The stance of the victim is it's always someone else's fault. Life happens to them. The usual cry is, "Why does this always happen to me?"
Taking responsibility is the road to freedom. It sounds like a lot of work, and it can be. But soon things become second nature and it's not so onerous anymore.
Own your life. Whatever place you're in now, good or not, own it. Own your mistakes, own your joy, own your anger, own your pain. Own it. It's yours, what are you going to do to better your life today?
There's another universal law at play here. The law of Action. You have to take action to fix what you've attracted.
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