.
Adama: When you're trolled and you react, the ego is telling you something. It's defending a false part of itself and that has to be dispensed with.
Me: Yes. Let me think of something... oh like the time that chick said I might be a bot. LOL I didn't react that much but what irked me is people commenting on my channelings with their assessment of my character. Always projection. Always. Blame and shame game.
Adama: So this bothers you. This is your ego defending itself. Let it go. They're showing you where your ego is out of alignment with your soul.
Adama: They're doing you a favour.
Me: One person wanted to know why I have so many problems. I deal with them, that's why. I'm also transmuting not only my family bloodline but also the karma of many people in the collective on earth so problems abound at times. I've just learned to deal with them better. They don't mire me down like they used to.
Adama: And that's it. You're an Indigo, a natural healer. Many Indigo's are surrounded by negativity and problems. They take on lifestyles of pain so they can transmute the collective consciousness and raise its vibration. They are here to eliminate suffering on this planet so they take on the suffering and transmute it.
Me: Yes. Pretty special.
Adama: If you don't have problems, you're not learning or you've just learned how to ignore them.
Me: Which doesn't help anyone, least of all you. Learning about yourself is fun. Yes, you come across things you'd rather not acknowledge but you don't have to tell anyone. Just acknowledge them to yourself and God and ask that the character defect be removed. Just strive to do better. It's not that hard. Retrieving your galactic consciousness and memories of past lives can be more difficult. I find part of the problem is that we don't have space ships to fly around here otherwise I might give it a shot, science or no science. There are other things that are more in common with life on earth like home, food, socializing, even transportation to some degree that you can learn about first before you take on the big topics. I still don't know whether I'd wear peach genie pants with slits on the side.
Adama: Thank you for allowing this service Sharon.
Me: My regards to Sharina, Adama.
Adama: I will.
Focus on What You Have in Common
Not on what you don't have in common. Why? Because this world is about expounding on our non-commonalities in order to justify divisiveness.
View all others as yourself.
Me: This is the message I got this morning as I was going about my work. Then when I'm done channeling this I'm going to continue painting my kitchen cupboards. I don't care if I spend just one more month here – looking at the ugly colour it was painted is more than I can take. I figure this is a result of ascension because since I've been trying to retrieve memories of Tiannia I've been doing fluffy flowers and pearly pastels on steroids. I was raised in a macho family where I learned to be tough and this is now giving way to a more gentler aspect of myself. And I welcome it. So I'm trying to make the point that you may be going through some curious changes as you undergo ascension, but go with them. They may be revealing yourself to you. Ivo even tells me what kind of shoes Tiannia wears when I go through the shoe racks at stores. Well, Tiannia doesn't wear orthotic inserts so she can wear those ultra feminine sandals made of thin strips of leather. I'm more inclined to wearing your grandma's army boots because I have to have a back piece on the shoe to keep the ortho in place. Oh well. He loves me anyway. I know he's just telling me to jog my memory, in fact. But he probably does like her sandals.
Adama: LOL Being a starseed comes down to your choice of shoes, does it?
Me: Well, there ARE differences between me and my higher self. I have a back problem caused by stress and a reptilian attachment from a past life apparently, and she doesn't. She also doesn't wear reading glasses and have amalgamed teeth. But she also doesn't have my beautiful blond mane. Maybe I can bring it back with me and put it on her. LOL. There are differences and Ivo just tells me what she would do in order to jog my memory and I might add, it's working.
Adama: Very good. Now can we discuss this lesson?
Me: Sure. View all others as yourself. Something like the “do unto others” rule. They never said why you're supposed to treat everyone like yourself but it's because we're all aspects of God.
Adama: Correct. When you complain about someone, such as your superintendent for example, ask yourself why you dislike him so much.
Me: He's always trying to preach Jesus as my saviour, and even the fact that he thinks my life is decrepit enough to want to save me annoys me no end. These people are always coming from the superior position in their transactions with others: they always think they know better. This guy is fixing up apartments using second hand materials from the Re-Store preaching that Jesus can save you if you pray to him every day. Great. He never said what Jesus saved him from but I heard he had a drug addiction a long time ago. He's still got light fingers and that's another thing I dislike: thieves. So for all intents and purposes when he annoys me I don't really feel like we're one. I'm sure many people have the same problem: They're trying to be solid with all other people in the world but when someone annoys them they drop out of unity consciousness.
Adama: And that's because you have problems with thieves and arrogant men.
Me: Yes, I was going to have a look at that. I have no problem with Jesus. I speak to him often enough. But I'm a Vegan and I believe that that's the reason I wasn't inclined to go to church: we have our own ideology and our own icons, one of which is probably Athena. Yes, Athena came from Lyra, folks. She's not an earthling.
The other thing he does is he tries to change me. I didn't ask to be changed. That's probably the crux of it, really.
Adama: There's no reason to fear someone who's trying to change you, unless you think it could work.
Me: It won't but I hate having these conversations with him. I need to get into the habit of walking away but he usually does it when he's in my apartment fixing something. So he may notice he may not be being called on as much. I find it annoying. My parents were always in my head as well and I hated it. I hate when people try to tell you what to think and this guy wants me to think like he does. The guy buys second hand clothes because he can't afford new clothes! What kind of life does he think he's actually offering me? I have new clothes and can afford to live which seems to be more than he can do.
Adama: He's teaching you patience.
Me: It's not working.
Adama: Perhaps if you simply told him to stop trying to change you and ask him to finish his job.
Me: Yes, I need to be more assertive. Like I ever thought I'd hear myself say that again. But I do.
But I see what you're saying. Just like in the old days I'm taking more of something negative than I really want to. Just putting up with stuff you don't like when you could change it is a sign of disempowerment. Obviously this is old stuff from the past.
Adama: You could see that he cares about you.
Me: Yes, he does. I'd rather he say, “Geez, I like you!” than try to foist his ideology at me but I know he probably gets credit in Heaven if he can convert people. I try to change people but it's up to them. I provide everything you want to know to better yourself and make soul contact. It's up to you if you take it or not. However I have my preferences and boundaries that suit these preferences. I've been attacked for talking about Faul McCartney: Woman had a breakdown because I destroyed her Beatles illusions. There was more going on in that group than meets the eye, folks. You have to understand they are marketed to the public. They have their own stuff going on just like everyone else. McCartney was replaced. But I don't plan on suffering people attacking me for telling them so. It's done all the time. The Beatles were not only a huge money maker they were also at the forefront of social programming of the younger people of the time. With the huge waves of starseeds coming in they needed some heavy fire and the Beatles were it.
Adama: This is true, Sharon. And there's many many more cases of these types of manipulation that have been done before and after the Beatles.
Me: I'll bet.
Adama: You've written a list of your triggers and ….
Me: One thing, though. And yes I have. I'm working on them. What if someone is doing something to you that you know is not right, like for example his trying to change me. It's not right. There's no respecting my free will there.
Adama: Then it's time to be assertive. “Stop trying to change me! I don't need Jesus.”
Me: He wouldn't believe me if I told him I can speak to Jesus any time I want. And I do. But I have to keep that quiet because he'd say that was impossible or something. I think he already believes I'm a witch. I told him too much.
Adama: I told you the way to make change is to appeal to the higher self of the person who's trying to change you. This was our last video, I believe. And this is the way to go here.
Me: I heard he's got a double and one of them is a reptilian. No wonder he tries to change me. They're all trying. LOL Yes, nightly at anytime between 1 to 4 o'clock in the morning.
Adama: He does have a human soul as well.
Me: Yes. I'll talk to him.
Adama: The point of this message then, viewers, is in order to be able to see others as yourself, you have to eliminate the things within you that drive wedges between you and them. If his trying to change you irritates you, appeal to his higher self and tell him to stop it. That should help as long as he holds to this. If he starts again, then simply assert yourself again. It's not that hard.
Not everyone on the planet is the same, of course, and they don't all think the same. The planet has been created to support division between you, but now is the time you have to heal this and learn to respect each other despite the fact that you may not believe as they do. Stop attacking people whose message is different from your own, for example. Learn to be tolerant where you can and learn to be assertive where you can't.
Me: Yes, this is basic stuff.
Adama: And it's always something that can be refined through the years.
Me: Thanks Adama.
Adama: Thank you Sharon for the opportunity to serve.
I see this comment: Take these vaxxes off the market – this is the most stressful thing. Uh huh. What about everything is going in God's time, not your time. There's always a reason they're here and it has to do with waking everyone else up. Same as the negative media. This is duality – you get a choice where you want to focus your attention right now. Do you want to spend time fearing what they do or supporting what we do? Do you want more fear or higher light? Your choice.
Or have you heard: It's supposed to rain today. Isn't that terrible?! Now what are we going to do?! Really? The weather changes and you're in a quandary? Really?
My rent just went up by 25 bucks. That sucks, man! Well, you could be grateful you have a place to rent and the money to pay for it. Start with that.
My neighbours just came home from their two week vacation and all their problems came back along with them. I was just thinking how relaxing it was lately and frankly I was even getting bored. Now my landlord has come by and looked at the mess their yard is in and is thinking of approaching them and asking them to clean it up because he's trying to rent the back apartment again. If he does that that'll spark off a whole other load of angst from my neighbour because he's so worried about what other people think of him.
I was telling my super about the ghosts I've seen around here and using the spirit box to talk to them and he almost had a meltdown. His fear was so palpable I could feel it! I'm sure now I'm branded as an occultist or at least a witch with him. I find many low consciousness religious people tend to explain everything they don't understand as the devil. As if they're the prototype for the perfect human. “If you're not like me, you must be wrong.” People are people. They have their own take on things. I don't like being called a witch or the devil's handiwork, I don't like that judgment, but I know why he says these things. If you keep fearing things you don't understand, however, you'll never learn.
And we have thought ourselves so above the rest of the galaxy that we're the only rock with life on it. Isn't that funny?
We're a ball of fear. That's what this planet is. I don't care if you think it's flat, a vortex, there are continents we don't know about, round, or a tetrahedron.... I don't care about the shape of it. But whatever shape it is, it's full of our fear and the negative energy produced as a result of our fearful thoughts. One thing I don't do is worry about the shape of the planet. I know what the shape of the planet is because Ivo has told me, but I don't spend my time worrying about things that don't matter. You're here. That's what matters.
Last night I woke up at 1 a.m. this time to see a flat round swirling vortex above my bed. This time when I went to zap it with white light I saw something come out of it, like a little point of energy that was directed at me. I can imagine I'm being blasted with this while I'm sleeping and that's what wakes me up. I asked Athena for back-up but basically I dismantled this thing with my own light. Okay, THAT matters. Why does that matter? Because in my experience with these dark swirling dervishes, I can learn something and pass it on to you guys.
It hit me yesterday as I was driving, because like the rest of us I don't drive entirely consciously it's so automatic that I do it, so often random thoughts can filter through from higher dimensions. This random thought was: “The point of living is not how you live but what's in your mind.” How you think is the entire point of life. Because your thoughts create your reality.
I figure there's a couple techniques people can use to deal with negative fear based thoughts right now. Or there is a continuum. You can be entirely fearful, submerged in the mire of your own thoughts. That's where I was years ago.
The next step is when you have a swampy thought, you refute it with an argument. I find fearful thoughts are unusually emotionally charged and that's one thing you have to watch out for if you're trying to pull the weeds from your mind: emotionally charged thoughts. “God! This world sucks right now.” Take it and look at the emotional charge and then remove that charge and think of the world logically: “Right now, this world is going through its shadow so of course it's going to be in a state. We have to convert our reality from an evil, toxic third dimensional reality to a beautiful abundant peaceful fifth dimensional reality. We're staring nuclear war in the face yet again. Why? Because they say history repeats itself. Yes, it does. Why? Because of universal law. In the same way a person's problems keep re-surfacing until they resolve them with love, this world will keep experiencing the same experiences until we can unite in love and move past them.” Now, doesn't that make you feel better?
Argue with the negative thought. What have you learned through people like Ivo about the truth of reality?
Eventually you get to the point, once you keep working at increasing your vibration, that you naturally think positively.
Adama: This is switching from the negative to the positive polarity, Sharon.
Me: Hi Adama. It is and it's not done in one fell swoop as so many would want. It's done in stages. I know because I've been doing it.
Adama: So many people believe that becoming spiritual is a question of always having a good mindset, but that's not true. Spiritual people have some of the worst extremes simply because they have so much transformation to do.
Me: At least on outer earth.
Adama: Yes, we don't tend to have those large swaths of transformation like you do on the surface. Ours is more of a consistent, pleasant pace.
Me: LOL I haven't seen you on the surface lately either.
Adama: I do speak to surface people. But they're generally of a more positive frame of mind.
Me: I just thought of something else too. There are reasons that people become irritated on earth and although the irritation isn't valid, the response is. Everyone here is trying to embody their higher self. Whether they're a novice or whether they're a graduate – they're trying to embody their higher self and to hold that vibration. Whether they realize it or not.
There are things I find in trying to do this that I become angry about and some of those things are injustice to myself or others, especially children. I figure adults are able minded enough to work through their issues with each other but children need an adult to stand with them and to protect them against injustices. Months ago, I became irate with a neighbour who had asked the boy next door to stock her bird feeder. She had offered the boy ten dollars a week, but then started paying him five until such time she wasn't paying him at all. But he was still doing the work and complaining to me about it. I went with him to her house and when I was confronted with her lies, I lost it. She was clearly ripping him off and his parents weren't supporting him so I did. Suffice it to say she avoids me now, but she's not someone I want to keep company with anyway. It's one thing to rip off an adult, but a kid! Wow!
Adama: Perhaps you could have found a way to address her more pleasantly. That is if you value your relationship with her and even if you don't, she's still a part of God.
Me: That's true. But something got triggered in me, and I know that that's not her fault. My triggers are mine to deal with and yes, it probably has to do with feeling ripped off by my own parents who I became very angry with. I have to be careful to stay out of the past and understand that becoming angry when someone treats me or someone else like my parents did only connects me to my past. It's about learning to deal with it differently this time. Personal growth. Spiritual growth.
Adama: And unity consciousness. She's part of the One too.
Me: I know. But so is this kid!
Adama: But how is your life in general as opposed to when you were a child?
Me: Oh, much better.
Adama: How is your response when you're angered?
Me: Much better. I'm actually able to verbalize it rather than go ape shit on most occasions anyway.
Adama: These are the things people must look at in order to understand the progress they've made in life. Your system of arguing with negative thoughts is a good one. That way they don't take root in your psyche, and if they have taken root, then you uproot them this way and replace them with more positive thoughts. Mastery of your mind isn't always an onerous task. Techniques can be quite simple, like yours.
You see, Sharon, it's about balance. I just showed you how to look at the weather today with more balance.
Me: Ah! There goes my prosperity symbol! A green Kia Soul!
Adama: You have prosperity symbols?
Me: I said to God that if He ever made me rich, I'd buy my sister a green Kia Soul because she likes that car. So I forgot about it and not five minutes after I said it, I saw two green Kia Souls driving behind me in the rear view mirror. Two, not only one, but two of them. It sent shivers up my spine. I've had a video out too where St Germain talks about the secret language of life and this is sure one message I got.
Adama: (smiling) That's interesting. Yes, communication is life and if you can't communicate then you can't really live. Light is something that's communicated and of course Light is information. So how do you communicate? Verbally. Telepathically and through symbols and this car was one such symbol that you and God had agreed to communicate a message to each other with.
Me: I like colours too.
Adama: Yes. Now as for balance. Looking at the weather today with more balance. You can say it's overcast and greyish out and it is. You had a lot of hot weather and then storms last night which brought the temperature down. So you can say it's not hot and sunny but it's cooler today which is more suitable for going outdoors.
People always tend to see things as either positive or negative. What about seeing both sides? For those who complain a lot, what about seeing the positive side of what you're complaining about?
Your ex left you. Okay, now you don't have him around to mow the lawn but you do have more money because he spent it all gambling. Now you believe that all you have is a chore to do every week, but yes, you also have more money to pay a teenager thirty dollars to mow the lawn for you.
You all have the habit of doing this – only seeing one side of the situation. Look at both sides.
Your car has broken down but now you have an excuse for not going to the meeting you wanted to skip tonight.
You have new neighbours who have moved in and yes, they cut down the raspberry bush that Sharon was eating from, but perhaps they're good neighbours who will bring the neighbourhood up a notch.
Me: LOL We could use some!
Adama: You think your neighbourhood is low class but then your rent is cheap. There are always two sides, Sharon.
Your rent is cheap so you can continue to do this service for free or to offer discounts on your books. There are always two sides, people. Always.
There's a positive and a negative. So many of you focus on only the negative. Well, then that's where your life stays – in that polarity because it's your mind that regulates your life.
Adama: So that's today's lesson, Sharon. We'll speak again.
Me: Thank you, Adama.
Adama: With love and gratefulness for the opportunity to Serve.
Codependency is a Focus on Others
Everyone is focused on others to some extent, however the codependent is focused on others because they require others to define them. Their self definition requires the abuse of others to exist; they require abuse to feel alive. They know how to deal with abuse. Codependents Anonymous, which is free to all who need it, says this about the codependent: “We attempted to use others – our mates, friends, and even our children, as our sole source of identity, value and well being, and as a way of trying to restore within us the emotional losses from our childhoods. Our histories may include other powerful addictions which at times we have used to cope with our co-dependence.”
You're a free standing individual, yes part of a collective, but you are free standing. If you need others to define you, to occupy your mind so that you can avoid observing your own thoughts, and to try to control them in order to make them parent you, then you're codependent. It's not others' jobs to parent you. It's your own. If you had insufficient parenting as a child, it's your job to re-parent yourself as an adult. Using a program or at least seeing a shrink are good ways to learn how to do this. You have to learn what healthy behaviour is.
Many people think that codependency is like having a scab on the body. It'll heal. Just leave it be. No. Codependency is you being pushed on a gurney down the hallway of a hospital to have life saving surgery. That's how important codependency is.
For people who had parents that were scene stealers, parents who hogged all the attention and kept the focus of family life upon themselves, these children never learned how to define themselves independently of someone else. The codependent will often but not exclusively come from addicted families. There will be an alcoholic, drug addict or some otherwise addicted person who would manipulate the codependents (usually spouse and children) into providing an excuse for more drinking or other addictive behaviours. “If you weren't like that, I wouldn't have to drink!” You don't have to drink anyway, but it's not because of other people.
Because these people are unconscious they often marry or partner with people who they scapegoat. The scapegoat also tends to come from families where they were scapegoated by their parents. This is inter generational abuse and it comes about because of mind control, particularly the dark mother and king of tyranny programming. If you had parents who kept the focus of the family on themselves by creating chaos and drama, if you were ignored, neglected or abused in any way including verbal, you are probably codependent.
You don't see yourself as being capable of defining yourself without an abuser in your life. You don't like to live alone because you feel like you're nothing. You can't define yourself without a constant stream of violence, aggression and upset in your life. Being at peace and living in a calm house doesn't sound sustaining to you – it sounds awful. You don't know how to deal with peace and quiet!
The Codependent is on the victim triangle, usually as the victim however they can play the other two positions. One thing you have to know about the triangle: triangulation never stops. Because players can switch positions triangulation can go on in relationships indefinitely. What you need to do is learn to become assertive and insist on face to face, one to one conversations, not through or involving a third person.
The codependent is completely defended against knowing themselves. That's why they require a perpetrator to define them. The codependent uses the typical deflective skills of minimization, denial, gaslighting, comparison, compliance, rationalizing, justifying, avoidance and blaming in order to manage life. Does this sound like any way to live? Does this sound like thriving to you? It doesn't to me and it wasn't!
I've attached a worksheet so you can read about these defense mechanisms that we build up in childhood, and as an adult in order to function better we have to stop using them.
What this sheet doesn't mention is other defense mechanisms that the codependent uses on other people, who generally are well aware of what the codependent is trying to do, offensive behaviour like ass kissing, flattery, trying to appear as someone they're not, bribing, ingratiating themselves in some other way like financially, hiding motives and intentions, and more.
All of these defensive and offensive behaviours are manipulative and controlling skills acquired and practised in childhood in order to appease the addict/perpetrator in their lives.
Folks, people resent being treated this way. I personally don't like to be regarded as a substitute for your toxic mother. You're not living in real time, you're stuck in the past. You need to heal your childhood wounds and get present. Being able to function in the now is part of neutralizing the effect the veil of amnesia has on you and helps you to retrieve all parts of yourselves include your akashic. You get to have a better understanding of who you are when you quit behaving in this false understanding of who you're not!
Earth gave you the gift of confusion. Many people are codependent and don't even realize it. I believe codependency is the language of the Matrix. Overcoming codependency is about standing in your own power. Assertive people are far more powerful than those who use sneaky demeaning methods of trying to communicate with others. And it's a bad way to get your needs met as well, I find. People resent having to deal with codependents because they don't want to relate to you on their toxic level.
An easy test to see how codependent you are: How much time do you spend focused on others' behaviours, criticizing what they do wrong rather than what you do wrong? Yes, that's what I mean. If you've got an inner critical voice that's loud and takes every opportunity to proclaim how everyone else is wrong (and the assumption then is that you're perfect) then you're codependent.
I dealt with my codependent critic and don't hear from it much anymore. Every time she started talking I realized she was a tape recording of my mother and her insecurities and I told her to shut up. It works. This may seem discompassionate but at the time she rears her head I'm usually not in a very good mood and it's the best I can do. I have learned to have compassion for myself and for my mother who taught me to be this way.
Ivo: But this is a good point, my love. You have been taught to be that way. And anything you've been taught can be unlearned. It requires going through it to find yourself on the other side.
Ivo: There is a part of you that will not change and that is your divine essence. However there is a part of you that is malleable as it is the mind of the avatar in the lower dimensions. This is the part of you sent to earth in order to learn. What you learn can be changed.
Sharon is in the process of unlearning everything she has ever learned because it was harmful for her. She understands that she must do this because her thinking was not helping her to remember herself at all, it was hindering it.
She has taken on many beliefs on earth that others simply accept without questioning so she questions everything. She wonders why all the houses are the same in her neighbourhood, why do they all grow green grass and have paved driveways? Why all the standards? Why all the complicity? Why do people accept a working life and the need to use money without questioning it? Why are things that have no price tag seen as worthless when in fact at times they are the most worthy items there are? Why is there a need to value everything financially? Can you value the loss of a life? Yet it is attempted.
Sharon wonders why there is so much aggression. Why not the sweetness and gentleness of a still moment? Where did appreciation of the quiet go in favour of the loudness of carnivals, streets laden with cars, and stores packed with shoppers? Why entertain yourself this way when nature is so much more giving? Why is it seen as less interesting?
Me: I'd be gone in a heartbeat if I could get out there. I think even in Toronto there were more natural spots we could sit and enjoy the quiet. We used to sit and watch sailboats in Lake Ontario on sunny days. For hours. Just sitting there watching people enjoying the pathway and watching the boats. It was bliss! Absolute heaven. Now I have speed boats and RCMP officers trying to catch drug runners here. They run drugs from the U.S. to Canada over Cornwall Island. I'd give my eye teeth to watch the sailboats again. They were beautiful.
I just keep thinking, “What can I do? Where can I go?” just to sit and experience a breeze on my face and the squawking of sea gulls. I miss it. We don't have that kind of thing here. Just a small beach which they have thank God, and a few parks.
I still love a sunset. I still love the smell after it rains. Life can be so invigorating.
Ivo: Your world no longer suits you, my love.
Me: It never did, it just took me a lifetime to realize that. Others will realize that too, soon, and they'll start to make changes. Just think if you work from home or on line, then you can move anywhere and live anywhere you want. Earth will change as people realize they miss things like peace and quiet. Then they'll start doing something about it.
Ivo: Were you to understand the language of your addiction, you would understand what is missing from your life. Admittedly, many starseeds did not come to earth to have a balanced life. There often is something missing and often it is your twin flame and loving galactic families. Your way of life is missing, your ideology – that of the Law of One, is missing in all you relate to on earth. This often will set up the starseed for addictive behaviour or codependent behaviour, but when you release all of these things what you will find when you let them go is yourself. Your true self. Sharon is undergoing the last steps of this now and it is not easy for her as she must remember some very traumatizing situations she endured as a baby, however the prize is worth it. The prize is your true self and more of your own empowerment.
Me: Yes, codependency is the language of being disempowered. I'll put up a list of characterististics. Melody Beattie has good books describing the characteristics too and for those without money to spend on books, go to your local charity shop with a book section. You'll find her books there because they were very popular before, with good reason.
As These Negative Energies Reverse, Everything Else Will Reverse Or Fall
Ivo of Vega: Yes, I put that into my love's head the other day and she made note of it. This is a truth. As the positive energies increase, what was once negative will either die or reverse its polarity.
This holds true for people as well as institutions upon planet Earth.
What cannot be reversed as it is so evil will simply die. Evil cannot stand the higher vibratory rate that planet earth is now experiencing and you see so many of those who are evil have given up their game. They have either sworn to change or have been taken off planet in order to face galactic trial. This counts for those you see face to face and those you do not see who have been working in the background to continue to enslave you.
Everything is energy and life depends upon its vibratory frequency. Those evil ones who came to earth: the Annunaki, the djinn, the Archons and more, to enslave people required that you be enslaved because they have of themselves no source of life. They are parasites by nature.
They have created a low vibratory system in which the earthling functions at levels far beneath its normal standard but which they thrive at. This evil system is what is being revealed to all upon planet earth now and as it is revealed to you and you reject it, because you are the keepers of the keys to planet earth, what you say prevails. If the majority says that they will not stand for any more war, so it will be. No more war. That is coming in fact.
If the people on earth are repulsed by satanic behaviours towards children, then these satanic behaviours will no longer be able to be conducted.
Those of the lowest frequency were caught first and have given themselves up. Those whose frequency is slightly higher are still upon the earth attempting to create their warfare and compromising human children, as they always have. But they are reducing in numbers.
We have striven to take away their cloning facilities but yet they still have access to a few as well as CGI facilities which we are seeking to compromise at this time. Much is being done in the DUMBs as well and as you know this is still ongoing. Watch where floods are occurring.
As they die, you will grow. They are the ones who have held your frequency down all these years and now that they can no longer influence you, you are free to rise up to a level that you naturally feel good at. Now, this is conditional and the condition is that you must be willing to give up your lower frequency behaviours, thoughts, beliefs and ideas. These must go because this programming is what has held you down.
You will see their continued attempts to control your minds through fear. The only thing you need do is banish fear from your lexicon and live without it. Then you have beat their system.
Many of your world's leaders have been compromised against their will and we make deals with them in order to allow them to work for the Light, as they had always intended to do. However, there are always those who oppose them. So many skirmishes and battles are being carried out on earth now: personal, private, public and within the governmental arena that we simply watch to see who wins. We do our utmost to stack the deck on the side of the Light as ridding this world of evil is what we have sought to do for millions of years. Yes, we have fought the evil that has controlled your world long before it came to roost upon earth.
And good will win. The Light will win. Any other way is impossible, because without those of the Light to parasite energy from, there would be nothing. Life will continue.
Our mission is to see that the Light will prevail. For darkness to leave the people of earth, this is up to you, but we are here to help you.
Many of you ask when disclosure will happen. It is already happening. I am not from earth and you are listening to many extraterrestrials who speak to you from beyond your planet. Many of you wait for the rest of the public to be disclosed to, however it does not work that way. People turn to the disclosure messages when they are ready and not before. We will not force the people of earth to understand that we are here; it is when they are ready that they will awaken to our presence and not before.
Sharon asks about a nuclear event and Ashtar's admission of disclosure at that time. Yes, if it gets to that point but the likelihood of that is very slim in fact. Ashtar would only disclose the presence of extraterrestrials if earth stood on the precipice of being annihilated. And right now it is not.
Earthlings are working through their collective shadow. For those who have already done or are doing this work at a higher level, what is going on on earth may seem irrelevant to you. Some are feeling drained of their energy and yes, it is being used to buoy those who are not awake yet and the reason for this is if you did not give of your energy, those people would die. There are still many who have contracted to wake up at this point in time. Perhaps another 9/11 event would help as it did years ago.
Your energy is not a personal item. As you are all One, it is being distributed around the world to help others in need. It helps to heal the sick and helps those who perhaps would make errors in judgment not to make these errors. The human energy on earth is one large consciousness. You are a part of that energy and when you help others to raise their consciousness, you carry less of the load yourself.
This is why we teach that you must take responsibility for yourself and shoulder your own load – because in doing so you are holding all the energy you can and allowing others to do the same. The more you shoulder of the collective consciousness, the more Light you hold as well.
You have seen many things reversed that you felt you would be stuck with. Governments with prime ministers and presidents who have quit, only to be replaced by someone who might appear equally unfit to govern. But then again, this leader quits and he is replaced. It could continue to be this way until such time the energies level off but for now you will be able to choose your leaders – not by vote but using the power of your mind and consciousness. Perhaps I might refer to your system of “trying to get it right” as the way this would appear to be. You are not trying to get it right – the leader of choice responds to the collective level of Light within those they would govern.
Me: That makes sense Ivo because we've still got Castro and he's not going anywhere. And Canadians are slow to wake up in my opinion.
Ivo: Yes. There has been little done in Canada to awaken those asleep. You are at a lack for leaders and more are focusing on the United States, however you must focus on your own country as well.
That is the true way to vote. Many of you are unaware of the subtle energies that are ruled by universal law that run this planet because you have never seen them at work for the Light, you have only seen them misused against you. But you will learn that to hold positive energy and to have concern for those people around you is the strongest vote you can cast.
We are listening. We know what you are undergoing. Karma is being rebalanced and the dark ones are being taken to the Light. Once again, earth will become the paradise she was intended to be, not the hard learning school of the latter years.
Ayevo Is Taking “the Lyran Gate” Back Home
Hi folks. This month Ayevo is going back to Vega on vacation. My parents are already there and his parents are there and so is one of our daughters and our grandchildren. Oh. I see Enoch, our son is going with him, I'm told.
So I'm alone here (sniff sniff) with only my brother Merton, who's my wing man. Ayevo is taking the last of my family over to our home on Elteron.
Why does he always go in August? You might be wondering, because he does. I ask Adama to sub in for Ayevo so you'll be seeing more of his work this month as well as St Germain and El Morya. I like to ask someone different for more information on what Ayevo channels on because sometimes they say it differently and it clicks better for me. Adama is going to focus on the three fold flame: power, love and wisdom.
Ayevo goes on vacation in August because he's flying above the Northern Hemisphere and during August the constellation of Vega is at its closest to us. So that's when he goes for about a month.
So, Ayevo, you told me you're taking the Lyran star gate. What is this and where is it? Does it start at earth?
Ayevo: No, my love, you must enter the sun.
Me: Oh. Yes, I know it's a gate.
Ayevo: At that point it has many stargates and to find the one you desire you must calculate the frequency you need. So you would calculate the frequency of Elteron, our home planet, into our controls and then the ship will find the correct gate.
Me: Yes, you wouldn't want to end up in 3D Draco, would you?
Ayevo: No. LOL
Me: But you've got this calculation on speed dial, don't you?
Ayevo: We use it often. I have taken you home at night time although you were not aware of it.
Me: So this star gate... is it a fixed thing or do you create them?
Ayevo: No, it is a fixed thing. The point of entry is the sun.
Me: Wow. I can't imagine flying into the sun but you've done it a lot.
Ayevo: We understand what the sun is. We understand that if you are at the correct frequency it cannot harm you.
Me: Imagine the poor guy who figured out the hard way.
Ayevo: We have our scientists too, just as you had a Gallileo and a Newton. They broke through new theories and we did this as well. However the first time we sent a ship into a star we made sure it was mechanical and we had recording devices on the ship to see what the ship experienced. We did lose a few ships but we perfected this technique because now we know the science.
Me: Are there other star gates there too?
Ayevo: There are many. They go to the Pleiades and other constellations.
Me: Interesting. And they can fit a ship in them?
Ayevo: They can fit mother ships in them as well. Energy is expansive and contractive, my love. They will fit whatever you desire.
Me: Are there star gates around earth?
Ayevo: Yes, there are.
Me: Where do they go?
Ayevo: They go to many other planets within the solar system as well as to many of the forerunner races home stars, such as Alpha Centauri.
Me: Why do we have to go to the sun? Why can't our star gate just connect at earth?
Ayevo: The Lyrans and Vegans decided to do it this way instead.
Ayevo: Simplification of the process. It is as much to take a star gate to the sun as it is to take it from the sun to another sun. It is a short journey to the sun. It doesn't take much time at all, so we decided to create the gate at the sun.
Me: You created it?
Ayevo: Yes, we programmed it. We can de-program it as well.
Me: Yes, I'm thinking as soon as you said the word “de-program” that you're intending all listeners to wake up a bit more, to de-program them from their matrix teachings.
Ayevo: The word does have that intention, yes.
Me: So you were doing that?
Ayevo: Yes, I was. I am trying to de-program you.
Me: So how's that working for you? LOL
Ayevo: It is going well but we are at the final stages. The large red eye you saw last night as you woke up is significant in that you have never seen large red eyes staring at you at night time.
Me: So it's something new and that's what you're saying progress is when people are losing the veil.
Me: How big was that thing staring at me?
Ayevo: Rather large.
Me: I guess with red eyes he either came for visine or he came for trouble.
Ayevo: He was troublesome.
Me: I just laughed at it and went to the toilet. What was it?
Ayevo: It was reptilian.
Me: With red eyes? I didn't see the slitted pupil. I only saw the iris.
Ayevo: That is still progress.
Me: Okay. So seeing new things is progress. I guess I'm seeing more frequencies and seeing behind their shields or something because I know they shield themselves from our seeing them.
Ayevo: They do. So every frequency you are accessing and counter programming. Because the frequencies are programmed and you are able to de-program them as well.
Me: So there's something more to it than just being able to see that frequency?
Ayevo: Yes, take your computer for example. It vibrates at a particular frequency and that frequency is fine but it requires programming in order to function. So do their shields. They are of artificial intelligence.
Me: So there's an A.I. component to this? Not just organic/energetic?
Me: Oh that makes sense too, doesn't it? So we have to become computer hackers and we have to hack their A.I. technology?
Me: How did I do it?
Ayevo: Would you like the simple explanation or the complicated explanation?
Ayevo: Very well, what you did was your energy was sent to surround the A.I. component and lower its frequency in order that it will relate to your frequency. In doing so, it is possible to negate the frequency of the A.I. And so deactivate the technology. In this case, the shields of the reptilian.
Me: I see more things while I'm waking up, in the in between stages of sleep and awake. I see a lot more there. That's when I see globs of free floating negativity as well. Why did I see its eye only?
Ayevo: Because this was the brightest colour and the frequency most able for your mind to tune in to.
Me: Okay, that's a start. So we have to be hackers, guys. And this is the other thing. Implant Communications is going to start trying to help parents with children who are being attacked at night time and otherwise by dark astral entities. They're not off the planet yet and they're still a nuisance but there are things I believe you can do to help your children sleep soundly in spite of their presence.
We're starting a page on that on our first website sharonandAyevo.weebly.com. I'm starting to remember some of my early childhood memories and I realize now I could see these things and it scared the living hell out of me as a kid. I was a nervous wreck back then. And that's why.
So we don't want this happening to your kids. They're going to start to see them because of the rising frequency of earth and the fact that their DNA is more active than ours is so they need help.
Thank you, Ayevo.
Ayevo: My love, you are most welcome.
The Veil of Amnesia
“Archangel Metatron comments on the Veil of Ignorance and Forgetfulness
This veil holds a rigid structure in place that does not allow the DNA software programming and the coding structure of the DNA to actively integrate into the higher-dimensional chakra system necessary to activate aspects of the hypothalamus, medulla oblongata and pineal gland. These aspects are limited by this veil or partition. This partition is also what holds you in third-dimensional linear time (time as a past–present–future loop) and creates major restrictions to knowing yourself.
There are two partitions within the brain. The first partition is the corpus callosum, a coarse tissue that separates the right and left hemispheres. The original purpose of this tissue was to assist both sides of the brain to communicate with each other. With the Fall of Consciousness and eons of living in the dense third dimension, this capacity has become significantly restricted. The second is a vertical non-physical partition that is perpendicular to the corpus callosum and located between the temples on either side of the head. This partition minimizes the function of the hypothalamus, medulla oblongata and pineal gland and it significantly limits the performance of the seventh and eight chakras in the physical experience.
This nonphysical partition, or veil, holds each of us in a narrow field of logic, duality and rigid rules. This veil is an electromagnetic field of energy. As you think thoughts, the thoughts pass through this electromagnetic field and are filtered based upon past memories or future concerns. This filter instantly draws a similar emotion to the thoughts you think based on those past experiences or future beliefs, fears or doubts.
However, when you are in a present-time now experience such as amusement, laughter or play, the filter is neutralized. It has no negative past or future concerns, no doubts or fears to draw upon. When you observe in present-time, the veil is neutralized, allowing observation from the Higher Mind. It’s here where this partition or veil is dismantled and reconstructed into its originally intended function: to open your awareness of the multi-dimensional consciousness from where you have come. Here the hypothalamus, medulla oblongata, pineal gland and seventh and eighth chakras become more engaged, the ninth, tenth and eleventh chakras become accessible.
Here, with the use of higher-vibrational Light and colour vibrations, the coarse tissue of the corpus callosum will be altered into a softer electro-chemical gel, allowing the right and left hemispheres of the brain to function as originally intended, in full communication with each other.
When you observe in present-time, the veil is neutralized, allowing observation from the Higher Mind. It’s here where this partition or veil is dismantled and reconstructed into its originally intended function: to open your awareness of the multidimensional consciousness from where you have come.”
Self, Jim; Burnett, Roxane. A Course in Mastering Alchemy. Watkins Media. Kindle Edition.
Me: So if the veil of amnesia works on a certain frequency or frequencies, I'm wondering if these frequencies are similar to that of our TV or internet frequencies. Ivo says they are. So the more you watch tv or spend time on the internet, or your computer, then the less likely you'll be to ever wake up to your true reality. This is something Ivo has bugged me to stop doing: stop spending so much time on the computer and spend time just “being”.
As for wifi, I use EMF reducing technology to limit my exposure to EMFs, and I turn my modem off at night time so that way I have less exposure to my EMF's for 8 – 12 hours per day. Something easy to do to stop over-exposing yourself. However, my neighbours don't so there's still that much exposure to deal with but it's an improvement anyway.
Metatron says: “This partition is also what holds you in third-dimensional linear time (time as a past–present–future loop) and creates major restrictions to knowing yourself.” Ivo has bugged me to stop using the days of the week as determiners of what I do. Half the time I don't remember what day it is anyway and this is good, he says, but I have to put the garbage out on Tuesday night and channel Archangel Michael on Sundays. He says watch for the neighbours doing it and just put yours out when they do. He's trying to get me to stop thinking in linear time. Archangel Michael said he'd remind me if I forgot to do his group message.
As it happens, I must be having more success with overcoming the veil because I can recall more of Tiannia's life (she would be my higher self) and letting go of more of who I thought I was. We're doing more video's on this in order to guide you. I believe my ultimate goal is to embody her memories as my own. I've had some success with this but I have to work on it. That requires my releasing everything I thought I was here on earth and releasing all my relationships too.
For most people, their higher self is a higher aspect of themselves; for me it seems to be another physical person entirely. Well, yes and no. Of course there are strong resemblances in personality between me and her, but she grew up remembering her past lives and had a different set of healthier beliefs to live by which is what I draw on to do this work and where I get my strict boundaries from. I'm still going through a process of divorcing myself from things I thought reflected who I was, and they do to some extent. But as for my love of rock music, all I can say is I love music, not necessarily the type I do now.
Basically I'm getting over my amnesia and re-connecting myself to my higher self. And that's the point of rising to another dimension anyway: to embody your higher self. Will all of you have to do this? Most likely I'm thinking. If you're higher self is a better version of you then you're lucky, you just have to improve yourself. But for those of us who are astral incarnates and share consciousness with another being then you have to understand yourself as that other being because that other being is you anyway. Yes, I know. Confusing.
From the book: “This nonphysical partition, or veil, holds each of us in a narrow field of logic, duality and rigid rules. This veil is an electromagnetic field of energy. As you think thoughts, the thoughts pass through this electromagnetic field and are filtered based upon past memories or future concerns. This filter instantly draws a similar emotion to the thoughts you think based on those past experiences or future beliefs, fears or doubts.”
Ivo: And a perfect system has been provided to you in order to keep you within the parameters of the veil. A narrow field of logic, duality and rigid rules. Logic is the basis upon which your scientists operate when in fact yes, the universe is organized however your scientists would argue the existence of life on this planet that is not carbon-based, for example. However this life does exist on earth. They would say, “It can't be done,” but it can't be done according to their limited scope of scientific knowledge. It can be done with a wider expanse of knowledge not available to your limited minds yet.
As for duality you see the dualistic system all the way down to your gender wars, double political party systems and your insistence on seeing all as black and white: yes or no, it is or it is not. When of course you open your mind to possibilities even what you believe to be impossibilities, then you are in the shades of grey – the maybe's and your thinking is open to a more expansive view on life than what duality would give you.
Then there are your rigid rules. You must drive so many kilometers per hour. You must be at work at 9 a.m. You must observe national holidays.
Sharon observed her neighbours' parents who are extremely toxic and how they might think and this is another example of extremely limited dualistic thinking. If you are beholden to either yes or no, it must be or it cannot be, then you may think as these people do. With her neighbours on vacation, the parents are coming to check on the pets daily. Sharon had to move some items from her trunk so she decided to park in their parking spot and she left her car there overnight. When his parents showed up, Sharon mused that most likely they are incensed that she left her car in a spot which is not hers to use. She felt that something of this nature would upset them.
Me: You could say I was showing bad use of boundaries and perhaps even violating their boundaries but I felt that since they were gone they might appreciate a car in their driveway now and then to make it look like someone was home but this could be me rationalizing. I decided to park there anyway and it was no sweat off anyone's noses, or it didn't have to be but I'll bet the parents took notice and will tell him I was in their parking spot. He'll just say, “So what?”
But that kind of adherence is adherence to rules that really don't matter. There was no violation of anyone's free will here. They just have to adhere to things 'the way they should be'. When you find yourself thinking like this, then try to be more flexible. The matrix mindset and those who police others' behaviour as being compliant or not is made of these insignificant rules that don't matter. This is where conformity comes from. Other rules like this is you have to be wearing the latest fashions this summer. You have to buy all the latest electronic gear because it's in. You have to be up on things, you can't be old fashioned. You can't do things the way your parents or grandparents did because that's not cool anymore. Watch what's “cool”, folks, because there's a lot of conformity in it. If you find yourself explaining to others, embarrassed at something you've done that they think isn't cool, then find some new friends who don't push matrix living on you. Do what you want, you don't have to conform.
Ivo: The point of this video is that you must release yourself from conformity, from adherence to the calendar, and insistence on seeing it to believe it. Because then you won't see it, of course. These are the ways to lower the veil of amnesia which was placed when you were born, and allow you to see beyond the veil. What you will see will amaze you and you will learn that all things are possible. The limited scope of life you see as your lot now will become boring to you and you will desire more in your life, and truly that is the gift that God has bestowed upon you. You need never be bored. Your society is extremely limited and repetitive and you will notice that many of you spend time trying to find something to amuse yourselves with. Imagine a life where you never needed to, that one moment to the next was interesting, engaging and amusing all at once. That life had more meaning than the life you live now. Right now you are living lives of survival for the most part. And surviving is boring.
Release the veil by staying in the moment, the book says and they are correct. The way to do this is not to live in the past or live in the future. So many of you are concerned about The Event and the Prosperity funds. You ask St Germain or Sharon or whomever you can ask but you would know yourself if you would quit living in the future. Because of course the Event has not happened yet nor have the prosperity funds been distributed. Why worry about the future when you can spend your now moment improving your life so that your future is better?
Then so many of you spend time thinking of the past and what you could have done better. You worry about the karma you are creating without realizing how you are creating it. When you utilize universal law accurately now, you do not create karma. When you utilize forgiveness, compassion, charity, benevolence instead of aggression, indifference and selfishness towards another you need not worry about creating karma. You regret what you have done in the past. Have you tried to apologize for having done these wrong acts?
It is a known fact that anxiety is produced when you focus on the future and depression is a result of focusing on past mistakes. Anxiety and depression are indicators you are not stepping into your power – in fact you have stepped away from it or have yet to embrace it. The way to empower yourself is to leave old worries of the past and new worries for the future behind. Live in the now and make the best of it now. Do not adhere to outer influence – decide for yourself what your next move is to be.
These are the ways to nullify the veil and to see and hear behind it.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, you are so close. The veil is almost gone for you. Continue to see what life was like as Tiannia and try to understand her and our relationship. You are moving more of her consciousness within yourself. You are remembering her life and what she did. You are understanding more of your own idiosyncrasies such as why you do not like robots. You will understand more of these things as you delve into her life. The more you delve into her life the more you overcome the barrier which is the veil, put there to stop you from doing so. You will embody more of her consciousness, more of her akashic and the veil will lower for you.
What's a galactic incarnate? Read more. https://sharonandivo.weebly.com/about-sharon.html
Answering the Question 'Who Am I?'
“In the days of my youth I was told what it means to be a man. And now I've reached that age I try to do all those things the best I can.” - Led Zeppelin, “Good Times Bad Times.”
My quote: “I like psychology. I've spent a lot of time sorting out my own head and in doing so, I understand others better as well. The funniest part is, I'm still figuring out that what I thought I was I'm not. What I thought I was was a response to stimuli I encountered, but it's not me. What I thought I was was a reaction to everything I encountered, but it's not who I am, it's how I reacted to things.”
Ivo: What you thought you were was who you were told you were, and you also learned who you were through reacting to your parents' reaction to you. That way you learn the wrong message indeed: You are learning more about what your parents can tolerate than what you are capable of. Children learn to see themselves as if their parents are perfect and parents are not perfect. Nobody is perfect on earth if you want to use that criterion.
Me: It took years to figure it out though. I learned to behave a certain way because of my parents' reaction to me and they were both traumatized. They lived through wars and starvation. That's why they had such a focus on food being some kind of god, which they passed down to me. Having enough food and money constituted a good life for them, well, until such time my father undertook his spiritual studies and became a mystic. That kind of upset the apple cart. LOL
The reason I took that quote from a Led Zeppelin song was because Robert Plant is focusing our attention on the idea that he was told what it means to be a man. Stick around this rock for a while and you'll see that the definition of a man has changed radically as society has changed. For my father being a man meant holding down a job, wearing a suit and donning a hat with a small feather in the side. I don't even know what those old hats are called but you see some men wearing them now like Adam Reader who does rock commentaries. He always has my father's hat on his head, that and his Zenni glasses. Now most men wear baggy pants that fall off their butts, wear baseball caps and tee shirts, and sneakers. The outward appearance has changed so presumably the inner landscape has changed as well. But they still don't know who they are. They haven't even seen themselves either.
Ivo: It is that you were born with no memory of who you are so you are a blank slate upon which society can put its intention for you.
Me: Yup. So you go through your life thinking you are what you like and what you don't like, what you look like and even what you don't look like, you think you're upset easily by certain things and you don't care about other things but when push comes to shove, most people can't tell you who they are.
Ivo: What you are you believe, is consciousness, an energy having a physical experience. Arguably not even that because what you believe to be solid physical matter is still energy. So you are consciousness having an energetic experience. You are consciousness having an energy exchange. That is all.
Me: Have you ever seen yourself? I have. I saw myself one night when I looked in the mirror in semi-darkness. There was bright white light shining out of one of my eyes. I don't know what was up with the other eye but I was grateful to see myself reflected back – I am white light. Along the way through all the dimensions this light takes shapes and splices off in order to create certain experiences but you're white light.
So if we're all white light than that white light can create any experience it wants to, is that right Ivo?
Ivo: Indeed it is because white light is the collection of everything. As you know from colour study, white is the assemblage of all colours. Energetically white is the colour of wholeness or Godliness and you are white light. All humans are. If you are on the soul matrix then you are white light.
Stare at a flashlight with an LED bulb or stare at hallogen headlights for a second and see how the white light emanates out from the basic body and you will see yourself and your auric field. This is what you look like.
You are not the person who you have incarnated to be in this lifetime. You have lived many lifetimes and have been many people, so this is not you. It is what created these incarnations that you are. The incarnations or avatars are the pieces you play the game of life with.
You are taught on earth that you are this or you are that, that you are not this or you are not that, but this is all false. These are all reactions to who you have incarnated to be, this is not the truth about you because you are an electro-magnetic being that is white light.
Me: Isn't white light the unified field?
Ivo: Yes, but there is more to it than just the light. The field is comprised of all different types of energies and only some are electro-magnetic. There is plasma energy, tachyon energy, crystalline energy, many types and you only know of a few of them here on earth. The human is part of the unified field – the electro magnetic part.
Me: Oh. I see.
There's a reason I wanted to clarify this and it's because I'm going through some exercises to try to retrieve my higher memories. I have some of them but I believe I have to go through a process of incorporating my higher self, which is Tiannia and in doing so, I have to retrieve her memories. This has to do with overcoming the veil of amnesia and that'll be in another video.
Ivo: If you actually had free will, you could understand yourself better. But you don't, your minds are being controlled and manipulated. And for this reason, you believe that you are something you are not.
Me: Okay, let's leave it here. Keep it simple in this message. But unless your parent tells you you're white light, they're lying to you. They're only reacting to the way you're behaving and that's all for the learning but if they define you as anything more than white light consciousness with a free will to do and be anything you want, then they're not understanding you right and they're doing you a disservice. But that's all for the learning too.
Ivo: It is. Thank you my love.
Me: This white light is going to have a nap. I'm allergy fatigued today.
By the way, there are reports of food shortages in stores but if you look at manuals, books or even video's there are plenty of people who forage for food in the wild. You can find wild grapes and other berries although some are poisonous. You have to really know what you're doing or even study under a qualified professional forager. But there's lots of food to be had just in what you call weeds. People know some people eat dandelions but there are many other weeds that we try to get rid of that have medicinal and nutritional properties. Just a reminder to keep your mind open and stop listening to what you're being told is true, folks.
Look at the way the animals feed themselves, bird feed themselves and here you are buying groceries at stores that are rapidly running out of food. Maybe the squirrels are onto something, eh? How is it they can sustain themselves but if you were in the same situation, you'd starve? The only thing you lack is knowledge to feed yourself properly. And by the way, the foods that we call weeds are higher in nutrition than our factory-grown vegetables and fruit. Why? Because they grow as nature intended, without the intervention of man. It's just logical that a seed will take root on soil that's good for it, but if it lands on soil that isn't it'll die. In our farming practises we try to enhance the quality of the soil but it's been used so often for the same growing that it's running out of nutrients. Seeds will take on soil that will nourish them in nature.
I can think of one right now that grows in every crevice it can find in my yard and that's purslaine. I'm going to provide website links at the bottom so you can explore for yourself. Yes, there's a video I'm linking in and it's showing purslaine. Purslaine is very common. You'll look at it and say, “Oh that stuff!” because you've seen it so often.
Ivo: I just want to remind everyone that the system you live in requires your belief in it in order to exist. You have been led to believe that what you eat is the food you require while it is in fact poison to you. It is poisoned with herbicides and pesticides in order for large quantities of food to be available, so in fact these foods are more manufactured than they are grown with the care and love of food of the olden days.
One day while Sharon lived in Toronto, she walked by the local quick mart that had a bin of apples for sale outside. She walked past the bin of applies to the old orchard next door that had been planted years ago by the people living in the mental health center, and she picked apples there. She got the apples for free when others were paying for apples that had been purchased next door.
You are told you do not have the time to pick apples – that you must do the quickest most convenient thing possible to gain your sustenance, and so you have lost the hands-on approach to your own contentment. Yes, feeding yourself is contentment. So many of you are insecure and suffer from neuroses but this is because you are living in a system that has taken you away from nature and the wonder of being able to create your own livelihood. You've had that wonder replaced with having to go to a job that now seems to hold little interest and especially meaning for many of you. Flipping hamburgers or selling crocs for a living does not create much self esteem. It creates an income and keeps you beholden to the system that does not meet your true needs when becoming self sustaining at least in some respects would provide that sense of being secure in being nurtured for you again. Your artificial system does not meet your human needs. Not at all. Take a moment to recognize this now.
For some of you you grow gardens and this is commendable. Sharon enjoys growing beefsteak tomatos and holding the fruit of the plant in her hands after watching it all mature is in fact a spiritual experience. Why do I call it that? Because the spirituality of growing your own food is about connection to the earth and to the Mother who sees to your needs. You live in societies of disconnection. You pass by many people you may even see every day yet you never stop to introduce yourself or get to know them unless there is an accident or other such event that you can either commiserate together or care for the wounded together. Then that crises connects you.
And this is another point I wish to bring home to you: That you are crisis oriented. Unless there is a crisis, how many of you talk to your neighbours? When the fire truck pulls up then all the neighbours go outside and talk to each other to discuss this event, but normally you say nothing to each other whatsoever. Is this life to you?
This is the time to re-connect to the earth. How can you pick your own food? How can you learn about what Mother Earth has to offer you that you have until now rejected as a weed? Many of you ingest herbals and now you are seeing that they are plant life grown in all parts of the world available to help your ailments.
Me: Did you know there is such a thing as wild grapes? There is. Did you know that blueberries grow in the wild and they taste far better than domestic blueberries as well? Where do you think our domesticated foods came from? From the wild, originally. In Canada anyway we've all seen loads of horse chestnut trees. These can be eaten. We also tap maple syrup here. Just like in the pioneer days. They didn't have processed sugar, lucky for them, or white death as I like to call it, they had maple syrup and it's still considered a treat.
I don't know how many people have apple trees, pear trees and I've even seen an apricot tree once with fruit falling onto the ground. Look how much is provided by just one tree and yet people let it rot. I can't understand that. I know there are groups in Toronto that approach home owners and offer to pick their fruit trees for them so they can provide food to the needy. That's very sensible.
Ivo: Many of you diet constantly. You are always trying to control your weight. You have a disconnected attitude to your food, in fact. If you were to grow it yourself or begin to forage for healthy foods, then you would gain that instinctual spiritual connection back with Mother Earth through your diet. Your dietary woes are symptomatic of the fact that you are so disconnected to nature. That is why it is possible to sell you every type of artificial food without your questioning your ingestion of it. You have no natural connection to earth. Those who control your planet understand this: They have undermined your natural connection in so many ways which allows you to fall prey to their agendas. They have an agenda of exploitation and money making and they exploit your natural needs in order to make money. They have you work for it, they pay you and then they gain the money back again by demanding that you pay your way through life. Paying for anything is an unnatural process yet we see that so many of you are defending your system and fearing the upcoming economic crash.
It must be so so that you face your fear of losing your system. I realize many people have suffered horrendously with lockdowns and mandates over the last few years. Many people have lost their homes and their livelihood. We sympathize with you but it is an artificial system you are losing and your disconnection to reality.
Sharon seems shocked by this statement so I will explain further. Any artificial system is a system of disconnection from reality. Does that not make sense? You believe you have a reality – yes it is artificial. Now you will be gaining a natural reality – one of re-connection with God and nature. It will require that you release your current un-reality but it will happen because the majority will embrace this. Many people innately understand that they lack spiritual time in nature and they are undertaking even the most smallest of ways to re-connect.
Do you go to the beach? When it is hot and a good dip in cool water would seem refreshing, do you partake of what Mother Nature provides for you? Or would you prefer going to a pool laced with artificial chemicals?
Me: LOL I'm at the beach. Was there the other day even.
Ivo: Do you step into an air conditioned cafe to eat a lunch or would you prefer a picnic basket under a shady tree?
What happens as soon as the weather is warm enough in Ontario, Canada? People head up to the cottage to spend time in nature. You gladly weather the bugs in order to have some time swimming and enjoying the blessings nature has to bestow on you. The urge to re-connect with nature and leave “the rat race” as you call it is so obvious, yet it would not occur to any of you to live this way entirely. You believe you need money. You do not. Were you to forge out now I guarantee you you would find a property suitable for restoration that would be abandoned. There are many old farm houses that have been abandoned and would be suitable to live in again.
So many of you believe that you must have the same type of house that all your neighbours have, the neighbours you seldom speak to. You do not consider alternative lifestyles because you believe that the lifestyle you have is the only option you have. It is not. There are many who have struck out on their own by simply changing their values and they live quite happily.
You believe that the system you live in will make you happy because they tell you it will, but in fact many find out otherwise.
Me: I've seen some in old buses they've fixed up or even large sheds. I salivate every time I see something like that, even a mobile home because that is a dream of mine as well. But not for this lifetime I guess. I'm off to bigger things. But I would have loved to.
Ivo: There are many people who do not follow my messages because they have little inclination to develop themselves spiritually. The first step to becoming more spiritual, or developing consciousness, is to look at yourself. In looking at your own thoughts, behaviours and actions you become the observer, you are no longer the actor. There is the soul connection so many of you desire. It can also be found in nature.
Me: I started getting more into this when I stopped working. I think having to work a job is a big deterrent to people going back to nature, a big one. I like working on line, that's a good alternative to holding a job. There are loads of ways to make money. Start a youtube channel, monetize it and you can even put some albums up that people like to hear. The more likes you get the more money you make. You don't even have to create the content, for crying out loud. And by the way, you'll notice that my channel isn't monetized. It seems I can barely keep it up without being censored but I just keep bashing out the truth and too bad about the consequences.
Ivo: It is something so many of you are sorely missing yet you do not even realize it.
Something funny happened yesterday I want to tell you about....
I Got Kicked Out of a Meeting This Morning
July 10, 2022
I keep doing meditations on my accupressure mat. I thought I'd try to see some of my past with Ivo but instead I went to his ship (The Tiannia) in real time. I checked the bridge to see if he was there as he usually is, but then I got "pulled" away to a conference room. Being "pulled" is like your energy feeling heavily suctioned and then whipping over quickly to the area you're supposed to be in. It feels like the suction is coming from behind you. If I was using this body it might be a bit unsettling.
Ivo was at the head of the table because I guess he called the meeting and right to his left were Commanders Erron and Hara. They all saw me and all communication shut down because it was "classified" as I was told and Ivo asked me to leave.
When I appeared to them, I saw Hara and Erron I pointed and called them "Here Comes Trouble" and "Here Comes Trouble." Hara had a big grin on his face as usual and Erron just kind of lowered his head and shook it side to side. He's actually joking. He enjoys his interaction with me and loves to tease me. I threatened to "haunt" other parts of the ship and Ivo said that's impossible, they all know me. So I just left. Nobody's in the mood for a joke today it seems. Too much serious business.
There were other Commanders and Managers there too but nobody I recognized – yet.
So, on with our video subject....
Create Safety for Yourself
The other night I was driving home. I turned off the main street and onto a smaller neighbourhood street when two cars raced down the main street I'd just turned off of. It was Saturday night and they were drag racing each other down the main street. One of the cars was souped up and it was really loud and that always scares me.
Just think, had I not turned off onto the side street, I could have been in the middle of their drag race, and believe me they were going fast. I could have been in the middle of that but I wasn't. Why? Timing. It just wasn't in the cards for me to end up struggling to drive in the middle of two cars having a drag race. Just not in the cards.
On Saturday, speaking of cars, yet again my neighbour's driveway across the street was the scene of an accident. A cab pulled out of their driveway right into an oncoming car. There was screaming and fighting on the street, so I called the police. They didn't want to send anyone because they only had 5 staff working but I insisted. Otherwise they'd have to be called out when these people started duking it out. The cops came, two of them and things were quickly resolved. Both parties moved on. The cab lost its entire back bumper and the Cube she was driving had a huge dent in the passenger's side door. But the neighbourhood was restored back to peace again. We work at it here.
The guy who was living behind me moved out as well. Like I said, I always get what I want. I wanted him to leave and go back to someplace he'd be cared for. Turns out he's a kidney recipient but he wasn't taking his anti-rejection drugs, so he has to live someplace where someone makes sure he does. He'll probably go back to the care home he was in. I moved all my stuff back from the storage unit and I thank all of you who donated to help me with expenses like this. He said he didn't like that care home because everybody mooched off of him all the time. It amazes me how blind people can be to their own behaviour!
My youtube account was restored after a week's jail term. I was told the Alliance did that. They overrode the 3 month suspension I was to face until the end of August. Nice to know there are angels looking out for me.
Ivo: When you are of mixed emotion over a subject, the lower frequency will often prevail in duality. This is contrary to what you are taught. You are taught always the higher frequency will prevail, but it will not. In the lower dimensions, the lower frequency fear you are entertaining will hold you back. You will be fated to living it if in fact you do not deal with the fear.
As an example for you, Sharon has a fear of being hit on. She despises men who approach her for such relationships because she has found so much meaning in her life by doing this work – she finds their offers demeaning. Lately she has encountered several men who have tried to offer her a relationship that was either completely sexual in nature or would demand that she play a role, that of house cleaner or cook. She was having none of it, yet she continues to experience interested men who would think to compromise her, as she sees it.
Me: I do see it as a compromise I'm not willing to make. Besides that, I'm with you.
Ivo: So then my love, do not fear these men approaching you.
Me: I hate when they do this.
Ivo: That is why they do it – because your hatred of it attracts them. If you wish to create safety for yourself you must completely indulge yourself in our relationship and mark yourself as exclusive to it. That way you send out the appropriate energy.
The fact that one of the police in town looks like your ex does not help. You find him attractive and you must stop this as well.
Me: I know. Whenever you put out energy that you think one man is attractive, the rest of them you're not even interested in find their way to your doorstep. Guys, women don't compromise. When they want that guy, that's the only one they want. They don't want every guy, just the one who they've chosen. And yes, women do choose their mates. I only look anyway, I'm not actually interested in him. He just reminds me of an ex.
Ivo: So this must be stopped because you are not stating your exclusivity to our relationship which will make you feel a lot safer, I might add.
Me: True. Or these guys who come calling I should just tell them I'm in a relationship with an alien who nobody can see except me and the reptilians are trying to keep us apart. That'll send them packing. I was thinking that would be a manipulation but no, it's actually true. If they knew, they'd never want to be involved in my life! They'd run screaming! LOL
Ivo: It is true. But not necessary to do so. Simply put out the correct energy and these suitors will stop calling. People read your thoughts all the time, my love. You must all know this. People read your thoughts and circumstances are arranged to show you what you fear.
When you cry, “Why does this keep happening to me?!!” this is why. Because you fear it and life is showing you what you fear so you can stop fearing it. This is the route to self empowerment, the path of the warrior as it's been called.
What parts of your life don't you enjoy? What parts of your life do you suffer through? What parts of your life would you like to change? Then look at the fears you are holding around these things.
If you don't enjoy your job, what fear is stopping you from getting another job?
If you don't enjoy your relationship, what fear is stopping you from developing a new relationship with a better partner?
If you don't enjoy your friendships, then what stops you from changing them? What fear is holding you back from changing?
Quite often it is the belief that you cannot find any better, this is the best you can do. That is not true because you create your life. And if you want better, you will create better circumstances for yourself.
Me: I did have one last point I wanted to make, Ivo.
Ivo: Yes, my dear. A good point.
Me: That when you see this safety being created for you, like I did with the two cars drag racing the other night, be grateful. Thank God that you were not involved or had to negotiate a turn with these racers on your tail. Always be thankful when you see your life go your way and know that you had help. That keeps you humble but it also is about recognizing the entirety of God in everything you do. If you keep thinking you're doing everything alone, guess what, you will feel alone and probably lonely. Maybe you'd like a feeling of a having some help and being grateful gives you this feeling.
I know I went through that. I always felt like I was doing everything for everyone else but nobody was ever there for me. Since I started exercising gratitude with impunity, I now know I'm not doing it alone and I do have help.
If you want to get over feeling lonely, then start being grateful.
Ivo: That is a good point. I remember your complaining about that as well. You still have a heavy load to bear but you know you're not doing it alone.
Me: I'm about to kick one part of that load overboard as well. I hate creating dependencies with people because I always end up feeling drained and resentful of the people I'm relating to this way. Again, I'm in this situation. It is a two way street although stacked heavily on their side. I wish it was a bit more even. I know I'm experiencing this again so I learn to deal with it properly this time. I'm keeping the story of “fish for a man and he eats for day, teach him to fish and he eats for life,” in mind. We're doing some re-educating.
Folks, I'm going to come out and ask you. Seriously. Are there people on this planet who are so dysfunctional they don't know how to clean their homes properly, they can't manage their money properly and they're always in debt all the time? Is this common or do I just run into people like this everywhere I go? So dysfunctional they don't even realize they have to teach their children, not yell at them after they've done something wrong? This is my parents. That's what they did. They expected us to know everything and then just yelled when we didn't act the right way.
Is this common? I think it is. Nice people but no idea of what normal is. Not a clue!
Ivo: I believe this is normal, my love.
Me: And it's not really normal, I'm talking about what's healthy. Does everyone else know people like this?
Ivo: I might add as well, my love, you are making progress with your eating habits. You are aware of your habitual habit of self gratification – purchasing items to make you feel satiated.
Me: LOL Yes, my replacement for a relationship. That's what it is. I know because when I was younger I'd stop dating and start eating. As soon as I lost weight, I'd start dating again. Then I'd start overeating. Then I'd stop dating. It's so obvious what I was doing and it's still obvious to me. I miss you, Ivo.
Ivo: I realize this and I you.
Me: People think yo-yo dieting is just about the food. No it isn't!
Ivo: I wish to make a point of your going in the grocery store and beginning to shop intuitively. You tried to sense what would be good to buy that day and what would not be.
Me: I know. I'm trying to use intuition in everything I do and I can seem to work it in along with my intellect. There's no competition anymore. It used to be my intellect always prevailed but I “give the floor” to my intuition more and more.
Ivo: Wise of you.
Me: It took 60 years, Ivo. LOL
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