Xaire of Sirius, Sirian Council Member
I have seen this with my own earth parents – my father being a reincarnated Vegan starseed and my mother being of Pleiadian lineage, however very much indoctrinated into the Matrix. I see this with my friends as well – I'm speaking of the case of where one starseed marries or partners with an earthling partner.
Are these couples twin flames? Probably not. Ivo and I channeled on the subject of starseed parents raising children on earth, and this is a subject that was brought up to my mind as I was re-reading this channeling. I'll link in the original channeling in the description. I believe this subject is so interesting that I started a new blog for it and I'll include this channeling in it.
So I've asked Xaire of Sirius, who is an eighth dimensional council member, to help us to understand the universal program aspects of this. I believe there is a Grand Plan. I believe that many plans were put into place along the way in the liberation of earth and ultimately the entire galaxy, from evil. I also believe that the Light has fought the dark on this planet for many years and starseeds are nothing new to this planet. There are many starseeds who have become trapped here or some have chosen to stay here, to go through this empty reincarnation process of virtually zero growth, over and over again. I personally know people who were alive during the time of Atlantis who have spent their entire lives behaving like children, and the environment in which they were raised as well as mind control has continued to dumb them down. One person I'm thinking of was a mystic in Atlantis and has psychic or multi-dimensional skills but even in their old age is essentially very immature. The DS has done a wonderful job of prohibiting personal growth in the individual, primarily in the making acceptable of immaturity as a state of adulthood. It is not. I see it's rampant now but many people are incapable of outgrowing what they learned as children – to manipulate and to try to control, for example – because it is simply more acceptable now to do so. So they figure why should they? Ivo and I have worked hard to provide ways to do so, as well as to tell you that mastery of the mind should be worked on and that is the reason one incarnates, but some of you still seem to think this is just my personal pet peeve, something that I should get over. So you've missed the entire point of this, sorry for you. You've missed the pot of gold.
Xaire: You don't fit in there, Sharon.
Me: No, I don't. I have outgrown the matrix and eradicated it from my mind. This planet never met my needs and it still doesn't. I have never been mirrored by someone who can show me the truth about my self and for this reason I'm chomping at the bit to get on Ivo's ship.
Xaire: As all should do. But you wish to know about the Grand Plan, and there is one for earth. Obviously it is to liberate it. But let me ask some questions first.
How can you expect to have people who are in the most basic stage of human development be in charge of your planet, its societies and its governance? You cannot. It would lead to the destruction of humanity and it has in many other scenarios in the history of earth. We simply looked at what was happening and where it led to. What happened was wars, and where it led to was death and suffering. We looked at your power structures and where they led to was domination and subordination. There was nothing of higher order to be gained by leaving earthlings in charge of their own fate.
So God asked for the starseeds to come forward. They had to be there, bringing in their higher energy, their innate wisdom and their guides with them. We understood that the starseeds would be the first to undergo the Ascension process and in so doing, they would awaken to the true reality of life. We knew they would be able to teach their children this, as your father did with you.
Me: Yes, he was really into eastern religions and because of this it was his ticket out of pain and the trauma of his early life and World War 2.
Xaire: Starseeds are teachers. When one is connected to the All as the starseeds are, they tell of their experiences. This benefits their children, starseed or earthling, by doing what you call planting seeds. The guides can look at what the child has been exposed to. Perhaps your father told you about spirituality and creation of timelines. So now you see timelines in your later life as your cat seems to be playing games with you.
Me: Yes, he was downstairs and then upstairs a second later. He changed timelines.
Xaire: You have noticed the more you tell your neighbors of your life the more ships and ghosts they see and they have more paranormal experiences.
Me: Yes. They do. This place is full of ghosts. I keep sending them to cross over but there's just more and more.
Xaire: You are planting seeds just as your father did with you.
Me: My brother used to laugh at him but my brother is the earthling.
Xaire: Yes, your sister and yourself were more interested.
Me: Yes. She's still an earthling though. I wanted to discuss the roles of the parents. One is firmly ensconced in the matrix, the other is living a lifestyle of searching and change.
Xaire: You see with the two couples you are thinking of that the mother is the earthling and firmly connected to the Matrix. They were the money handlers, for one thing, in both families. The father is the one who has had the traumatic life that is always the impetus for change and personal growth. In effect these starseed/earthling couples have one who is allowing the other to undergo an ascension process and as this parent grows, typically the children are witnessing this first hand.
Me: We did. We saw it wasn't much fun and that ended up being the case for me as well. Not a picnic.
Xaire: Yes, it will get easier as the collective unconscious is raised in frequency.
Me: What I've noticed is that these earthlings in these partnerships are capable of using the system to some advantage and in my mother's case it was financial advantage. Thanks for the car, mom. LOL She looked down her nose in complete disdain at me because I was “just like my father” - couldn't manage money to save my soul at the time. I got better at it later on, but back then I used money to fill the chasm that unmet needs left inside of me. It doesn't work. Sometimes you just have to face your stuff. She wanted me to be like her (ego parenting) but I was my father's daughter because we were both the ones undergoing ascension.
Xaire: And the pain your unmet needs caused for you was the pain you sought to heal. That is ascension at the moment for humanity on planet earth. It gets easier as you leave the third dimension, and when you stop warring it will become easier still.
Me: I've always wondered what a starseed would find so fascinating about an earthling. I'm sorry. I'm just going to say it. I tried to date them but they just made the unmet need chasm even bigger. I figured out pretty early in life I was on the wrong rock.
Xaire: Perhaps the attraction is one of … well, perhaps convenience. The one who cannot manage their money, because of course there is no money on your planet Elteron, will mate with someone who is a better financial manager. Such was the case with your parents and the couple you are thinking of.
Me: I had to learn to manage money and it will be my job going forward because I have to share this service with someone from Elteron who has no concept of the value of anything, which of course is Ivo. So I have to do the earthly things and he does the ET things. That's how we'll split the service. I could see him having an earth consultant in the TV station and an ET consultant to discuss content with. The earth consultant would manage electronics, Wifi signals, maybe even deal with computer purchases, stuff like that. The technical side.
Xaire: So you are then marrying earth's humanity with humanity from the stars.
Me: Should be interesting. Worth a few books, I'd say. Maybe that's why I find these relationships so interesting.
Xaire: I believe it has to do with one partner providing stability while the other partner goes through an ascension process. So one partner is grounded and solid while the other partner is more etheric and mutable.
Me: I know of many starseeds who have twin flames in the galaxy, but are partnered with an earth partner in order to be supported in their work. I've come across some. Then there are the other starseeds who are partnered with darkness or are in energy vampiring relationships where their energy is being sucked dry by the partner. Believe me, folks, don't bother with these ones because the minute your energy is lower than theirs, they'll dump you and head off for a new partner. These people would be the ones to cheat as well because that's one reason people cheat – for more energy.
Xaire: However, sometimes the partner becomes the new catalyst for change within the starseed, even the earthling. With the constant reminder that you are attracting negative mates, perhaps this will provide an incentive to change.
Me: It didn't for me. It provided an incentive to stop dating. If you can find a partner who's willing to work out issues to your mutual satisfaction, then you've got a gem. Hang on to that one. Someone who is mature enough to want to stay and work things out rather than just find a new partner or cheat on the one they have is a gold mine!
So yeah, we're just saying to take a look at your partnership or take a look at others and see if you can tell who's the starseed and who is the earthling. Or are they both earthlings? Or are they both starseeds? See if you can tell.
I know my friend Debbie Solaris is definitely a starseed, but she's with a man who's very interested in ET life. So are they both? Debbie would know.
I'm sure in the future relationships will change a lot as the divine feminine and the divine masculine energies become more awoken on earth. But for now, I like to look to see The Plan in action and what was engineered by the universals in order to help to change this planet.
Thank you Xaire.
Xaire: You're very welcome, Sharon.
Me: Maybe we can do a book about Sirius, once I'm done with the Mercurians.
Xaire: I'd love to!
If you're interested in learning more about Xaire, read her ET Profile on our first website. I'll link it in below.
Emmerly finds Her Light, A children's book by Heather Mays
I just did a channeling for a woman who actually left her home in the galaxy to come to earth to bear children. You'd think bearing children is not a specialized task, no offense to mothers intended. It is worthy of much respect but most women are capable of bearing children.
But this is a bit different, I'm sensing. These are the mothers who came from other parts of the galaxy to birth a new race – Homo Universalis. These are the mothers who understand the importance of the role and who have come to earth now to fight for their children's freedom and their right to exist in the Light, not in darkness as has been the plight of all children on earth for many thousands of years.
I wasn't one of them. I came to fight for the rights of women firstly, I didn't come here to bear children. Children's rights are a sub-issue of my life because I was an abused child who had to heal, but this is a bit different. These young mothers have done this and are still doing it, bringing the love and the power, the wisdom and the energy of the universe to bear in raising their earth children.
I am inspired by Ms M's story, who, not surprisingly is part of the green ray of Mary, the grand matron of them all, the one who birthed Jesus. Ms M, although having a career, takes her role as a mother very seriously and is looking for information she can use to bring her children up inside of a chaotic system. She's not the only one, I get questions about this sort of thing often. My first inclination is to say to them to look up Australian Mary Rodwell. She knows a lot about the children being born now and their needs.
Let's see what we can find out about these extraterrestrial mothers and how they are doing this work.
Ivo: It is raising children where the difference lies. What influences now do the parents have to utilize in order to raise children to stand in their own power? These influences come from the stars, the galactic energies that are brought to bear on these children through their parents. Yes, the male is also important, not to be overlooked.
Me: I didn't mean to do that. I thought they could be another video.
Ivo: Very well. The difference lies between a mother who comes from the stars and a mother who has been born and reincarnated entirely on earth. There is a big difference, one of compliance or lack of compliance, one of power or lack of power.
Me: I think we're treading a fine line here. I don't want to imply that earth women are worse mothers than starseed women.
Ivo: They have been subjected to much and have been indoctrinated into a toxic system that only now are they beginning to understand has not been working for them. They have incarnated repeatedly into this system as it got closer and closer to the system of toxicity you see before you now. How can someone who has been subjected to these energies repeatedly, lifetime after lifetime, be the best mother possible for a child? I think this is very difficult.
So the mothers from the stars come to earth, those who have not been subjected to this regime, and they have access to higher energies. This has been the advantage of starseeds all along and continues to be so. A child born to a starseed parent or parents has an advantage over a child who is not. I will state this and people may interpret it as they wish to. If they wish to be insulted, that is their choice.
People are continuing to be brought to the earth to continue to liberate it and its people, to undergo ascension, and to free the minds of all upon her from this tyranny. Those parents who come to nurture earth children bring this added benefit to their families.
Me: Yes, I guess a lot of the anti-vaxx families and families who eat clean are headed by starseed parents, but that's not to say there aren't earthlings who have woken up as well. I'm sure there are.
Ivo: Yes, but earth itself is still being upheld by starseed energy. There are many starseeds upon earth who act as conduits for extraterrestrial energies which they then add to the system at hand. The earthlings are the beneficiaries of this energy, not the generators of it. Were the starseeds all to leave, earth would fall again to its negative hosts. That is why all of these dark forces are being removed, earth is continuing to be isolated, and starseeds continue to incarnate here to strengthen the energetic totality of the planet.
Me: In other words, this planet is still on life support.
Ivo: In a sense. The time that the planet will be able to support balanced life again will be after the Event. Then she will be fully re-empowered and will be able to meet the needs of her dependents AND they will be able to meet hers, because yes, it is reciprocal. This is one thing that many who have come to the planet will begin to teach: balance while living in physicality. Until then, extra help will be necessary. However, starseeds will continue to be born upon earth in order to steer the human race through their higher vision.
Now earthlings are still disempowered, and until such time the portals are clear, the polarities reversed on the planet, the darkness is removed and lifted, whether it be in energetic or material form, there will always be need for starseeds. The children being born now, although with more active DNA, require proper tutorial and it is not within the purview of the disempowered earthling parents to school these children in the higher abilities. It is, however, in the purview of the starseed to do so, as they remember more of their power, and can utilize more of their power. They simply have more power, for this moment, than the homo sapiens that inhabits the earth. These parents also have the ability to teach their children how to go through the ascension process, as they currently are doing so themselves. Earthling parents do not have this range of experience, and until such time they are “caught up” they will not have it. It is more advantageous for the planet to have earthling children raised by intergalactic parents.
There are still many advantages to having starseed parents incarnate upon the earth. Until such time that earthlings step back into their multi-dimensional powers, they will still raise their children according to the disempowered belief systems they utilize. Starseed parents can do better.
Me: I see your point, Ivo.
Ivo: That is good, my love.
Me: Now what does Mother Mary have to do with this?
Ivo: Yes, she does have to do with this. The children are being raised now with an eye to developing earth's future. This type of foresight may not be so apparent to an earthly mother. Starseed mothers are coming in with an understanding of where earth needs to develop and what type of future it is to provide for its denizens, as well as the others in the galaxy. They know this instinctively. It is in their DNA and they download this vision to their children.
Me: I can see the thumbs down on this video already. LOL Oh well. We are making a comparison.
Ivo: Earth mothers run the gamut, my love. Some are still dark mothers such as yours was, others are from old families of Light. Others are simply earth mothers who love their children. Some are focused on success in the current system, but starseed mothers are focused on future success for their children based on positive changes for the planet, less toxicity, repair of the ecosystem and functionality within a time of breakdown of the old and build-up of the new.
Earthling mothers have lower expectations for their children, quite often. If you'll notice, many people are still focused on working and making a living now, for example.
Me: Yes, that's blasé.
Ivo: That is because they have low expectations for themselves. What did your parents tell you to do?
Me: To go get a job. Find a man and get married. My mother taught me how to clean a house. LOL
Ivo: Yes, they did not tell you to brandish your sword of the blue ray and go hunting Archons with Archangel Michael, did they?
Me: No, strangely, they missed out on that one. LOL Not unless my sword was made by “Hoover.”
Ivo: They did not tell you to reveal your life's message and to develop a followership across the world, did they?
Me: No. They missed that one as well.
Ivo: I rest my case then. A starseed mother would not miss out. She would listen to the child who tells her of warfare at night time and flying with the angels. She would not dismiss this as a child's imagination. An earthly mother might very well do so. The starseed would seek to validate her child's experiences and help them to remember their true identity. The earth mother would validate her child's attempts to enter into your physical society, something entirely different. Because that is what she knows. Anything else to her is unreal and simply imagination. That is what she has been taught and that is what she in turn will teach her child and to verify that point, I cite all the people on earth now who simply want to get back to work. They still believe they need to earn an income. The starseed would know better because there is no money out in the universe. The child, then, as you did, will struggle to understand who they actually are. They may, as you did, have to walk away from society in order to understand themselves better. In future, this may be a problem because in future, all starseeds will integrate into society in order to change it. Right now, walking away is still an option, even a necessity; later on it will not be.
Me: Yes, I have a couple people who ask me about their kids' night time experiences. So earth mothers don't have that kind of insight?
Ivo: Look around you. Look at your neighbours.
Me: Yes. Totally compliant with the system, some objections to things like vaxxes but by and large just getting by.
Ivo: This is the other problem: Many of them do not have the energy to succeed in fighting the system now. A starseed parent would.
Me: I think you're making broad statements, Ivo.
Ivo: They are trained to do this. They realize intrinsically the importance of raising children to thrive in times of great change.
Me: I think some earth mothers are in for a surprise with their starseed babies, though. My niece is totally earthling, but when she gave birth to a Vegan starseed boy, she had to learn to start feeding him a vegan diet because he wouldn't eat meat, he wouldn't eat what we called “chemical cake” which is a Betty Crocker birthday cake mix right out of the box. He screamed when you put it near his face but his sister ate a piece. My niece was in for a real lesson in higher vibrational diet. I suspect there are more things he's taught her as well.
Ivo: Yes, but he will fight his mother to get what he needs and he has. A starseed mother will provide these needs to the children without their having to risk the love of their parents to get it. That is one difference.
Me: Yes, the kids next door, I think one is a starseed. I keep calling him the alien. The other one is very overweight and they just blame him for it. They take no responsibility in educating their kid how to eat to keep his weight normal and that's because they don't either. He's so cute, too. But he's going to have a massive weight problem later because he already does.
Ivo: Which strengthens my point. The starseed parent is more aware of these issues, if for no other reason than they have them themselves. If you were 20 and you had children, how would you mother them?
Me: Are you kidding?! They'd get clean food, organic, home grown, the laundry detergent if it has chemical would be unscented, they'd get daily sunshine and bike riding, they'd learn to develop a love of the outdoors if I had to kill myself to go hiking and biking with them. They would not be stuck inside on the computer! Thing is, if I had kids I wouldn't be doing this work. I'd be focused on raising them properly and with an open mind, at least to the better things in life especially nature. I'd be telling them everything I know about the galaxy and showing them how to see space ships. These kids would be in the know!
Ivo: Which makes my point, my love. You are aware. These mothers and fathers are also aware.
Me: Yes, many earthlings are just waking up. So I guess their children are being awoken with them.
Ivo: As you have noted, many earthlings are still just learning to say “no” to authority, which is something that many children get taught out of them at an early age on your world.
Me: Yes, this world collectively is about two years old.
Ivo: And homo sapiens must make strides to mature, and quickly at that, otherwise go extinct. Homo sapiens now must evolve into homo universalis or go extinct. Which parent would you rather have?
Me: My parents were homo erectus! LOL
Ivo: Yes, they were very unenlightened, although they thought themselves such. Your parents are an old Light family that was plundered by dark tyranny many centuries ago. Many of these bloodlines were infiltrated and emotionally and physically tortured into submission to the dark agenda. That is why your parents told you that extraterrestrials existed and that we are not alone in the universe – because they know that. That is also why vegetarianism runs in your mother's side of the family – this is a throwback to the old Pleiadian times.
Me: Yes, I know I'm one of my own descendants. Anara was a seer in times of Atlantis and that bloodline ended up in Holland and some of them became my relatives.
Me: They read books by Erich von Daniken. That's where I got my copy from.
Ivo: Correct, so you see there are often snippets of wisdom in these bloodlines that still, by and large, have succumbed to the darkness. Yes, it is sad.
Me: Yes. My mother was big on growing organic food, recycling and she was into natural medicine years before it got big. So she was ahead of the pack in so many ways, yet still so dark in so many others.
Ivo: There are still these bloodlines and starseeds are incarnating into them. Which type of family a starseed incarnates into depends on their role. You are a warrior and chose the violet ray as a sub-theme to enact upon earth. So your life became about healing. There are still healers being born on earth and they continue to choose toxic bloodlines to inhabit.
There are blue rays who choose to work with Michael to enact the power and the word of God on this planet.
There are pink rays who are born into loving families who spread the love of God.
There are pink rays who are born into unloving families who come to change that aspect of the collective unconscious. They too are transmuters.
This is a simplification of the roles of starseeds, of course. Each case must be taken on its own and analyzed to see what it is the starseed has come to do. All is necessary.
We shall discuss the role of the father soon.
Me: But I want to wrap this up by saying to all parents, if you kids just “happen to mention” that they were out fighting giants in their sleep last night, or they spend their nights flying with dragons, listen to them. It's not their imagination; they're telling you what the universe is really like. I find it's more like our fairy tales than what we have been led to believe life is actually like. That's why I loved fairy tales as a child. I couldn't get enough of them. Some of them are macabre, but otherwise there's some truth in them. They're not just there to titillate a child's imagination. Listen to your children talk about these things and validate them.
Others have and this is wonderful because THEY NEED YOU TO VALIDATE THEM at early stages of their lives when they can't do it themselves. They have to have your approval. Don't do what my parents did and tell your kids they're nuts. They did more to shut down my intuition than anything else I've ever come across on this planet because once I got away from them, it really started to come back again. Still it took a long time. Don't do that to your kid. Life in the galaxy is amazing so let them tell you about it.
So what about the starseed child that has one earth parent and one starseed parent? I find a lot of starseeds that are married/partnered with earthlings like my parents were and I believe that that has to do with the fact that the earthling parent tends to carry out all the “earth factors” of home life, while the starseed parent will actually go through ascension, which is what happened to my father. His kundalini awoke. That's why he was a raving maniac for many years. My mother did the book work and paid the bills, cooked and met our basic needs. I find starseeds tend to partner in relationships like that. So is there an advantage for the starseed child with parents like this?
Ivo: In fact there can be. One parent teaches the ins and outs of earth life while the other appeals to their inner nature and the multi-dimensional reality. They live in both worlds being taught by both parents so both parents have an impact on the child's development.
Me: I find in the starseed families I know of except for one, the starseed is the same sex as the earth parent, not the starseed parent. Don't know if that has any bearing on anything. But it's the opposite sex parent that's the starseed. Who knows? Maybe this is something. I think it does mean something and it has to do with how you deal with your same sex parent's issues. Maybe which parent's issues you've come to heal more directly. In my case it was my mother's issues, so I know I came here to increase the divine feminine light on earth. My father tried to hold me back, as if that was gonna happen.
And yes. Thank you Ivo. I think this is a good discussion and I'm sure there are questions. I might even put up a page on our website so questions can be asked on this subject and we'll try to get back to you through more video's.
Ivo: A good idea, my love. You are most welcome for this information.
Me: By the way, how is Enoch's hair doing? LOL
Ivo: It is still short.
Me: We'll have to sit him down and talk to him about that.
Ivo: He is 150 years old, my love.