Letting Go With Love

Me: Ivo, I don't know how many people who are annoyed with me, search the internet to find some way to contact me just so they can get in a parting shot. Perhaps they don't realize this, but it's what you'd call a psychic attack, and if you do this to people, you're part of the problem, not the solution.

The fact is, not everyone is going to appreciate you as much as you do yourself. I realize that. Some people can't stand me. That's fine. Lightworkers don't all love each other. They have their opinions of others but another fact is, the worse you feel towards someone, the worse you feel as well because what you put out comes back to you. It frustrates me that people don't understand Universal law to even this extent.

If you go around taking shots at people who don't want to deal with you, then you're only confirming their initial intuitions in the first place. You have an attack mentality. You're coming from ego.

Because I'm in this position as a wayshower, people believe I have to act perfectly while they can behave any way they want to. All are responsible for their behaviour at all times. That is universal law and one of the means with which you can ascend by – by living from the heart and being kind to all others, not the ego which can tell you to attack. The ego's frequency aligns with the third dimension and you'll reincarnate there if you don't change the way you behave and stop attacking others.

So this falls in with universal law – you get what you put out. If you hold others up to a high standard but not yourself, there's a problem you need to look at. You're living a double standard based on your own lack of integrity and irresponsibility. Be cognizant of the fact that some can pick this information up about you intuitively and they will be forewarned. Because I do that – I get intuitions about many things.

I suppose some people don't appreciate that I see it so well and tell it like it is, but I do. My father was like this. He held us kids up to impossible standards of perfection, while he had rage outbursts and chronic meltdowns all his life – until he went on a spiritual quest, and his change in behaviour was a miracle because we finally had some peace in the house. Thank you, Jesus (A Course in Miracles). Maybe he did have some peace in the end. He needed it.

Ivo: Yes, you do get attacked a lot, my love. And you realize that cutting cords is a big help because this severs your tie from the vampire who is draining your energy. Because this is what attack behaviours are about: vampiring energy.
Me: It amazes me the lengths some people go to get a shot in. Why don't they just drop it?
Ivo: They need the energy to survive. Their ego is fighting back to re-erect itself – to make itself right again after its perceived attack on it by you.
Me: I wish they'd realize that doing some work on yourself will get you to a wonderful state of peace where you have no desire to attack others. Because it feels amazing to be there and understand you need nothing.
Ivo: It does. You are agreeing with these ascension energies.
Me: I got off Facebook. It's too busy for this empath and I pick up too much dealing with so many people unfortunately.
Ivo: You will heal. You are aware of your leaky aura and that you have limitations as to how many people you can deal with and still stay grounded.
The fact that your world is going through much turmoil now does not help. People are seeking energy sources and fighting the change that is being presented to them.
Me: True. It's kind of “do it now or never,” isn't it?
Ivo: With the higher energies, yes, it is. Now you are being forced to change since Gaia has moved up into the fourth dimension. There is no languishing in underdeveloped spirituality anymore. It has been foisted upon you – all of you. And the higher energy beings are being attacked, and empaths are feeling it all as well.
Me: I know. One thing I figured out about moods is you can change them in a second. If you're in a bad mood, just think of someone you love. Your partner. Your child. Your puppy. That's it. Mood changed. Heart chakra re-opened. People have far more control over their moods than they believe they do. It's Alchemy, really. The greatest control is reacting in the manner you choose to as opposed to what's typically done or how you've been taught to react.
Ivo: Yes. So we are learning to let go with love.
Me: I was always good at rational understanding because I can track a reaction back to something in my past and why I would've attracted it – to help myself heal from the initial wound. Like I said, my father was the biggest troll ever in my life. And I was a confused little kid. I wish I'd known about cord cutting then.
Ivo: It would have helped. The way forward is always to let go with love. Understand that role the person is playing in your life to help you attain self mastery – to become more loving, even of those who attack you. That does not, however, mean that you need to maintain relations with that person. Anyone who drains your energy is no friend and we do not support your relating to people who do so as they are stealing energy, your life force and this too, is a violation of universal law.
To let go in love is the wisest route to take. Having compassion for this person who is most likely a frightened, low energy being who has made a life out of maligning others who do not give him what he wants.... that is very sad. Unfortunately very common as well. To hold others up to high standards as he seeks the parenting he did not receive as a child, yet still behaving as a child himself. That is what is happening with this current case. A person who has learned that his needs do not matter and when you refuse to deal with him, this pain arises within him again. A trigger. Yes. And so have compassion for this child whose needs were not met and release him with love. If not the adult, see him as a child who is in need. This may help.
Me: Well, he started on the wrong foot, making personal comments directed towards me instead of the subject of the post. If you're interested in learning what we have to say, read the post, don't make your comment about me personally. Who I am shouldn't even matter. The information (Light) I'm relaying is more important.
Ivo: He was showing his nature at the onset. He was making your relationship personal, not a learning relationship. This got your back up.
Me: Seeing as I get this all the time (which I need to stop affirming). And then he did exactly what I figured he'd do – he attacked me when I didn't respond the way he wanted. This is another thing you have to consider: I get stalkers too so I'm very aware of inappropriate behaviour and interest in me.
So I see I got what I figured I'd get, I attracted it. And I do feel sorry for him, not enough to let him back in, but I feel sympathy. And it has to be done with every single person. Even if you have to guess – or make up a scenario for them based on what many experience as children in our world – lack, be it lack of love, or lack of parenting, lack of many things.
Ivo: Understand that you did your part to help in his self mastery as well, provided he makes the effort. And it is not your place to decide whether he will or not based on your estimation of his character – just understand you tried. You tried in love. For everything is love.
Me: Except matrix domination – you said before that that was too much negativity and it does no good anymore for the ascension of humanity.
Ivo: Yes. But interacting between two people, even if painful like this, is an attempt of both parties to trigger healing in each other – yes, it is love in action (see our video). Or what you soul wants for you (see our other video). Personal growth, personal mastery, love for all, even for those who would attack you.
Me: It's pretty cool.
Ivo: It is. It is also living by universal law, and if you understood that you attract what you need to heal then you will understand this transaction (Law of Attraction). If you understand that you get what you put out, you will understand how to limit being mistreated (Law of Compensation). If you understand that all repeats until it is healed, then you will understand universal law and see it working in your life (Law of Attraction).
Me: It's good you said that, Ivo, because I sense people are annoyed they attract this kind of attention. You said, “You attract what you need TO HEAL,” and that's important to remember – you can heal from any situation you undergo during the day.
Ivo: The end goal is to walk away in love. Open your heart for those who are hurting and for yourself. Do not allow them to continue to steal your energy, though. Cut cords, understand the lesson, feel love and compassion for the other. Do not call them a “perpetrator,” a “jerk” or any other slur or insult because this only enforces old matrix thinking: that you have been attacked and that you must attack back. Understand all are here by God's divine will and that all are divine beings of god. Surrender to your own divinity and you will see the divinity in others.
Me: There's one more thing I want to tell the listener and that is that I'm not the perfect person you're looking for. That perfect person you seek is yourself – your higher self.
Ivo: You are here on this earth now to embody your higher self as you ascend. You are here to bring divinity back to earth in the form of the embodied human, to become Homo Divinicus. You are here undergoing this ascension process to become a new form of human being, more evolved than homo sapiens. You are here to remove everything from you that does not align with your higher self. It can be a painful process but attempt to breathe through it and have patience with yourself. It can be messy.
With that, I will leave you my love. I await you always, my di von Aquila (Divine Eagle)
Me: That's Ashtar's name for me! You have to make up your own! LOL
Ivo: (smiling)

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