Allow them their opinion whether you like it or not. Stop controlling their opinion of you.
Me: I was going to put up a sub title called, “Why do you care anyway?” LOL
Ivo: My dear, I wish that you would do your meditation. I know that when you feel better, you do not do your regular spiritual maintenance.
Me: When you have chronic fatigue, Ivo, you tend not to be very regular in the “taking care of yourself” department. That's part of the reason you got that way in the first place – because you let yourself become overwhelmed with stress.
Ivo: Which is why I ask you to do your meditation.
Me: I will. I get what you're saying. I have to become more diligent about caring for myself, especially given that I'm aware of the multi-dimensional self and how it requires, well, cleaning for lack of a better word, of negative energy.
Ivo: Now that you are being defensive, my dear, we will get on with that topic.
Me: Ha! Got me!
Ivo: Would it have been so difficult for you to simply agree, rather than becoming defensive and making excuses for yourself? I understand that you are fatigued and that doing many things is difficult, but now that you are not eating so much sugar and feel by far better, perhaps it would be time to create a program of regular energetic maintenance for yourself.
Me: Yes. Agreed.
Ivo: Why do you always have to argue?
Me: I'm on earth.
Ivo: That will not do, my love.
Me: LOL Probably because I feel you're pointing out a flaw and my ego doesn't want you to think I'm anything but perfect.
Ivo: Your ego is far from perfect, my love, but fighting me when I ask you to do something good for yourself is very imperfect. You realize that is why I ask you to do it.
Me: Yes. You're tired of seeing me suffer as well.
Ivo: For example. And because I love you. So you see your ego is a fighter.
Me: I realize that. I have an aggressive side.
Ivo: It is interesting that you have only two sides in your psychology: passive and aggressive. Perhaps you can create some new sides such as accepting and allowing. You do not have to fight everything. I realize you are a light warrior and that has filtered down to your personality in this way, however you can allow. The warrior knows when to fight and when to allow.
Me: Sounds very Zen, Ivo.
Ivo: You have good senses, my dear, you are capable of sensing lies very readily. But I feel you resist me when I ask you to take care of yourself. And I believe this to be habitual because you feel life is very harsh on earth and that you must defend yourself. You do not.
It is best to practise allowing. Try it. Allow something. Yesterday when Merlin ran around the coffee table and ripped your SAD lamp out of the socket and broke the plug, you allowed him to run because you were in meditation. So you did not try to stop him. Even though he broke a $50 item you now need to replace.
Me: That's why I don't let him in the car unless he's caged, by the way.
Ivo: But you thought about it afterwards and realized you have a wild animal living with you in your home so you must have some patience.
Me: I see mom and dad talking to him as well sometimes. He's staring at them. I know they're speaking to him. I think they've done the lion's share of training him to live with me over the last 2 and a half years.
Ivo: I suggest to you, my love, and to all of you, that living with so many on your planet who would attack you at the slightest provocation would make you to be the same. This is what you call a knee jerk reaction and you must look at that. You are reacting mindlessly to many who provoke you. And the dark ones love this. It creates loosh.
All lightworkers have come to earth to change her fortunes, to help those upon her ascend. The way one does this is not by behaving as the earthlings do, but by behaving in wiser ways. When you allow them to forge your ego into feeling as if it is a wounded animal backed into a corner, then you have lost mastery over yourself.
The best thing to do if someone responds to a post is to ignore them. Why? How much sway does this person hold in your life? Does it matter that they do not agree with you? Is this your spouse? Is this your child where their disagreement could possibly influence your life?
It is best to leave those alone who seek only to argue with you. Just pass them over.
Me: I block them if they have that tendency. They're separationists, and many are just looking for a fight and yeah! speaking of narcissism – they see relationships or relating to others as a way of gaining dominance and self importance. How many people do you hear complaining about others as being stupid because they argued with them? Many people have twisted ego's although they're not outright narcissists but I see these patterns everywhere.
Ivo: This is true. When you are defensive against another person, you are allowing them to drag you into the power over others structure. Because now you are assuming the other position, vying to gain your power back, or to gain power over them. It is best to retain your power and walk away. Let me repeat that: retain your power by walking away. That is the true path of the empowered, walking away from a pointless argument.
Letting go. Retaining self control. Not reacting, responding. Your response is to ignore them.
Me: We'll just say as well for those living in conditions where they're threatened with violence, it's still best to leave. Ignoring someone who's violent towards you or your loved ones could cost you. Remember, violence always escalates.
Ivo: Yes. But for the one who seeks to argue on social media or a neighbour, or someone of no consequence to you, let them go. Keeping the peace is the most powerful thing you can do.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: My love. I will remind you of your excuses. I am not attempting to control you; I want you to come back to be with me again.
Me: I know. It's just that I'm enjoying it so much here.
Ivo: Here we are with the jokes now....
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