Who you feel you are shows in your behaviour, your actions. ~ Ivo
Me: Ivo, I know you can tell I'm really honoured to have channeled El Morya about his past lives. I'm so impressed by his insistence on sticking to what he believed in in these lives instead of bowing down to his king. The king is supposed to be the be all and end all of the power structure in well, any kingdom, and all are supposed to obey the king. Especially in medieval times like when Thomas Becket (1100) and Thomas More (1500) were alive. You didn't disobey. But he did because he put one thing before the king: God.
And that was the whole issue. The king was playing god, and so the Thomases realized this and refused to become yes men and ended up being executed in both lives, because they refused to give up their belief that God is number one. That's a blue ray for you. Blue Rays are incarnated to express the power of God. El Morya is the chohan of the first ray of the will of God. He represents the godly attributes of courage, certainty, power, forthrightness, self-reliance, dependability, faith and initiative. And he sure did in these lifetimes. As Thomas Becket, Archbishop of Canterbury, he was being hit with swords in the head and he still held himself upright so that he could say his last words to God before he was overcome, and died. I'll bet he thanked God for giving him that lifetime and that opportunity even! I'll have to ask him. I can see him smiling. I did read that as Thomas More, as he stood at the guillotine, the operator asked his forgiveness, and he forgave him before he was beheaded. He was amazing!
This man is amazing! I kept thinking, "Where was he when I was available?"
Ivo: (laughing) He is disincarnate, my love.
Me: I know! Geez, and I keep complaining about the path I'm on.
Ivo: And when you complain, it gets worse.
Me: True. Learn to love it and to see it differently. "What am I being shown?" "What am I to learn from this?" This man, Thomas More, spent 16 years on death row in the Tower of London before he was beheaded! He never wavered. Had he given in, his life would have been spared.
Oh! I hear him now. He told me had he done so, his life would have been worthless, meaningless. For nought. I think God sent him to stand up to the king and to send a message to humanity, which frankly, because he was martyred and made a saint, is still known today.
Ivo: Had he not incarnated to do these lifetimes, the fate of earth would have been sealed long ago, my love. As Ashtarrr said in his book, many lightworkers have incarnated intermittently throughout your history to steer its course. And that El Morya is of such a high light, it was important to send someone whose light could counter the darkness that would have befallen your world had the Thomases not been there.
Me: Ah I see.
Ivo: You understand as well that he was complemented when you said you would have gladly spent a lifetime with a man like him.
Me: I know. He passed back to me the importance of committing yourself to another person for a lifetime. This is a commitment of learning, and certainly a commitment to God as well.
Me: It's not always fun and games.
Ivo: No. But the worse a relationship, the more learning there is to do and the more powerful one can ultimately learn to become.
Me: Yes. So, with this incredible example of integrity, shall we get on with it?
Ivo: I would like to mention to you, my love, your acts of integrity in the same vein as El Morya.
Me: I was never sent to the guillotine, so I don't think that they are the same.
Ivo: They are. You refused to be sucked into the corporate claptrap that was spewed out at the Town Hall Meetings, and the times the CEO came from the States to hand out Christmas bonuses. You refused to attend.
Ivo: There was the time this same CEO held a luncheon meeting in the lunch room and you refused to attend.
Me: That was my lunch hour, sacred time. I figured if they wanted to lecture to me, they should pay me for it.
Ivo: This is standing up on principle, my love. You delineated very clearly earning money from your morals. They were separate, and unlike the others you worked with, you would not cowtow to presidents in the name of earning a salary. In the same vein, you would not kiss your bosses.
Me: Nope, no part of them. LOL
Ivo: You believed that you worked with these men and did their administration, it was their wives' job to kiss them, not yours.
And right now, who has the back of her car plastered with bumper stickers standing up to the New World Order, and signs saying the government is attempting to control you.
Me: Me. I probably look like a raving lunatic but I don't care. It gets people's attention.
Ivo: This is my point, my love. You show integrity in many things that you do. One of the first steps to integrity of self is not caring what others think.
Ivo: During the time there was the black out in Toronto, you had to do laundry and refused to use the laundry machine in your apartment because it was after 9 p.m. You had the rest of the tenants beholden to this 9 p.m. curfew because you lived next to the laundry room and you would not fly it in their face when the first opportunity came up as an excuse to break the rule. You would not like them doing their laundry till 1 a.m. that night either, so you did not do it.
Integrity is about being given the opportunity to steal and refusing to. You returned the plastic box you'd purchased that had an extra stuck underneath that was not noticed at purchase.
There was the time your ex-brother in law was trying to pick the lock on your sister's apartment door. She knew he was there as this was the third time he'd tried to break in, so she ran downstairs to look. She called the police while you ran into the kitchen to get the largest knife you could find. You ran downstairs to threaten him with it through the glass door, which was still locked. This lock did not give way because of the divine help you had that night. Archangel Michael is as good as keeping a lock locked as he is at protecting you from negative entities while you bathe.
Me: LOL I never thought of that. Buddy should've known how to pick a lock, especially an old one like that. Interesting....
Ivo: He did not get in, and you did not have to knife him. Thankfully. This would perhaps have led you off your life's course and it had to be prevented. However, you defended your sister, who was scared witless, and your nieces against this threat. Thankfully, things calmed down in the ensuing years.
Me: He's the only person who I've had to threaten with a knife.
Ivo: You moved in 3 months later in the apartment underneath hers, and the break-ins stopped, not surprisingly, and peace ensued. Do you see the effects of the lightworker on the world?
Me: Hmm. Never thought of that either. Maybe he was just scared because he thought I was a knife-wielding looney?
Ivo: My love, you must learn to think beyond the small mindedness of your Matrix.
Me: I would've done it, though, to defend my sister.
Ivo: And that is why Michael intervened.
Me: He's probably thinking I'm high maintenance by now. LOL
Ivo: You are worth it, my love. You always help wherever you can. You must understand that most people would have moved elsewhere, not under the apartment of a woman who is being harassed by a psychotic ex. But you thought nothing of it.
Now onwards....You refuse to manipulate people even though they do the same to you.
You would drive someone to the hospital that you could not stand simply because they needed a ride.
Me: I would. I wouldn't let them suffer.
Ivo: These are all signs of integrity.
Integrity goes both ways as well. Not allowing things to be done to you unless you can forgive them for these acts. Boundaries are important until forgiveness is practised.
I said, "Who you feel you are shows in your behaviour." And therein lies the rub. You feel you are someone you are not. At times your behaviour surprises you. This is because your soul is shining through and your personality took the backseat. This is your soul showing you who you really are. And I have made the point incessantly, that so many believe they are part of the fabric of society. This is learned behaviour, not authentic behaviour. You must challenge the tenets you have learned throughout the past to understand who you truly are. You are divine, and a part of God. No less than. This life is about revealing that to you, to the capacity you allow it to.
That means going out on a limb, breaking with tradition, being the one walking alone, having no friends perhaps, getting no support from others, feeling lonely and questioning yourself and not behaving as others do. This is all part of the journey. It is hard walk for many but so important to break the fabric that you call the Matrix. Others will follow you. They have already. So many have awoken because of the efforts of the keyboard warriors on this planet who have spread the truth despite the backlash.
Me: LOL Yeah, I think about Jordan Sather. He is always kicked off of youtube. Then they let him back on, like he's going to change? That's hilarious!
Ivo: And yet he persists because the truth and spreading the truth is important to him. This is integrity. He is aligned with God.
One of the highest forms of integrity is forgiving those who you feel have hurt you. You in fact, have hurt yourself so it is yourself that requires forgiving. But those who throw barbs and spears at you do so for reasons unknown to them. It is always that an unexamined mind behaves in these ways.
Much of it has to do with stealing energy. If the vampire cannot get it one way, perhaps in a sexual fashion, they will attempt to get your energy another way - through insults and putdowns. It is simply a matter of not giving it to them. They are looking for a rise, the creation of chaos for their dull lives and the creation of loosh for the masters they serve. Do not give it to them.
Life is not what you have been taught it is. Life is an energy exchange. Keeping your energy for yourself and investing it in areas where you feel it will help the world is the highest form of purpose. Divesting others of theirs is the saddest way of life. So powerless.
Integrity can be practised daily. And do not expect it to be understood by others who do not practise it themselves.
Picking up a piece of garbage and disposing of it properly, even though you did not put it there. Yes, the ego will complain, "I didn't do that! Why should I have to pick it up?!" Because you are practising integrity.
Allowing others the right of way when you have the right, when they are in a hurry.
Sharing kindness with others is integrity.
Offering a ride to people in need.
Helping a neighbour.
Not believing in the Matrix is the highest of integrity and it is much called for now.
Helping your neighbour shovel the driveway.
Making a joke that is funny and does not cut down another.
There are so many ways. Being a good person, and being one because you are trying to be a good person and not trying to show up somebody else, as being better than them. Doing it because you need to prove to yourself you can do it.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love. I was the man you looked for all your life. I am of the same integrity as El Morya.
Me: You sound jealous, Ivo. LOL
Ivo: You jest, surely.
Me: Oh yes, there was that reptilian attack we experienced where you gave your life so that I could live. Never do that again! I was miserable that whole lifetime.
Ivo: And I said to you, you might have survived and you have no idea what they would have put you through. You might not necessarily have been killed by them. They may have spared you and made you one of their slaves. I was in a position where I felt I had no choice, so I gladly gave my life so that you could live.
Me: I still have so much grief from that lifetime.
Ivo: I know.
The Battle of Life
Me: Ivo, we're talking about giving up attack thoughts, and of course there are the obvious ones like calling someone a dumb jerk, that's an attack thought. Or threatening him. By the way, attack thoughts come right back atcha! You get away with nothing, notta, nope, zip. You get the poison too. Learning to love everyone is a tough haul on this planet especially when we've learned to see everyone else as deficient and ourselves as the only person in the whole 7 billion of us on this world that makes any sense. How about that? This is the ego and it needs to just shut up.
Ivo: The point we were discussing the other day is that attack thoughts may not be so obvious. The attack mentality is so woven into the fiber of your language it may not be obvious to you.
What do you do when you want to go to the beach?
Me: I want to hit the beach.
Ivo: What do you say when you need to borrow $10 from your friend?
Me: I'm going to hit him up for 10 bucks.
Ivo: What do you say when you are having fun, you went out perhaps and you are recounting the fun you had the following day?
Me: I say I had a riot, or we had a blast.
Ivo: This is verbal violence, a precursor to attack thoughts. There is a fine line here. You have "the battle of life" going on in your head.
Me: We see everything as some form of violence, really, in so many ways.
Ivo: And when you were young when you tried to be sensitive and speak in a loving way, you were told you were a sissy and laughed at. Your family was the ultimate in attacking others. They saw this as the only way to survive. And this is what it is: survival.
Imagine yourselves on a battle field with guns pointed at everyone around you and you have an idea of how so many of you think.
Me: Right now it's Canada Day and my neighbours are letting off fireworks. Merlin is going crazy, slinking down to the ground in fear, looking around, and now he's gone downstairs.
Ivo: And if we can make a comparison, there are many people on your planet who would be more forthright in their speech were it not for the similar fear of being attacked. There are many who feel afraid of speaking their mind for fear of retribution.
Me: I got over it.
Ivo: And everyone has to get over it. How can you be yourself when you are afraid of what others think of you?
And you will see the type of mentality of the people more easily when you look for people who speak this way.
Me: Even our technology... my Apple computer used to "bomb." It's really pervasive. My PC will crash. It's everywhere.
Ivo: It is. People who use this speech are more inclined to be aggressive than those who do not. We go back to our lessons about choosing carefully what you say. These violent words also carry a low vibration with them.
Now that you are all in the fourth dimension, you must change. Yes, change is uncomfortable but now you must learn to take a higher road than you did in the third dimension. In order to leave the Matrix behind, verbal violence must be quelled.
I have another comparison to make. When you were in Holland for the 6 months years ago, you celebrated the Queen's birthday. Everyone in Amsterdam wore orange and there were food vendors in the streets, street dancing, boatloads of bands playing music, and there were water fights in the canals. I believe that spraying others with water is fairly innocuous. I am not keen on water guns and cannons, though.
When Canadians celebrate Canada Day they let off fireworks, which has your cat fearing for his life down in your basement now.
Me: I know. He's scared to death.
Ivo: How you decide to celebrate is as important as what you are celebrating.
Me: Maybe this is Canada's last birthday. LOL
Ivo: I doubt that. But bear in mind that a country is simply an economic region and it is part of the Deep State economic plan for your world.
Now then, what is wrong with saying that your computer stopped working? Your computer quit. Your computer just quit. Your computer is locked up. These are acceptable alternatives to crash and bomb.
As for Canada Day, spend the day in celebration of your country ....
Me: By ousting the prime minister. LOL
Ivo: By picking up litter along the shoreline. Make Canada great again. By celebrating the very things that make Canada unique.
Me: I do that all the time. Wait till the fall colours come out.
Ivo: And then on the day, celebrating the wildlife, go whale watching on either coast, eat some Canadian foods, watch Canadian movies if you must, but blowing off fireworks that scare your animals is less than ideal.
Me: True. The kids like it.
Ivo: Teach them to like something of higher frequency. And I say that anything that creates a reaction of fear in anyone must be either used judiciously or not at all.
As for the beach, say you are going to the beach, that is all. Look very carefully at the slang you use because often this verbal violence is in there.
As for attack thoughts, these are "gateway thoughts" to arguing with others. Understand that when you are discussing something with another person, it is to reach a consensus or to agree to disagree amicably. Why would you begin a conversation with someone with the idea in mind of attacking them, or feeling as if you are bettering yourself at someone else's expense? What possibly would you have to gain in that? If you believe it is self esteem, understand that the more you entertain your ego's shenanigans, the further you remain distant from your soul, which is where your true sense of self esteem exists.
Argument is an attack on another person. When you must raise your voice or pound the keys to get your point across, then you are in attack mode.
The next thing to look for is anger. People anger you. Why do they anger you? Because they are different from you? Is this anything to become angry about?
Me: I get angry when they cross my boundaries or violate my free will.
Ivo: Yes, and then forgiveness is necessary, not anger. I say to you that this anger response is LEARNED. It is not normal for a human being to become angry when confronted with opposition. You have learned to do this. And it can be unlearned, which takes practice. Becoming angry when confronted by opposition is a learned response. And it is an unhealthy one that erodes the mentality and drops the frequency. You see your politicians in debate. They cannot keep themselves calm when in a debate. This is an indication of emotional immaturity. The need to lose your cool, so to speak, when confronted by an opponent to your ideas is simply illogical.
Your people have many ways of learning the relaxation response, even when dealing with others. It is taught in Buddhism. It is taught in many societies: to stop and think before responding. That way you control your response to others' opposition of you.
These teachings are available to all. But first you must examine the absurdity of your initial response and make a commitment to change. Then notice your language and see if it is passive, aggressive or assertive. Your thoughts are indicators of your next move and the words you use to think with are a large part of that. When you watch a video, what do you laugh at? What is happening? What are they saying? What do you consider entertaining, because if this is violent in any way, or someone is hurt, then this is hardly entertainment.
Also, watch which foods you eat or drink that change your emotional state. If coffee is a problem for you, then switch to decaf or cut down or both. Sugar is also a problem for many, as is alcohol. Do not think they are prevalent in your western society by mistake because there is no mistake. You are there to create loosh and these foods are there for this reason.
Me: Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: My love, anger is not a way of life. Anger is but a signal that something is amiss. The validity of anger has been debated by pundits over the years. Your world now is in a state of emotional immaturity, where so many feel that erupting in speech is the way to speak. It is not. Calmness is the true state of the human.
Creating Change Within Yourself
Ivo: To Our Viewers. So many of my videos are about creating change within yourselves. I wish to express to you the reasons that this is of such importance.
You are part of your world, the composite of souls that make up your collective. Your soul has access to one part of this collective and that is you, your personality or ego otherwise, and this is the part of the world your soul can influence to create change within your world.
You realize that when you create change within yourself, that your entire world changes. You change timelines, you rise in vibrational frequency, and in so doing, you have raised the frequency of the collective along with you. That is why personal change or doing the work is so important.
In Sharon's case, and in many others, people change when the pain of staying the same is too great. Pain is a great motivator. In feeling pain, you are going against the laws of the universe, the laws of love, and are being unloving to yourself. Pain is an indicator that another solution must be sought to your problem and that solution must embody a higher frequency such as forgiveness, love or compassion for the one or the problem that causes you pain. You cannot create real change without changing your frequency. If you remain in the same frequency range, nothing changes.
You create everything that you experience. And there is always a reason. Perhaps the reason is that the person who annoys you is mirroring back part of you to yourself, and that is something that you do not want to see so you become annoyed with them. If you are annoyed with people who steal, have you ever stolen from anyone? If so, this could be rebalancing of your karma, nothing more.
Sometimes people mirror back to you parts of yourself that need to be changed. This is where opposites come in. If you can honestly say, "I am not like that," then perhaps this person is showing you a part of yourself that is disempowered and vulnerable, such as perhaps you are naive and are exploitable by narcissists. This has happened to many an empath so I bring this up here. There is something you call being "too nice" and many of you are too nice because you believe that the world you live in relates to life in the way the other worlds you lived in do. It does not. A completely new skillset must be developed in order to live on earth for the one who is of higher consciousness. I know many of you are already aware of this. This is what our lessons are about. Learning to live on earth and learning to express the love you came to give to it to yourself and to others. This is the way of the Christ and the way of all on the ascension path. You understand that in the fifth dimension, that unconditional love is the way of life. So you are on a path of learning to love within strenuous conditions to learning to love unconditionally. Some took on more extreme learning than others and this relates to the amount of power you have as a soul.
Many things are shown to you or perpetrated upon you, because you are working on learning to forgive and this is where Sharon is at. She is working on forgiveness of others and so she has a cast of characters around her she rails at constantly. Forgiveness is the only way through.
Beware the ego who asks, "Who are you to feel you can forgive others?" The ego sees forgiveness as one who is in a superior position forgiving another of lower quality. This is not forgiveness, this is arrogance. Forgiveness is truly holding no rancor against the one you have considered to have offended. Rather than offense, see them as one who is showing you how to heal, and you might begin to appreciate them more.
When you begin to see that you have a personality affliction and you would like to change it, firstly focus on stopping it. Perhaps you are critical and would like to learn to be more accepting of others as they are, even with perceived flaws. Criticism is a fear based behaviour. You understand that being accepting of others is a more peaceful way of living than always being at odds with others' characters. So when you hear your critic come out to criticize, you tell it to stop. Just say, "I know you're there, critic, and you need to stop." Sometimes it will comply, other times it will continue. Beware because the ego is a trickster, influenced by mind control as well, and it can be persistent. Be more persistent. Tell it to stop. Change your focus to something else. Sing a song and focus on the words. Anything to involve your mind in something that does not involve criticism. Then work on its opposite. Do not, however, judge the people your critic was out to attack. Work on acceptance in other ways. Notice the beautiful weather, the beautiful flowers, and the glorious sunshine. Accept your life now. Change your frequency by raising it.
By examining your ego, you automatically position yourself at soul level. The ego does not examine itself, only the soul can. By doing this inner work, you connect with your soul, and in connecting with your soul, you begin to have more multi-dimensional experiences. Many of you wish to know what your life's purpose is and about your past lives as extraterrestrials - this is how to get that information - to access the soul. The soul holds all this information, not your ego. The more you examine your ego and its flaws, the more connection you will have to soul and will gain the gifts it has to give you. But the work must be done.
Understand that when you are persistent enough, you will experience relief from the critic. Why? Because as they say, "What you focus on grows." When your intention is to stop your critic from dominating your thoughts and to work on acceptance, you will experience relief because you are powerful. Where you put your energy, you will see change. If you persist in indulging in criticism, however, it will be as if you are being pulled on both arms. Insist with yourself that criticism stop, no matter what your mood.
Also, generally, work on raising your frequency. When carrying a higher frequency daily, relief can be found from lower frequency behaviours. However, they will always find a way to insinuate themselves back into your psyche when undealt with, so learning to accept all must be accomplished.
Sharon says that lightworkers have come to earth to learn to accept the unacceptable. This is part of the task, yes. I agree. What goes on on your world right now is an absolute travesty, however, without accepting it as real, no change can be made to better it. Acceptance is key. Acceptance is the road to a peaceful life. Criticism, attacking and verbal violence are the road to emotional hell.
All people are a reflection of you. It is as if you live in your own world by yourself, and this world is called your mind. When you see people behaving in a way that you do not agree with, ask if you too ever behave in this way. Then change your behaviour and forgive yourself, and watch these problems drop from your mind. People will stop reminding you of what you need to change when you forgive yourself and others for ever being that way.
Forgiveness and compassion for life is the only way through the hell that your people propagate upon each other. This continually raises the frequency of the collective.
The place to start with is yourself.
It is conceivable that everyone around you right now has some characteristic or even an entire personality that you might take issue with. This is your own doing. You will notice in others things you do not like, because you do not like them in yourself, and you may try to distance yourself rather than learn to change yourself, or to accept that you are not perfect.
Me: Okay, he's talking about me here.
Ivo: Your experience is typical, my love.
Me: I attract all the people I have no respect for. At least in the physical. I have a superintendent who thinks it's his business to tell me to lose weight, I have a neighbour who's a misogynist who puts me down all the time, the other one across the street is a busy body who rats out all the neighbours to city council. Well, at least the demonic with blacked out eyes and the reptilian shapeshifter left. Also the one who's a streetwalker who lived above me and her mother. They moved in with the shapeshifter, after the shapeshifter abandoned her cat. I could make a soap opera out of my life!
Ivo: There are many things you are meant to see, to learn about life on earth, so you have experienced much of the negative side of western society. You have dated misogynists, you have been date raped, put down by gangs of bullying men, attracted miserable friends who were chronic complainers, and more. You have had to learn to love these people and you were pretty good at finding things about them you did like, although you do not tend to focus on that. And I might add, my love, that you offer them help continuously even though you have these misgivings about them.
Me: It feels like a compulsion.
Ivo: It is your soul. You came to help and you cannot stop yourself.
Me: True. I still want to move. I want my closest neighbour to be a bear.
Ivo: And you will get your wish. It is unfortunate that more people do not simply look at the people they meet less personally and simply study them rather than becoming involved with and entangled in their drama. A personal distance is recommended for dealing with people of earth. Involvement in their affairs is not recommended.
Me: Yes. True.
Ivo: Which leads me to my last point: You all have learned to see people on this planet in an unloving way. You were sent here as a lightworker to heal the planet, but in fact because of the veil of amnesia you ended up being more like the ones you came to save. The lightworker has the strength to do the work to heal themself and this is a task all of you must take on. If you do not like a person, they may be showing you part of yourself that you need to forgive or to heal. If you do not like a situation, what is it showing you that you can empower yourself with? If you do not like a job, why do you not like it? What can you learn about yourself from your reaction? If you do not like someone's arrogance, is it because you can be arrogant yourself? Do you realize that arrogance is ego and that when you are in your ego, you are distanced from your soul? How can you stop being arrogant then? If you do not know, then you can always ask for higher help to be shown to you.
Sharon loves the incantation given to her by El Morya, who she has grown to love and respect enormously: "God grant me the power to accept your love now, The Strength to walk the path you ask of me, and the Clarity to see your Light. Allow me to see You through the Illusion that seeks to separate us."
Me: I swear by this. It changes my frequency when I recite it. When I'm butt to butt against my ego and I can't see the way out, I say this and I swear it works.
Ivo: What El Morya was saying in this incantation is that to see God through the Illusion you have learned to perpetrate upon yourself sometimes requires His help. To gain higher understanding (God) in a world of Illusion, requires power or a rise in frequency. Connection with God, to help you see the higher path while walking through a lower one, requires His vision, which is the Clarity he refers to here. It is a brilliant prayer.
Ivo: And for the one viewing this, bringing in God to help you is a good way forward. Say a prayer, recite a decree or simply pray or ask for His help to guide you and it will be given. He never says no when you ask for connection.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, the Lightworker has a tough job. Learning to love again in an unloving world. Learning to love the ones who throw verbal stones at them. The way to accomplish this is to stop being like they are and to love them no matter what, to be as your Soul. It's the only way through your dilemma.
Me: I heard you, Ivo, loud and clear and I need to discuss this.
Ivo: My love, you heard me correctly. I said that getting angry seems to be the natural reaction to many of the behaviours you are accosted with, and perhaps you feel they deserve it, but ask yourself if you deserve your reaction to it. We are working on not reacting to others who seek to steal your energy, and to create loosh, because this is what it is. This is why you saw Barry Littleton's video as a reminder of what this is all about: nobody would behave the way they do on your planet except for the fact they are prompted to for the sake of creating loosh in others. They are being prompted to create loosh for their attachments, who might quickly jump to you for the sake of a meal.
And for the same reason, your cat behaves as he does: he is also being prompted to wake you up while you are sleeping, get in your way while you are trying to sweep the floor in your art room, chase flies and upset the apple cart around him... he is a cat, yes, a feral animal, in his case, and an alpha, which makes him more difficult to deal with. Anyone is susceptible to creating loosh for the dark ones, if they are at the correct vibrational frequency. Also, do not dismiss the impact that chemtrails have upon your psyche, plus the fact that you are cut off from sunlight. The dark ones know this and prompt the cabal to create these less than viable circumstances for your people.
Yes, perhaps the person you are dealing with is of low consciousness. You look at your neighbour and cannot fathom the level of understanding she is at. She says she fears being alone but she would rather live with someone who is threatening and abusive to her than be by herself. That is difficult to understand.
Ivo: The other neighbour constantly puts you down. I have told you to ignore him and you are, however your opinion of him is lowering.
Me: What's it supposed to do?
Ivo: You need to forgive him. Understand were it not for these attachments, he would not behave this way.
Me: Worst part is, his kid is listening to the way he talks to me.
Ivo: This is very unfortunate.
But the point I was making to you earlier is that you suffer the most. You suffer having to tolerate others' ill gotten behaviours towards you, then you suffer your resentment, and then your angry outburst as you attempt to control them. So nobody wins except the non-visible non-incarnates surrounding you.
You need to stop feeding them.
Me: It would help if I wasn't having a chemtrail day.
Ivo: Tomorrow you will go and buy the painter's mask and make the appropriate mask for when you see chemtrails in the sky. You will be able to beat them at their game. You are also working with the violet flame to remove them from the sky when they appear. And this is working. You have not suffered as much as you had earlier because you are clearing the skies.
Me: Yeah, but I'll look like Darth Vader with the mask on.
Ivo: What you look like is an ego affliction. It is that your health improves because that is what you are most in need of.
Ivo: This message is a reminder to all to stop trying to control others and attempt to control your reaction to them. This is the only way to remain above the chaos and craziness surrounding you. Especially those who are awake and on the ascension path and who are aware of what others are attempting to do to them, such as Sharon is, you need to work on the next steps of forgiveness and perhaps you do not wish to spend time with these people, but you also should not spend time in unforgiveness. Jesus said, "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do," and nothing could be more true than that. However, for those who rise in awareness, you are now called on to walk the high road. Since you have ascended in awareness, you are now being called to ascend in behaviour as well. It is not a path of understanding the higher message and ignoring it. Of course you will have days when you are in a bad mood, especially if you are an empath with endocrine problems, however, you will still be expected to overcome all with mind because mind is stronger than body.
Your body can no longer dictate to you what you can and cannot do. "Well, I am ill so I can treat others any way I want to," no longer holds water. That is an excuse. You are not a body. You are a consciousness and the path of ascension is to be of higher consciousness, not lower consciousness.
Me: I'm just wondering when my neighbour will stop his putdowns.
Ivo: He may never stop, my love, but to be honest that is none of your business.
Me: That's true. That's me on his side of the fence. I have to stay on mine. What do I plan to do about it? Ignore him and not to take on the shame he's trying to shoot at me.
Ivo: Mind is strong. Always. It is a question of practise. This is a lesson for all especially now when your world is so divided in opinion.
Opinion means nothing. There is only one truth so find it and follow it.
Me: Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: You realize you like to dominate as well. And in being this way, then who do you have to have around you but others you consider less than viable humans? Chaotic, incompetent humans who you compare yourself to. This must end. You ARE of higher consciousness and you DO know better than they do, however your ego is in the way here. This is why you are holding on to your neighbourhood - because your struggles with your neighbours feed your ego, and in so doing, they feed the feelings of separation and then in turn feed the New World Order agenda. No less than that. This is a lesson for all of you - stop comparing yourself as superior or inferior to others. This is the power over others system. The first indication you'll find that you are doing is is your focus switches to others. Keep your focus on yourself, not on others. When you are unhappy, many of you switch your focus to others, and then blame them for making your life miserable. It is you that is making yourself miserable because of your reaction to them and your need for them to create the reaction of superiority or inferiority that your ego seeks. That is the simple fact. You need these people for your ego to create your false sense of self. That is why you react to them. You create your world, you create your happiness and you are responsible for both. Your world encompasses all that you touch on, become aware of, that is your world. If that is a miserable existence, it is because you have allowed it to be. Yes.
Me: I know my ego justifies it just because I find this world is so crazy.
Ivo: When you can catch yourself in any cycle of thinking which manifests in certain behaviours, for example you feel the world is crazy and people are of low consciousness, especially those around you, so this makes you angry because you feel that were it not for your financial situation, you would move to a place that feels more sane to you. So then, you are angry at your circumstances and then you feel that you have the right, you feel justified, in treating them all the way you decide they deserve to be treated. You are all taught to do this. You feel that because others behave in low consciousness ways, perhaps they eat meat and you are a vegan, so you feel righteously justified in your anger and when you come across a meat eater, you blast them with your anger and feel you have done the world a service. You have not. You have done nothing but create bad karma for yourself. And this will be rebalanced in your lifetime. What's more, you are beholden to that situation - attached to it. Lose your ego attachment and detach from situations which displease you. This is mastery of mind. Allow them to be and allow yourself to rise above them.
We understand that you are in a difficult situation on your planet at this time, especially. And we realize we must repeat our messages to continue to remind you not to buy in to old 3D behaviours if you wish to ascend. Your ego will justify everything as being correct and will give you emptiness and a sorry life in return for allowing it to dominate. You must overcome it. There are still dark ones about and you must learn to play your own game of life rather than playing theirs. You have learned to play theirs by behaving this way and now you must drop it.
Also be very careful about any "feeder activities" that might feed into this entire ego syndrome. For example, if you watch videos on youtube about Fails. Yes. You see people having fails and your ego is thinking, "Oh, I would never be that stupid!" or, "Look at these people. Are they serious?" You are simply stoking the fires for this ego imbalance syndrome. Watch videos about those who have mastered their craft, such as professional piano players, or watch videos about "People are Awesome," who are good at extreme sports. But stay away from video's like America's Funniest Home Video's because these stoke the superiority syndrome. Be very careful what you expose yourself to. Watch whenever you see yourself laughing at another person's actions. Also, if you have feelings that your aircraft are not superior at all and too many of them crash or drop out of the sky, then do not watch "Mayday!" episodes. This also feeds not only the ego syndrome but your fears. Any show where incompetence is exhibited feeds your ego because obviously you think you would never do that or be so stupid. This all must be avoided otherwise you will stay in this ego misery. And basically, when this is directed at any other person, it is hateful. Yes.
What's more, if you are prone to thinking this way, of attacking others in the name of feeling superior, do not read the news. The attacks launched on Donald Trump are part of the power over others control system, because they are in fact not attempting to obtain power over Donald Trump as much as their words to discredit him are attempts to continue their power over YOU. This is what you've learned as credible thinking and it is anything but that. Those of higher consciousness who are aware, realize this and at least attempt to live this way. This is why so many are unable to see Donald Trump as being better than the news portrays him to be: because they too, live by and enact this power over others system. When you live it and love it, you enable others to live that way, even expect others to live that way, and allow them to control you in turn.
In the same way if you become angry at your neighbour, my love, then you create bad karma for yourself. It is about walking the higher road even if they do not. Because when you refuse to take the high road, you are on the same road as they are - one of low consciousness. Do you understand?
Me: Yep. Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: Your state of health dictates nothing. You are not justified in being angry at others' behaviour because you are in poor health. That is an excuse. Your people use too many of them and therefore your world is on the fringe of erupting right now. Everyone must take responsibility for their own happiness.
Me: Ivo, I just had the weirdest experience! I was watching B2T talking about Al Sharpton boarding his plane and then I had these thoughts come up about dark entities attacking me and I froze for a second. Then it passed. I had deja vu, because I know I'd seen Gene talking about Al Sharpton boarding his plane before, and that I was about to be attacked and all I had to do was stop. I knew what to do and the situation went away. Then I intuited it was something that I'd been schooled on while on board the ships and told it was going to happen, and I was given the opportunity to practise my reaction on the ship so that when it happened, I wouldn't lose my cool.
Lightworkers are being schooled on board ships by their guides about situations that might be challenging for them while they're asleep at night.
Me: So, next video. LOL Can you go into more detail on this? This is very interesting.
Ivo: We do counsel you. It is imperative that, at key times, you make the correct decisions. We have worked with you throughout your lives to make you understand the repercussions of your choices. Oftentimes these events come about at key times, such as timeline changes.
Me: So the dark ones were trying to lie to me and I heard them and didn't react. I stayed calm although I could feel my shoulders starting to tense.
Ivo: And it was because you understood from our counseling sessions that they would be doing this. We prepare you in the astral for many situations that you will likely encounter in the physical and we guide you so that you make the correct responses.
We are guides, but we are not the type you read about in spiritual books that hang about you and whisper in your ear.
Me: LOL I used to be able to feel you behind my left shoulder while I was working that night job, so don't tell me you don't hang around. You do.
Ivo: Yes, but we have a more active role in your lives than just that. And for that matter, with earthlings they converse with their guides in the astral at night time as well. We are not invisible figures that you have a hard time perceiving with little ability to steer your course in life. We have much ability to steer your course in life. When you can actively hear and converse with us, it makes it easier - sometimes.
Me: LOL Or you just hear how we're about to resist you.
Ivo: Yes. Then more explanation is necessary. If you decide not to, then that is your decision.
Me: You keep telling me I don't know how life works, so how can I not understand that I'm making my decision on ignorance?
Ivo: You do not know. It is our job to tell you what you need to know. We explain it to you in the way that is intended for you to understand. Your people see things as something to fear, we teach you how to love it. Your people see things as something that limits them. We teach you how to go beyond this perception of limits. Your people believe that they are who they think they are. We teach you you have no idea of who you are. We tell you who you are based on universal law and the Truth. We school you in many things. Taking you to higher levels of greater understanding, we teach you to question your reality and your beliefs, we teach you to walk towards a correct understanding of life.
It is not a surprise that people watch our videos that teach them various metaphysical truths and they begin to use them and to understand and incorporate them in their lives. They are getting more counselling in the astral at night time on these very subjects.
Me: Well, that's good. What can I say?
Ivo: You are at a loss of words?
Me: Ha ha! Yes. For once.
Ivo: We are guiding you so that you are attracted to certain things. The one who is immersed in ego is not attracted to working with the masters. They are attracted to teachings that will relieve their pain, because as you say, "The Ego is a pain." It causes pain. This is because it has been taught the incorrect teachings. This person needs to learn the basics to move away from their pain, and towards something less overwhelming, then higher teachings can be incorporated.
Me: You start where you are.
Ivo: Exactly. We have been working with you all your life. We have schooled you as you worked in your corporate environments. It was because of our teachings you refused to go to town hall meetings for example. We still do not understand the connection between a town hall and the CEO, however.....
Me: Corporate jargon. Schmooze.
Ivo: You refused to do so. You preferred to work rather than listen to the CEO boast about the corporate earnings for the year or perhaps how bad the corporation had done and so this was why bonuses were smaller that year.
Me: Yeah, I worked for an oil company. And they skimmed off our bonuses. Nice. When you consider the entire market is controlled by the Deep State leaders, I should go back and demand an extra thousand from them.
Ivo: You were aware because we taught you. And yes, the Deep State controls the prices which means they are robbing you. There are no reasons for these market fluctuations other than the fact that they control the market and they change it to suit themselves, not you.
Me: I know. Thieves.
Ivo: So, we taught you this when you started your oil factory job at 19. It was important that you have an idea of what was really going on, even at that time in your life. We used everything you did as a means of moving you away from mind control.
Me: Yeah, the 80's. Money was good then.
Ivo: Your guides will teach all of you when you sleep at night which will make your responses to situations better than you would have done if you had been working to change all by yourself. We understand that with mind control that change is difficult so we help with this as well. When you are with us, of course, you are not mind controlled and as we school you it goes into your subconscious to be drawn upon later on in the physical.
Me: Oh, that makes sense.
Ivo: It does. Show you your future, show you the best choices to make and help you fight the mind control that would have you do otherwise.
Me: It really is a consciousness war, isn't it?
Ivo: It is. You are in the front line positions. Your mindsets are being fought over as we speak. It is important that you in fact see the Light.
Me: Got it! Thanks Ivo.
Ivo: Now, my love, it is time for bed. We do have some work to do tonight as you are on the precipice of a breakthrough.
Me: Yeah, I feel it. Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: So, my love, after days of explaining to you the situation with your neighbour and your super, we will recap everything into the bigger picture for all to understand.
Me: Yes, I've been hearing what you and Athena are saying and it makes sense.
Ivo: You are doing the Course in Miracles. Jesus is telling the listeners to give up attack thoughts.
You need to understand that, in third dimensional life that you learned to attack other people because they were attacking you, or you had that perception. When someone laughed at you, ridiculed you, as did your father and your brother, you learned that you had to attack them back because somehow that made it fair, or for whatever reason. Your father taught you to attack others and he showed you through example. He seemed to believe that this was being strong. It is not. It is being weak.
It is said that to be vulnerable in a world such as yours is a strength.
You are not vulnerable. The only thing that would make you vulnerable to attack is your own understanding of it.
In your third dimensional world with its low frequency patterns of behaviour, precious few can get along.
Vulnerability is the normal state of the human because we live in worlds where one does not attack others, but love them. We would be open to attack if we lived on your planet in the third dimension, however we would love the person who did the attacking because we would realize that we are not at fault.
And this is the way your world is beginning to move now.
You must see all people as vulnerable and those who are aggressive, offensive, attacking as being the ones who are trying to appear otherwise. They fear their vulnerability.
When you interpret someone's behaviour as an attack, you will most likely want to attack back. You have been taught to take offense to others' behaviour. Your mother taught you that. She took offense constantly at what your father said and did, and taught you that his behaviour was unacceptable. No. What is unacceptable is her response to it. Had she thought otherwise, your family would have learned how to live with and accept your father the way he was. Think about that. You would have grown up not learning how to take offense. What a precious gift that would have been for you.
Now the shoe is on the other foot.
Your mother was behaving in a very un-human way. She took offense to everything and then spewed out her own offenses just to appear invulnerable. She was very critical.
Taking offense is a choice. Attacking back is a choice, not a knee-jerk reaction. You must see it this way. So many of you believe that this is not optional, it is mandatory because you must protect yourselves. You do not have to protect yourself if you do not take offense. If you personalize others' comments as they are intended, then you will feel offended and hurt. But then you are allowing them to control you.
Me: But these are unloving people.
Ivo: They are fearful people, my love. They are afraid and scared. Only fearful people want to control. Other people can let others be as they are.
Me: Okay. But I still want to find people I can relate to. I'm not interested in engaging with people who don't think as I do.
Ivo: And this is normal. But should they send attacking comments your way, understand that this is their problem, not yours. They are fearful and attempting to control. You are beyond that now. And yes, you will be tested.
You will not attack another person if you do not take offense. It is that simple. Wars would be averted on your planet if people would learn to see others' problems as theirs, not yours. You make others' problems your own when you accept the implied insult. Do not do so. That is a question of standing in your own good self esteem, which is provided through soul, not through ego.
If you react to something in the way that your entire society is conditioned to react, then you are being controlled. Let me repeat: You do not have to protect yourself if you do not take offense. If you personalize others' comments as they are intended, then you will feel offended and hurt. But then you are allowing them to control you.
For example: Your neighbour says that you are walking around the block to try to make money as a prostitute. Obviously this is not true so you did not react.
Now, on the other hand, your super snickers at the weight you have gained. Had he said, "Boy! Are you ever fat!" you would have countered telling him what a stupid ass you think he is.
What did the assertiveness course tell you to say?
Me: "Yes, you're probably right. I am fat." You're supposed to admit to the truth in the statement rather than taking on the implied shame.
Ivo: Which is a wonderful response. He would have most likely continued by telling you how to eat healthy, and he did tell you to start going for walks.
Me: I am going for walks.
Ivo: Which you could have said.
Me: It's still none of his business.
Ivo: And you could have said that as well. There are far more ways to respond to someone who is attacking you than by hurting them in return. That is the point I am making. Perhaps you can all practise this and the world's negativity level will drop somewhat.
Me: Yes. We learned to counter-attack. I even remember making that decision as a child.
Ivo: Yes. You did not attack back beforehand. You would sit and cry because you were hurt.
Me: Well, this was my family.
Ivo: Crying would have been the better response than attacking them. You were transmuting their negative energy.
The idea is not to take on the negative energy by personalizing their comment. Let us do some more examples:
The grocery clerk scoffs because you have purchased more food than you have money for. So you attack her back by saying if their prices weren't so high, you would be able to afford to shop here.
That is an attack. Or perhaps you choose an attack of a more personal nature such as she is ugly, or she looks like she could use a salon appointment. Or simply calling her one of your society's normal epithets such as jerk, asshole, etc. These are counter-attacks.
Now the correct response would be a smile and simply saying, "Please process these credits. Thank you." Do not take on the shame, do not take on any insult. Simply hold your light and process the transaction. Let her deal with her own feelings and do not take on any shame or insult.
Another example: You have indicated that the old tenants' mail needs to be returned but your mailman keeps delivering it anyway despite your sign on the mailbox and the fact that you asked him before to do so.
Ivo: So you ask him again. But you do not call him a jerk, you simply keep on asking for him to comply. If it takes five times then it takes five times.
Me: Grrrrr. Why should I have to? How come he can't do his job properly? Or won't do his job properly?
Ivo: I do not know. But simply keep asking him. And spare yourself wondering why an earthling is inefficient because frankly, most of you are.
Now, let us suppose that more of the neighbours begin with the same putdowns as your next door neighbour. How will you deal with them?
Me: I don't speak to them unless my next door neighbour is around so I probably wouldn't have that problem. I would just nod and walk away if they try to talk to me. The reason I started talking to next door is that he seemed to be a nice guy. Turns out he isn't. So lesson learned. Actually, his friends seem more aboveboard but I'm not giving anyone the benefit of the doubt anymore, not around here.
Ivo: Very well. If he says something to you?
Me: I walk away.
Ivo: Which is fine.
What I am stressing here is that in arguments, differences of opinion, etc. that you learn to keep your energy for yourself and not counter-attack when you are attacked. In counter-attacking, you are allowing the attacker to control you. You must retain control. That is what they do not want, but that is what you do want.
Use the incident to learn from, not to counter-attack. Doing so is a refusal to learn from your life's circumstances. Anyone who attacks and counter-attacks is projecting their own fears onto others. This is incorrect for 4D.
You are living among people who still behave in the old lower vibrational ways. They will not ascend - you will when you follow this course of action. Give up attacking others.
Giving up attack thoughts will follow on the heels of seeking inner peace through relationship with others.
Me: Thanks, Ivo!
Putting others down
Me: The only reason people put other people down is because they know they're above them. My mother used to say they are jealous, and I suppose she's saying the same thing here. They wish they felt as good as you appear to be looking.
As for the lightworker, who gets a lot of "you're crazy," "don't say that! that's nuts!" or the "who do you think you are?" that I once got, there you go.
I'm not saying to get big headed and start smirking because you think you're the best person on the planet, I'm saying understand that people take shots at you because they want your high energy. When your energy is high, you are on top of the world, when it's low you may be prone to doing some sniping of your own.
Don Miguel Luiz writes the book, "The Four Agreements," and he's talking about black magicians in it. It is black magic.
Black magic came from the Sirian system, made its way to Orion and by way of Maldek, which got blown up and is now the Kuiper Belt, and made its way to earth in the time of Atlantis or even before. The black magicians are still here - they're the evil element that is running this planet now.
They're the ones prompting people to live below their best. They want you at their worst because then you align with them and when you align with them, they can have power over you. So they teach you their ways of behaving and this is one example: putting other people down because you know they're flying way above you (higher than your vibration). You want to control their energy.
Personalizing and Defending
Ivo: Everything is energy and people like to get control over others' energy on your planet. You live in a "power over others" system where everyone is trying to get others to do as they want. Arguably you are trying to get him to shut up and to stop doing what he is doing. This is your attempt to control him, my love. His attempt to control you is to condescend to you, because he feels that unless you lower your standards, you will not give him what he wants.
Me: He's right. It would just be a bit weird to allow someone to make defamatory comments towards me.
Ivo: And on whose part is it weird? Yours or his?
Me: I think both.
Ivo: He is the one doing it. You cannot control what comes out of his mouth.
Me: So I'm trying to take control of the way he treats me. Even when I set a boundary, he still might not comply. He might laugh and amp it up.
I love the way one problem can bring on days' worth of work to change me. I think this problem has shown up in 3 or 4 of our recent videos.
Ivo: Others have the same problem with people trying to bring them down. They can learn from this as well. You have healed from much of your childhood pain. However, now you must learn to deal with these situations that shows your true power: ignore him. If you can ignore someone who is trying to get power over you, you hold on to your power and do not give it away. Athena channeled recently on energy management and this is part of that as well - it is managing your energy by deciding where you plan to invest it. Do you want to give it away to thieves or do you want to give it away to worthwhile causes such as the enlightenment of people as we are doing now, or just keeping your energy for yourself so you are not so fatigued anymore.
Me: Ah, okay.
Ivo: Energy is energy. You can save your own and feel more energetic. When you do not respond, you hold your energy. You remember the time you were in Holland with your aunt and you walked into a bar to have lunch and there was only a group of garbage men in the pub. And they all started to hoot and holler at you.
Me: Tante Luke said to ignore them.
Ivo: And she was right. They obviously wanted you to pay attention and interact with them. How do you think they would have treated you?
Me: LOL Like garbage.
Ivo: Of course. A man who has high morals does not approach a woman in this fashion. It is beneath him. You will be tested on this, my love. You have been and it will continue until you firmly realize that the only person whose opinion of you matters is your own. Not even mine is as important as your opinion of yourself.
Why is this so important? Because this is the pinnacle, the focal point of all you create with. That is what all must learn. To hold themselves in high regard, not arrogant ego, in high esteem because this is what you create your life and you magnetize your abundance with. All negative ideas about yourselves must stop. It is no less important than that.
Me: I can see that.
Ivo: So let him talk. It does not matter what he says unless you engage him - then you make it matter.
I realize you had a detractor as a father and you had to engage him because you lived in the same house and he had control over everything and so you could not shut him out. Had you done so, it would have helped you. But he scared you. And this is how your matrix system works. Ignore what scares you - as in irrational fears, of course - I mean do not go stepping on snakes and chasing bears in the woods. That is not rational to believe you can physically beat a bear..... the rest must be ignored.
For those who could not ignore what they feared in life, healing must take place. Learning to pay attention to what works for you, and to ignore that which does not, will take you a long way.
Me: Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: You are learning, my love. You weathered facebook trolls, you were taunted and harassed and you weathered it well. Now you have physical neighbours who are attempting to teach you to stand in your power, so make short work of it. Others may be incredulous that you allow this, but tell them you know what you are doing.
Me: I will.
Beyond Boundaries, Unconditional Love
Me: Going deeper into my quest to align with the truth, and my soul and Christ Self, I love the truth. I seek it out, I love hearing it from other people's lips, and I don't hang with people who don't align with it because they're living in illusion, often delusion as well.
We are living on a planet of free will; that means that all people must learn to respect their own and others' free will. We've been taught to do completely the opposite.
Ivo has taught us a lot of what the truth encompasses:
- All is God
- God is love, so all is love
- Information is Light, Light is information (only true information, lies aren't)
- All are equal
- But what happens here on this earth plane is a question of one's choice before incarnating
- Reincarnation is true
- You are ageless
- You're not who you have been led to believe you are
- You're a powerful aspect of God, you have God's powers at your disposal
- You're a creator and you have free will to create whatever you want
- Fear is a lie; it doesn't exist but it seems we're so powerful we can convince ourselves it is real
- As you reap, so shall you sow
- It makes no difference whether you think it or act on it - both are of equal construction or destruction
- Death is a transition
- You are energy; everything is energy, not mass or matter
- The only moment is now; the past and the future don't exist
Ivo, what else can you teach us about reality? What lesson do I have coming up that you can expand on?
Ivo: You are not learning that much at this point, my love, because you have done most of your work. What would be a good lesson is teaching you of the lesson of loving everybody. When you love everybody, you are free.
Me: Yeah, then there are the creepy neighbours I have who steal or make derogatory remarks towards me. I feel I have to set boundaries.
Ivo: You set boundaries with others in the hopes that they learn to change.
Me: So what if they don't change?
Ivo: Boundaries, in effect, are limits you have within your own psyche. You set boundaries with others because you expect to be respected. The other day when your neighbour made the indecent remark towards you, you did not react and you were not triggered. You kept your calm and simply replied to what he said as if it weren't intended to be offensive.
Now you are angry and have decided you no longer wish to speak to him. You have a boundary within yourself that demands that he respect you.
Me: Yeah, so what's the issue?
Ivo: Your soul was capable of loving him despite his remark.
Me: He's getting to be a nuisance, to be honest. He just keeps pushing it forward.
Ivo: Your soul was capable of loving him as he is, nonetheless, my love. My love, there is life beyond boundaries.
Being unconditionally loving means that you do not become upset at the behaviour of others. You simply love them despite what you have learned to be flaws in their character. When you set boundaries and you insist that people treat you with respect, in fact, you are creating limits and conditions in your relationship with them. Jesus did not set limits with people and he was able to take the most vile treatment and smile at people, still loving them.
Me: I'm not Jesus.
Ivo: But you are becoming a Christ, my love. You are becoming as Athena.
Me: So then I keep talking to this person and he keeps making these comments and his friends all join in and they start making these comments and I just smile at them.
Ivo: Unphased because you love all as they are.
Me: I don't love all as they are.
Ivo: Your soul does. Your personality is upset she missed a chance to set a boundary.
Me: The personality needs boundaries, the soul doesn't. You told me before that the ego's job was to learn to be healthy in order for the higher self to manifest on earth. So learning to be assertive and to set boundaries was necessary.
Ivo: I did. And you have done this.
Me: So why change it now?
Ivo: It is possible for a human to undergo all sorts of negativity and not be traumatized when they are at a high enough frequency. At lower frequencies you misinterpret others' comments as being harmful instead of fodder for learning. On your world, you are taught that everything must be perfect and all others must treat you perfectly, yet you know it is far from that. When you don't personalize others' comments, you don't react. You don't give them your energy.
There is no need to defend yourself to anyone. Let them think what they like. Imagine if Trump had to set boundaries and defend himself against all those who are slandering him now. He cannot. So he does not even attempt to. He just lets them talk. He knows he has the upper hand and that is the reason they are taking shots at him, my love. Nobody tries to shoot down someone unless they are flying above them. It has to do with power: those who have more power are shot at by those who have less power, or who believe themselves to have less power. This man is attempting to empower himself by controlling you, and when you show him a reaction, then he believes he has control. When you do not react, he cannot control you.
Me: Wierd. But I see that that's true.
Like that of a Christ. Jesus just made another body for himself after they hanged him on the cross so he wasn't setting any boundaries with the Romans; he didn't need to. He just said, "Nyah nyah, I'll show you," and he came back incarnated into the same body because the mind creates the body, and he just went on about his business.
Ivo: Yes, he did not fear death. He did not fear being abused. He did not fear anything.
Me: So you're saying my need to set boundaries is because I have a confused idea of things. That I can let this guy say what he wants to and my soul won't be offended and I won't be traumatized.
Ivo: It is important that there be no threat to the physical body at your level. When you do not know how to create another body, then it is important that this one not be threatened. So physical harm is what we are speaking of here.
Emotional harm is what you see it as. If you see what he says to you as an insult, then you will tell him to stop so that he will not hammer away at your psyche. If you see what he says as a projection of his own low self esteem, you will not care what he says because it has nothing to do with you.
Me: What I'm interested in stopping is the entire neighbourhood doing it too.
Ivo: You could have just said, "Pardon me, but your low self esteem is showing."
Me: Men who believe they are better than women are often misogynists.
Ivo: They are. But you must understand that he cannot take away your self esteem unless you allow him to. He can say what he will when you have intact self esteem, and you do. So there is no need to set boundaries with him.
Me: There's also no need to speak to him anymore either.
Ivo: That is your choice. If you do not enjoy conversing with him, then seek company elsewhere.
Me: I don't enjoy speaking to women-hating misogynists.
Ivo: And you see this is a limitation of your personality, not your soul. Because your soul has no issue with him.
Me: Yes. I see this. How do you deal with this then?
Ivo: You lose the limitations that you live by. That all people must treat you respectfully. When you lose these limits, then you will find that there is no more lesson to be learned. Because this is your lesson. Your personality's response and your soul's response is being shown to you.
Me: I used to sit there looking at my brother's in-laws talking to my dad and I used to die of embarassment at some of the things he'd say and they just accepted him as he was. Always wondered about that.
Ivo: Yes. They took no offense at what he said because they see his behaviour as a reflection of himself, not of them.
Me: But you said all people are One.
Ivo: They are, but they all have the free will to express themselves as individuals when they are embodied.
Me: So what do I do about this neighbour?
Ivo: Forget about it. Let him be. If he says anything again, there is no need to react. Just let him talk.
Me: And keep my distance because I can't replace my body if he should decide to want to kill me.
Ivo: There is no need to fret over what he says. Or what anyone says. They are reflecting themselves, not you. The lesson you need to learn is that it has nothing to do with you.
Me: Everything and nothing, got it. Life is a paradox.
Ivo: You would want to spend your time in more positive pursuits with more positive others, yes, but these low vibrational people do no harm unless you allow them to. You have control over this.
Ivo: Many of your people are apt to respond to these people with a, "Who cares?" attitude. You need to stop caring what others think of you and say about you, and your soul, Aurea, is already there.
Me: Got it.
Ivo: The only boundaries you should work on are physical harm boundaries. Avoid physical contact.
Ivo: Now you must look at your other neighbours, the one you had the argument with over the fact they stole from your garden. You have rhubarb in the back of that house still, and you know they enjoy it and will probably take some.
Me: As long as they don't kill the plant, they're hard to come by.
Ivo: Very well. But you said that they can help themselves because you cannot stop them anyway. As for what they think of you, what do you think?
Me: I don't care what they think of me.
Ivo: Which is the point. You have had rows with many of your neighbours and no longer speak to them but you do not care what they think of you. And that is where you want to be. Now you have the opportunity to not care about someone's opinion of you who is making salacious comments towards you.
Me: So here I am, either fighting with neighbours or taking their dirty comments without caring about it. Nice place I live in.
Ivo: Which is the point, my love. You should move to an area that better reflects your self esteem, yes, but even when you are not, you do not care about how you are being treated. The important thing is your reaction because your treatment of yourself is the most important issue.
Me: There is still the fat shaming issue.
Ivo: And we spoke about that. He is attempting to control himself. You understand he realizes he has no business saying this to you. Do not react. Let him work it out himself.
The point is, for all, people cannot harm you unless you take the insult and agree with them. There is removal of energy if in fact, you allow them to lower your vibration. So do not allow them.
Me: That's in that book, "The Four Agreements," too.
Ivo: So break the agreement. These are agreements that you are colluding to with others. There are the unspoken laws of behaviour: I say something and you take offense to it. You say something back and I take offense, and we begin to argue.
Many of you have such agreements. Do not play the game. Ensure you are not in physical danger, but do not play the game as expected. Play it your own way. If the neighbours begin to comment, just laugh and walk away. When they realize you do not care, they will stop.
Me: Got it. Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, peace of mind is not allowing others to disturb it. This is mastery of mind. Controlling your external instead of your internal mind is the very, very long way to inner peace. Not caring or loving those as they are instead of expecting them to be otherwise is the way to be.
Me: I just was watching a Storm update by a popular information supplier in our community who referred to women as a "minority group."
Perhaps he doesn't realize that there are more women on this planet than men. We're not a minority, and the reason we're treated like a minority group has to do with our rights. Why don't they call it a "governmentally disadvantaged group," rather than a minority group, or a "illegally disadvantaged group"? In the Matrix system, women's rights have been held back as a means of falsely empowering white men and disempowering the divine feminine, and this of course creates division between the sexes. Hearing someone who I feel should know better say this was disconcerting. Obviously this man is slow to come around to the truth of the matter and that is that all sexes are equal simply because they're all human, and that we have to start stating this truth instead of defaulting to old matrix ideology. The fact that they're treated unequally on earth has got to do with the Matrix system. It's important for all to take on a perspective of Oneness, not of the fragmented values that this physical world with alien values presents to us as reality. Which side do you support? The dark or the Light? Clearly he is supporting the third side: his side. Some people are slow to change out of what suits them. We know that men have been falsely empowered in the Matrix.
It just goes to show that we're all oppressed when specific groups of people have to suffer more oppression than those experiencing the best treatment or least oppression. When any human is oppressed, it affects all of us. That's another truth that has yet to be accepted by the entire collective.
If you're speaking Matrix, you're continuing the problem, not only for yourself but for others too. It's unfortunate this person is influential, even doing radio spots within our community. The slower you are to embrace the fact that all are equal, the more imbalanced this world will continue to be. There's the truth, and then there's everyone's opinion of it, based on what they have falsely learned. Power isn't based on physical ability anywhere but here on earth and that's one reason we have an imbalanced world: it's based on the wrong ideas. Because your true powers have been held back, you've been taught that physical prowess is the sign of power. It's not. What about mental power even, never mind metaphysical powers. Please! Of course, those who have the true power of reading minds have been labeled as freaks rather than acknowledged for their superior powers. We've got a lot to learn.
Balance is what all extraterrestrial worlds thrive on. All people upon the planet work to achieve equilibrium among themselves. It's easier because they're telepathic and there's no hidden agendas or concealed feelings, but that's what they do - they work on keeping the balance. What are signs of equilibrium? Happiness, joy, peace and loving each other. Sounds pretty good to me! That's what humans who are balanced experience as life.
My own personal situation with the next door neighbour who is trying to seduce me has not improved. Somehow I feel hearing this information giver say this, and then to date, tolerating sexist comments from this neighbour is coming to a head for me. I realize I have to do something because stressing over it will only make me more sick and tired.
Last night as I walked around the block to help strengthen my legs, I came across this neighbour, who commented that I must be walking around the block in order to make more money as a prostitute. I ignored his comment because frankly I've always believed that these things should be ignored, but experience tells me, and yes, I've had experience with this before, many years of sexual harassment in the workplace, that when you ignore it, it only gets worse.
Clearly this man's sense of himself is so poor he just projects it onto me. He treats women horrendously and I'm not surprised his partner is so angry, because she is.
Something has to be done about this. What's more, and I know this is part of the pattern, he does it in front of his friends. Apparently, this is to try to impress them. I've experienced nice conversations with the same men in private but get them around their friends and they turn into abusive jerks. Earlier this was confusing for me, but I understand it now: they're trying to impress their male friends by putting women down. How reptilian! This is exactly what this guy is doing. And if I don't stop it, these friends will begin as well.
People will test others' boundaries to see what they can get away with. This is what children do, but some adults still do it because they haven't grown up yet. Those who have integrity behave the same always, regardless of what they could have gotten away with. They value others as they value themselves. Like they say, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." If they don't exchange the same respect, you have to deal with it and ultimately forgive them for your own sake. There's also a metaphysical reason for this I'm hearing because what you do to others you attract in kind. When you love them, you get more love. When you diss them, you get dissed. This is universal law. It's about rebalancing. Which makes this interesting because I don't make sleazy comments towards men yet I still get it in return. Obviously this is part B of the lesson: about empowerment by attracting your opposite.
I believe this has to do with oppression of the divine feminine. Well, believe me, the time has come for her to stop taking it. I think tolerating their wrong treatment doesn't help the perpetrator to learn new behaviours.
Another situation I'm in is where yet another man is ridiculing me because I put on weight recently. I believe that weight gain has to do with stress and the production of cortisol and I've been under a lot of stress ever since last winter when people woke up to the Storm and especially since the Corona Virus began. I have to allow him access to me because he's my super so shutting him out of my life is not an option.
This man needs to be spoken to as well. Told that his condescending behaviour won't be tolerated and that he should mind his own business.
I just wonder why this is all coming up at once. Obviously for healing, perhaps at a collective level even, but it all just strikes me as odd sometimes.
I just clued in. I may have my answer. By being disrespected, I'm thinking about it. By thinking about it, I am understanding my importance in this world. By being a woman, I am part of the half of the creative process that brings life to earth. Women are doing that work for God, this is their role in the creative process. A few men can keep a world full of women bearing children. Both are important but women were chosen to bear children from their own flesh. Nothing less important than that. Doesn't matter if she's fat, she's still capable of creating life. I might bother to remind him of that next time he smirks at my weight gain. Let's face it, without my detractors throughout my lifetime, I wouldn't be here, would I?
I believe the way forward is to stand my ground and tell them I won't tolerate their behaviour, as a matter of fact the neighbour next door I won't bother speaking to anymore. He's proven that he and I are not on the same page. The other problem with he and his partner, who doesn't seem to like me very much although I haven't done anything wrong, (Yes, blame the victim - where do we see this playing out? Only daily on the news. We get blamed for everything the government decides is our fault. People, it trickles down!) the other problem is the three of us make a triangle - a Karpman drama triangle and that's one thing you want to stay off of unless you want a trip straight back to 3D. People who live in the power over others structure or the Matrix, as it's commonly called, relate dysfunctionally in triangles. They say two is company, three's a crowd. Two is assertive intimacy, hopefully, and three is triangulation, a very unhealthy way of relating.
You see this in politics as well, when you have Trump versus any member of the liberal party and the main stream media, ganging up on his politics. They make him out to be the perpetrator all the time, the victim is the liberal party member and the main stream media comes to the rescue. This is all played out in front of unsuspecting dysfunctional people daily. Yes, by virtue of the fact you believe in the system, you are highly dysfunctional. What they did in the George Floyd false flag is they made black people the victims, Trump the perpetrator and the mayors and state heads became the rescuers of the people abetted by the media. Or they tried to. Dysfunctional people triangulate and manipulate. Functional people are assertive. It's that simple. You want to stay out of triangle politics.
Why do you think there is a two party system? Because one is the perpetrator, you are the victim, and the third is the party you vote for to rescue you from the one you don't like, the perpetrator. You're in a triangle. Because of this, they can make politics as lowball as they want and further the globalist agenda to enslave you and lower society's values. Maybe that's what Trump sees when he says he wants to make America great again. He's 70 years old; like me, he's seen society descend into lower and lower values and the middle class get exterminated. Politics used to be that when someone was campaigning they had to talk about their platform; they weren't allowed to diss the other candidates. I think it was in the 80's when they changed. Before, even politics was about presenting yourself as aboveboard, even if you weren't, especially if you weren't. You had to present yourself as if you were going to benefit your country because nothing less would be expected of the candidate. Now they're positioned as the one who will save you from the destructive regime of the other candidate because they allow them to diss the other party. See the difference? It's a manipulation. That's the triangle and you're on it. They changed the voters' expectations by lowering our standards and by changing the game - they put you on the triangle.
(Thanks Athena). You don't have a choice. Your only choice is to not vote. That's why politics is the laughing stock these days - because they have you trapped in their triangle of dysfunction. Imagine having to pick from two parties whose platform you love, imagine that, eh? You can't decide who to vote for because they both have great platforms and candidates, and you know they're honest and will do what they say. Hopefully that will be our future because it's not our now.
Trump's focus has always been on exposing the deep state. He made statements like he'd put Hillary in jail. So now everyone sees him as a saviour. He isn't. You have to move away from the triangle. Only you can save your own self. What you experience in these turbulent times depends on your level of fear and need of experience. Stop fearing and you've aced your game. Stop giving your power away.
But I digress. I keep shaking my head when I think, "Everywhere I go, trouble finds me." There doesn't seem to be any way to get on with people on this planet unless I ignore them. We never see eye to eye and I refuse to be treated the way they want to treat me. It's like El Morya was saying: if you didn't already have high self esteem, you'd put up with whatever was dished out to you. The fact you won't proves you were born with high self esteem and it's always been there. Life is about waking up in you the qualities of your soul. Reconnection.
Now that I know what's going on behind the scenes - these men have attachments that are spurring them on to attack me - their insults could be attempts to lower my energy. I realize that if they were of more sound mind, without attachments, they wouldn't behave that way.
My inclination is to go after their attachments first before I speak to them. However I can't shield them from these beings re-attaching, that's something they have to work on themselves.
Do I see them as victims or do I see them as perpetrators?
Ivo: They are victims, my love. They are victims of your system as well. And you need to have compassion for them, even though they are attacking you. Attacking them back with insults proves that you are on the same level as they are. This will not work.
Ivo: Simply stating that you will not tolerate their behaviour is sufficient. State your mind, be clear about it. Love is the new way. Your world is learning to love now, not staying in old ideas and loveless ethics. Love must be brought in and compassion extended to those who are suffering as well.
This is about the divine feminine rising. Dealing with situations like this while standing in your feminine energies is the new way. She brings in love, compassion, understanding, but is still very assertive.
Me: Yeah, that's not the way I dealt with it 30 years ago. I'd get really pissed off and came out swinging.
Ivo: This is not then. This is now. The energies are different. You are different. You are capable of holding your ground and speaking your mind without tearing either man down. Men have a lot of adjustment to make because many have learned that it is allowable to condescend to women, even necessary for them to feel any sense of self worth at times.
Me: Yeah, well, they're going to be taught a lesson.
Ivo: And you are always the one to do it.
Me: Tell me about it. It gets old after a while.
Ivo: My love, when you move to your home and land our ships, you will be relieved of much of this low vibrational problem. Insulating yourself in your own community of higher vibrational beings is your last step on earth before you head home.
Me: Ivo, I was just reminded of the effect we create in lightworkers' lives. By continually reaching out in videos, newsletters, on our website, in our blog, we provide information to lightworkers to help them in their work, but one thing I sometimes forget is that we're kind of like a voice calling out to lonely lightworkers who are surrounded by everything BUT what they desire to have around them. I can really relate to that!
I've built my life that way as well, especially since I was 40. The more I woke up to the fact that I was different and began to accept it, the more my gifts came "on line" if you want to call it that, activated. Resistance to the truth of who you are will shut down your spiritual gifts faster than retail doors at closing time. Having worked retail, I know how quickly those doors close when the clock hits quitting time. By the way, the store manager still has to stay another 15 minutes to count the till and close out the shop for the next day, so please stop hammering on the doors thinking you need to buy something. Come back the next day. Cut them a break, okay? They've only been standing for hours and are dying to sit down! You don't know how many retail workers I know, including myself, who have developed leg problems because of standing too much.
The problem for lightworkers is we're spread across the globe, strategically located I've heard, to hold light for our areas. The energy of a lightworker can span a 100 mile radius!! So your energy is helping to wake up people within that span of light, perhaps even longer. If you direct energy to other parts of the world, you can assist in their awakening as well. The reason so many people are waking up to the truth of the deep state now is that we've been holding light for all these years. The human body is a receiver of energy, like a lightning rod, and we've received energies constantly from our home planets, higher dimensions and from any being or beings who've wanted us to do so for them. And I might add, including God. It's not for no reason the deep state/dark ones want to keep your energy low. You'd be less effective and serving them, not the Light.
So we end up in situations feeling like a fish out of water. I was clearly the different one in my family, in my friends' circles, work places.... even the spiritualist church I attended to study mediumship. Everyone was of lower consciousness than I was. I know why now, but at the time I couldn't figure out why people behaved the way they did and why I always hated it.
I just want to say, face it, we took on a job that not that many people would sign up for. Maybe they would out in the galaxy, because they are about love and helping others, but here on earth from the perspective of a physical human, nobody would want to go through what we do. Loneliness is a hard thing to bear. And the stigma of feeling different from everyone else is hard to take.
Now I'm at the point where I'M GLAD I'm different. I would not want to be in their shoes, knowing what I know about earth now, no way!
The other thing we have to remember is, we're always doing work. From the time we're born, to the time we die, we're being used to advance the Light on earth, whether we realize it or not. So if you're 80 years old and just waking up now, it's because you're supposed to. You never understood what was going on on earth before because you were still working on waking up. It took me a long time too: I was 53 when Ivo started to talk to me. The fact is, I believe at that time, it wasn't necessary for lightworkers to be consciously awake to the extent it is now. NOW I believe it's important for lightworkers to be consciously awake and to use their minds to create change. Back then, I don't think it was so necessary. Some knew. Your Timothy Leary's, the hippies knew, Malcolm X. I believe was also onto what we know now. We're part of the mass awakening, and that's okay. It's all timed. It's all good.
The other thing about us is that when earthlings close their doors to us, demand that we behave as deviantly or abhorrently as they can do, we instinctively will turn to our pets, or nature, to find solace, and this is the correct solution, again. (I can hear Ivo talking. LOL) This is what you need to do - to connect with the nature matrix and to leave the artificial alien-made matrix behind. I get far more out of sitting near the water, looking at trees and ducks, feeling the energy and the wind on my face than I do watching a tv screen. I don't even own a TV. I get far more out of connecting with nature because that's why - because I can CONNECT with it rather than having another wall put up in front of my face, such as when I talk to most humans. I don't connect with them, I connect very well with nature, trees can talk telepathically to me, so does my cat or people's dogs. They sound like children, by the way.
We search for things that satisfy us; we search for connection, and we'll find it in sometimes unusual places, but usually it's not with other humans. That's been my experience, anyway.
Next year I plan to buy a house and walk away from society. Other than food shopping, or buying essentials, I have no interest in going back to the city. I have had this dream all my life - just dropping out and walking away. And I'll do it too.
What I find to be very true about the life of a lightworker is, it's in what you give, not what you get. And you will end up giving a lot of forgiveness, I've found. A lot. When you change your focus to giving to others instead of expecting to receive, you connect with your soul. Your soul is the giver, your personality was trained to be the taker. I still switch back and forth. Right now my super is coming over to fix up my apartment, and he seems to take issue with the fact that I put on a size since Covid started. First of all, it's none of his business and certainly not his place to dictate how I should look or what I should eat. When people take up that position in my life, I usually rebel by eating in front of them the very foods they think I shouldn't be having. I did that to my mother years ago because she wanted me to be a vegetarian like she was. So I made her watch me eat a steak. I'm looking at my super from the standpoint of what he's giving me, not what I'm giving him. When I look at him from the standpoint of what I can give him and forget what I think he's supposed to give me, it works better. I've learned to be pretty self-sufficient anyway. But I thank him for helping to install my air conditioner.
Unmet childhood needs can sometimes stretch far into adulthood to ruin our experience of life. I find lightworkers can have a lot of unmet needs because we don't fit in and we resent ourselves because of that. So we have to think of another way to experience life with satisfaction, and that's by assuming the soul's way of seeing things. Without being controlling, focus on giving. Yes, set boundaries, but focus on giving if in fact the only thing that you can do is forgive - because that's what it's for - for-giving. This is the soul's way, not the personality's. So my super is doing something that really angers me - expecting me to look a way that suits him, as if it's his business - which is an absolute violation of my boundaries and ridiculously controlling, but all I can do is continue to forgive him every time I think of it. And that is what I can give to himself and to myself.
I find looking at earth life as something to give to you is the wrong way to see it. Look what you can give to it and I think, personality notwithstanding, you'll feel more satisfied living here.
Your personality has to learn to set limits with others who might think to bleed you dry - I've had that experience. There's a difference between letting others help you and developing a dependency, and I'm very wary of those who appear to be doing so. I'll help you. I won't run your life for you. Your life was given to you to run, not to me.
So, healthy boundaries intact, I feel it's tantamount that you learn to give. And you get to decide what and how much you're going to give. If you allow others to tell you what you're going to give to them, you're being controlled, and this is a violation of free will. I don't go to church but if I did, the mandatory 10 percent would be modified according to what I can give. When I see Roman Catholic church buildings or even Anglican churches and I see my monthly pay, I know who's getting too much money and who isn't getting enough. When you become authentic, you will be able to see these things clearly and you'll have the kahunas to say no to control and manipulation of you and your money. YOU decide how you're going to spend it. YOU decide what you're going to give to the lightworker community, you decide. It's your life, you're in charge of it, not others. I've had people run the "you're not unconditionally loving" manipulation on me and that's what it is: it's a manipulation, designed to make you feel guilty for not giving them what they want. Don't fall for it.
I'm unconditionally loving or I wouldn't be here, neither would you. But living unconditionally is NOT something we can afford right now - you have to have healthy boundaries to be able to do your work.
Ivo: This is correct, my love. Your guidance as to what you are to do comes from your soul, not from outside of you in the form of others.
Me: I've discussed what I'm doing with you and Ashtar, and the direction Implant Communications takes is up to us, not to anyone on earth, and specifically not to anyone the dark would send to mess up our work.
Ivo: That must also be taken into consideration. This is why internal guidance and support is necessary.
Me: I can't wait to get you on "lives" and you can answer everyone's questions. You can talk all the science you want with them; I won't have to understand what you're talking about because generally I don't anyway.
Ivo: I would love to teach your people our science.
Me: Okay, then, I think that's the message for today. Focus on giving without being taken advantage of. Steer your own ship, be in charge but give. If all you can do is forgive, then do that. Live as if your soul were on earth.
Ivo: This is a wonderful message for lightworkers, my love.