Me: Ivo, I don't know how many people who are annoyed with me, search the internet to find some way to contact me just so they can get in a parting shot. Perhaps they don't realize this, but it's what you'd call a psychic attack, and if you do this to people, you're part of the problem, not the solution.
The fact is, not everyone is going to appreciate you as much as you do yourself. I realize that. Some people can't stand me. That's fine. Lightworkers don't all love each other. They have their opinions of others but another fact is, the worse you feel towards someone, the worse you feel as well because what you put out comes back to you. It frustrates me that people don't understand Universal law to even this extent.
If you go around taking shots at people who don't want to deal with you, then you're only confirming their initial intuitions in the first place. You have an attack mentality. You're coming from ego.
Because I'm in this position as a wayshower, people believe I have to act perfectly while they can behave any way they want to. All are responsible for their behaviour at all times. That is universal law and one of the means with which you can ascend by – by living from the heart and being kind to all others, not the ego which can tell you to attack. The ego's frequency aligns with the third dimension and you'll reincarnate there if you don't change the way you behave and stop attacking others.
So this falls in with universal law – you get what you put out. If you hold others up to a high standard but not yourself, there's a problem you need to look at. You're living a double standard based on your own lack of integrity and irresponsibility. Be cognizant of the fact that some can pick this information up about you intuitively and they will be forewarned. Because I do that – I get intuitions about many things.
I suppose some people don't appreciate that I see it so well and tell it like it is, but I do. My father was like this. He held us kids up to impossible standards of perfection, while he had rage outbursts and chronic meltdowns all his life – until he went on a spiritual quest, and his change in behaviour was a miracle because we finally had some peace in the house. Thank you, Jesus (A Course in Miracles). Maybe he did have some peace in the end. He needed it.
Ivo: Yes, you do get attacked a lot, my love. And you realize that cutting cords is a big help because this severs your tie from the vampire who is draining your energy. Because this is what attack behaviours are about: vampiring energy.
Me: It amazes me the lengths some people go to get a shot in. Why don't they just drop it?
Ivo: They need the energy to survive. Their ego is fighting back to re-erect itself – to make itself right again after its perceived attack on it by you.
Me: I wish they'd realize that doing some work on yourself will get you to a wonderful state of peace where you have no desire to attack others. Because it feels amazing to be there and understand you need nothing.
Ivo: It does. You are agreeing with these ascension energies.
Me: I got off Facebook. It's too busy for this empath and I pick up too much dealing with so many people unfortunately.
Ivo: You will heal. You are aware of your leaky aura and that you have limitations as to how many people you can deal with and still stay grounded.
The fact that your world is going through much turmoil now does not help. People are seeking energy sources and fighting the change that is being presented to them.
Me: True. It's kind of “do it now or never,” isn't it?
Ivo: With the higher energies, yes, it is. Now you are being forced to change since Gaia has moved up into the fourth dimension. There is no languishing in underdeveloped spirituality anymore. It has been foisted upon you – all of you. And the higher energy beings are being attacked, and empaths are feeling it all as well.
Me: I know. One thing I figured out about moods is you can change them in a second. If you're in a bad mood, just think of someone you love. Your partner. Your child. Your puppy. That's it. Mood changed. Heart chakra re-opened. People have far more control over their moods than they believe they do. It's Alchemy, really. The greatest control is reacting in the manner you choose to as opposed to what's typically done or how you've been taught to react.
Ivo: Yes. So we are learning to let go with love.
Me: I was always good at rational understanding because I can track a reaction back to something in my past and why I would've attracted it – to help myself heal from the initial wound. Like I said, my father was the biggest troll ever in my life. And I was a confused little kid. I wish I'd known about cord cutting then.
Ivo: It would have helped. The way forward is always to let go with love. Understand that role the person is playing in your life to help you attain self mastery – to become more loving, even of those who attack you. That does not, however, mean that you need to maintain relations with that person. Anyone who drains your energy is no friend and we do not support your relating to people who do so as they are stealing energy, your life force and this too, is a violation of universal law.
To let go in love is the wisest route to take. Having compassion for this person who is most likely a frightened, low energy being who has made a life out of maligning others who do not give him what he wants.... that is very sad. Unfortunately very common as well. To hold others up to high standards as he seeks the parenting he did not receive as a child, yet still behaving as a child himself. That is what is happening with this current case. A person who has learned that his needs do not matter and when you refuse to deal with him, this pain arises within him again. A trigger. Yes. And so have compassion for this child whose needs were not met and release him with love. If not the adult, see him as a child who is in need. This may help.
Me: Well, he started on the wrong foot, making personal comments directed towards me instead of the subject of the post. If you're interested in learning what we have to say, read the post, don't make your comment about me personally. Who I am shouldn't even matter. The information (Light) I'm relaying is more important.
Ivo: He was showing his nature at the onset. He was making your relationship personal, not a learning relationship. This got your back up.
Me: Seeing as I get this all the time (which I need to stop affirming). And then he did exactly what I figured he'd do – he attacked me when I didn't respond the way he wanted. This is another thing you have to consider: I get stalkers too so I'm very aware of inappropriate behaviour and interest in me.
So I see I got what I figured I'd get, I attracted it. And I do feel sorry for him, not enough to let him back in, but I feel sympathy. And it has to be done with every single person. Even if you have to guess – or make up a scenario for them based on what many experience as children in our world – lack, be it lack of love, or lack of parenting, lack of many things.
Ivo: Understand that you did your part to help in his self mastery as well, provided he makes the effort. And it is not your place to decide whether he will or not based on your estimation of his character – just understand you tried. You tried in love. For everything is love.
Me: Except matrix domination – you said before that that was too much negativity and it does no good anymore for the ascension of humanity.
Ivo: Yes. But interacting between two people, even if painful like this, is an attempt of both parties to trigger healing in each other – yes, it is love in action (see our video). Or what you soul wants for you (see our other video). Personal growth, personal mastery, love for all, even for those who would attack you.
Me: It's pretty cool.
Ivo: It is. It is also living by universal law, and if you understood that you attract what you need to heal then you will understand this transaction (Law of Attraction). If you understand that you get what you put out, you will understand how to limit being mistreated (Law of Compensation). If you understand that all repeats until it is healed, then you will understand universal law and see it working in your life (Law of Attraction).
Me: It's good you said that, Ivo, because I sense people are annoyed they attract this kind of attention. You said, “You attract what you need TO HEAL,” and that's important to remember – you can heal from any situation you undergo during the day.
Ivo: The end goal is to walk away in love. Open your heart for those who are hurting and for yourself. Do not allow them to continue to steal your energy, though. Cut cords, understand the lesson, feel love and compassion for the other. Do not call them a “perpetrator,” a “jerk” or any other slur or insult because this only enforces old matrix thinking: that you have been attacked and that you must attack back. Understand all are here by God's divine will and that all are divine beings of god. Surrender to your own divinity and you will see the divinity in others.
Me: There's one more thing I want to tell the listener and that is that I'm not the perfect person you're looking for. That perfect person you seek is yourself – your higher self.
Ivo: You are here on this earth now to embody your higher self as you ascend. You are here to bring divinity back to earth in the form of the embodied human, to become Homo Divinicus. You are here undergoing this ascension process to become a new form of human being, more evolved than homo sapiens. You are here to remove everything from you that does not align with your higher self. It can be a painful process but attempt to breathe through it and have patience with yourself. It can be messy.
With that, I will leave you my love. I await you always, my di von Aquila (Divine Eagle)
Me: That's Ashtar's name for me! You have to make up your own! LOL
When you're 5D, you are accepting of all others as they are. Because you're aware enough to realize that people are not flawed and there is nothing to criticize them for. Your criticism of them is your own fear which is not a 5D trait. Because you're a loving person, you want to help but only if they accept because you don't control or manipulate anyone into being helped.
You understand that individually and collectively, people are on their own paths and you may see it as a fearful route through life, but we're all here to overcome fear. So why condemn us for the very thing we've come here to learn to overcome? So we may see others as fear mongers, but they may not be fear mongers. They may be expressing their fear, or you may be misinterpreting their intentions.
You understand you may know more than others, but you don't laud it over them and write posts telling others how smart you are.
5D is not some kind of elite group (we already have a group of elites on this planet!) that is better than the rest. They are people who have achieved a vibrational level resonating with the etheric plane, which is vibration of love.
Imagine Jesus coming to earth and saying, "Sure, I'll help you. You're good enough, buy you I won't help because you're a scumball." Not likely, eh? Well, 5D shouldn't be doing that either.
We are a planet of people who has learned to love things and to use people.
We need to relearn how to love people and to use things if we want to survive. I believe it's that important.
We overvalue our stuff and undervalue our family and friends. Perhaps part of this is because we don't understand their roles in our lives. We think they're not nice to us when in fact they're there to help us learn lessons of self mastery.
This is what I mean. We need to learn what life is about and it's about love. When we see love in all acts, no matter what they may be, we're getting there.
Life is not about moneyy or what money can buy.
Don't assume that tolerating others' B.S. is being loving to them. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for them is to walk away.
How is that loving? you ask. How can turning your back on someone who, yes, might well deserve this, but how is that loving?
Don't mistake being nice in the short term for being loving in the long term. Think long term. The most loving thing you can do for someone is not to put up with their B.S. because if everyone did that, we'd all evolve and be humans of peace, love and light.
Tolerating them and allowing them to continue is not helping out their soul, who is trying to get them to stop it and to evolve.
It's easy! Decide to go about your day being loving - to yourself as well - then watch what resistant thoughts come up to try to take you off your course. Be careful that being loving to yourself isn't your ego faking it.
That's a slice of the renowned "daily bread" BTW.
Rick Jewels says that our job is to eliminate fear. Not to learn to love.
We ARE love. We already know how to love. It's just covered up in layers of fear based behaviours that we learned here.
Anger, guilt, shame, worry, anxiety, doubt... whether it's around manifestation (money), love & sex, relationship, work, whatever..... has to be changed to love.
It shows up, sometimes daily, to remind us that we still carry it and it still needs to be dealt with. Thank you life for consistently reminding us, for steering us to what we need to change in order to grow and become more loving.
My biggie: Money. I just got pinged from a higher source just now, "Wouldn't it make sense to learn to manifest instead of going through money woes all the time? You are the source of your own abundance." It makes sense to think of life in terms of abundance and not wealth, because I have a HUGE aversion to our financial systems, carried in from prior lives and grown to ginormous proportion by living here.
I have the bible of abundance already, "Creating Money, Attracting Abundance," by Sanaya Roman. I will seek to commit to reading it, a chapter at a time, even a page at a time. Do the work.
Division is created or expressed by someone who is in their ego and who is unaware of Universal Laws. Universal Law, the laws of love and peace, the laws of Creation, are what your soul lives by, but not your ego.
If you want to learn universal law, check out this list and then watch for them functioning in your lives.
Watch for those memes that try to teach you erroneous ideas. One said, "Love is what you do, not what you say." Love is what you say AND what you do. Your words are powerful, they have energy. Charge them with love. When you speak angrily, put others down, etc etc you are charging your words with negative energy and putting that out into the world. If more people realized that, there would be less negativity on this earth. Also WHAT YOU SAY COMES BACK TO YOU. You rebalance any negativity. So be nice.
Instead of hating liars, try to understand why people do it. Really, when you think of it.... people are trying to avoid negative consequences which could be very severe here on earth. And it can be an escape from reality, because frankly who doesn't want to escape this reality? Or to hide low self esteem which is a byproduct of the Matrix, BTW.
That doesn't mean I want to hear it. If you lie to me, I'll do everything I can to get you to look at your reality clearly.
Loving those who hate you is harder than loving those who love you. But it has to be done for ONE'S OWN SANITY if for no other reason. I understand that being unkind to anyone is me moving away from soul. I want to move towards and align with soul so I have to do what my ego tells me is unthinkable - love those who mistreat me. Making progress.
I feel the way to do this is to see how I mistreat myself. My reaction to others' treatment of me is what I am being shown needs to be dealt with because a reaction of anger is self abusive:
I like this chart:
Reaction....... You Need to Develop / Learn
Annoyance ..... Patience
Abandoned.....Stand up for yourself
Anger ..... Forgiveness & Compassion for others & yourself
Power over You ..... Take back your power
Hate ..... Unconditional love (a big one, I think!)
Fear ..... Courage
Can't control..... let go and trust the universe