Forcing Yourself On Others
You don't listen. It's only what you want that's important. You don't cooperate with others – you force your will on them. This is dominance of others and a total disregard for their free will. Often it has to do with violating their boundaries as well. Some people have toxic boundaries, so they don't understand what you're doing.
I'm not talking about rapists here, or home burglars, although they too, fall into this category, in the extreme. I'm talking about everyday violations of others' free will.
And often times it's done in the name of being “nice”. “I'm giving them something,” you justify it with, “so I'm being nice.” That still doesn't mean you can do what you want when they have specified they don't want you to. That makes you a boundary violator.
That's like with masks. The thinking is: I'm helping others by wearing a mask, so they should do the same for me. There are some of us who believe the virus isn't as contagious as it's made out to be, and that wearing a flimsy mask isn't going to stop it anyway. We are autonomous thinkers and not subject to being controlled or manipulated, which is what's happening here. Because mask wearing is sold to us as a means of keeping others safe, not yourself, which frankly is absolutely ridiculous, it gives people “the right” and I put that in quotes, to tell others to mask up. To force your will on them. And there are many self righteous people out there on the warpath as we speak.
People are astounded at the number of people who wear masks. Well, this is why. We have to if we want to go into a store, so the system is forcing its will upon us. And we have to to keep others from being unsafe, or so many think. This is all an example of people taking away your free will and forcing their will upon you. It's the draconian system of ruling the pee-ons. Because they've sold it to us the way they have, people are the ones enforcing the mask rules upon other people.
It's the same thing with the form I have on my website for channeling requests. I get people who misuse the form to send me stuff in Spanish, which I can't read, or who send me general information or who send me information on their business. I throw everything in the trash. Why? Because I didn't ask for that. That's not what the form is for. If I wanted it, I'd ask for it. The form is to order a channeling for yourself. I've amended it to discourage anyone from using it for other reasons, in other words, the ones who try to override my free will, even the “nice” ones who are giving me something. I didn't ask for that and I don't have time to spend my time even doing my own reading, never mind watching video's you send me. I have a couple sources for intel and I find them sufficient.
People will learn how to cooperate with others and to not violate others' free will through dominating them, at some point. The ones who understand this intrinsically are the ones from higher dimensions, firstly, and secondly, the ones who have been controlled and abused by draconian thinking, authoritarian matrix parents on earth. When your free will has been stolen from you, you become very protective of it later on. And you stay in your power.
People in power know what they want. I'm on a path, that path is clear to me. I don't need extraneous stuff delaying me any more than I'm already behind in my objectives. The more time I deal with this kind of stuff, the less time I have to actually channel.
If you're judging me for saying this, instead of looking to see if you're doing what I'm talking about, you're on the wrong side of your power. You're in your ego and your ego is trying to find a way to make yourself look good by putting me down, which, again, is dominance. You think I've just provided you with an opportunity. A person with humility will look at this and think, “Hmm. I know what she means. Do I still do this or have I changed this behaviour?” They will look at themselves, not at what they believe I'm doing wrong.
When you become unconditionally loving it's because you're standing in your power. Without personal power, your love is love without power, which is to be dominated. I've been there. It doesn't feel good.
Ivo: Then there is the second part of this lesson, which is about people who try to begin relationships through giving. You have learned this lesson already as well.
Ivo: People who give something to begin a relationship, to begin a friendship, are materialists, not spiritualists. They give a thing because they want to create a relationship of mutual material exchange or either mutual or one-sided dependency, rather than an energetic exchange, which is what a relationship actually is. This relationship is about, “I give this, what will you give me in return?” instead of, “This is who I am, I would like to relate to you.” Material relationships create dependencies. Ultimately one side has more material than the other and can be approached for more help than the other wants to provide.
Ivo: The giving of an item, whatever it is, can just be given from the heart with no strings attached, or it can be given as a form of manipulation, with many strings attached.
Me: Like the time my mother gave me a sewing machine. The next time I saw her she asked if I'd used it yet, and when I said no, she went ape shit on me. Or when she lent me money to buy my car, I announced that I'd paid off half the loan to her, so she said, “I still own one half of this car then. I wonder what I'll do with my half of the car.” I said, “Well, I washed the whole thing last week, so now it's your turn.” That shut her up.
Ivo: Yes. Always exerting her will, attempting to dominate and trying to assert her power over others, and you were pretty fed up of it at that time in your life. It got to a point where you had to realize that she was becoming desperate out of feeling disempowered, and was striking out to reassert her will in any way possible. Eventually, you broke ties because you could not live with her anymore.
Me: Yes. My re-empowering myself was the destruction of my relationship with my earth mother, the ultimate energy vampire. And she demanded the energy and felt she had a right to it for some strange reason. She was indignant when I wouldn't play her game anymore. I had to pay for her life choices, I don't think so.
Ivo: Now you will see the DS do the same thing. It will try to reassert its power because it is losing it over the people.
Me: Hence the masks.
Ivo: Where they have their agenda in place and it is not rejected, they are going along at a hard pace.
Me: That's Canada. Loads of globalists here and few awake.
Me: Another person I'm thinking of is an older lightworker. She's 65 and I've spoken to her a few times but now she's moving out of the neighbourhood. The first time I met her, she asked me to give her a plant, and now this time she's telling me again what I can do for her for free. I just refused both times. This person has her hand out always, looking for freebies.
Ivo: You make better friends when you offer yourself and enjoy each other's company. People ask for things from others who they feel have more than they do, so consider it a compliment.
Me: I don't really care about having things. They don't tickle my fancy anymore. I have what I need, now I just want to move on to the next stage of my life here and bring my project to fruition.
As for her, at least she asked in a way I could say no. But she's always eyeballing my stuff. It's really not on when someone comes into your house and starts shopping.
But what I wanted to ask you about is that she's an older lightworker. And clearly she hasn't done her ascension work.
Ivo: She, like many of the hippies even, will not be going through the primary ascension event. They will be leaving the earth beforehand. They have contributed what was necessary to create a basis for other lightworkers to come and ascend on earth. They have done their part.
It is possible for a woman who clearly has the wrong ideas to go back home to the Pleiades or from whence they came after this lifetime. It is simply a question of what they have contracted to do. She is no Timothy Leary, who had in fact contracted to be a teacher and to anchor many levels of the multi-verse here in his own body. This lady has not, although she is a higher frequency consciousness, she did not contract to do so.
This in fact created less trauma for her than for you. She did not contract to undergo such an extensive process of remembering; you did. She did not contract to embody as much of her soul upon earth, so for her dating earth men was not a traumatic experience and working at earth jobs was far more comfortable for her than it has been for you. She did not desire to create as much change in the collective as you did. You have influenced the collective to a large extent, she has not. In the same vein, there are other lightworkers who are older in the same situation. They did not contract to undergo a major embodiment of soul upon the planet as you have. They perhaps contracted to achieve a fourth or fifth dimensional perspective, that is all.
Me: I see. So don't go running up to every lightworker who's 70 years old and expect an enlightened being who's had a hard time here on earth.
Ivo: Yes, and then there are the ones who have come up through the positive polarity. They are not as traumatized as the others, although they still have their challenges, these challenges may not begin at birth as yours did.
Me: Yes, my father did say I gave him a long dirty look when I was born.
Ivo: That is your father's interpretation of the look you gave him. In fact you came here so that he could be freed to go back to Vega. You have contracted to take on much of your family's karma so that they would not be burdened with the job in their next lives. Only in this way can they be born into bodies of higher DNA activation and stay upon earth. Those who will incarnate into lower DNA activated bodies will go to other worlds that will be less evolved than earth will become.
It is because of the radical change of Gaia that many lightworkers are here. Liberation of the planet was possible but your assistance in this is most welcome nonetheless. We had sent light warriors as well to work with Archangel Michael.
Me: And for those with similar paths, how else can you help your family with their karma unless they abuse you? Then you take on the abuse that they feel inside of themselves. You have the power to overcome what they can't. So many people message me asking why they were born in such horrible families – that's why. The answer is always either “to help them,” or “to learn to have power and to love.” Those are your answers to the “why's” of your life!
If you're thinking, “Why would I want to help these assholes?” you've still got a long way to go before you understand your life's mission. I've been there. You have to learn to forgive.
Ivo: To change the collective unconscious, to anchor information back in the earth akashic records, to empower Gaia to undergo her trip to the fifth dimension and to bring in the light energy of the galaxy where the earth's portals have undergone polarity reversals and are useless to the human population until they can be taken back from the dark alliance.
There are many reasons you are here, but few you actually can understand without explanation.
Me: True. Thank you Ivo.
Ivo: My love, go back to bed.
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