See Yourself as God Does
People will use their opinion of you to manipulate you. God won't.
People will even make up an opinion of you to gain their ends. God won't. He loves you.
If you're like me and were highly sensitive, you experienced others' behaviour as brusque, gruff, frank, aggressive, uncaring or unpleasant, whether it was intended to be or not, and you developed an opinion of yourself that there must be something wrong with you if everyone else is so nasty to you. If you were raised in an abusive home like I was, then you have all the more distorted thinking to deal with. Thankfully, I could see as a kid there was something wrong with my parents and that was probably my saving grace, because I could then put the blame back where it should have been placed: with them. But you're still affected by it. I lived under the constant threat of violence or abandonment by my parents, with no sense of security to speak of. I've had to learn how to develop one as an adult.
There's an easy trick to help you stay centered around manipulative people. We, all too often, try to define ourselves. In the Matrix, many of us have developed low self esteem, and this is reflected as either inferiority or grandiose, entitled behaviour. It's two sides of the same coin: low self esteem, which is a reflection of one's lack of connection to the god source. Connect with your Christ Self, your God Self and you automatically have high self esteem because that love is flowing through to you.
But there's a trick to accomplishing that without that connection. The first part of it is understanding that who you believe you are as learned about yourself in the Matrix is not who you truly are. As you grew up, you made false assumptions about yourself based on the way people treated you. We discussed expectations other people have of you and how they may try to manipulate you based on their perception of you as having low self esteem. So I said, “Don't have low self esteem.” Just don't have it! How do you do that then?
You see yourself through God's eyes. And to God, you're a perfect expression of his love. As you are. Despite the fact you've learned here that you're flawed, maybe a failure at times, you're not pretty, you're not a ripped guy, you think you're clumsy, gawky, slow... it doesn't matter what you think of yourself. That's my point.
Just remember how God sees you: as perfect. Keep telling yourself and you'll begin to be a lot less harsh on yourself and to love yourself more. God doesn't make mistakes, they say, and He made you. So that means you're okay.
But of course, there are those in the power over others system that will try to monopolize on societal ideas and general tendencies in order to gain for themselves.
That TriStar vacuum cleaner salesman who pulled out that enlarged picture of dust mite, telling me how many of them are crawling around in my bed right now.... Generally, people don't like bugs so they capitalize on that fact. This was a blatant manipulation to gain a sale.
The homewares sales lady who flattered my father's artwork and told me what a stand-up guy she thought he was thought that flattering my ego would gain her a sale, but she didn't realize I didn't think my father was a stand-up guy. Her telling someone who knew she wouldn't get married that she'd be married in six months got her nowhere as well, but yeah, I was pretty when I was 19.
The person I was just dealing with who predicted that my channeling service would fail if I didn't change my ways and do it his way, clearly thinks he can make me fear for my future.
Really, if people can move your opinion of you that easily, you really have to practise this method.
What I do believe, though, is it says a lot about the people who are doing it, and that they in fact are that easily manipulated because they believe everyone else to be that way too.
When I went into a bar and the guy who was hitting on me telling me that if I had sex with him that night, it would save him fifty dollars for the prostitute he would've hired. Well, that one just blew me away and I refused to go into bars anymore after that. That was the last straw. He was appealing to my sense of kindness, he thought, and by buttering me up, figured he'd gain his prize for the night.
You have to watch how people speak to you and watch for flattery or put downs, whether they be subtle or not. The other thing you have to figure out is whether they want something from you, and what that could be. Sometimes they tell you, sometimes they don't.
There is such a thing as paying a compliment, of course, but when compliments are paid for the sake of gaining for yourself, then it's a cheap counterpart of flattery and there's an agenda, which is a whole different ball of wax.
You can spend your whole life trying to eliminate all the things about yourself you don't like, but what if you have a big nose that you don't like? Will you get surgery or just learn to live with it? Self acceptance through the ego is an unaccomplishable feat, I feel, especially on a planet where we've been taught not to accept ourselves and to allow others to control and manipulate us on that principle. We have a false self that sometimes we can't even see past, and it's our life's work to break it down to understand who we really are.
Just remember you're fine because God made you. Could it be more simple than that? Remember God is your higher power, and you will create a closed loop between you and Him that will keep you from giving your power away too readily.
If you know you're okay, nobody can mess with you.
When I was a kid, my mother would call me all these things, like crazy, stupid and fat, in order to get her way. That's how powerless my mother was against a kid. She had to demean me, call me things and usher threats of negative consequences if I didn't do or be as she wanted me to. My mother taught me a great lesson and I've used it frequently through transactions with dark attackers throughout my life. Like I said in another video, people will try to tell you you're something you're not in order to motivate a better response from you, better being the one they prefer, of course. This is highly toxic and it's called gaslighting.
You have the right to self determination. It's been taken away from you in the Matrix, and now you have to take it back. You have the right to define yourself, not others.
Those people who crab at you because you're looking at them in the Walmart parking lot, the ones who cuss at you because you're just standing there waiting for them to back up. Yeah, seriously. This has happened to me.
The ones who see the anti-compliance signs in the back of your car and bitch at you for not wearing a mask.
The ones who attack you on social media.
They're all trying to get you to comply with the Matrix by attacking your self worth. Remember the Matrix is low ball and you're flying above it. They're trying to get you down, I'll use an old expression. I can only comment that if the Matrix is so appealing, why are they so grouchy? Doesn't look like any place I want to live.
Attacking your self worth is what the Matrix is all about, and its minions make a point of doing this, in my case quite a lot. They're attacking my high energy and don't even realize how manipulated they are. The Matrix has given you a false idea of what a human is, which is a physical body, and then they keep attacking those who realize otherwise. Everything the Matrix is about is about your believing you're a physical body, that's the only way it can control you. When you start not to believe that, the whole world changes for you and you open up to the Truth. The Matrix doesn't like empowered people. It attacks them to try to get you to comply.
So if your sense of self is still based on your ego's old idea of who you aren't, revert to thinking of yourself as God sees you: perfect. Don't let that go to your head, understand that with humility. And keep doing the work of transmuting your shadow and you'll begin to see who you truly are, not who you think you are.
Ivo told me this so many times when I'd argue with him about what I could accomplish. He'd say, “You don't know who you are!” Implying that he did, of course and he does.
I'm not the person my mother called fat, stupid or crazy. I'm not the person who was intimidated by my father's anger. I'm not the person my father laughed at when my mother cut my hair. I'm none of those. Those are old memories of who I thought I was. And you'll find you'll have them as well as you ascend. Just practise this trick I've taught you and you'll be putting your power where it needs to be put: with God, not with others.
When you let others bash at your self esteem in order to get you to comply with their agenda's, you're in the Matrix. When you let people predict your doom and believe it, you're falling for their agenda. When you believe liars and believe you'd better do as they say otherwise you're going to suffer, you've fallen for a false flag.
One time, someone messaged me and said, “You don't realize this yet, but I'm going to become very important to you in a couple of months.” Some stranger, right out of the blue did this! I said, “Well, you're not very important to me now, so see ya later!” This is an obvious manipulation and it implies that if I don't consider this person's importance, I would probably suffer some kind of loss in future.
If you want practise, read the letters from people that end up in your spam folder. I've got one lady who wants to come to Niagara Falls. I have no clue how they got my email address but somehow it has something to do with my facebook account. This letter is telling me that I'm a very nice person (how would they know?) and they're sure that I'd host them when they come to Canada, yadda yadda yadda. It's actually funny, but they know one thing: manipulation and control is what makes this world go round. It does. Don't let it. Become assertive. Stand your ground and refuse to deal with manipulators.
Some use niceness to manipulate, others are nasty. It tells you more about them than it does about yourself.
People who are annoyed with you will insult you and degrade you because you haven't done what they wanted you to. Don't fall for this. Sometimes you can feel the loss of energy as this energy is being stolen from you, but don't let their negative opinion of you sway your opinion of yourself. If you're scrutinizing your behaviour as you work your shadow, you'll figure out what needs to be changed as it is flagged up by your higher self, not by someone who's trying to con you.
The other thing: look at how much of this behaviour is exhibited by children and then you'll see that some people never grew up. I believe that's what the Matrix is about as well: not allowing people to mature to adulthood.
In our videos, we often speak about what manipulators, controllers and other energy vampires do to keep you down, to keep you stuck dancing to their agenda and not your own. We've even talked about how unseen demonic entities are prompting others to manipulate and control you in order to steal your life energy and to create loosh for them. Let's now talk about what you can do in order to deal with this.
Other than shielding, guarding, cutting cords and doing regular energy maintenance, these things can be figured out just by assessing transactions with other people well.
We spoke in our last video how someone who wanted my work tried to get me to comply with their style in order to gain their continued association, otherwise they would have to cut me out of their picture, and then of course, they were sure that if I were to get cut out of their picture, that eventually nobody would want to associate with me and my work as a channeler would fail. This has to be one of the most grandiose control and manipulation agenda's I've heard in my years working as a channeler and I've come across a few. It was a doozy and I called them on it. Did I get cut out of their picture? Yes, probably I did. To be honest, I don't care.
Why is that?
Because nobody knows what your future will entail, not unless they're a time traveller or an akashic reader and then your timelines can change anyway. Nobody determines your future except you. You create your reality, not anyone else. They have their own to create. Anyone who tries to tell you they know what will happen to you is overestimating their importance in your life. They are positioning themselves as your God. Nobody is your God but God. And like St Germain just said recently, “Put no mortal man before you,” and with this, he was saying never to position any mortal person as God in your life. Only God is God and you answer to no one but Him. He gave you universal law – that's how you answer to Him and how he works with you.
When you remember just that little trick, you can pick off the controllers and manipulators as they appear because these people will try to take on the roles of your god – the bully, trying to coerce you to do as they feel best for themselves; con artist – trying to get you to buy into a deal that's beneath your value because it will make them a load of cash; dominator – because your continued subservience to their will makes them feel empowered; liar – because your continued belief in their lies perpetuates their power over you; martyr – because your continued belief in their fake goodness perpetuates their power over you, manipulator – by declaring your future a bust unless you do as they say, and so on and so on. There are so many masters of manipulation and control on this planet, all seeking godliness over you, and as you can see at a global level, they're being called on their games. Fewer are believing them anymore as the paradigm begins to change. Amen to that.
Watch where people position themselves in conversation with you. Are you equals, are you inferior to them, and are they superior to you? Are they inferior to you? If they are, how do you treat them? How do they wield their power? Are they benevolent and loving like Ivo is, or are they threatening, dominating or sneaky manipulators? Do they want to know you or do they want you to do as they want? How do they treat you when you're vulnerable and down? Are they kind and caring or nasty and sneering? It is all telling. All of it. Most of all, how do they deal with their anger? That says a lot too. Do they go on the attack or take a time out and come back to talk when they're more calm?
As I just alluded to, I have the advantage of having a wonderful example of how to be an upstanding person as my daily partner. He's made me see much of what I'm talking about here by patiently teaching me, letting me go through stuff, and then debriefing with me afterwards. I share as much as I can of what he tells me with you. Ivo NEVER plays superior with me. We are equals even at my lower level of consciousness and intelligence. He NEVER holds my trials and tribulations against me or sees them as failures, he always supports me through them. He's always got my back. He has the utmost of love and respect for me. He would never think to control or to manipulate me. He's a beacon of light for me in what otherwise could be a dark reality.
Power over others players focus on their own best interests; service to others players focus on the greater good with themselves included in that picture. They have no interest in domination, control, manipulation or lying because they come from the heart and work with the soul.
When you understand that you don't HAVE to do anything if you decide not to, you are free. Just because somebody wants you to do something, doesn't mean you have to. I draw a line at common decency, though, and respect the rules of the road and many social conventions just because they keep order and respect for all up front.
You have the right to think it over and get back to someone. You don't have to jump into something that you are unfamiliar with, or engage with a person or parties you are unfamiliar with without giving it time and exploring how the relationship will pan out. You don't need to commit right away. Anyone who tries to force you to, beware. Yes, I got sold an expensive vacuum cleaner once because I saw a picture of an enlarged dust mite. Fell for that one. But I believe the thing is still working, thirty years later. If you're interested, it was a TriStar.
Which is another point. You have the right to make mistakes. (And to give expensive vacuum cleaners to your older brother and forget about them.)
When you understand that dealing with people who have a control agenda will only lower your vibe, you are free to walk away and await more respectful pursuits.
When you understand that you can say no and you can say no for any reason at all, you are free. And you must understand that you don't even have to qualify that no with an explanation. No can just be no.
When you understand that you can have reasons to say no that make sense to only you and nobody else in the world, you are free.
When you realize that you have rights, and expect them to be respected, you are free. One of my rights is the right not to be controlled or manipulated, the right to self determination. Of course, the darksters are constantly on the prowl to send me manipulators, liars, controllers and more, in order to usurp my right to self determination. When you can see them clearly and deal with them effectively, you stand in your power. Let them in and let them run their plans on you, and you can fall back under the ether of mind control again. Because you bought back into the program and that program is that anyone in this world can have power over you. Is that what you want?
When you understand that the Matrix is always trying to get you to comply, you will be free. However you must assert yourself and your right to say no liberally.
You have the right to say, “I don't care.”
You have the right to say, “Don't call me, I'll call you.” You have the right not to partner with anybody. I let my work speak for itself and people love it. Because they can relate to the work I do. My work is about teaching people to beat mind control and especially the victim/victimizer programming that's being run on us. Ivo and I teach people to stand in their power.
If you are manipulated with a message of your responsibility to others, or you are manipulated with an assumption that you must want to be successful, then you have to look at the things these people are telling you. You have the right to determine what your responsibility to others is, and you have the right to determine how successful you want to be. It's your choice; it's not up to others to dictate that to you. And of course, these assumptions come from the Matrix. You're an adult, you should be responsible to as many people as you possibly can. And because you're an adult, you should want to be as successful as you possibly can. What if I don't want to? What if I have other priorities that either prohibit my doing so, or I simply decide that I want to do less? Who's going to stop me? These are finger waggers, people who throw the book of “should's” at you. And again, these things are implied in what they say. You have to be able to read between the lines. What is the basic message they're telling you you're supposed to do or be? People assume you have an agenda and want to fulfill a purpose. Maybe I have other agenda's and purposes beside becoming a household name.
People have an all around assumption that everyone should just “try harder.” What if they don't want to? That seems to be a pervasive attitude in our world: try harder, you're not doing enough. I'm doing fine, thank you. And I don't need you pressuring me in order to try harder. These are all expectations you can be manipulated with, if you let them. After all, any good person in our western society should want to try harder, right? Well, what if you don't? I had a friend in high school whose father was always badgering his children to become doctors, lawyers, dentists... professionals, the supposed most upstanding members of society. His boy rebelled by stating that he wanted to become a garbage man. You can become anything you want, you don't have to bow down to others' expectations for you, even your parents. I think he's in the military, actually, so we probably lost a fine garbage man somewhere along the line.
You have the right to like yourself as you are. You don't have to try harder to win the approval of people who withhold it for the sake of controlling you. And with that, I want to thank my mother for teaching me that lesson. I learned it when I was young.
You get to say what is enough, and where you want to apply your energy. That's why you're a creator.
When you love yourself, when you know you only answer to God, and when you are able to decide what's appropriate for you to do and how much of it, you have control of yourself.
Understand that when you have something of value, others will try to harness it for their own good. It's up to you what you want to give, not anyone else.
You have to look at and understand what societal beliefs are. The one I just touched on was that anyone in our western society should be inclined to want to be as successful, wealthy and maybe even as visible as possible. This means no matter what you've accomplished, you should try harder. That's one collective belief that's running us into the ground. We're burning out.
Another collective belief is that men have certain roles and women have certain roles. Look at roles people play.
Another collective belief is that there are people who have power over you. Only if you give your power away, otherwise only God has power over you and He's benevolent.
Another collective belief is you should never make mistakes and should always be good. What if you don't want to be? People enjoy doing naughty things all the time. It's up to you.
Another collective belief is that society has levels: experts and icons. No it doesn't. We all have equal rights by universal law – God's laws. No soul has more right than another.
Give up beliefs and nobody can manipulate you. Seriously.
Another belief is that when someone claims to be spiritual, that they are. That's actually laughable, I've found out. Define spiritual. Can you? Me either. I've heard of people who claimed to be doctors but they didn't have a license. Make them prove it.
Another belief is that everyone has the same concept of something that you do. No, they don't. People think differently.
Another belief is that people who live conditional lives of much restriction can define “unconditional love.” That's a funny one too. Trying to define infinity from a finite position. Always interesting to see interpretations.
You have the right to be cautious of others' expectations of you. Remember you have the right to say “no” and not to allow them to circumnavigate your use of self empowerment.
You need to take control and responsibility back for yourself. That way you cannot be manipulated. This is not onerous work. It can be fun as you feel power you never knew you had before!
I have been looking for an ionic footbath detox machine for a while, and since this month I can't get any portraits from Christine, I thought I'd use the money to buy it.
There was one place where they were selling these machines but it would cost me $450 + shipping from the U.S. I was hesitant to get it but thought, "Well, if I have to..... but...."
My inner voice told me to check Walmart again. They were selling them before for $200 - $300 but now they were on sale for around $175. Cdn. so I jumped at it. The arrays you can get in a lot of places if you have to replace them but at these prices I could even order a second one.
It pays to listen to your higher self. I just saved a couple hundred bucks!
Having so many weird things happening to me. Getting stronger and stronger.
I pick out a cup from my cupboard for coffee that I seldom use, the one from my sister with the message of what is a sister? on it and then I hear from her with an important message about her partner, who has passed on.
I look at the cat's dish, knowing he's sleeping in the bedroom and I see the dark figure of a cat eating his kibble. Seeing into other timelines. That time he'd followed me out into the kitchen to eat instead of staying in bed.
I think of someone - they show up within a day or two.
My neighbour is removing the snow from around his car in front of my house. I knew he'd be doing that.
You have to be very careful about what you think about because you create it. You attract it. This is how powerful you are.
Seeing into other timelines, seeing other possibilities. Knowing the future. Getting tip offs all the time about the future.
Back in the 40's and 50's, starseeds came to earth en masse and started the peace and love movement of the 60's, where societal values and music created were so different, it was called the Generation Gap, a psychological chasm that grew between these teens and their parents, who lived a distinctively different post world war lifestyle based on material acquisition, obedience, loyalty to leaders and civic duty.
The hippies weren't having it. They changed the timelines. They revolted, sang songs about the peace they desired and the love they had in their hearts for humanity and each other, and dropped out of society.
The DS has always butted horns with those here of the Light, who have come in time and time again to help steer the timelines of earth to get us to where we are today. Either born on this planet with unheard of levels of mastery or born in from other planets with alien values that didn't much fit in to this world, these bringers of Light were attacked and suffered hardship.
Of course, those who have suffered hardship tend to be frowned upon by the majority who wonder why they can't get it right, but that's another post.
The hippies, or as we call them now, the baby boomers, changed a lot about this world. They brought spirituality out of the closet, they began to merge the values of east and west again. They brought innovation and new vision to the workplace, they unseated the alpha male domination of the family and began to strive for equality in relationships, child care became the job of both parents, not just the mother, music began to speak of societal issues rather than just holding hands and lollipops as their parents' generation had, computers and the internet were created by baby boomers, and many of the conventions, for better or for worse, that their parents had known were no longer acceptable to this generation and those following in their footsteps. Sex became a lot looser, for example and drug usage became a household problem.
How could these altruistic beings, hell bent on changing the world and freeing the population, have created new problems for ensuing generations?
That was due to the DS interference. Like I said, the DS has always dealt with the incoming Light by steering society back to where it would have them be. And the 60's was no exception.
First of all, the DS introduced the Beatles, and then it created the polar opposite: The Rolling Stones. The sweet innocence of the Beatles first hits was contradicted by the Stone's chain of hits that sang of sex, drugs and rock 'n' roll. And you see which band is still alive and kicking, don't you?
The freeness of the 60's hippy turned into the depravity of the 90's teen as the deep state pulled aces from its sleeve and increased its dark magic to put successive generations into a steep moral decline.
The main thing that the DS did to take the starseed hippies off course: In 1964, conscription for the Vietnam war was aimed at the young population, sending many of the protesters and lovers and peace to their final resting places.
The Women's Lib Organization, headed by Gloria Steinem, was founded in order to get more women to work - as Mr So has said, because there were so many people who weren't paying taxes. And so the state could begin to control your children over and above the parents. This is their plan. It hasn't been implemented yet but I see now that they are trying to make v's mandatory with or without parents' consent. Schools are the vehicle for this control, so beware.
They have always known how to deal with us. Always. The only way to stop it is to remove them from the planet. And this is being done now. It's the only way. We can't share the planet with beings who only have control of us in mind and don't care whether we die or not.
The only way to know more is to go within.
Why do I say this?
Because what's available to your intellect is being controlled and fed to you at a rate all people can anchor it (information is Light).
But your own personal Light system works on your own personal frequency. If it's high, then you'll access more information coming across the entire universe or the entirety of consciousness.
All of this is linked. All beings are One. So everything in the Univ is connected. The intel you get through sources on earth appears to be specific to earth only but it's not.
Get the inside story. Go inside to get it!
I woke up just now with a dream about the SLA (Symbionese Liberation Army) of the 1970's, who had kidnapped newspaper magnate's granddaughter Patty Hearst.
This militia of American people were caught and went to jail, eventually, however what was it they were trying to gain the freedom for? Or who was it?
And why capture a newspaper magnate's granddaughter in order to gain your freedom?
I think I know now. Who runs the media? Yes. The DS.
I think their point was lost on many Americans but it's obviously stuck with me until now. They were a South American style guerilla movement.
Whose freedom were they trying to win?
And why take a newspaper mogul's granddaughter hostage?
It makes sense to me now.
LIghtworker, Light Warrior, Wayshower