How to Get Your Happy Back / Universal Law of Polarity
This is a recap of things Ivo has taught us about our vibration. We all want to vibrate higher because it feels good but sometimes things happen (or you attract them) that send our mood into the dumper.
Recently a man moved in behind my apartment and he's a senile wino who can't cook. He proved that by almost starting his kitchen on fire. I called the fire department and they put it out with an extinguisher. The meanwhile Buddy was sitting outside having a smoke when his stove fire was burning. My landlord is going to evict him because now his building is under threat. I hope this tenant finds a suitable place for himself where he can get partial care because this isn't it. Frankly I would wish better for both of us.
Again, this has given me another idea for my project monies – to step up help for people like him who haven't saved for a retirement in the old folks' home. These people need help, they don't need punishment because they are in the Power Over Others system, they need help. Everyone deserves even life's basics right now.
Last night I woke up at 3 a.m. to see a basketball sized ball of wirey squiggly lines round the corner into the bedroom and hover over my bed. Another dark attack. Robert Bruce, who wrote, “Psychic Self Defense,” says that dark balls, usually baseball sized will come into your space whenever a dark attack is in progress. I've seen a few of them, in fact and I have depicted them on a page on our first website called, “ Photo Gallery - What I see.” I'm glad I can do quick sketches of things I've seen so you can compare your own experiences to mine. Although not all will be the same, of course, at least you can get an idea of how inter-dimensional interaction starts to look in lower 4D/3D. I urge you to keep a notebook of your own experiences. Seriously, folks, some day it may become a best seller as people frantically seek information you may have to provide them.
So as soon as the basketball parked itself in front of me, I stretched out my arms to zap it. I expected to see electricity coming out of my fingers but instead when I dropped my arms back to the bed, I saw columns of white light where my arms had been. I tested and this happened a couple times. I called Athena for back-up and we rid the room of this menace. I have this depicted on the page as well, scroll down. And I'll link it in the comments.
Do I think these attacks are related to the man moving in behind me? I do. He managed to get my vibe down and this created opportunity for the dark forces to go on the attack. I also speculate that because it's summer and I've been sunbathing a lot that perhaps my pineal is working a bit better and I'm more able to perceive outside of our typical range of visibility. Sorry folks, but the sun is the best healer. It will heal you of your ailments. We are creatures of the outdoors, not the indoors. If you think the sun causes skin cancer, you've been listening to people who want you to buy their products. If there's money to be made, they'll tell you anything. My mother and brother both got skin cancer – on their faces which was the only part of our bodies my mother would put tanning lotion on when we were kids.. the head and shoulders.
So, how do I get my happy back? What did Ivo teach me?
Be of service. That's one thing. Work on video's, the website, whatever there is to do.
Relax. Ground and do chakra meditations to re-center myself.
Start to appreciate and be grateful again. Obviously I got out of that. Threatened with a potential move knowing I will have to move again after that, I got extremely upset. I'd rather make one move – right to be with Ivo. So I go and look at the flowers in my garden and enjoy their beauty and their vibration. I do gratitudes. I look for things to be grateful for.
I work on having compassion for this man, without compromising my stance with him. No contact.
Maybe wearing summer clothes with brighter colours instead of the dull winter stuff we always put on.
Do your best to align with your soul because your soul is of higher vibration. Meditate.
If the inner critic shows up, tell it to shut up.
If the inner whiner shows up, either shut it down or argue with it. Give it reasons to be happy.
Listen to music that makes you happy. Like KC and the Sunshine Band. With a name like that, what else would they be able to do? Do some dancing.
Go for a walk in a quiet place.
Treat yourself without spending loads of money. When I was younger whenever I got into a bad mood which was often because I was being harassed at work, I would go out for a new dress or outfit or buy piles of junk food and sweets. So watch your spending, stay on budget, because there are loads of ways to treat yourself without spending piles of money.
Don't hang around with Debbie Downers. Give yourself a break from them for a few days until you're back to your old happy self.
Don't look at world events too closely. You're not in a good space to deal with them right now.
Treat yourself. I'll be studying Alchemy and reading “The Kyballion” for a couple days. Yes, that's a treat for me. It's not work if you enjoy it.
For me, don't let the house get messy because I enjoy a clean house. Give to yourself in ways that remind you that you love yourself. Restore your home to beautiful.
Get some exercise: go for a mountain hike, walk in the park, ride a bike. Lay off of things like excessive coffee or other stimulants because they'll just keep you more stressed.
I have an acupressure mat and it works great to get chi flowing again. I love using it.
There's a lot you can do. But relaxation is key because it will help align you with your intuition and inner voice. ETs are great relaxers. They do a lot of it. That will be something I'll probably have to adjust to when I'm on board ship because I'm a do-er and have trouble relaxing.
Just some tips for the next time you're out of sorts. We all get that way. The other thing: look at what got you out of sorts and see if there isn't something you can change about yourself, even if it's the fact you let it get to you so much. I don't care to change my fear of losing my stuff because it's a protective fear and arguably maybe not even fear at all, I don't care to change my stance on people like my neighbour – it stays as it is with no contact. Try to find the positives in what happened and change what you think you need to.
Universal Law of Polarity - Focus on its opposite
The Big Difference
The big difference between someone who's in the power over others system is they believe that others know more about them than they do about themselves.
The big difference is that a codependent believes that others know their truth more than they know their own truth.
This is a reverse of what it should be. Why would anyone else know your truth more than you? If you believe that others know who you are but you don't, you're setting yourself up to be manipulated by them because you're giving your power away to them.
The big difference between those people and the person who is on a self mastery path, is the people who have done the work use your behaviour to discern who you are, and they use their own behaviour to discern who they are.
Codependents cannot see anyone clearly, they are confused. The authentic person knows themselves and sees others' behaviour very clearly.
Is this clear? Whether it is or not, I'll explain it anyway.
In my last video about sociopaths, I said: “You've got to see them coming, folks. Everything matters. Starseeds attract some of the worst matrix types because their demonics want to keep your vibe down. They want you back where they can control you. The matrix can't control me because I control my own mind.” How do you 'see them coming?' You stop blaming yourself for the way they behave! You stop allocating 'special powers' to these people – that they can see things about you you've hidden from yourself. How do you stop that? You get current with yourself and stop denying your own faults. You look at yourself and what you're attracting and change it.
People who have done the work and practise healthy boundaries can see the unwell coming a mile away. These people think they can fool people like me with their false niceness, maybe they're hiding behind a professional degree, maybe they have some other ruse they can use to gain power over others and they're well practised at it. They play the victim, they believe that life has been bad to them and that now they're entitled to everything you own as well as loads of your time. They don't fool me. They can't use guilt to manipulate me. And I will set boundaries. If they don't comply then I will call the police and ask for their help, which is what I did with my sociopath neighbour when I discovered he's been trying to pick the lock on my door.
A codependent will leave themselves open for more abuse; the person who practises power over self will take measures to ensure their own safety and peace of mind and that of their family as well.
I get people emailing me that are in the power over others system. Do you think I can't tell? I teach this stuff. It's been my life's work. It's called being nobody's fool, folks.
What I do believe, though, is that as a society we have created these unwhole people. You now have older men and women who have some of their life skills in place, not all of them. Maybe they can cook and clean but earning money is hard for them. Maybe they can earn money but they spend it all whenever they get it and are broke the rest of the month. Like my sociopathic neighbour, he just took a cab to the bar but he's been without money all month long until he got some from a family member yesterday. My house stinks like cigarette smoke, so obviously he's managed to get some of those too, because he was out. Maybe the only thing they know how to do is act like a beggar and beg to make their way through life.
I believe that since we as a society allowed this to happen, that we're all responsible for these people. We all need to chip in to food banks, and perhaps we need to create care homes for people who cannot care for themselves and they typically tend to be addicted people who come from dysfunctional families. We need to have more social services in every city to feed these people and provide for at least their basic needs. I can see that church groups and food banks are trying to fill this need now but we frankly, need a bigger system. Much bigger. Through our own ignorance, we have allowed demonics to overtake these people and we have allowed these people to suffer, and I believe we're all responsible for the solution to help them. Does that mean you support a person like this personally? I can tell you if you believe that, then you'll be fated to joining them. They are like black holes, you will spend good money after bad trying to help them because their needs and wants are insatiable. They have problems that they cannot solve on their own and your giving them money is simply an invitation to join them, because they'll break you. Their care has to be done anonymously or regulated through agencies. I would feel better to see a truck pull up every day or two to make sure this guy's needs are met, for food, cigarettes or whatever. Even a system that would give him a ride to wherever he wants to go without having to pay bus fare or to pay a cab which he does whenever he has money.
Perhaps when I get my funding I'll create a system to do this for the elderly, even for old wino's like this guy. They have a right to live too.
Yeah, just got an intuition. These addicted ones create problems for themselves, they leave themselves without in other words in order to stay in the moment. Really when you think about it, most addicts have suffered from terrible child abuse and so many of them refuse to go back and revisit it in order to heal. So they create crises in their current now in order to keep themselves from going back there. “Why should I spend my time healing from my past when I have this problem to think about now?” Is their way of thinking. Hey, start anywhere, just improve your life. I did it.
They still need to live, even though they refuse to do the work to help themselves. They're stuck, they have low energy and more of it is being taken every day by the dearth of demonics who parasite it from them. That's not their fault as I see it. It's everybody's problem.
As a starseed, I am here to care about the people of earth. I can't turn that off nor would I. Some days I curse it, but it always keeps me looking for solutions. I realize that I, though, on my own, can't solve all the problems the entirety of a dysfunctional society has created. It's up to all of us.
We all need to practise personal safety and personal well being through boundaries and associating with people who support our higher vibration, not through people who usurp it. These people, however, have a right to live. I've heard it said that when we go through the rapture, which I believe is the Event, or the final push into 5D from 4D, that these demonics will all die. Good. We'll be free of them and to what extent we've started to create the new world at that point, I don't know.
All I know is from my own personal experience, I can tell you that there's still a lot that needs to be rectified on this planet. We've spent so much time trying to save Africa, and where did that money go, I ask you, from Live Aid. Ask Bob Geldof what happened to the $127 million Live Aid raised in the 1980's. I guess we learned at least because they didn't do another one afterwards. People kinda' figured out that the money didn't get to those they were told it was supposed to go to. But we sent so much overseas, what about our own people here?
Those in the power over self, the self mastery system, see these things. They can see a problem coming as it walks towards them and take appropriate action. They can see that all people, however need to be able to live whether they deserve it or not. Deserving anything isn't a term I use. Everyone deserves it just because you're human.
Getting back to the big difference. The big difference this video is about is that those in the power over others system keep trying their black magic to try to trick others into doing for them what they should be doing for themselves. Those who practise power over self, or self mastery, can see them coming a mile away. Why? Because they focus on what you're doing and how it feels to them, they do not indulge in the delusion that you know more about them than they do themselves. They use your behaviour to judge you; they use their own to judge themselves.
The one thing I've learned and I still have difficulty with is never to start a relationship by doing something for someone else. Never. Start a relationship by talking to another person and try to see what they're about. If you start a relationship doing something for someone and they turn out to be a sociopathic vampire and con artist, you're already in too deep and getting yourself out is going to be difficult. The vampire will throw everything they have at you to try to make you feel guilty: “I thought we were friends.” After a week? Like I said before the person who instantly makes a friend of you has pretty poor boundaries and nothing to lose. You're the one who stands to lose everything because it takes nothing for them to attach to you. Like I've said, “A leech doesn't care whether it likes you or not, it'll still suck your blood.”
If you want to get involved in meaningless relationships, in relationships where you feel used, abused and taken advantage of, don't learn how to discern what system the people you know are in. I did a list of sociopathic characteristics in a recent video. Off hand, here's a list of differences between the power over others and the power over self types:
Power Over Others
- because they see themselves as weak, helpless victims they will try to take advantage of everyone around them to see what they can get. Typical things they're after: sex, yes, sex, money, cooking, cleaning services, cigarettes, booze and free drugs.
- they DON'T tend to want to mooch: job offers, work for a day projects like being paid to help you move, job leads, information about how to improve their finances – this is because they are irresponsible people
- their children are born unplanned. They have accidents that get them pregnant
- they want to be taken care of or have their ego's fed in some way
- they don't reciprocate on anything you give them – it's all one way
- they act like big wigs, holier than thou's, smarter than you's but they're not – they profess to know a lot but they don't do any of what they know.
- they don't care about your feelings. They only want what you can give them. They care about your money or your stuff. Or your body. They see you as a thing, not a person. They have dehumanized you. This is because they dehumanize themselves.
- they constantly talk about how the world is out to get them. They always believe they have to fight their way through life.
- they're always upset about their latest set of circumstances. They always have a problem and tend to be negative. Drama follows them everywhere and they expect you to fix it for them.
- If they don't have a problem they'll create one; this is because they need the adrenalin to feel alive.
- they stay focused on another point in their life when they actually did do something they were proud of, and talk incessantly about it so that you get the wrong impression of who they are now. People change, folks. Some improve, some don't.
- Their friends are victims and also top notch vampires
- They justify anything going on in their life and it usually has to do with being a victim.
- They complain, lie and manipulate a lot.
- They tend to exhaust others around them. People tend to avoid them.
- They avoid life, they don't live it.
- They're unusually in their head and out of touch with reality.
- They can't admit when they're wrong. This is because they have a false image of themselves built up on being wrong, or out of touch with reality.
- They can be very sociable or very anti-social.
- They've usually had someone around them who was over or under responsible in their past. A mother perhaps who has done too much for her children – who did all the work for them and expected nothing of them, or a mother who has done nothing for them and expected everything of them when they weren't capable. They were treated in a way that wasn't age appropriate. Their own parents tended to be over responsible or under-responsible party animals or something of the sort.
- they make mountains out of molehills, they believe that cleaning their home would take hours out of every day that they don't have.
- they often spend a lot of time in idle ways like watching TV or gaming, then they don't have time to take responsibility for themselves they believe
- these people reek of fear, they're scared of everything
- They have poor boundaries and often divulge “TMI” too much information at the drop of a hat
- They tend to be jealous of power over self types and don't understand them
- The bottom line is, they feel everyone else is responsible for them.
Power Over Self
- walk their talk. If they talk about being good at budgeting and finance, they do it.
- they look for opportunities to manage their lives better and take advantage of them.
- they may tend to be readers and pay attention to shows that would help them to manage their lives better.
- they have enough money to afford their lifestyle and even some left over for charity.
- they do not see themselves as weak, hard done by, down and out, losers, or whatever. They see themselves as perhaps smart, intelligent, crafty, wise and above all – responsible.
- they do not shurk responsibility for themselves or those they have responsibility to, however they know their boundaries as well
- work to eliminate problems in their lives. They may understand that mind creates reality and in changing their mind they create a better reality
- they don't have unrealistic expectations that keep them from ever starting to change
- they're careful about who they associate with
- they may have been power over others at some point, but they changed
- they're not fear based
- their life is a deliberate creation – they don't have accidental pregnancies and they manage their lives satisfactorily
- they do everything they can to relieve any complaints they may find themselves having. They are open to change.
- they donate to charity but they do it anonymously whenever possible
- they tend to be more positive. Everyone has a bad day now and then, but they also don't dwell on it.
- they use bad moods to create change in their lives. They believe that being happy is their own responsibility
- they see “power over others” types easily and set appropriate boundaries
- they do things to create happiness and comfort
- they may, however, feel very alone at times
- they keep confidences
- they don't divulge personal information – they know what others' business is with them and what isn't.
- they understand they're not perfect and are okay with that, they accept themselves
- they're not black or white thinkers. They know there are shades of grey.
Sociopathy and Our World
David Wilcock talks about the veil and how to penetrate it. He says it's a lie that we don't have unity with God.
I find it interesting that these words are all anagrams of each other: veil, evil, live.
Anyway, Wilcock says that the first step to penetrating the veil is working with the green ray, all compassionate love that demands no return. So if you want to see more, see beyond the veil, work on your compassion and stop expecting anything in return for what you give others. I've been working on this for years and I still have moments of ego unfulfillment. Someone once said they didn't understand my relationship with my neighbours, well this is it. Compassion and giving and expecting nothing in return. Simple logic tells me that they don't have what it takes to return the love I want and have always wanted from others on this planet, so I don't ask. However, when I leave here, it will be them I miss the most and I will cry over my loss of them. What I'm seeing happen in myself is my higher emotions are being triggered when interacting with them, rather than lower emotional spectrum of annoyance, frustration and anger and self-pity.
I know I'm being sent new challenges and I'm not always sure how to deal with them. I have a new neighbour behind me who, as it turns out, seems to be a predatory narcissist sociopath if not psychopath. That's why I did our last video on the psychopathy spectrum. He's been spending time standing on my porch very close to my front door for some reason and I'm trying to figure out what he's doing. If he's doing what I suspect he's doing, I'm going to have to decide what the most compassionate way to deal with him is, whether to call the police for obscenity or not. Ivo tells me he's trying to pick the lock, to break into my apartment. I had to put all my money back in the bank again, which frankly annoys me.
Probably the most compassionate thing to do is to battle his demons because he has many. This man is a broken person who never grew past his childhood need to manipulate others to get his needs met. He still does it at 70 years old. He never grew up. That's very sad. Partial possession set in, just like it does for everyone else who never grew up. Demonics are the reason people don't age mentally and emotionally. You need energy to do it, and they're usurping it.
I believe there's a difference between compassion and pity. Compassion is having feelings for others' plight in life and their suffering, pity is the same but it's falling prey to their agenda as well. For me, pity is based on your weakness and susceptibility to feeling guilty. And you will do anything not to feel guilty again, so you allow yourself to be manipulated. It's better to set your boundaries, feel guilty and breathe through the pain of not giving in to your guilty feelings. My mother was a terrible manipulator and as an adult I began to feel guilty for just going out and buying myself a cup of coffee, so I knew that the toxic guilt I experienced at giving to myself and providing for my own needs instead of others' was getting out of hand. Although I was making progress at holding my own against feelings of this toxic guilt, I ended up allowing someone into my life that ended up making it a lot worse. I realize that thinking in this toxic way, I attracted that lesson. I couldn't leave this guy because I knew that if I left him, he'd die. So this was my big lesson with toxic guilt: I had to leave this guy or be beaten, and when I left him he died a couple years later of an overdose on the street. Life will keep sending you teachers until you get it right.
The man who's living behind me is trying to suck me in to the same deal: he wants to be caretaken and to have sex with someone, but doesn't seem to care that I have already told him I can't tolerate cigarette smoke (so obviously why would I want to live with him?) and have already told him off for being a mooch. He just keeps trying. Why? Because he has nothing to lose.
And that's another thing, ladies and gents. You have to beware of the person who has nothing to give because they have nothing to lose by trying to get you into their life, but they have everything to gain if they can control you. These people are predatory and there are many of them out there in the form of sociopaths.
How come there are so many sociopaths in this world? Because of mind control, because of the false archetypes of tyrannical father and dark mother who keep abusing children generation after generation. These archetypes implant wounds into their children early on, even when they're pre-verbal, and simply pass on their own baggage to their children. This will keep most of earth's inhabitants within the controllable lower mind spectrum to create loosh. What facilitates this is our psychology which stresses the importance of facilitating your mental and emotional health in order to get you to go back to work, and not much more. That's functionality, that's not thriving. They want you to be functional. These people become prey to demonic attachments and these attachments manipulate their thinking and emotions in order to create loosh for them. So your life becomes a vehicle for these attachments to continue to live – you become the victim of parasites.
The other reason there are so many sociopaths in this world is because people don't do their inner work. They don't learn to master their minds, they simply go along with whatever's been taught to them and continue to put up with the pain by blaming everyone else for making them unhappy.
I've been telling you of some of the things that I've been creating in my life. Let me tell you another story. This one is about allowing myself to be guided by my guides. They're there, they can see more than you can, they know before you do what you're creating in your life and they can help you either avoid the bad stuff or move you closer to the good stuff.
I wanted a pair of sandals and they were at Walmart. The last pair I bought in Niagara Falls which was over 6 years ago and they lasted me a long time. I liked them too and I can fit my custom orthotics in them. I went to my local Walmart but they didn't have the style I wanted in my large size. So I bought another pair and just settled. But I really wanted the ones I love so much. I thought one day of driving to the nearest city an hour away and then let the thought go.
Yesterday I was going to the park. Again I wrestled with the idea of trying the Walmart in the other city, but no, I was going to go to the park. As I was driving to the park, that thought turned up again – go to the other city's Walmart, so I said, “Okay, I'll go then!” I did. I found not only one pair of the shoes I love, in the colour I wanted which is black, but two pair in my size.
You have to let go and learn how to receive. Allow yourself to be led though life by your guides. Get out of the driver's seat and let your guides steer for you. Or as they say in the 12 steps, “Let go and let God.” We always think we know what's best for us, and we use our puny intellects in order to achieve it. Adding in your intuition, which has access to so many other dimensions and so much more information would be a better idea.
I was really happy that I got two pair in my size and these will last me forever. They fit nicely, and there's no blisters on the back of my ankles because they don't have a back to them. And they're sandals, not closed toed shoes that are too hot in summer. Yes, believe it or not it actually can hit ninety degrees and over here in Canada.
We have to learn a new way of life. We have to be willing to connect with our soul by going inward, because of course if you're looking at your own behaviour, then you're not the one who enacted the behaviour anymore, you're now the one looking at what you did. So many of you want soul connection, well that's how to do it.
Let's say you had a meltdown at work. Your boss said something that pissed you off, so you replied back in a way that you're less than proud of. People who are on the sociopathic spectrum will say, “Well! He made me!” I'm innocent, the whole world is wrong. I'm a victim! If your boss has that much control over your behaviour that he makes you do things you don't want to, I feel sorry for you. Nobody makes you do anything. You choose, always, how you're going to react to anything. You have free will but anyone who spends their time blaming others is giving away their own free will and missing a valuable opportunity to connect with their soul.
Why? Maybe they feel ashamed of their behaviour and can't face it. So they blame others. If you keep putting the locus of control outside of yourself, then no wonder you get mad at other people. You're actually mad at yourself. That doesn't mean that in self-examination you have to get mad at yourself. You can but you don't have to. You can just say, “Now why did I do that?” “What does this have to do with?” Some unhealed part of you has just come to the surface for you to examine it.
You guys know that I have some pretty hefty lessons coming at me all the time. I wonder why I keep attracting such irresponsible, childish men who want to be caretaken and who want to use my body and my money for their own nefarious ends, but I cut them off at the pass. I'd like to meet someone who's well balanced and normal that I can just converse with, but these people don't seem to be anywhere around here. The last “spiritually normal” man who emailed me turned out to be bi-polar and in the power over others system. Apparently nothing I do was right to this person. And that's another thing, folks, if someone is putting you down like crazy it's because they're trying to lower you to their level, not to raise your vibration. Take a put down, criticism, for what it is and keep walking. There are two ways to approach a person: you can criticize them, which is a form of energy vampirism, or you can try to raise their awareness of their own behaviour. I'm not into talking matrix and I'm not into role playing, or religion, which is rife around where I live but what I recognize as normal doesn't seem to be here. I'm glad I'm still working on being taken off planet because maybe then I can just have a conversation with someone who doesn't have an agenda that will leave me feeling used, abused, penniless and frustrated that my needs never get met.
You've got to see them coming, folks. Everything matters. Starseeds attract some of the worst matrix types because their demonics want to keep your vibe down. They want you back where they can control you. The matrix can't control me because I control my own mind.
We're living in a world of sociopaths, people who have learned to be like the reptilians running this place to varying degrees. There's a continuum like Ivo and I pointed out in our video. Had I known 3 years ago that I would be waiting three years to start my project, I would have moved away from here. I believe that where you live matters, there are places of higher light and less light and this place is pretty low.
Here's another really simple way to tell whether someone is going to be suitable for you. For me, it's a question of what part of my life they fit into, what level of consciousness I have to draw on, which memories I have to draw on, in order to be able to relate to them. This guy smokes, drinks and perhaps does drugs. Okay, that was my 20's. I'm 60 now and don't smoke, in fact I'm really allergic, I don't drink and I quit because I couldn't handle it. But of course he wants to talk about his life. The other thing he talks about is being broke. I'm not broke, I work with universal law to create abundance and I work with my guides to create a life of service which is what I came here to do. So I feel fulfilled in respect of my work. I don't relate to this guy. Look at what part of you he/she speaks to, the part you want to live with for the rest of your life, or the part of you that you're working to become or already are. Do they speak to the problematic part of you or the hero within you, that's what I'm trying to say. Which part of you do they appeal (or don't appeal) to? Your past or your present? Your ideal or a part of yourself you'd rather outgrow? Your spiritual self or your matrix self, the part of you you were when you didn't know any better?
I hear some of you are marrying the wrong people and this is why I'm putting up these video's. Understand that psychopaths and sociopaths are very attracted to empaths. Because this whole planet is based on a couple principles: 1. keeping the energy levels of humans down, 2. keeping us from ascending.
One of the projects that Ivo and I have scheduled for this year is writing a book about your God given rights. One of your rights is that you have the right to enjoy the company you keep without supporting their every whim, or enabling their inability to look after themselves. I believe some of you are codependent and codependents have been raised as part of the matrix, firstly, but they were raised to take care of others' needs before their own. They need to understand what their rights are as a human being and the first one is you have the right to be happy. I'm starting an outline for this book and already there are pages and pages of rights.
Twelve steppers may shy away from this book perhaps because they're taught they shouldn't demand their rights. It doesn't matter, you still have rights. Trying to fit yourself to a dysfunctional world that denies your rights by continuing to deny your rights isn't going to make you any happier than it didn't before you started program. It would just be another reason for your sobriety date to be delayed. Understanding that you have the right to seek out others that think as you do and are happy to acknowledge your God given rights is the first step. Accepting that there are those who can't is the next step, and forgiving them for not being able to is the third. However, most people prefer to be around others who are less work for them. You can achieve this when you have done the work on yourself and can match their positive energy. Expressing your rights and defending them is universal law in action. You are telling God or the Universe what you want from life and you are allowing it to be created for you.
The fact is, if I had tried to fit myself to my earth family, a couple of narcisstic sociopaths who I'd learned to feel sorry for, meaning my parents, and had never sought out anyone likeminded, I would never have come to know Ivo.
Again, this is another thing folks, and it's practised with impunity up in Canada. And that is, saying “I'm sorry,” when someone comes out to tell you you're parked across their driveway. I get it all the time. I have a driveway that spans 3 car lengths and one of the neighbours' and every parcel delivery or just anyone at all seems to find some justification for parking across the bottom of our driveways. So I go out and tell them to move their car – they shouldn't be parked there.
The selfishness of so many people, they think that they can do whatever they want as long as they're not going to get caught, absolutely astounds me. They don't follow the rules of course, they're rule breakers and boundary violators because they bend the rules to suit themselves, and this is the mark of a sociopath. An empath will remember that the rules are there to protect others as well, not just themselves. That's the difference. They don't play a double standard.
Not caring about others, “I can do whatever I want,” out of some random selfish justification, just hoping they won't get caught. When they try to assuage my anger by saying, “I'm sorry,” I say, “No you're not. You know damned well what you were doing when you parked your car there.” Just happened again. Just pure egotistical selfishness. I have had people park me in and then just say, “I'll only be a minute.” Yes that kind of sociopathy. Suffice it to say, they found out I wasn't in the mood to wait. If everyone had a modicum of consideration for other people around them, think how much better this world would be. But there are so many selfish, self justified types out there that don't even realize they're closer to sociopathy than they might think they are and the rest of us have to battle our feelings of being victimized at the hands of these inconsiderate types who think the rules weren't made for them, only for others.
My sociopath neighbour came out of his apartment because this lady blocking my driveway was his visitor. He said, “She's from Ottawa,” which means, “People from big cities are inconsiderate assholes.” Nice way to talk about someone who just drove an hour and a half to come and see you, but this guy can't do any better than that. People tell you all the time who they are, folks. Don't use denial like, “Oh, she didn't really mean that. That can't be.” Don't do that to yourself.
Ivo is feeling badly about having told me three years ago to pack because our project would be underway soon. He was wrong. He admits it, timelines can be hard to read especially when you factor in the earthling psyche, so of course I'm not mad at him, but had I known I'd be living out of packed boxes for three years plus I would have moved. I didn't want to have to move twice in a short span of time, so I stayed here. I believe there are better areas and worse areas and I'm living in a bad one. I would have benefited from the move, I believe, and he feels badly, maybe he's even created bad karma for himself, so he's trying to rectify that situation by taking me off planet. That's one of the reasons he's trying. So he can see when he's acted against universal law and he is trying to make reparations as quickly as he can. To see what attempts he's already made we have a page up and I'll link it in below. As a starseed I cannot sit back and watch when I see injustice enacted, and it drives me batty living here where universal law is so flagrantly ignored. Ivo knows this and he cares. He also cares about his karma as well.
My other neighbour said to me the other night, after years ago criticizing me for not being able to get along with anyone. He said, “I'm glad we stuck this through. You're easy to get along with. All you have to do is be respectful.” I motioned that he was correct. That's all it takes. And we get along great. It's so easy. People think it's hard but it's not. Show others respect and be considerate of their reasonable needs. It's not rocket science! What I believe is that earth's karma has swung way out of balance and everything has become excessive so it's hard for many people to understand reasonable, never mind healthy. People like me come across as pariahs because we don't fit in. Why don't we fit in? Because we expect respect, we won't play the triangle and frankly, we're awake.
I'm going to say something that will probably wrinkle a lot of people the wrong way: If you don't make a practise of looking at your own faults, then you're allowing your demonic attachments to have their way with you. That's the long and the short of it, folks. That's what so many of the spiritual people have been trying to tell you. These demonics want to run this world and they're doing it through your unawareness of your behaviour and theirs. No human being is selfish, inconsiderate, self justified and no human being is a victim or even a perpetrator. Humans are beings of love. Beings of love are incapable of behaving the way people on earth generally behave. Why do I know this? I talk to them all the time. I have passed as many of Ivo's conversations on to you as possible, so that you will get to know what they're like as well. They're not like us on earth and those of us who are turning to become more like they are every day have a hard time because we constantly have to set boundaries and limits with those unaware who allow their attachments free reign of their minds.
Jesus (Yeshua) stressed the gift of forgiveness and I have to use it daily to restore my peace of mind.
I'm going to end this with another fact that will make me unpopular but I don't care. If you're one of these people who only sees others for what they can give to you, you are a predator. You're more reptilian than you are human. You can change, however, by taking your mind back.
Some people freak out knowing there are nasty ETs running this planet, what about the nasty non-physical entities running your mind? Doesn't that bother you more?
We call it humanity, but it's because people don't understand that we are a hybrid mix of human and reptilian DNA and they also don't understand that humans on earth are heavily preyed upon for their energy and control over their minds. That means all of us, with no exceptions. That's not humanity, it's insanity.
Human beings are thinkers and feelers. We're not the emotionally shut down people we see on earth now, the ones who can do anything to others because they don't feel the guilt they should for being nasty. It's that human beings feel these things that brought the Lyrans and the Vegans to the point where they decided they had to live differently than they were because they realized to hurt another person was to hurt themselves as well. That level of consciousness is what we're facing now, folks, it's coming. Some of us are already at that point where we realize we don't want to hurt another person. It's coming and I'm warning you that you can either start to make the changes you need to now or suffer a harder version of change as you try not to look at your own behaviour.
Yes, there is a lot more to reality, including the reality on and beyond this earth. Everything is energy, there is no matter. It's only a question of the speed of the energy and its vibration that makes anything solid. All of life is energy and energy has no mass, so mass is not really real either - that the entirety of all of reality can be fit onto the head of a pin. It has no size, no mass, unless interpreted by our supercomputer, the brain, as such. This is what the Matrix messes with - our perception and our brains. Our brains are quantum interpretation computers. Without our brains, there would be no thing as earth. With our brains being messed with by the matrix, we can't see beyond our reality of earth, and very little of the light spectrum as it is. Some of us are able to do this but others don't believe them because they only believe their eyes and what they've been told to believe. They are trapped in cages created by others.
Y'know, everyone's weighing in on the Roe versus Wade, the abortion law precedent that was set in the 1970's. By the way, this law was cooked just like every other law they have created, and they have cooked it to suit themselves. Yes, they collect your aborted fetuses. Are you disgusted yet? I am. Anyway, so many people will lament the inability to abort their fetus now that this law is being revoked, but stop and think for a minute, please! What if revocation of this law helps us to learn of new ways to prevent pregnancy? What if revoking this law helps us to understand that extraterrestrials get pregnant when they want to, they don't have accidents like we do. This is because they have better command of their bodies than we do. We have some pretty shitty options, to be honest. The birth control pill is the popular one that for one thing doesn't always work and secondly screws up your endocrine system badly, and I would know. You've got condoms, you've got other means of birth control that are either awkward or invasive.
What if you could control your own body to the point that you wouldn't get pregnant if you didn't want to? Or you would get pregnant if you did want to? We have that coming folks, and the people who will teach us this are waiting to land on this planet to help us understand the truth of our humanity. Most people think that matter controls mind, it's the other way around: mind over matter. Your mind can control your body, which is matter or actually just a slower form of energy which appears solid to you.
Removing the last ditch option for women or parents may open up new avenues for us as a people.
LIghtworker, Light Warrior, Wayshower