The very way you seek to enslave others becomes your own jail too.
If you seek to control, then you will be controlled by your need to control.
If you seek to seduce, then you will be seduced by your need to seduce and it will control you.
If you seek to be better than all, then your need to be better than all will control you.
If you seek to be less than all, then this fear will control you.
If you seek to lie to others, then that too will control you.
If you seek to have more wealth than others, than this will control you.
It's all fear. Fear controls you.
The only thing that will set you free is to love others. In love we find freedom, in anything else we experience limitation ourselves. As we seek to limit others, so are we, too, limited.